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360 Hao Shuwen’s Appeasement Strategies
Otherwise, men all like confidante.
What is a confidante?
The so-called confidante, first of all, you must be a beauty, that is, you must be good-looking and eye-catching, which is the so-called good looks.
Secondly, you are a confidant, which means you understand emotions and can speak. To put it bluntly, you have high emotional intelligence and can comfort people.
Cao Zhiqiang didn't know whether Hao Shuwen was someone else's confidante before, but after chatting and talking that night, Cao Zhiqiang was sure that Hao Shuwen could be regarded as his confidante.
In terms of appearance, although Hao Shuwen is not particularly stunning, she is attractive. The more she looks at her, the better and more comfortable she becomes.
In terms of comforting people, the analysis she gave to Cao Zhiqiang also gave Cao Zhiqiang a sense of enlightenment.
In his previous life, Cao Zhiqiang had no chance to be a scumbag, so he mostly learned about the relationship between men and women through news novels and the like.
At that time, he often had doubts about why some goddesses who seemed to be quite smart and sensible, whether they were lively or aloof, were always easily taken over by scumbag men.
In the past, Cao Zhiqiang always followed the crowd, thinking that the goddesses had lost their sight and had been deceived by the scumbag.
But now that I have personal experience with a scumbag, and with some guidance from Hao Shuwen, I suddenly feel a sense of enlightenment.
If you think about it carefully, are those goddesses who were deceived by scumbag men in their previous lives, especially those cold-blooded female celebrities, really just blind and deceived?
Not necessarily.
The greater possibility is that those goddesses and those scumbag men each get what they need.
When outsiders look at scumbags, they only see the scumbag behaviors of those scumbag men, such as flirting with women and treading two boats, but they may overlook the other advantages of the scumbag man himself.
For example, he is particularly handsome, has a sweet mouth, is particularly good at troublemaking, is particularly rich and resourceful, etc.
To put it bluntly, the reason why those scumbag men can win the goddess is that the scumbag man can give the goddess what she wants.
If you think of this as a business, it makes sense.
It's nothing more than that I want to get something from you, and then I want to give something.
After weighing the pros and cons, if you feel that the gains outweigh the sacrifices and you can tolerate the sacrifices, then the deal is done.
In Hao Shuwen's case, she and her current husband had no feelings at first and even hated each other.
But because the relationship between the two families was good, the parents of the two families believed that marriage would be more beneficial. After weighing the pros and cons with her husband, Hao Shuwen and her husband also felt that the benefits of marriage were greater and outweighed the differences and disadvantages, so they got married.
But after getting married, Hao Shuwen's husband refused to be lonely and met another woman he liked more. He felt that the original marriage was not worthwhile and was not good, so he wanted to end the marriage, or not end it, so he stepped into two different boats.
Hao Shuwen maintained a nominal marriage and continued to live with her mistress.
After Hao Shuwen found out, she couldn't accept the result mentally, so she started to make trouble with the other party.
Of course, if Cao Zhiqiang had not appeared, Hao Shuwen might have chosen to endure it due to interests and continue to be a couple in name only with her husband.
After all, continuing to maintain that relationship will allow Hao Shuwen to continue to be a rich wife, gain support from both families, and continue to be proud in front of others.
But Hao Shuwen happened to meet Cao Zhiqiang during this period. She was fascinated by Cao Zhiqiang's handsomeness and talent. She fell in love with Cao Zhiqiang at first sight. Then the situation was different.
Hao Shuwen's current situation is just like that of her husband.
Before her husband met the mistress, he could continue to maintain a basic marital status with Hao Shuwen and continue to be a qualified husband, because at that time, his recognition of the marriage relationship was at least acceptable.
In other words, Hao Shuwen's husband had no dissatisfaction with the marriage before and had no expectations. He was mentally balanced.
But after her husband went to Shenzhen and met the mistress, he fell in love with that woman at first sight, so he began to compare, thinking that the mistress was better than Hao Shuwen in every aspect, and then he couldn't stand seeing Hao Shuwen and was disgusted with her.
As time went by, Hao Shuwen's husband began to feel unbalanced, and gradually turned towards the mistress, wanting to start a family again with the mistress and abandon Hao Shuwen, whom he disliked.
In this situation, you may call it love, you may call it obsession, but more likely, Hao Shuwen's husband happened to have a hole in his heart, and he happened to meet a woman who could fill that hole.
To put it bluntly, for Hao Shuwen's husband, the mistress is the woman he really wants.
Therefore, strictly speaking, there is no right or wrong in this matter, it just depends on whose standpoint you stand on.
Standing in the court of Hao Shuwen's husband, he did the right thing. After all, he didn't love Hao Shuwen at all. He had reluctantly married Hao Shuwen before and just endured it. It was nothing more than meeting true love. When he met true love, he immediately changed his heart.
But from Hao Shuwen's point of view, her husband was totally wrong, because her husband's behavior was that of Chen Shimei. It was an unforgivable betrayal of her and her family.
Before meeting Cao Zhiqiang, Hao Shuwen could bear it after weighing the pros and cons, but after having Cao Zhiqiang, she couldn't bear it anymore.
Hao Shuwen's logic is very simple, that is, after seeing Cao Zhiqiang, Hao Shuwen also despised her husband, fell in love with Cao Zhiqiang, and wanted to be with Cao Zhiqiang.
But Hao Shuwen is a married woman, and the energy between the two families is not small. It is impossible for her to maintain a marriage with her husband and be good to Cao Zhiqiang at the same time. That would be harmful to others and herself.
Just then, Hao Shuwen knew that her husband had cheated on her first, so she thought this was a good opportunity, so she deliberately went to the south to cause a scene. In fact, she wanted to mess up the marriage, and put the blame on her husband for cheating.
, and create an image of a victim, so that he can get closer to Cao Zhiqiang and get Cao Zhiqiang.
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Yes, in fact, Hao Shuwen had this idea from the beginning, and from the beginning, Hao Shuwen was greedy for Cao Zhiqiang.
Otherwise, how could Hao Shuwen have been stalking and caring for Cao Zhiqiang not long after she met him, and even took him to meet her friends?
Actually, let's talk about this. If Hao Shuwen was replaced by a man and Cao Zhiqiang was replaced by a woman, wouldn't this be the scene of a married bully who falls in love with a good girl and then seduces the good girl in various ways?
It's just that Hao Shuwen's husband cheated on her first and was caught. Many people knew about it, so she suffered a greater moral disadvantage.
As for Hao Shuwen, her affair happened after her husband cheated on her, and she was not caught and was not known to outsiders. Therefore, Hao Shuwen is still a victim and has won the sympathy of almost everyone.
But the essence of this matter is that Hao Shuwen and her husband are the same. They are just the same.
However, it is precisely because Hao Shuwen is a married woman, and she likes Cao Zhiqiang very much, and wants Cao Zhiqiang even more, that she is willing to lower her posture and lower her requirements, even if she is a lover without status, she is willing to do so.
The reason is very simple, that is, after weighing the pros and cons, Hao Shuwen found that if she wanted to get Cao Zhiqiang, she could only use this low-profile method. If she wanted to ask for more, Cao Zhiqiang would run away, and she would not be able to continue with Cao Zhiqiang.
Stay together.
Just like a woman who has been married for the second time and wants to get married again, the conditions are often lowered a lot. This is the case with Hao Shuwen.
If Hao Shuwen, who has never been married and has never had children, falls in love with Cao Zhiqiang, then Hao Shuwen may have a different face and have more demands. I am afraid that she really wants to completely dominate Cao Zhiqiang. It is impossible to share it with others, let alone do it.
mistress.
This is how much food you can eat according to your ability. If you don’t have enough money and still want to eat high-end food, then you have to show your attitude and use other things in exchange for chips, such as dignity.
In the same way, although Yu Yuanyuan's situation is different from Hao Shuwen's, the essence is the same.
Before Yu Yuanyuan met Cao Zhiqiang, of course she thought Yang Weiguo was better.
Although Yang Weiguo has various shortcomings, such as high self-esteem, selfishness, ruthlessness, etc., if these shortcomings are put aside, he also has many advantages.
If nothing else, let's just say that Yang Weiguo is a college student at a prestigious prestigious university and plans to continue his graduate studies. This in itself is superior to most men of the same age.
You know, in 1983, college students were really rare, especially undergraduates, who were even more valuable than master's students in later generations.
Moreover, Yang Weiguo's academic performance is not only good, but he is also very good at working. If such a person enters the society, as long as he does not fall over in the end, he will definitely become an official.
As for Yu Yuanyuan's situation, there is no one around her who can compare to Yang Weiguo in terms of talent and appearance.
Therefore, Yu Yuanyuan has always been close to Yang Weiguo, not so much because of habit, or not so much because they were childhood sweethearts, but because after weighing the pros and cons, she felt that Yang Weiguo had the best conditions.
As for Yu Yuanyuan's colleague Sister Sun, the reason why she looks down on Yang Weiguo is not only because she really dislikes him, but also probably because of jealousy.
Therefore, until there is no better man, such as Cao Zhiqiang, Yang Weiguo is indeed Yu Yuanyuan's best choice. Even if he has various shortcomings, it is not impossible if he reluctantly accepts it or finds a way to change it.
In other words, if Cao Zhiqiang did not show up, even if Yu Yuanyuan knew that Yang Weiguo was good with another woman, she might eventually choose to forgive and continue to be good with Yang Weiguo, and would try to drive that woman away instead of letting go directly.
Unless there is no other way, Yu Yuanyuan will not give up on a high-quality man like Yang Weiguo.
But Cao Zhiqiang happened to show up.
Although Cao Zhiqiang is not as well-educated as Yang Weiguo, he is younger, more handsome, more talented, richer, and of course more powerful and status.
Yang Weiguo was still kneeling down and licking the niece of the school leader in various ways because of the graduation assignment, and he even did not hesitate to pretend to be Chen Shimei and give up Yu Yuanyuan, whom he also liked very much.
At this time, Cao Zhiqiang was already the serious president of a large publishing house. He managed many people and managed a lot of money. He also ate and drank luxurious meals, went in and out of foreign-related hotels, and drove imported cars.
, that style is completely different.
As for the future, if Yang Weiguo has no one to help him, he will be a division-level cadre until his death. It cannot be too high. After all, his abilities are limited and his background is limited.
But as for Cao Zhiqiang, if he does it well, his future is limitless. After all, Cao Zhiqiang's backstage is not comparable to Yang Weiguo's, and the order of magnitude is different.
Yang Weiguo's backstage is nothing more than the deputy secretary of his university, a sixth-grade cadre, who can help with graduation and employment.
As for Cao Zhiqiang's backstage, they are all high-level officials of the third rank, and they are not on the same level at all.
So except for Cao Zhiqiang's inferior academic qualifications, he beat Yang Weiguo in every other aspect. The key is that he is knowledgeable and knowledgeable. Being with Cao Zhiqiang is much more comfortable than with Yang Weiguo who just wants to take advantage. So what reason does Yu Yuanyuan not like?
It's just that Yu Yuanyuan was used to things going well before, and she still had a bit of a young lady's temper. She really wanted to say something but refused to say it outright, and had to wait and wait, and wait, and finally, Cao Zhiqiang found a new love.
When she discovered that Cao Zhiqiang had a new love, Yu Yuanyuan panicked and began to accelerate her transformation.
She had been waiting for Yang Weiguo's cheating to happen, which was the trigger that made Yu Yuanyuan mature instantly and truly understand what she wanted.
In other words, Yu Yuanyuan had actually cheated on her heart a long time ago and had fallen in love with Cao Zhiqiang. But at that time, she was tender-faced and embarrassed to say it out loud. She was also embarrassed to break up with Yang Weiguo directly and then look for Cao Zhiqiang.
It was not until Yang Weiguo's affair happened that Yu Yuanyuan put down her psychological burden and could go to Cao Zhiqiang with peace of mind.
But at this time, Cao Zhiqiang already had a new love and a girlfriend.
How to do it?
At this time, Yu Yuanyuan faced two choices, either give up, or lower her body and pursue hard.
Yu Yuanyuan decisively chose the same choice as Hao Shuwen, which was to lower her body and pursue her hard.
Obviously, two women serve one husband together. This is not only what Yu Fangfang said, but also a step forward for Yu Yuanyuan.
Because under normal circumstances, when Cao Zhiqiang already has a new love and is relatively upright, Yu Yuanyuan has no chance.
But Yu Yuanyuan has already given up on Yang Weiguo. If she gives up on Cao Zhiqiang again, wouldn't she be left empty-handed?
That's why Yu Yuanyuan wanted to give it a try, even resorting to unscrupulous means, such as getting drunk and forcing someone to sleep, to get Cao Zhiqiang.
Unfortunately, this move was resolved by Cao Zhiqiang.
After resolving the matter, Yu Yuanyuan faced a bigger problem, that is, after the incident of fake drunkenness, Yu Yuanyuan may not even have the possibility of becoming brother-in-law with Cao Zhiqiang.
Because of the comparison, Cao Zhiqiang would definitely not dare to accept a woman who wanted to get him drunk and sleep with him, and then use this method to get him and force him to give up his current girlfriend.
How many men like women who like to play tricks?
The main link between Cao Zhiqiang and the Yu family is Yu Yuanyuan. If Yu Yuanyuan and Cao Zhiqiang break up, not only will Yu Yuanyuan lose Cao Zhiqiang, but Yu Fangfang's job and household registration will also be ruined.
Therefore, when Yu Fangfang decisively said "Two women serve one husband together", it was obviously for the benefit of her sister and gave her a chance to pursue Cao Zhiqiang, but in fact, it was for her own benefit.
For Yuanyuan, having two women serve one husband together is indeed her only chance.
Because two women serving one husband together is very attractive to men, and Yu Yuanyuan's willingness to make small gestures can also make up for her shortcomings in playing tricks to a certain extent.
For Yuanyuan, as long as she still wants to stay with Cao Zhiqiang and get Cao Zhiqiang's favor, she can only abandon a certain amount of dignity and stay with Cao Zhiqiang by being willing to be his lover.
Only in this way can she have a chance to fight Wu Qinghong, who has temporarily become the empress of the palace.
And even if he fails, he will not get the complete Cao Zhiqiang, but Cao Zhiqiang has too many advantages. Even if he is only half, or even a little bit, he is better than most men.
Not to mention, it may be because of the relationship between people who have been there, but Hao Shuwen's analysis and analysis of the regulations immediately solved Cao Zhiqiang's confusion, and he instantly got out of his original confusion.
As for whether her saying this would make Cao Zhiqiang suspect Hao Shuwen's purpose.
Hao Shuwen said this herself. Of course she also had a purpose, and of course she wanted to get the complete Cao Zhiqiang, but she was more self-aware, so she was not afraid to say it openly.
Hao Shuwen believes that Cao Zhiqiang is very smart. If he talks to each other, he can open up to each other and become each other's confidant.
Hao Shuwen even said that she no longer expected Cao Zhiqiang to marry her. She only hoped that Cao Zhiqiang would not abandon her so early. Furthermore, she hoped to give Cao Zhiqiang at least one child.
That's right, Hao Shuwen's biggest request is to be able to secretly stay with Cao Zhiqiang as her lover and give Cao Zhiqiang a child.
By telling her purpose, she can live with Cao Zhiqiang without any barriers, without having to be suspicious.
This is the cleverness of Hao Shuwen.
A lover must have the awareness of a lover. If you rush to get the upper hand when the fire is not enough, you will only get nothing.
Hao Shuwen's self-knowledge is her brilliance.
Moreover, Hao Shuwen not only analyzed the current situation for Cao Zhiqiang, she also taught Cao Zhiqiang what to do.
Originally, Cao Zhiqiang thought that Hao Shuwen would make Cao Zhiqiang stay away from Yu Yuanyuan and give up on Yu Yuanyuan.
Who would have known that Hao Shuwen's suggestion was to ask Cao Zhiqiang to take Yu Yuanyuan in as a child.
This surprised Cao Zhiqiang.
But what Hao Shuwen said next made Cao Zhiqiang even more surprised, or horrified.
Because Hao Shuwen said that judging from Yu Yuanyuan's current performance, she already loves Cao Zhiqiang to death, and she has lost the spare tire of Yang Weiguo. If Cao Zhiqiang is no longer around, she will really have nothing and all her face.
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People like Yu Yuanyuan can really do anything once they are cornered.
It would be fine if she was an ordinary woman. After all, Cao Zhiqiang has never slept with Yuanyuan, so he is in an invincible position.
But she was afraid that Yu Yuanyuan would give up on herself and falsely accuse Cao Zhiqiang of sleeping with her.
There is no such thing as DNA testing these days. Things like rape rely more on reports from women.
If the woman herself is not a virgin, and she is determined to sue Cao Zhiqiang, and the whole process of her accusation is correct, then based on Yu Yuanyuan's situation, Cao Zhiqiang will most likely be sued.
When the time comes, it will be really difficult for Cao Zhiqiang to prove his innocence.
And this kind of thing is easy to say or not. Even if Cao Zhiqiang can finally escape from the legal level, everyone will think that Cao Zhiqiang is a scumbag and has nothing to do with Yu Yuanyuan.
This is what everyone says makes money, and what's more, it's sympathy for the weak.
Because most people would think that a good woman like Yu Yuanyuan would not be able to shamelessly complain if she was not really screwed up by Cao Zhiqiang. This would be a devastating blow to a woman's reputation.
At that time, even if Cao Zhiqiang can win the lawsuit, he will lose his reputation, not to mention that he may not win the lawsuit.
Therefore, in order to prevent Yu Yuanyuan from despair and prevent her from being defeated, the best way is to appease Yu Yuanyuan, that is, to accept Yu Yuanyuan.
As long as you take Yu Yuanyuan into a little girl, comfort her, and slowly train her in the future, there will always be a way to train Yu Yuanyuan well so that she will not be troubled and become a submissive and well-behaved woman.
Hao Shuwen even said that the task of training Yu Yuanyuan could be left to her in the future.
She promised to make people like Yu Yuanyuan look down on her and not cause trouble to Cao Zhiqiang.
It was after hearing Hao Shuwen's words that Cao Zhiqiang spent money to buy a courtyard house near Taoranting Park specifically for Yu Yuanyuan to live in.
The reason why I bought it near Taoranting Park is because the environment here is good and quiet enough, suitable for hiding the beauty in a golden house, and it is not far from the First People's Hospital where Yu Yuanyuan works.
In other words, although Cao Zhiqiang hides his beauty in a golden house, he is not completely kept in captivity, but allows Yu Yuanyuan to continue working.
Not to mention, after doing this, at least for more than half a month, Cao Zhiqiang became a lot cleaner. Anyway, Yu Yuanyuan never took the initiative to provoke him or trouble him again.
"Although Sister Hao's method is wonderful, it is not a solution if it continues like this."
Cao Zhiqiang couldn't help but pinch his chin when he thought of this.
"We can't keep hiding our love in such a unclear golden house. There must be an explanation after all."
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