Rebirth begins with marrying a female educated youth

According to the general view in Xiaoshantun, this house is already built and ready to live in.

According to Ji Yuanhai, there are no floor tiles on the floor of the house, not even a layer of cement; the red brick walls also have no cement, let alone chalk paint.

This is the biggest reason why it’s easy to move in once it’s built – there’s no need for further renovation.

The biggest decoration is that there is a stove under the eaves, the front and rear doors and windows are installed, and the wires are pulled up; like the bed, the cabinets can be moved over and used.

Now Jiyuanhai has little money, so it is impossible to build it exactly according to the houses of later generations.

On the other hand, it is also because Ji Yuanhai does not want to live in the countryside for a long time. This house itself is a makeshift residence.

After living there for a few years, Ji Yuanhai might knock it down and rebuild it, or move it outright.

As for why you don't just continue to live in Ji's house - that's really no way to make do.

Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling have many concepts that are incompatible with them, such as learning knowledge, making extra money, and even have subtle differences in their concepts of hygiene and the concepts of elder and younger.

It is true to be filial and respect your grandparents, but if you fully follow their ideas, Ji Yuanhai can only be a good farmer in his life.

The belief in burying one’s head in farming and living a down-to-earth life is actually out of step with the times.

That evening, when the Ji family was having dinner in the hall, Ji Yuanhai's mother happily said something.

Uncle Ji Yuanhai is getting married the day after tomorrow. He wants to ask relatives and neighbors to set up some tables so that she can go to a banquet. He also said that Ji Yuanhai's father can also go, and the two juniors Ji Yuanshan and Ji Yuanhai can also go together.

Each table has at least six dishes, maybe eight.

Ji Yuanshan was a little surprised: "Really?"

Ji Yuanhai quietly reached out and pulled him.

The eldest brother is indeed a bit too naive in this regard - can this meal be delicious?

If grandpa Chen Laowu was such a generous and philanthropic person, why would he let his two daughters, Ji Yuanhai's mother and Ji Yuanhai's second aunt, go to work to help many times without even giving them food?

Even his biological daughter can't eat from his house, so how can he hold a good banquet to entertain guests?

How many gifts do guests have to pay to enjoy this banquet?

Ji Yuanshan was pulled by Ji Yuanhai, and he came back to his senses - Grandpa's family, where did he give his own delicious food? It’s better not to rush there!

As soon as the brothers Ji Yuanshan and Ji Yuanhai were delayed, their mother had already said with a smile: "How can it be fake? Your brother-in-law's happy day is not fake at all!"

"Do you know who cooks? The whole county is famous, Liu Yishou!"

"Liu Yishou is an excellent cook. Once someone from the province came to the county, and the county asked Liu Yishou to entertain the guests. The people in the province were so comfortable that they asked who the chef was."

"The county said that chef Liu Yishou is the master."

"People in the province were shocked. They even cooked for us and it tasted so delicious!"

"If you don't save anything, why don't you go to the capital to cook?"

Mother was in a very happy mood, and after telling this anecdote with a smile on her face that was spread all over the country, she started to talk about her father, Chen Laowu, who ran away three times and finally got Liu Yishou to agree to cook the food. This was also her incident. Showing off her mother's abilities.

Obviously her mother-in-law is capable, and she feels extremely beautiful.

Grandpa and grandma were silent, and it was hard to get rid of her temper.

After all, it was her brother's wedding, so it was not the right time to say unpleasant things.

Ji Yuanhai's father gnawed on the steamed bun and said, "You can just go, what else should I do?"

The mother's joy suddenly froze: "How can you not go?"

"It's just a matter of celebrating all at once. Wouldn't it be the same if you go and I go?" Ji Yuanhai's father said.

The mother coughed and said no more, thinking that she had to go back to the east room to discuss the matter.

I am the only younger brother who has been frail and sick since he was a child. He also hosted banquets and entertained me, so I couldn’t afford less gift money.

It's just that you can't talk about this in front of your parents-in-law, otherwise you'll have to be reprimanded.

Then he looked at Ji Yuan Mountain and Ji Yuan Hai: "You two have to go too, right?"

"I won't go." Ji Yuanshan said.

The mother frowned slightly, then said with relief: "If you don't want to go, then don't go. Anyway, you don't have a family, so you can't pay for the gifts. If you go, it's just for food."

Ji Yuanshan kept his head silent and just snorted.

He didn't like to hear this.

"Yuan Hai, you have to go." Mother said, "You are already married. Your brother-in-law needs a gift for his wedding."

Ji Yuanhai said calmly: "Oh, I just have something to do."

"What is more important than your brother-in-law's marriage?" Mother said dissatisfied.

"That's quite a lot." Ji Yuanhai replied calmly.

This stubborn donkey is going to piss me off!

Compete with me again!

"If you have something to do, just give me the gift money and I'll take it with you." The mother took a few breaths and said helplessly.

"I just built a house, how can I have money?" Ji Yuanhai replied, "Mom, if you feel that I should pay for it, just pay it for me and let me lend it to you."

Mother frowned: "What are you talking about? I am a woman, how can I lend you money?"

"Then you don't have any money, and I don't have any money either. We're really embarrassed to go have this meal." Ji Yuanhai said, "Why don't we just go?"

The mother suddenly stood up angrily: "Yuan Hai, what on earth do you want to do!"

"Your brother-in-law is getting married, so you are like this-"

"What are you yelling about? Are you letting outsiders see the joke?" Grandma said, "Sit down and talk slowly."

Mother held her breath and sat down, staring at the sea of ​​​​Era.

"Yuan Hai, if you are like this, will you still go to your grandpa's house to visit relatives in the future?"

Ji Yuanhai had a strange look on his face: "Mom, you are still connected to my grandfather's family, and we are still going back and forth. Why are you calling me?"

"You don't visit your grandparents during the holidays? You don't visit your brother-in-law? You don't have relatives to help you, how will you 'walk' in the future!" said the mother.

What my mother said was the "rural consensus" of this era.

Without relatives or relatives to help, if there is any conflict, others with more family members will bully others with less family members. Only with help can we "stand" and "walk", otherwise it will be difficult to move forward.

This consensus is also recognized by grandparents and father.

Therefore, the option of breaking off the relationship is now almost never among their choices.

Decades later, with the construction of high-rise buildings everywhere, the number of relatives helping each other has greatly decreased, and the number of cases of not seeing each other for several years has increased. That is when the "relative feeling" and "family feeling" quickly fade away.

Ji Yuanhai did not answer his mother's question.

If we go on further, no one would support his decisive attitude towards his grandfather's family except Lu Heling.

Grandparents, grandparents, father and mother are reluctant to lose contact with relatives.

"Grandpa, grandma, Dad, my house has been packed up. He Ling and I will move out in the next two days."

Ji Yuanhai said.

As soon as he said this, everyone in the hall was immediately surprised.

Yuan Hai, are we really going to divide the family and move away?