Shuttle Seventy: Sweet Wife

In order to continue to live a good life of food and drink, the younger son sold the house in the family, and even kicked the couple out of the house. Husband and wife, gave the two couples a bite to eat, and raised their old age.

In fact, this content is not a story, but it is a typical case of many families. Jing Qingxin told it as a story, and just wanted to remind Ma Zhaodi, even if she loves her children, she can't be too partial.

The doting of parents is not love, it is the poison of tea poisoning people's hearts!

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After listening to Jing Qingxin's story, the three of Wang Yan were silent for a while, and their expressions were a little disbelieving!

Jing Qing could also understand their reactions. After all, the general environment of society is like this. No one has such a sense of education.

People will not think about whether such a preference will cause the lack of children's character!

Wang Yan couldn't help but feel a little nervous in her heart, and said with a trembling mouth: "Is there still such an unfilial son?"

"Why not? Are there less such unfilial sons around the sisters-in-law? Think about it carefully, in a family that raises an unfilial son, do his parents love their son very much? Is it all good? Holding on to your son? Do you think that your son is the best, and others will be scolded for saying a few bad things?" Jing Qingxin asked back step by step.

Wang Yan was dumbfounded! She was speechless, thinking about it carefully, it seemed like what Jing Qing said in her heart! Is that so? Is it all due to parental preference?

Jing Qingxin asked again: "Think about it again, the one you hear the most is the unfilial son or the unfilial daughter?"

"!" The three of them choked again, they never thought about this issue.

What Jing Qingxin said and what she asked are not absolute, but they are typical of most of them. At least in the past two or three decades, women's status has not been so high, the accepted ideas are still very traditional, and there are cases of unfilial piety. It really can't compare with the data of unfilial sons.

In Jing Qingxin's opinion, many of the rules and regulations of the older generation were not prepared for men, but to restrain women. Once women touched a little, they could be killed by those rules and traditions.

"Do you think about why your daughter is called a little padded jacket? Isn't it because daughters are caring, sensible and well-behaved, girls are delicate and can understand the difficulties of their parents better, so if you give all your love to your son, but raise such a child What's the use of a arrogant son? If you have a son, you may not be able to support the elderly, and if you have a daughter, you may not be able to support the elderly! As long as it is your own child, if you are educated, the daughter and son will give you the elderly. This is not a matter of men and women, but family education. The problem." Jing Qingxin spoke softly and firmly.

Immediately, Jing Qingxin whispered to Ma Zhaodi, "I said this, Sister-in-law Ma, can you understand?"

After finishing speaking, Jing Qing didn't want to get Ma Zhaodi's reply or statement immediately, she turned around and continued to work on her work. She knew that Ma Zhaodi needed a space and time to think, so she was not in a hurry, anyway, she could say everything !

"Brother and sister, you are right!" Wang Yan suddenly agreed.

She has a son herself, and she is used to pampering her on weekdays, but in terms of etiquette, both husband and wife have always educated their children, and they are not completely dependent on the child's temperament.

At this moment, after hearing what Jing Qingxin said, Wang Yan suddenly felt that she had benefited a lot from family education!

Jing Qing said with a smile: "It just so happened that the sisters-in-law talked about this topic, so I just chatted with the sisters-in-law!"

"I also think it makes sense. I have never heard or thought about these words before, but like you said, as long as children are well educated, both women and men will know how to be filial." Yang Mei also published.

Wang Yan said jokingly: "It seems that I have to work hard to regenerate a little padded jacket, and I can't pin all my love on a child! If my son becomes such an unfilial son, I might as well raise a daughter! "

"Then come on!" Yang Mei said with a smile, if she can have another son in the future, she must be disciplined and disciplined, and she must not be too spoiled!

Jing Qing's heartfelt remarks made her heart unable to calm down for a long time. Such remarks are a bit novel, but strange, but very reasonable! If he doesn't raise his son well, he's simply raising an enemy for his own family!

Jing Qingxin and the three of them looked at Ma Zhaodi with a dazed expression. The three of them also disturbed her, each doing their own thing, leaving a small space for her to think slowly!

In the evening, the three women told Jing Qingxin's family education statement in the afternoon to their men! Wang Yan and the men of Yang Mei's family naturally agree very much, and they also highly praise Gao Shen's daughter-in-law, saying that Gao Shen's daughter-in-law is a woman with great wisdom in her heart.

Although they understand some things, but they can't say what makes sense, the men once again have a feeling of admiration for Jing Qingxin, and they tell their daughter-in-law to have more contact with Gao Shen's daughter-in-law and learn a lot!