Reborn since 2005

Chapter 397 Finding a partner

Author: Hometown Three Thousand Miles

When they heard that Yan Xin had a partner, the middle-aged and elderly women stopped clamoring to introduce him to someone.

He just curiously asked Yan Xin about his partner's situation, how old he was, where he was from, what he did for a job, how they met, how long they had been dating, etc.

Yan Xin didn't even know how to answer.

There are two templates for him to answer, one is Feng Xi's template and the other is Ai Lili's template.

But he couldn't use these two templates, nor could he use other people's templates.

He has a strong understanding of the communication ability of these middle-aged and elderly women. No matter what he says, it will be publicized, and it will be publicized with added embarrassment.

When the news reaches the Feng family and reaches Feng Xi's ears, it will be troublesome.

So he simply pretended to be confused, pretended not to hear, and asked Wu Xiuhong: "Mom, where is dad?"

Wu Xiuhong pointed forward and said, "I went to put a net in the fish pond over there to see if I could catch a few fish."

There is a fish pond at home with more than an acre of water, and there are fish in it.

I'm going to entertain guests tomorrow, so it would be a good idea to bring in two fish.

I have already bought so many dishes, but adding two more bowls would make it look more grand.

Yan Xin snorted and said, "Then let me go over and see if you need my help."

With that said, he got up and walked out.

"Brother, wait for me, let's go together." Bai Xiaoling called out and followed.

After jogging for a few steps, he caught up with Yan Xin.

The person behind them sighed: "Although they are not born to the same parents, these two look closer than brothers and sisters."

He also said that Wu Xiuhong was lucky to marry into such a good family and be able to accept such an old daughter.

Yan Xin and Bai Xiaoling didn't walk so fast, and they could still hear their discussion.

But if you go further you can't hear it anymore.

They walked on the narrow path in the fields. They could not walk side by side, so they could only walk forward and backward.

Bai Xiaoling followed Yan Xin and saw that she was far away from home. Then she smiled and asked Yan Xin: "Brother, did I save you just now?"

"Ah?" Yan Xin was stunned for a moment.

"That means you have a girlfriend outside," Bai Xiaoling said. "If you say you don't have a girlfriend, they will definitely introduce you to someone. If you refuse, they will think you look down on them because you say you have a girlfriend.

That would save a lot of trouble.”

Only then did Yan Xin realize that this girl didn't know his secret, but was just helping him out.

I feel a little bit dumbfounded.

It was hard to say anything else. I could only smile and say: "Well, you did a great job. It will indeed save you a lot of trouble."

Bai Xiaoling was very happy to receive praise and said with a smile:

"When they heard me say that, they really believed that you had a partner. It's really funny."

Yan Xin was very embarrassed: "Well... it's quite funny..."

Bai Xiaoling said: "They don't even think about it. You have built such a big house in just one or two years. You have to work hard to do it. How can you have time to talk about a partner? Brother, don't you think so?"

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"Very true, very true." Yan Xin said.

But I was thinking: "I didn't just date someone, I also dated two!"

There is a feeling of guilt, but also an inexplicable feeling of pride.

After this feeling of pride appeared, he immediately reflected: "Isn't this the inappropriate behavior of a scumbag to stand in two different boats? Why am I still so proud?"

Then he thought: "But one thing is that ordinary men really don't have such ability."

Bai Xiaoling asked him tentatively: "Brother, you are twenty now, and you will be twenty-one in the new year. Have you ever thought about finding a partner?"

Yan Xin thought for a moment and replied: "I don't need to think about finding a partner now."

Now he really doesn't need to think about finding a partner, because he already has two partners.

Bai Xiaoling didn't know his subtext, she just thought that he didn't have a partner yet, and she never thought about finding one.

On the one hand, he is quite happy - it means that he has not been defiled by other women.

But on the one hand, she is also a little anxious - if she doesn't even have such a need, wouldn't it mean that she has no chance?

Advised: "I think you can consider this issue. You will be twenty-one years old after the Chinese New Year, and you will be twenty-two years old in another year, and you can get married. Now consider this issue, and then find a suitable person to talk to.

, after dating for a year and a half, wouldn’t it be just in time to get married?”

After calculating her own age and Yan Xin's age, there is a gap of two years. When Yan Xin reaches the age suitable for marriage, she will also reach that age.

Yan Xin was vague: "Thinking about those things is boring, now we still have to focus on career."

He didn't want to continue this topic, so he brought the conversation to Bai Xiaoling:

"When you go out to work, you should also focus on your work. Don't think about playing with your friends as soon as you go out. You are still too young and your mind is too simple. Don't be deceived by the bad people outside."

Bai Xiaoling quickly promised: "Brother, don't worry, I will definitely not do those things."

"There are a lot of bad people out there, and you are beautiful. You must remember to keep a distance from those men outside. No matter how nice they say, don't believe it. It is right not to hang out with them." Yan Xin said seriously.

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He meant it sincerely.

No matter what, they are a family, and he doesn't want Bai Xiaoling to go out and be deceived by a bad man.

Judging from Bai Xiaoling's behavior in front of him, he felt that such a carefree and boundless temperament could easily be deceived.

I was still thinking that I would have to tell Feng Xi when the time comes and ask her to watch her carefully and not let this half-sister be abducted by bad men outside.

After taking someone out, you have to ensure their safety, otherwise there is no way to explain to her mother.

If you want to find a companion for his father so that he will not be so lonely in his later years, you have to bear part of the responsibility.

Bai Xiaoling was not disgusted by his preaching, but was a little happy - this was a sign of concern for her.

He said with a smile: "Don't worry, no one can deceive me. If I want to find a partner, I have to use your standards to find a partner. Without an outstanding man like you, it would be impossible to get close to me, let alone lie to me."

Already."

Yan Xin looked back at her, feeling a little worried.

I thought to myself: "Use me as the standard when looking for a partner, but are there still men in this world who start from scratch and earn hundreds of millions at the age of twenty? If the standard is set so high, doesn't it mean that she has to

Will you be alone for the rest of your life?"

He didn't want Bai Xiaoling to be deceived by a bad man, but he also didn't want his half-sister to be unable to get married.

He kindly advised her: "Don't set the standard so high..."

Bai Xiaoling: "Uh?"

It wasn't that she didn't understand what Yan Xin meant, but in her impression, Yan Xin was a humble and polite young man. When such a sentence suddenly came out, she was a little doubtful whether the meaning she understood was what Yan Xin meant.

After being stunned for a moment, he still expressed his attitude:

"I'm looking for a man as good as you. If I can't find him, I'd rather never marry. Anyway, I'd rather be in need than in need."

The tone was very firm.

Yan Xin originally wanted to persuade her a few more words, but after thinking about it, he felt that it was not necessary.

Bai Xiaoling is just a girl of eighteen or nineteen. Saying such words now does not mean that she will do the same in the future.

When I was young, my heart was as high as the sky, and I would definitely set another very high goal.

But after stepping out of society and being beaten by society, you will gradually accept the reality.

There is no need to persuade now.

In a few years, she will naturally change her mind.

Having a high spirit is not a bad thing, at least it will allow her to block out a large number of bad people at the beginning of her life.

It may be better to wait until you understand the world and people's hearts and then find one that suits you.

The two of them walked to the Yan family's fish pond. Yan's father was holding a hoe and weeding in the vegetable field next to the fish pond.

There is also a pair of water pants on one side.

Yan Xin asked and found out that Yan's father had already cast a fishing net in the fish pond for two or three hours.

Casting the net would not bring fish immediately, it would still take some time, so he simply worked by the fish pond.

——This is an old farmer who can’t take any time off at all.

After Yan Xin and Bai Xiaoling came over, he stopped.

After talking for a while, I looked at the time again and saw that it was already past 4 pm. I also looked at the buoy of the fishing net and it was a little messy. It must have been fish.

Then he put on his waders and went into the water to retrieve the fishing net.

After a few moves, I saw fish jumping around.

Bai Xiaoling was very excited: "There is a fish, there is a fish! The net has caught a fish!"

Yan Xin took out his mobile phone and stood on it to take a video.

Dad Yan pulled the fishing net up, and there were two fish jumping around on the net.

After dragging it up, I saw that one was carp and the other was grass carp.

Carp weighs three to four kilograms, while grass carp is fatter and looks like six or seven kilograms.

Yan Xin was also very happy: "You can eat fish tonight."

Putting the two fish into the snakeskin bag brought by Yan's father, the father and son cleaned the fishing net and put it in a plastic bag.

Then Yan's father carried the fish, Yan Xin carried the hoe, and Bai Xiaoling carried the plastic bag containing the fish net, and the three of them went home together.

I cooked a fish meal that night, and it was carp.

As for the grass carp, I will keep it in the pond behind the house for the time being and wait for fresh ones tomorrow.

It was a female carp, with its belly cut open and a large packet of roe found.

In the evening, I made a hot pot in the kitchen, and the family had a great time eating around the stove.

In addition to the carp, another pound of beef was cut, a head of Chinese cabbage was washed, and some coriander and spinach were kept there for later use.

In the winter of last year, both father and son had hot pot, but it was just them and it seemed quite deserted.

No matter how rich the ingredients are, they can't hide the desertedness of this family.

Now that there are two more people, it suddenly becomes a lot more lively.

——A normal family in the village only consists of four or five people.

In this era of people leaving their hometowns to make a living, most of the time, there are only one or two people left in a family at home, and the rest are either studying outside or working outside.

Calculating it this way, his house is quite lively now.

Seeing such a scene, Yan's father was quite emotional and felt that his life was so happy now.

Compared with two years ago, there is simply a difference between heaven and earth.

Then I thought: "In two years, when these two little ones are married and there is another child, it will be even more exciting..."

It is now the end of 2007, and the national policies formulated that year are still being strictly implemented.

Father Yan could only imagine his son having one child, not a second child, let alone a third child.

But just this kind of imagination has made his heart warm and full of longing for the future.

——How could he have dared to think about this two years ago?

Not only did he feel happy, Wu Xiuhong also felt the same.

These years have also been difficult for this woman.

I have been suffering for half my life, and I have only now tasted a little bit of happiness.

Starting a family is a very troublesome thing. There are many things that need to be adjusted, and there are still some hurdles to overcome.

But looking at the future that already had the outline of happiness, she felt that she could solve all the troubles and overcome the obstacles in her heart.

Everyone enjoyed this hot pot meal very happily.

Bai Xiaoling had some food to hold on to, and when she went upstairs, she held her stomach and was careful.

Yan Xin was also a little full.

It's not that he hasn't eaten good food. He has eaten quite a lot of good food in the past two years, but there is no such atmosphere.

After going upstairs, Bai Xiaoling was smiling and wanted to squeeze into his bedroom to chat with him, but he kicked her out:

"Go to bed early tonight, get up early tomorrow to have dinner, and then go to the county town with your parents. We have to entertain guests in the afternoon, but there is not much time to rest. We must seize the time to rest now."

"I'm not sleepy, I don't have to go to bed so early..." Bai Xiaoling insisted.

"But I need to rest early," Yan Xin said, "I have to drive tomorrow, and it won't work if I don't get a good rest."

Saying this, Bai Xiaoling was finally shocked and she went back to her bedroom obediently.

However, Yan Xin did not go to bed that early, and chatted on QQ for more than an hour before going to bed.

Mainly chatting with Ai Lili and Feng Xi, but I also chatted with other friends during this period.

For example, I talked with Xiao Shiyu about her participation in the Hanfu Goddess Competition, and gave her ideas on how to canvass votes after entering the finals.

For example, when I talked to Feng Chen about his return home, Feng Chen expressed envy that he could go home at any time.

I also chatted a few words with Chen Li and Gu Ru.

He told Gu Ru that his father had caught two big fish in the fish pond this afternoon, which made Gu Ru scream with envy. He said that he must come to his house when he was free. He did nothing else but went to his fish pond.

fishing.

If you can't find it, just cast a net and catch it.

While chatting, Yan Xin saw Lulu's profile picture lighting up in the friend list, and suddenly thought of this chubby girl he met on the train.

It was just fate along the way, but what I didn't expect was that this little chubby girl later participated in the Hanfu Goddess Competition with the support of her cousin. She also gained a certain popularity, and was recommended by the backstage to enter the finals. It was a strange combination of circumstances.

By mistake, I became a product model for Jinxi E-commerce Company.

When he saw this online name, Yan Xin admired the wonder of fate.

So I sent a message: "Lulu, do you still remember me?"

Lulu soon replied: "Remember, you are the handsome guy I met on the train during the Mid-Autumn Festival."

Yan Xin sighed in his heart: "The working people are still simple and honest. They speak straightforwardly and don't know those sweet words."

In this increasingly hypocritical world, he prefers such simplicity.

Honesty is a quality as good as gold.

He sent a message: "Congratulations, you entered the Hanfu Goddess finals."

Lulu: "How did you know?"

Yan Xin couldn't say that he was the boss of Starlight Entertainment. Starlight.com was the website he opened. He could only say in a low-key manner:

"I am an old user of Xingguang.com. I paid attention to this year's Hanfu Goddess Competition. When I saw someone named Lulu in the final list, she looks like you and works like you, so I guessed it was you.

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Lulu: "I don't even know how I entered the finals. I used to be hovering around the 50s and 60s, but on the last day and in the last few hours, I suddenly climbed up. I can't believe it now."

Of course Yan Xin would not say that he was operating behind the scenes, as that would undermine the little girl's self-confidence.

He only told her: "This should be the strategy of your fans. Prepare enough tickets and only explode at the end, catching the competitors by surprise. In the last year, several people entered the finals like that. This is normal behavior.

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Lulu: "I just feel like I'm not worthy. I'm so fat and not pretty. Now many people on the Internet are scolding me."

Before she entered the finals, her entry posts were basically encouraging her, saying that she was frank and cute, saying that she was confident, saying that she was not fat at all, and saying that she was very beautiful.

But after entering the finals, more and more people scolded her.

Said she was ugly and fat, said she was just showing off her ugliness, said she was more disgusting than Sister Furong, and said where did she get the confidence to participate in the Hanfu Goddess Competition, saying that it was the biggest joke to let an ugly woman like her enter the finals.

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Although most of them spoke for her and scolded the trolls, there were indeed more and more voices scolding her, and they couldn't be suppressed.

Entering the finals will give you greater exposure and you will have to face more people's doubts.

Different stages have different standards.

What's more, her entering the finals means that she has squeezed away other people's opportunities.

It is normal to cause others to feel jealous.

Traffic can bring both benefits and harm.

Yan Xin also saw this situation, and he once thought about banning the accounts of those who cursed.

But in the end he gave up the idea.

If you ban someone who curses, you will lose users.

It wasn't just one or two people who started scolding.

At the same time, it will also give netizens the impression that an official is covering their mouth, which is of no benefit.

The little chubby girl was not promoted through normal means, and if you cover her mouth again, it will only arouse the suspicion of netizens.

So just leave it alone.

Now seeing Lulu say this, Yan Xin still feels a little guilty and can only comfort her:

"You have to think about it this way, black and red are also red. They scold you because your excellence hurts them. You should be proud. You are the sunshine, and they are just shadows under the sun. There is no need for such things to affect your mood.

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