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The chat content of several young people started from what happened when visiting relatives during the New Year, and slowly extended to their careers.

Feng Chen mentioned that a certain cousin who looked down on him before was severely slapped in the face, and then Bai Xiaoling asked about Feng Chen's current job.

I was shocked to learn that he had now opened a decoration company. I immediately asked him how high the salary of the company's employees was and whether there was any shortage of people. He said that he planned to go out to find a job after graduating from high school this summer.

Feng Chen couldn't help laughing: "Our company is full of people who do decoration, which is very heavy work. How can you, a girl, do it when you come here?"

"Is there no such job as a clerk?" Bai Xiaoling asked.

Feng Chen pointed at Ruan Mengyao and said, "She is the only clerk."

Yan Xin also explained to him: "This company was only established last year. It is still a small company. It is not large in scale. It does not need so many clerks, and it does not have the spare money to hire so many clerks."

This made Bai Xiaoling a little depressed.

However, she just opened her mouth and asked. If she couldn't get a job, she would not suffer any loss.

Then he said to Yan Xin: "You know a lot of people there, please help me find out if there is a job suitable for me. If there is a good job, I won't even need my diploma and I will drop out of school."

Her depression was not hidden, it was clearly expressed on her face and in the conversation.

It is indeed not easy for children from single-parent families.

After all, young people, even if they are a scumbag, still have some dreams for the future.

"That's not to say," Yan Xin said, "Of course a woman like that can also be a good woman, but just now, Feng Xi asked me what kind of woman I admire. My personal standards are like this. I prefer women who can do

I think a woman who is financially independent has a sounder character."

Her words made Yan Xin feel the same way.

Bai Xiaoling asked doubtfully: "Why?"

I could only say with a guilty conscience: "Yes, that's why I said I can't do that."

"If you think this kind of life is a terrible thing, then working part-time is so terrible." Yan Xin said.

There is a feeling that the heroes see the same thing.

Several people took action and started the fires in both stoves. Bai Xiaoling was responsible for lighting the fire, Feng Xi was responsible for cooking, and the other three started to work, while continuing to chat.

Go cook together, but make the kitchen lively.

She didn't mean to say that it was because of Yan Xin's words. At most, she just had that thought for Yan Xin, and now that he has been extinguished, she won't feel much regret.

Before Ai Lili, his criteria for selecting a spouse were similar to what Bai Xiaoling said - being beautiful, having a good temper, being able to do housework, take care of children, and take care of the elderly.

You don't have to be humble when you stay at home.

"But some women don't have strong financial capabilities, but they have good personalities, are beautiful, can do housework, take care of children, and take care of the elderly. Don't you think such women are good women?" Bai Xiaoling has some problems.

He asked with conviction.

A smile appeared on Feng Xi's face unconsciously.

It didn't take long to cook a few dishes. I also made some pieces of tofu that Bai Xiaoling sent me. I also fried fish and stir-fried meat. I made five or six dishes in this way, which was a hearty meal.

Lunch.

Strictly speaking, Ellie is not a person with strong financial ability.

Bai Xiaoling disagreed deeply, but in this situation, she had no way to refute. Once she refuted, she seemed to have become the shameless woman.

While chatting, it was eleven o'clock. Feng Xi looked at the time and asked Yan Xin with a smile: "It's already noon, shouldn't you prepare lunch for us guests?"

However, Yan Xin still didn't want Feng Xi to have any misunderstandings about Bai Xiaoling, so he took this opportunity to say:

This is especially true for the older generation.

Bai Xiaoling glanced at Feng Xi enviously and said, "I wish I were as smart as Feng Xi. Then I can get into a good university and don't have to worry about work."

Bai Xiaoling blushed, glanced at Yan Xin secretly, and thought to herself: "Isn't that right?"

I say this mainly to tell Bai Xiaoling that working part-time is not an easy task. Not only is it tiring, but it is also humiliating.

Feng Xi said nothing.

"Of course I look down on women like that."

Yan Xin also looked at the time, said "Ah", stood up from the chair, and said with a smile: "That's right, that's right. You guys can just chat here while I cook."

"I think women who are financially independent are more capable. I look down on women who only rely on men," Yan Xin said.

Bai Xiaoling said depressedly: "The main reason is that I see that it is not easy for my mother to support me in school alone. She has a hard time, and I have a very hard life. The living expenses are less than half of those in the dormitory, and my academic performance is not good.

I really don’t know what the point of reading this book is. Just for a high school diploma? It’s not worth it, right? I just hope that I can go out to work now, so that I can save one semester’s tuition and suffer less.

Some suffering.”

Bai Xiaoling felt a little bad after they came out and told them how difficult it was to work part-time, and said depressedly:

As for being able to do housework, take care of children, and take care of the elderly, that is what he will need in his future life.

Her mother was the only one working at home, so she was really tired.

He talked about some of the things he encountered when he was working as a security guard, such as working night shifts on cold days, working overtime for 12 hours, encountering complaints and even abuse from owners, etc., and then only having a salary of a few hundred yuan a month, after deducting living expenses.

Less.

What she is depressed about is her future. Her academic performance is not good. It sounds like it will be difficult to work part-time now, and she doesn't want to go out to work.

She herself meant this, and of course she couldn't accept such a comment.

Bai Xiaoling was too embarrassed to stay any longer and stood up: "You guys should be busy, I'm going back too."

It doesn't matter whether you think so or not. Saying such words in such an occasion is a kind of rejection.

Life is not easy for her family now, mainly because she is still studying and needs a lot of expenses a year.

Now I am very happy to be able to study in school.

If men say this, it means they are not interested in Bai Xiaoling.

In any case, high school students still sound better than junior high school students.

"I originally thought that I would be free after the college entrance examination and go out to work. But after you said that working is so hard and groveling, I didn't want to go out. Or I could just stay at home and help my mother sell tofu.

never mind."

Feng Xi asked Yan Xin again: "What do you think? Can you afford such a woman?"

Bai Xiaoling was a little scared when she said this: "Is working part-time really so scary?"

If she stopped studying and helped her mother work, it wouldn't be so hard.

Everyone has already taken the moral high ground. It's not that easy for her to refute.

Feng Chen also talked about how he moved bricks at a construction site. He worked for more than ten hours a day, and he was tanned, and sometimes his skin peeled off.

Yan Xin was shocked by these words - if she really wanted her to drop out of school and go work, wouldn't she be hunted down by her mother?

He quickly said: "Don't have such dangerous thoughts. It's so good to study, why did you drop out of school?"

But he did not support Bai Xiaoling's idea, saying: "The high school diploma is still very important. If you don't have this diploma, your chances of choosing a job will be much less. Anyway, you will graduate in a few months, so there is no need to rush."

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"It's not extreme," Feng Xi said seriously, "They are all here for money, and they have to sacrifice their own bodies. It is nothing more than a long-term or a short-term, and the nature is the same. As long as there is a little bit of shame, it will

You wouldn’t make such a choice, wouldn’t you?”

"So it's better to study?" Bai Xiaoling said depressedly, "But my academic performance is not good. Even if I start studying hard now, I still can't get into college."

"You're right! We girls must have backbone. If we want to live a good life, we must rely on our own efforts, rather than relying on marrying a rich man to live a good life. If we really want to do that, isn't it?

Selling one's body in exchange for happiness? Wouldn't that be the same as selling?"

After cooking a few dishes, Bai Xiaoling was convinced by Feng Xi:

"You are really amazing. Not only are you so good at studying, you are also so good at cooking."

However, she didn't have the position to refute, and what she said seemed a bit guilty.

——This is what young people think. They have not been hammered by reality very much, and they want to live a meaningful life. After accepting the long-term hammering of reality, the pursuit of life is no longer to live meaningfully, but to live meaningfully.

It's about surviving.

Seeing that Feng Xi's face looked a little unhappy, I didn't quite understand why, because she had been quite happy the few times she had been here before.

But she was embarrassed to admit it, so she blushed and said, "I don't want to marry just to live a good life!"

Bai Xiaoling suddenly laughed and said, "Okay then, I'll help you light the fire."

Among these people, Feng Xi's cooking skills are undoubtedly the best.

When Bai Xiaoling heard what he said, she felt really depressed.

Feng Xi said: "How long will it take for you to cook alone? Let me help you."

But after thinking about it, I realized there was no need to say this.

I feel quite complicated.

For most people, at a certain age, living itself is the greatest meaning of life.

Yan Xin wanted to tell her that just because she was admitted to college, it didn't mean that her life would be easier. She still had to take the same exams, but she would have more opportunities to choose and the upper limit in the future would be higher.

She couldn't go to college anyway. A high school diploma was not that important to her, at least not more important than a good job.

He felt that Bai Xiaoling had such thoughts mainly because she didn't want to study. Another point was that it was too easy to think of working part-time.

If you look beautiful, you will feel better when you get along with them and it will be pleasing to the eye.

"Of course she is a woman who can achieve financial independence." Yan Xin said.

Ruan Mengyao also joined this topic, talking about how she worked in an electronics factory after graduation. She worked more than ten hours a day, the salary was not high, and the food was poor.

Without a high school diploma, all you can produce is a junior high school diploma. When it comes to finding a job, you will indeed have fewer choices.

With such an expression, she finally joined in the chat, chatting and laughing.

The reason why I say this is purely to prevent Feng Xi from misunderstanding his relationship with Bai Xiaoling, and also to prevent Bai Xiaoling from having thoughts about herself. It is equivalent to telling Bai Xiaoling - you are not the one I like.

Feng Xi, who had been silent until now, finally spoke, and as soon as he spoke, he agreed with Bai Xiaoling:

It's not realistic how much money you want to make, but you can live a decent life.

Yan Xin suddenly became depressed and thought to himself: "I don't need to say this! Are all girls today so rude? Don't even say a word of rejection?"

However, Bai Xiaoling's mood was not so beautiful.

Don't think of working as a fun thing.

Yan Xin said casually: "Why don't you stay and have a meal together?"

But when I think about myself, a young girl, staying in the village making and selling tofu, I feel that such a life is too boring.

Yan Xin and Feng Xi were like this in their previous lives. They had already used all their efforts just to stay alive.

In fact, that's not what he thinks. He really doesn't value financial independence that much - he already has a lot of money, and it doesn't matter whether his partner has money or not.

With the help of several people, Bai Xiaoling's mood improved.

Even Feng Xi, who was initially hostile to her, joined the team to comfort her after the police situation was lifted. He also told her that when he goes to college and gets a good job, he will help her.

Pay attention to whether there are suitable positions.

"Then what kind of woman do you admire?" Feng Xi asked.

She was silent for a long time, and then she started talking about this topic, and her remarks were a bit extreme. Yan Xin vaguely guessed what she was thinking, and he understood why she was unhappy.

If you have a good temper, there won't be much quarrels in the future.

He doesn't really need strong women like that in his life.

In front of Feng Chen, he couldn't ask anything, so he could only bury his doubts in his heart.

Yan Xin thought about Feng Xi's fate in her previous life, and thought to herself: "So what if she is so smart? If I hadn't changed her fate, she would still have lived a miserable life."

"Um?" Bai Xiaoling was stunned for a moment and said timidly, "Well...it doesn't have to be so extreme, right? Marrying a rich man is not the same as selling yourself, right?"

Feng Chen and Ruan Mengyao also stood up: "Let's do it together, it will be faster."

He just said: "You can't imagine that working is too wonderful. It's not that easy to make money. If it were that easy, your mother wouldn't have to work so hard. When you come to work, you have to lower your expectations, otherwise you will be very disappointed.

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There are still some doubts in my heart: "Isn't it because she has been angry at home these days?"

Feng Chen said with a smile: "It's okay if you don't work. You are so beautiful. If you stay at home for two years and marry a rich family, won't you be able to live a good life?"

This depression was not directed at anyone, so no one felt offended.

Ruan Mengyao couldn't help but sigh: "You are so capable, I don't know which lucky person will be able to marry you in the future."

Feng Xi glanced at Yan Xin secretly, blushed and said, "Sister-in-law, I'm still a student. Isn't it too early for you to mention this to me?"

When she peeked over, Yan Xin happened to be looking at her, and then quickly looked away.

There are only three words in my mind: "What a sin!"

Ruan Mengyao also noticed where Feng Xi was looking. Her face was calm, but she was feeling in her heart: "Siyao probably has no chance. It's a pity."