Rebirth of Siheyuan starts in the 1980s

Chapter 538 True love cannot suffer losses

Author: Tang Juyi

Chapter 538 True love cannot suffer losses

Upon hearing Qin Huairu's statement about carrying a gun and a stick, He Yuzhu, who was in a low mood, frowned, looked up at Qin Huairu and said, "It's okay, where did you think you were going?"

"Then what do you want me to think?" Qin Huairu immediately stared at He Yuzhu and said loudly.

"After sending my son off, he didn't go to work and everyone disappeared. You said, you weren't with Lou Xiao'e. Where have you been all day?

Don’t talk about going to Shiweitian, I’ve already asked you, you haven’t been to Shiweitian even one day today.”

Seeing Qin Huairu suddenly angry, He Yuzhu sighed: "That's not true. Lou Xiao'e is also gone. I have no chance of being with her."

"Gone?" Qin Huairu was stunned, "Where are you going?"

"Of course I'm going back to Hong Kong." He Yuzhu said.

"Really?" Qin Huairu was delighted, "Really gone?"

"I'm really gone." He Yuzhu nodded.

Qin Huairu smiled, walked over and said, "Lou Xiao'e is gone, why didn't you tell me earlier?"

"Why are you talking about this?" He Yuzhu said.

"Then why didn't you go to work in the afternoon?" Qin Huairu asked, "Where have you been?"

"I just walk around and take a look around." He Yuzhu said, "I have been going to and from get off work all day long, and I have been going back and forth like this for more than ten years, and I haven't had a good look around the city of Peiping yet.

Now after walking around like this, I realize that the changes in Beiping City have been huge."

Qin Huairu tilted his head: "Walking around alone?"

"Ah, it's just me." He Yuzhu nodded.

Qin Huairu tilted her head and looked at He Yuzhu: "It's because Lou Xiao'e is gone. Are you feeling sad?"

"Why are we talking about her again?" He Yuzhu said impatiently, "Everyone has left, why can't we leave some behind? It's not nice to talk about people behind their backs."

Qin Huairu looked at He Yuzhu and said, "So, Lou Xiao'e is really gone?"

"Believe it or not." He Yuzhu rolled his eyes.

Qin Huairu smiled: "Okay, okay, I believe you can do it, look at your virtue."

Speaking of this, Qin Huairu put the towel into He Yuzhu's arms: "Then, here's the towel for you. Wash your face and feet yourself. I'll go tell my daughter about this."

After saying that, Qin Huairu happily opened the door and left.

Seeing Qin Huairu leaving happily, He Yuzhu picked up the towel in his arms, turned to look at the steaming washbasin, and sighed quietly.

"Forget it, it's okay to leave." He Yuzhu said, "I won't have any thoughts if I leave. Let's go, let's all go!"

After saying this, He Yuzhu threw the towel aside and continued to look up in a daze, showing no intention of washing his face or feet.

At the same time, Qin Huairu had already returned to Xiaodang and Huaihua's room happily with brisk steps.

"Mom?" Xiaodang, who was chatting with Sophora japonica, looked at Qin Huairu in surprise, who pushed open the door and entered the house without authorization, "Why are you here?"

"Xiaodang, Sophora japonica." Qin Huairu said cheerfully, "I want to tell you a happy event."

"What happy event is this?" Sophora japonica asked.

Qin Huairu smiled before saying anything: "As for Lou Xiao'e, it's your Aunt Lou. She's gone and returned to Hong Kong!"

Upon hearing this, Xiaodang was stunned, and Huaihua quickly asked: "Really?"

"Of course it's true." Qin Huairu said, "What your stupid dad just told me personally seems to be true."

After hearing this, Huaihua rushed over and grabbed Qin Huairu's hands: "That's great, Mom, now you have defeated a powerful enemy, and you no longer have any worries! We finally won, victory!"

"Haha!" Qin Huairu smiled, looked at Huaihua and said, "This silly boy, he talks nonsense about winning or not."

"Ouch!" Xiaodang suddenly pretended to cry, "It's over, it's over, it's over. My hope of becoming a manager is completely shattered!"

When Qin Huairu saw Xiaodang crying and crying, she smiled and let go of Sophora japonica's hand, and said to Xiaodang: "You kid, which one is more important, your business or your mother's business, you

Can’t tell the difference?”

Xiaodang then turned to look at Qin Huairu, and said with a flat mouth: "Of course, your business is the most important."

"Isn't this the end?" Qin Huairu said with a smile.

Xiao Dang said flatly: "Then I was thinking, can I think of a way to get the best of both worlds? I don't want anything to happen to my mother, but I also want to be a manager, so why can't I get the best of both worlds? Alas!"

"Silly boy!" Qin Huairu said, "How can there be the best of both worlds in this kind of thing? It is a conflict between ourselves and the enemy. If we succeed, we will be relatives, if we fail, we will be enemies. Do you understand? Didn't you see your aunt's ending? The lesson is not enough.

Profound?"

Xiaodang retorted unconvinced: "My aunt is my aunt, the situation is different. If I don't mention anything else, let's just say that Xu Damao, can you compare with my stupid father?"

Qin Huairu shook her head, sighed and sat next to Xiaodang and said: "Xiaodang, why don't you understand that this kind of thing is the same for men.

Although your stupid dad is doing well now, if Lou Xiao'e really stays, over time and through hard work, sooner or later, your stupid dad will change his mind.

So for things like this, you have to fight to the death, and you can't open this hole in the first place.

Once you are weak and give in at the beginning, you will cry later."

Xiaodang Pianzui was still a little unhappy, but he didn't say anything.

Seeing that Xiaodang stopped talking back, Qin Huairu smiled and took the initiative to change the subject: "By the way, Xiaodang, there is something you know about now, it's about your Grandpa Liu."

"Grandpa Liu?" Xiaodang was indeed curious, "What's going on?"

Qin Huairu said with a smile: "I heard from the second aunt before that Xu Damao resigned and followed Cao Zhiqiang's example to open his own private company and go overseas to do business.

Then, you, Grandpa Liu, wanted to work with Xu Damao, and even raised money to buy shares."

"Isn't it?" Xiao Dang said in surprise, "I'm not surprised that Xu Damao opened a company, but why did Grandpa Liu get involved with him? Open a company? Become a shareholder? How old is Grandpa Liu? He's seventy, how dare you?

Getting involved in this kind of thing? Aren't you afraid of being cheated by Xu Damao?"

Qin Huairu smiled and said: "That's because you don't understand your Grandpa Liu. This Grandpa Liu is an old-hearted man. He has to do big things whenever he gets the chance."

"Then you can't get together with Xu Damao." Xiaodang said, "He doesn't know who Xu Damao is? Have you tricked him enough before?"

"Sister, you don't care about so many things." Huaihua said, "Uncle Liu is not one of us, he can do whatever he likes! He doesn't want to go into business. We won't be jealous if he makes money, and don't call him out if he suffers a loss."

Qin Huairu said: "That's what you said, but you, Grandpa Liu, don't come to our place to have dinner together now. You said you want to start a dinner party in the backyard and have dinner with Xu Damao."

"Okay, then let them go." Huaihua rolled her eyes and said, "It saves us some worries."

Then, Huaihua said to Qin Huairu: "Mom, to be honest, I didn't agree with you taking care of them in the first place. You said they are not relatives. If anything happens to them, we are not human beings outside this place.

It's better now, they left on their own, and we are now responsible. It's much easier."

"That's right, you can't be like this as a human being." Qin Huairu said, "After living in the same hospital for so many years, neighbors can't be so heartless."

Xiao Dang said: "Mom, my dear mother, you tell them about their conscience, have they ever told you about their conscience? Tell me, before you took care of him and had dinner together, how much trouble did they save and how much money did they spend?

ah.

Yes, Grandpa Liu's family also contributed some money, but what can we do with that little money?

Good guy, what we give them is meat every meal, good wine and good food, but they don’t even think about it, can the little money be enough to make it every day?

We give money to take care of others, but they still don't appreciate it. How can this be the case?

Besides, it’s not like they don’t have children at home. If they have the ability to let their own children take care of them, why are they eating at our house all day long? They’re not ashamed!”

"That's right!" Huaihua nodded, with a worried look on her face.

"You guys." Qin Huairu shook her head, "Forget it, I won't tell you anymore. I have to go back and see your dad. He must have not washed his feet. He just got into bed after washing his face. I have to keep an eye on him.

.”

After saying that, Qin Huairu ignored Xiaodang and Huaihua, got up and left.

As soon as Qin Huairu left, Xiaodang curled his lips and said, "Hey, look at our mother, she coaxes the silly dad like a child, watching all day long."

"What do you know?" Huaihua said with a smile, "Our mother calls this love."

"Yo yo yo, I still love you." Xiao Dang turned to look at Sophora japonica and said with a smile, "How old are you? You don't even have a partner, how can you still know how to love?"

"Of course." Huaihua shrugged, "Although I don't have a partner, I have also fallen in love, so of course I understand this."

"Huh!" Xiao Dang said unconvinced, "It's just Cao Zhiqiang. What do you call love? Isn't it just that someone wants to do good things because they are rich? Can this also be called love?"

"Sister, what are you talking about?" Huaihua was unhappy, "When I liked Cao Zhiqiang, it had nothing to do with money. I didn't like him because he was rich."

Xiaodang said: "If it's not money, what is it? I remember you hated him before."

"Of course it's talent." Huaihua said, "I like him because of his talent. Of course, I don't like him later or in the past. He was just a second-rate guy. How could I like him?

But having said that, people will change. As the saying goes, a prodigal son will never be replaced by gold. As long as a person changes for the better, he will still be a good young man. I like the young man who has changed into a good young man. What's the problem?"

"Oh, I didn't expect that." Xiao Dang said with a smile, "Our Sophora japonica is still an artistic young woman."

"Of course." Huaihua curled her lips and said.

"What a pity." Xiaodang said, "No matter how hard you turn around, the money will not be exchanged for him, and he will run away. You'd better not think about him anymore."

"I haven't thought about him." Huaihua said, "Why don't we just talk about it? I can't even mention him. That's when I really have something in my heart and I haven't let it go.

I am different now. I have let go of Cao Zhiqiang, so I can naturally treat him with a normal heart. This is called letting go when you can afford it, do you understand?"

"Okay, okay, you understand, you understand, okay?" Xiaodang shook his head, "Let's not talk about the person named Cao, let's talk about our mother.

Sophora japonica, I always feel that our mother is very strict with our silly father, and won’t let him do this. Is this really called love?”

"Of course." Huaihua said, "Our mother is very strict with our stupid father. That's called caring and caring. This is not called love. What is love?"

Xiaodang frowned and said, "But I read some books and said that true love means knowing how to let go, wanting the other person to be good, and giving rather than taking. It's the kind of thing where as long as the other person is happy, it doesn't matter what I do.

But our mother doesn't seem to be like this to our father. Instead, she watches closely and controls him strictly, for fear that he will leave our mother.

Strictly speaking, if Silly Dad follows Aunt Lou, it should be the best outcome for Silly Dad, right?

You see, Aunt Lou is so rich, and silly dad’s life must be better now if he follows Aunt Lou. What’s more, they have a son. No matter how you look at it, it’s better than continuing to live a hard life with our mother.

So if our mother really loves silly dad, shouldn’t she let him go?”

Huaihua frowned and looked at Xiaodang: "No, sister, where are you standing to talk?"

Xiaodang said: "Of course I support our mother, but isn't this a discussion? I'm just talking about things, and I'm just talking about love."

Huaihua said: "Sister, I think you are stupid because of reading. What you are talking about is not called love, it is called illness!

What is love? Love is when you want to live a good life with someone, so it is all selfish.

If you love someone, you have to let them go and let them be with someone else. What good will that do to you?

Letting him go just because you love him is the dregs of the old society. It is similar to the three obediences and four virtues of ancient women. It is a lie.

Our mom and dad got their marriage certificate and are legally husband and wife. Their relationship is so good. Isn’t this love?

On the other hand, that Lou Xiao'e, no matter what, she ran away secretly back then and had no news for more than ten years. Now she is divorced and suddenly comes back, claiming that she still loves our dad. Do you think this is appropriate?

So, sister, love is not a matter of one person, it has to be a matter of two people. You can’t just do whatever you want. He has to be reasonable no matter what.

Anyway, I am on my mother’s side. Our mother is so good to our stupid dad and never leaves him. This is love.

As for Lou Xiao'e, I feel that she is selfish and a bad woman who steals other people's husbands. This is not called love, it is called selfishness!"

Xiaodang nodded thoughtfully after hearing this: "Listening to what you said, it seems to make sense, but it always feels a bit weird."

"Okay, what's weird or not?" Huaihua said, "Sister, in the final analysis, it's all a matter of stance, and love also has its stance.

From Lou Xiao'e's point of view, she may think that her feelings for our stupid dad are love, but from our mother's point of view and ours, Lou Xiao'e's is not called love, that's called bad, it's called selfish!

In other words, our mother is right, Lou Xiao'e and we have a hostile relationship, she is our enemy, because she wants to take away our stupid father.

So before falling in love, we need to understand who is the enemy and who is the friend.

If you are an enemy, you must oppose them resolutely; if you are a friend, you can naturally win over them.

On such a big issue of right and wrong, you can't mess around, do you hear me?"

"Don't worry, of course I won't mess around." Xiaodang said, "I just suddenly felt that our stupid dad is quite pitiful."

"There's something wrong with your thinking." Huaihua said, "Why is our dad so pitiful? He has our mom and us, and everyone is so kind to him. It's because the stupid dad is too incestuous.

If it weren't for our mother, my silly father would probably still be a bachelor now.

So, the love our mother has for our silly father is true love.

Lou Xiao'e's love for our stupid dad is fake love.

Only by distinguishing true love from fake love can we understand what true love is, do you understand?"

Xiaodang thought for a while: "It's a bit confusing, but I probably understand it. Anyway, there is true and false love, and true love cannot suffer losses, right?"

"That's right." Huaihua said with a smile, "That's it, so sister, don't think too much in the future, and don't read those kinds of messy books.

You have to remember that since we are on our mother’s side, we must determine our position and never waver, otherwise, it will not only be our mother who suffers, but also the two of us!

If nothing else, if silly dad leaves, he might take back all these houses, so what will we do in the future?"

"That makes sense!" Xiaodang woke up immediately, "Sophora japonica, I really understand now that we have true love for our dad!"

"Yes, it is true love!" Huaihua nodded solemnly, "From now on, we must learn from our mother and have true love!"

Xiaodang touched his chin and thought for a while, then nodded: "So that's it, true love does have a stand. Now I really understand."

(End of chapter)