rebirth of cataclysm

"Hu Mingchen, how does it feel for you to enjoy another beautiful time? It's great, isn't it?"

As soon as Hu Mingchen walked into the work shed, his co-worker Xiao Jianbin laughed and jumped off the wooden bed to tease him.

"Whether you're happy or not is none of your business? Get out of the way." Hu Mingchen took off his coat and threw it on his bed. After angrily yelling at Xiao Jianbin, he fell straight down.

Of course Hu Mingchen could tell that Xiao Jianbin was ridiculing him and teasing him. Plus, he was in a bad mood now, so how could he look good on Xiao Jianbin.

"Old Xiao, just forget it. This kid is probably hit again this time. Why do you have to rub salt in his wounds?" On the other side of the bed, Wu Da Paotou, who was playing games with his mobile phone, didn't even bother.

He raised his head and said in a calm tone.

He doesn’t blame others for attacking him like this, it’s actually Hu Mingchen’s road to love that has always been bumpy.

He is in his thirties. So far, he has never experienced a true love. The source of all this is because Hu Mingchen's family is poor, or in other words, Hu Mingchen himself is poor.

In today's world, realism reigns supreme. If you don't have a good family background, if you don't have a rich family background, it is really difficult and troublesome to find a decent girl.

Isn't it said in society that there is no place for diaosi in this world? Even if you go to a restaurant to have a meal, if someone looks like a diaosi, even the attitude of the waiter will immediately become cold.

However, what can be done? Being born into such a family was not something Hu Mingchen could choose.

When Hu Mingchen thinks of his home, his mind becomes confused and bored.

I remember that my family has always owed debts to others since I was very young. In my memory, my father owed debts to almost all his relatives. However, after so many years, he still cannot pay back the debts.

Is the family in debt because of business? No, is it because of other big things? No. When I was a child, my parents borrowed money either to buy rice or oil. Later, my three brothers and sisters even went to school.

From time to time, I had to borrow money to pay for my tuition. Later, when the old house was dilapidated, I had to borrow money to repair it. Even today, the family still owes 20,000 yuan to the bank. This was because I went to a credit union when I was repairing the kitchen last year.

For loan.

After all these years, life at home has never gone smoothly.

I used to be young and had no ability to help my family. However, in recent years, I have worked on construction sites and half of my income has helped support the family. In addition to making life better now than ten years ago, the overall situation of the family

Still no fundamental changes have been made.

Sometimes Hu Mingchen really blames his parents. How on earth do they manage a family? Why can't they climb out of this quagmire?

When thinking of his parents, Hu Mingchen could only press his head with a pillow, shake his head and sigh.

Although his parents are not the kind of people who are lazy and lazy, they are also the kind of people who are a bit weird. How to put this? Hu Mingchen really doesn’t know how to describe it clearly.

Since more than ten years ago, my parents have often gone out to work, but every time they make a little money, they will run home immediately. The reasons are often all kinds of strange, either they come back to farm and plant grain, or a relative's family has a wine business.

Come back for a drink, otherwise you feel unwell and need to go home to recuperate.

In my impression, my parents went out to work, and the number of times they worked from the beginning of the year to the end of the year was really only a handful.

What is the future for growing crops in rural areas these days? Let alone getting rich, it is very difficult to maintain a small amount of household income and maintain close contact with neighbors. What's more, the town of Duge, where Hu Mingchen's family is located, is still a small town.

Poverty-stricken towns with little flat land in the ravines, even the high mountain county above, are still a national-level poverty-stricken county.

To be honest, we have a lot of mountainous land at home, but only three-thirds of the fields. Every year we harvest some grain, and we have to find a way to convert it into rice. Otherwise, throughout the year, we will eat ten grains a month and two days a year.

We eat rice every month, but these days, no matter how poor the family is, no one will eat rice. They are basically used to feed pigs.

Over the years, not only have I often used money to help support the family, but my sister has also provided some support from time to time. Even so, the "bottomless pit" is still not filled up no matter what.

Even if sometimes I make great efforts to fill it up, soon my father will buy a motorcycle or my mother will go to the hospital for a few days. As long as there is such a move, the state will immediately return to the "pre-liberation" state.

Of course, it is undeniable that the mother's poor health is also one of the important factors causing these conditions. Her poor health mainly stems from a car accident more than ten years ago, in which she lost several relatives

, my mother was also seriously injured and stayed in the hospital for more than a month. She recovered and was discharged. However, the root cause of the disease also came down to her. She fainted almost once a year and could not exert much strength in her hands and feet.

But this point also made the three Hu Mingchen siblings speechless and disgusted. If you are not in good health, then you should pay attention to rest and supplement nutrition. However, if you have some money, your mother will not spend it to buy cigarettes to supplement body nutrition.

On the contrary, smoking has become her number one expense. Whether she has money or not, smoking is the first priority.

All in all, since the car accident, my mother got into smoking and never quit.

If that's all, then forget it, but besides the good face of the mother, she still "can't sit still." Saying that she can't stay idle doesn't mean that the mother will always want to do something that can produce value. On the contrary, let her rest, and she will

But I either do it here or there, but in the end it's all fruitless.

For example, the aunt (aunt) will grow some vegetables, onions and garlic in front of and behind the house. In addition to eating them herself, she can also take them to the town to exchange for a little money and food. But my mother basically never does this, but she never talks about herself.

If she doesn’t plant, she will often say that she will plant soon. However, after so many years, even if she doesn’t go out to work, there are still relatively few times when she is self-sufficient in vegetables.

For more than ten years, Hu Mingchen felt that not only his parents' life was muddled, but also he seemed to be infected. His life had also become muddled, and his direction in life had also become blurred.

As the saying goes, start a family and start a business. What Hu Mingchen always wanted was to start a business first and then start a family. For this reason, he not only worked locally, but also traveled to many provinces and cities across the country. Of course, due to his low cultural level, the work he did was either in a factory or in a factory.

construction site.

Because the wages in the factory are low, Hu Mingchen mostly chooses to work at the construction site. However, working on the construction site also has disadvantages, that is, it is difficult to guarantee that there will be work all year round. Basically, after the project is completed, he will have to find another job. That process

The time wasted can range from half a month to half a year.

During this period, Hu Mingchen also tried to start a small business at the suggestion of his brother-in-law. Perhaps due to bad luck or lack of business talent, the small business failed in the end and he owed some debts. It took him a year to pay off those debts.

Pay off.

In the kind of environment he was in, to be honest, Hu Mingchen felt unsure every time he went on a blind date.

However, I don’t know why I want to go. After all, those around me who are so old are either married or have children of different ages. As for those who haven’t found a partner yet, each and every one of them has become a hot pot.

Ant.

A few days ago, I saw news on my mobile phone that the ratio of men to women in China is seriously imbalanced. There are tens of millions more men than women, which means that tens of millions of men will eventually be single.

When he thought that he would become a bachelor, Hu Mingchen became uneasy and anxious. As a normal young man, no one wanted to go to that step, so every time someone wanted to introduce a girlfriend to him, Hu Mingchen would happily go.

Even if he lacks self-confidence, it is still an opportunity. It is like a blind cat encountering a dead mouse. What if he meets a girl who does not dislike him? Moreover, he has lowered his courtship conditions again and again.

Now Hu Mingchen no longer hopes to find someone so young and beautiful. As long as he has never been married and is still healthy, Hu Mingchen can accept it.

It is true that life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten. Even with such low conditions, Hu Mingchen failed again and again.

Every time someone hears about his family situation, he will be hit by the disappointed and disdainful expression and tone. Even if these contents are not mentioned in the blind date, when someone asks for tens of thousands in gift, it is best to

After wanting to own a house in the city, Hu Mingchen could only stay away.

Hu Mingchen is self-aware. He can still manage to get tens of thousands of yuan in gift money if he thinks about it, but buying a house in the city is not a matter of tens of thousands of yuan. With decoration, even if the area is smaller

, then it would cost around 400,000. If the location is good and the area is large, it would be 600,000 to 700,000.

Today, Hu Mingchen's third aunt introduced him to a girl from their village. For this opportunity, Hu Mingchen not only asked the foreman for half a day off, but also went to a small hair salon on the side of the mountain road to wash his hair and blow dry it.

I changed my hair and put on a small suit that I don’t usually wear.

As a result, after chatting with the 24-year-old girl who had been working outside for several years, she only got his WeChat ID.

Later, Hu Mingchen proposed to invite the girl to dinner, but the girl refused because she had other things to do.

Hu Mingchen knew that it was not that there was anything wrong with him, but that he looked down upon him because of the yellow dirt on his leather shoes. In the end, Hu Mingchen could only return to the construction site in despair, while accepting the sarcasm from his coworkers.

"Wu Dapao, how can I put salt on his wounds? I don't care about my brothers. Hu Mingchen, let me tell you, chasing girls makes you thick-skinned. The more shameless you are, the easier it is to succeed. Like you,

It's really weird to get a girl if you flinch after one blow. Once you get the contact information, you have to stalk her. Let me tell you, this is my experience, brother."