Return of the Antagonistic Lady Boss

  Chapter 49 To deal with dependent personality, you have to do it like this

"Son, mother is expensive. If you don't support me and my brother, I will have to let my dad sell the karaoke bar and sit on the stage, and my brother will have to pay for protection. died."

  Xiaoqian's words made Jia Xiufang's face bloodless and her lips trembled.

   "No, no, he is your dear father, dear dad..."

"Anyone who is contaminated with pornography, gambling, drugs, and humanity? Mom, do you remember, the kid from the back street who smoked that and sold his 4-year-old son. What is the difference between my dad and him? "

  This is called concept exchange. Say the right thing, then bring people in and change the concept. This is called brainwashing!

   "This person with no conscience, I should eat how much hardship I have with him, and it doesn't matter if it's not good to me, how can I treat you and your brother this way and commit sins!" Jia Xiufang cried.

   Xiaoqian watched her crying, and didn't worry, she slowly let Jia Xiufang cry, knowing that the time she was crying was a time to vent her emotions. She said nothing was useless, just wait a few minutes.

  Sure enough, when Jia Xiufang cried enough, she wiped her tears in confusion and said to herself, "What to do from now on, what to do..."

  Xiaoqian destroyed the scumbag and started to give Jia Xiufang a second hint.

   "Mom, my dad is already like this. Sooner or later, this house will be ruined by him. My brother and I are still so small. What do you think we should do?"

   "Yes, what do you guys do..." Jia Xiufang trembled and hugged her daughter.

"Do you remember that when we went to the night market one night, when we came back, we saw the women in miniskirts at the entrance of Ye Shanghai Cabaret. They had heavy makeup, and some were directly held by men. Mom, can you remember? "Bring in hints of the scenery.

  Sure enough, Jia Xiufang remembered, "I remember, I still took a bite of them, what can't you do with hands and feet."

   "Mom, you said my dad is outside. If you owe a lot of money, you can't afford it. Take me to the karaoke hall. I also wear a short skirt and let people hold—"

   "Ah!" Jia Xiufang yelled. She is a conservative woman of good family, and she broke down when she thought of the girl she had raised for so many years.

  Xiaoqian wants her to be like this, collapse, the more severe the collapse, the better the post effect.

"Even if the fire wasn't caused by my dad outside, but he took the money and ran away, is this true? When he comes back, do you see if he has any money? A few years of savings can be lost in a few days. Is it going to sell girls in the next step? Sell out girls and sell sons. Look at Dalong's hustle and bustle, being a little gangster—"

   "Absolutely not!" Jia Xiufang burned with fighting spirit. "If you have a mother in one day, your siblings can't live like that!"

  What I want is her words! Xiaoqian guided for so long and finally succeeded!

  She put her hand on Jia Xiufang's shoulder, using stronger language to suggest to her mother.

   "Mom, my dad is over, but you are still there! You have two children, and my brother and I need you! Can you watch, my dad and I are being **** by my dad?"

   "Unless I die!"

   Jia Xiufang is now completely brainwashed by Xiaoqian.

"we need you!"

  This sentence is very important and needs you.

   Jia Xiufang has a tendency of dependent personality. Although clinically manifested as lack of opinion and blindly obeying others, the contradictory point is that people with dependent personality also extremely lack the sense of being needed by others.

  In order to chase this feeling of being "needed", even at the expense of lowering oneself, to please others with grievances.

  For example, her mother eats leftovers, does tiring and dirty work, and sacrifices herself for the family.

   While overly dependent on her useless dad, she kept lowering her status in the family, carefully to please her husband, just to seek the feeling of being “needed”.

Xiaoqian constantly weakened the status of scumbag in her mother's heart, and at the same time hinted that her mother, apart from marriage, Jia Xiufang can find the sense of being needed from other places, such as the "need" of her children, which will help Jia Xiufang gradually become independent. .

  Especially, Xiaoqian is a very good child, a daughter who can be admitted to a key university. There is a strong need, and Jia Xiufang has the enthusiasm again.

   "With a mother one day, no one can drag my daughter to that place, and be a serious woman!"

  A woman, in addition to the love for her husband, her greatest sustenance is her love for her children. In order to protect her children and give everything, Xiaoqian is now going to transfer all the love from her mother to her father to her and her younger brother.

   Obviously, very successful.

   "But Mom, you just shout so hot, it's useless, you said that my dad continued to bet like this and broke the shoes so you didn't make enough money. If he sells me, what should I do?"

   "I..." Jia Xiufang was asked.

  She only knows to protect her two children, but she hasn’t figured out how to protect her.

"Mom, get divorced. After you divorce, take over the custody of my brother and me. I will get the house for you. You hold the house and support our sisters and brothers. No problem. The scumbag will even be in debt outside. No, you don’t have to pay it back."

  This is the ultimate goal, divorce!

   "But, divorce, me, me..."

  "What are you afraid of? Think about it, if you divorced him, he can't care about you asking for money. You open a dry cleaner and it’s okay to raise my brother and me. We don’t have to be sold.

  ... Jia Xiufang really cares.

  The hint that Xiaoqian gave to her before has already been very useful. In addition, the set that I told her today is all specially formulated for her personality. The tone, content and expression are all poked into Jia Xiufang's heart.

  Speech is an art. The language of the psychologist is the key to unlock the patient's heart. How to find the key to the problem according to the personality, no one understands this better than Xiaoqian.

Jia Xiufang’s weakness is the dependent personality and deep-rooted traditional ideas. Xiaoqian now uses the traditional concept of women’s unreasonable love for children to attack Jia Xiufang’s little reliance on her husband and make her From the process of protecting my children, I deeply realized the feeling of being "needed".

  Satisfy her dependent personality.

  In order to achieve her goal, Xiaoqian did not hesitate to weaken her strength, describing herself as a girl who has no offensive power and needs the protection of her mother. Obviously, the effect is very good. Jia Xiufang has already thought of divorce now.

  Xiao Qian continued to add oil and vinegar.

"Mom, if you don't get divorced, I will definitely be sold. Look, he can do it for the bride price and even let me marry an infectious disease. For money, he can't do anything! Next time I owe him If you have money, you must sell me! Mom, if you are a few years younger, he will sell you too!"

  Thank you Xiangjiang Xiaoxiaoyu for the sachet reward, and thank Yimu° for the 3 safety symbols! Thank you w1574 for the peace symbol~

  Today, you want to make some more changes~

  (End of this chapter)