Save the Bachelor of Heaven

Fengfan Elementary School then held another parents' discussion meeting regarding the Yan Ziyou incident, advising parents not to pay too much attention to their children's grades and ignore their children's psychological needs.

Children are also human beings, with their own ideas and preferences, blindly suppressing and restraining them will be detrimental to the growth and development of children.

A good child should have a sound personality, a healthy mentality, a positive attitude, a happy life, and a harmonious parent-child relationship.

Grades are just a trivial aspect and should not be overemphasized.

It's just that even though the principal and teachers said dry saliva, broke it apart, crushed it, and explained the truth, there are not many parents who can listen to the advice and reduce the burden on their children.

Most of the parents heard about Ziyou, but they just sighed for a while, and then they did what they should do.

As Hegel said, the only lesson humans can learn from history is that they cannot learn any lessons from history.

Even when the living examples are right in front of them, they basically turn a blind eye.

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The same is true for Nan Li, who still presses Xia Huanhuan to study, and uses Mi Tao as an example.

"Look at Mi Tao, the children from the countryside have much worse learning conditions than you. They don't even have their own bedroom, and they live in the attic with their parents. It's hard to turn around in such a small place.

But if you look at their results, they are always the first place, and they also won the first prize in the selection cup, and they will enter the Hanlin next year.

Look at you again, what are your conditions, when did your parents owe you, but where are your grades? It is still the bottom of the class, and it is not certain whether he will be admitted to Hanlin next year. Are you going to be like this all your life? "Nan Li urged her daughter to learn Taoism.

Hearing what she said, Xia Junshan couldn't help frowning, "I said, what you said is a bit too much. Although Huanhuan's grades are poor, you can't say that about her."

"I'm doing this for her own good. How can I arouse her competitive spirit if I don't say anything serious?" Nan Li explained, "Well, if she has a little bit of ambition and is half as conscious as Mi Tao, I don't care." Take that to say about her."

"Mi Tao is Mi Tao, and Huanhuan is Huanhuan. Don't put them together, okay?" Xia Junshan said speechlessly, "Every child has their own strengths. Does Mi Tao study well? False, but our Huanhuan is versatile, isn't this also her strength."

"So what about being versatile? Do you take the test during the exam? So good that you can earn extra points in the high school and college entrance examinations, and can you live on it?" Nan Li immediately said plausibly when she heard that, "If she can really be like those Lang Lang and Ding Junhui , Han Han, full of geniuses, young and famous, I can't wait for it.

But is your daughter that successful? In the end, it is not the same as other children, high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, and employment. So she is the same as Mi Tao, they all rely on their grades to speak.

At that time, Mi Tao will take the key junior high school, key high school, and key university exams all the way. As for your daughter, ordinary junior high school, technical secondary school, and technical school, at most she has been admitted to a junior college.

Let me ask you, besides the janitor and the cleaning aunt, does your company have a degree below a bachelor’s degree? "

Xia Junshan was left speechless by her question.

Indeed, as a top architectural design company in the industry, their company's employees are basically high-achieving students who graduated from 1985 or 2011, and many of them are master's students and foreign students. There is really no college degree.

"That's the truth, but can you use some methods and speak softly." Xia Junshan finally persuaded.

"There's no time. It's not like you don't know that your daughter is a bicycle. She only walks once she pedals, and she won't leave without pedaling." Nan Li said helplessly, "It's less than a year away, and she will be promoted to junior high school." , do you really plan to let her go to Fengfan Middle School?

If you don't go up and fight hard, are you willing to fight Hanlin? Don't you want her to be admitted to key junior high schools, key high schools, and all the way to key universities? "

"Of course I thought about it, but I can't force it so hard." Xia Junshan also said helplessly.

Everyone hopes their son will become a dragon, so how could he be an exception. It's just that what happened to Ziyou just happened, and he was really worried that something might happen to his daughter.

"I can't help it. You have also tutored her in her studies before. Do you listen to her when you speak well? After three hours of homework, I wish I could play for two and a half hours. If I don't force her, she can stay until eleven or twelve o'clock. "Nan Li said speechlessly, "Our president told me that our class is the most prone to decline.

Although you and I are both senior white-collar workers, with high education, high status, and high income. But none of our advantages can be passed on to our children.

If Huanhuan and Chaochao fail to get into a good school, they will only be able to engage in basic jobs in the future, falling from middle class to low class. So, don't think how good our family is.

If Huanhuan and Chaochao are not good enough, the future of our family will be a tragedy, and it will not even be as good as Mi Tao's family. At least Mi Tao has worked hard enough to become a high-level white-collar worker in the future, no problem at all. "

Hearing what she said, Xia Junshan thought about it carefully, and couldn't help sighing.

Although he didn't agree with Nanli Chicken Baby, what she said did make sense.

Their family is in a good situation now. Both of them have stable wages and are considered high-level white-collar workers. But their knowledge, education, work, status, and even connections cannot be passed on to their children.

If children want to get these, they can only rely on their own efforts. Otherwise, the class will fall at any time, from middle class to low class. At that time, work a low-income salary and marry an average man...

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Xia Junshan had nothing to say, and Nanli Chicken Baby naturally worked harder, urging her to study from time to time, and beating her with rice peaches, which made Xia Huanhuan more and more tired of studying, and began to hate Mi Tao.

At the same time, Yan Peng also filed a divorce lawsuit with Tian Yulan.

Originally, he wanted to talk about it and break up. He had prepared the divorce agreement, and he was thinking of the past kindness, and he was going to leave the house they lived in to Tian Yulan.

But Tian Yulan wants nothing but Yan Ziyou's custody.

Naturally, the Yan family firmly refused to allow this.

Yan Ziyou is a descendant of their Yan family. Although he is sick now, his Yan family can afford it. If it was given to Tian Yulan, the child might be tortured to death by her.

In order to get the custody of their grandson, they were even willing to pay Tian Yulan more money to avoid further complications.

But Tian Yulan just refused, she just wanted to grab the custody of her son.

If the negotiation fails, the only option is to go to court in the end.

The Yan family said that since Tian Yulan was so ignorant of flattery, they would leave nothing to her.

The house that was originally intended to be given to her had to be taken back.

At the beginning, Yan Peng's parents bought the house with money. They are businessmen, and they like to keep receipts when doing business. Those receipts are still in their hands, which will be very favorable evidence.