Single Mom in the Eighties

After dinner, Yan Ruxuan and Kang Congxin simply cleared the table, and Kang Kang pestered Kang Congxin to play with him on the little train.

Thinking of that imported, extremely high-end little train, Yan Ruxu looked at Kang Congxin meaningfully, Kang Congxin was a little embarrassed, and said: "Children love to play, no matter how expensive it is, it's worth it."

What a good father of twenty-four filial piety!

Yan Ruxu pointed at the little train and a few other toys, and said to Kangkang: "Actually, these are all bought for you by your father. Then he didn't dare to come to see us, so he secretly put the toys at the door , I thought it was from grandpa.”

"Wow", Kangkang opened his mouth wide, his big eyes were shining brightly, he tilted his head to think for a while, and asked puzzledly, "Dad, why don't you dare to see us?"

Kang looked at Yan Ruxu for help again, hoping that she could answer for her. Yan Ruxu smiled at him and made a "please" gesture. Kang Congxin had no choice but to say to Kangkang, "Because Dad didn't know about Kangkang before. Kangkang was three years old, and Dad just came back. Dad felt sorry for Kangkang, so he didn't dare to come to see you."

Kangkang tilted his head and pondered for a while and said, "Father, Kangkang doesn't blame you. You didn't come because you didn't know I was here. It's not that you don't like Kangkang."

Kang Congxin smiled all over his eyes, and patted his son's little shoulder: "Thank you for forgiving me."

Then he turned his head to look at Yan Ruxu, the love in his eyes was about to flow out like spring water, "You teach the children really well!"

Yan Ruxu showed a complacent expression quite similar to Kangkang's, and said, "When I look at Kangkang sometimes, I feel particularly fulfilled!"

But sometimes, I worry about the family of origin, the lack of the role of the father, and my lack of experience, which will leave a shadow on the child's heart when I don't know when and what event. Of course, you can't tell Kang Congxin this, otherwise he doesn't know how to feel guilty.

"By the way, have you noticed that this kid speaks more fluently, and every sentence is logical." Yan Ruxu whispered to Kang again.

Kang Congxin's body was numb from her fragrant and hot breath.

"That's right, what he said is good." He remembered something again and said, "The first time I met Kangkang was at the Jinshuitai Hotel, at the dinner of the reform team. Kangkang also met so many strangers. No stage fright, open and generous, call people when they are asked, eat and drink as they should, and no one in the group does not praise him. One eldest sister said that her granddaughter is four years old and she can't tell the whole story with her tongue In other words, unlike our Kangkang, who can make things completely clear!"

Kang Congxin's face was shining brightly, full of the pride of being a father.

Yan Ruxu attacked him: "My dad is the nominal deputy leader of the reform team anyway, so you have to give him face. The children he brought are just politely boasting, so you take it seriously."

Kang Congxin was very serious: "It's not polite, it's from the bottom of my heart, I can tell the difference."

"Okay, okay, you're right, people really praise you. I used to think I was a loving mother, but compared to you, I'm a strict mother!" Yan Ruxu said, thinking to himself, for the sake of your first reunion with your child Come on, I will tolerate you for a few days, and if you still spoil the child like this in the future, we have to talk about it.

Kang Congxin was satisfied with this. Seeing his son having fun playing with the little train by himself, dubbing the little train with a "beep" in his mouth, he went to open his luggage bag, took out a large wallet from it and handed it to Yan Ruxu.

"All my belongings belong to you!"

Yan Ruxu took it with a heavy hand, and opened it to see that there were passbooks, household registration books, grain, oil and non-staple food books, a wad of ten yuan cash, a huge certificate of honor and a heavy military medal neatly stacked inside.

Yan Ruxu carefully held the general medal in her hand, opened the certificate of honor, stroked the words "Kang Yaoguang" on it, and unconsciously, tears welled up in her eyelashes. She was afraid that tears would drip on the certificate, so she quickly closed it. in my arms.

Kang Congxin sighed, raised his hand to wipe her tears, "Why are you crying again?"

Yan Ruxu smiled, put the general's medal on the certificate of honor, and said, "I will treasure it carefully and make it a family heirloom!"

In the evening, because of sleep problems, the three had their first quarrel after meeting and recognizing each other.

Kangkang insisted on sleeping on the big bed, between Yan Ruxu and Kang Congxin.

In order to cultivate the child's independence so that he would not be too dependent on his mother, Yan Ruxu spent a lot of effort to get Kangkang used to sleeping alone. Yan Ruxu didn't want the child to think that the order can be changed overnight, so he firmly disagreed. Kang Congxin and Kang Kang stood on the united front, begging pitifully with exactly the same eyebrows and eyes as his son.

That feeling made Yan Ruxu feel like a stepmother. She was very angry and reprimanded Kang Congxin in a low voice: "I don't know how much effort it took to make the child develop a good habit. Why do you want to destroy it as soon as you come back!"

Kang Congxin was not angry, and coaxed her patiently: "Our child finally got a father, and it is normal to want to be with his parents day and night. He has never enjoyed the treatment of sleeping with his parents since he was a child, so we will satisfy the child. Just once, okay?"

Seeing that Yan's expression softened, Kang made persistent efforts: "The child is only three years old, and he is still so young. He has always been sensible and obedient. With only this little request, do you have the heart to let him down?"

Kangkang stared at his big watery eyes at the right time, looking at his mother whether he wanted to cry or not.

Yan Ruxu's heart softened, and he let go: "I can only sleep for one night, never mind!"

Hearing that she finally agreed, Kangkang threw himself into Kang Congxin's arms with a yell "Ah", and the father and son celebrated with each other, very happy.

Yan Ruxu rolled her eyes at Kang Congxin, and Kang Congxin kept smiling flatteringly at her.

The three of them washed up and lay on the bed one on the left and the other on the right. Kangkang consciously lay between the two of them, arranging himself in a big character, with one foot on his father and the other on his mother, happily " Giggle" Zhile.

Seeing his son happy like this, Yan Ruxu was also happy, but also a little regretful, he seemed to be too harsh just now. The situation now is different from before. The son has such a resolute and resolute father, and he takes care of the child and influences him subtly, so there is no need to deliberately cultivate the manliness of the child.

Kang Kang frolicked for a while, his voice was a little hoarse, and after being fed a few sips of water, he asked Kang Cong to tell him a story again. Kang Congxin also did his homework in advance. At night when he couldn't sleep, he lay in bed and read children's books, conceived and smoothed out his ideas. Now he tells stories to Kangkang, which is smooth and full of fun. Kang Congxin told him stories about ancient wise men, which were different from the fairy tales Yan Ruxu told him, but they were equally interesting. Kangkang liked it very much. Dad's clothes corner, to show that he is still awake, let him continue talking.

When it was almost 10 o'clock, Kangkang finally couldn't stand it anymore and fell asleep completely. Kang Congxin gently called his son's name in his ear, and after calling twice, he was sure that he was really asleep. After brushing his son's hair, he kissed his son's white and tender face and carefully picked up Kangkang.

Yan Ruxu came back from outside. The son was very clingy today, and asked his father to tell stories, but also asked his mother to accompany him to listen. Yan Ruxu finally went out to the bathroom while his son was in a daze.

"He wants to sleep together, why do you want to carry him away?" When Yan Ruxu came back, he saw Kang Congxin's tall figure hugging the little child, tiptoeing like an old wolf stealing a chicken, which was a little funny.

Kang turned his head back and gave her a "don't you know" smile, smiling so blushingly and heartbeatingly.

Kang Congxin carefully put his son on the small bed in the inner room, put a pillow on him, covered him with a quilt, patted him again, waited for two minutes, and returned to the main room after making sure that his son showed no sign of waking up.

Yan Ruxu was already lying on the bed and was making the bed. When she saw Kang came back, she asked with a smile, "Aren't you awake?"

"I didn't wake up, I slept like a piglet." Kang Congxin took off his shoes and went to bed, leaning against the quilt.

"He will be disappointed when he wakes up tomorrow morning and finds that he is sleeping on the cot." Yan Ruxu moved to his side and sat down in the same way.

"No, I'll bring him back later." Kang smiled again.

Yan Ruxu beat him lightly.

Kang Congxin stuck to her ear and whispered, "A little farewell is better than a newlywed."

Yan Ruxu suddenly felt trembling, and a hot current rushed to her lower abdomen, but she still had something to say to Kang again, so she moved away from him a little, and said, "A three-year-old child doesn't know what's going on in his heart. What do you think? After you left, he woke up after sleeping for about twenty minutes, and then he has been waiting for you to come back. "

Yan Ruxu told him about Kangkang secretly practicing calling him daddy, and how he finally called him out in front of her, and said: "What do you think the psychological process of a three-year-old child is like? I thought our child was big-hearted, I feel very lucky that such a child will live an easy life in the future. But this time I realized that I still don’t know him well enough.”

Kang Congxin heard it sweetly and sadly. He lay on the bed and hugged Yan Ruxu on his chest, and said: "Our children are really big-hearted, open-minded, and open-minded. Usually children encounter such things, they always have to be eccentric. , The entanglement process, but you see, our child figured it out in just a few hours, and there is no gap with me, and he accepted me wholeheartedly."

Yan Ruxu didn't know how other three-year-old children would behave when they encountered such a thing, but Kang Congxin said so, so let's take it for the time being. Yan Ruxu rubbed his broad chest, and said: "It's good that you are back, you will worry about the child's affairs in the future, you don't know how worried I am, lest the child will live with a single mother, and when he grows up, he will be lacking. Manly, **** chirping."

Kang Congxin kissed the top of her hair: "From now on, I will be there!"

Yan Ruxu recalled what happened just now, and said, "Kangkang has changed today. He has never been so stubborn. He even learned to fake cry in order to sleep on the big bed. It's all because of you to support him. If this continues, I will be three years old." The good habits cultivated in the past few years have been exhausted in one day. I don't think you are a strict father, and I will let you pamper a **** in the future!"

Kang Congxin thought about it, and he was also a little worried. When he thought of Kangkang blinking his big eyes and looking at him pitifully, his heart became so soft that he couldn't refuse the child's request. He said guiltily, "I'm It's just reunited with the child, so it's inevitable to pamper and get used to it, and it will be fine in the future."

"Oh!" Yan Ruxu looked up at Kang Congxin jokingly, and said, "I'm afraid that the child will taste the sweetness and cry every day from now on."

Kang Congxin: "..."

Yan Ruxu: "We have to make an agreement in three chapters. In the future, I will ask the child to do something. You are not allowed to intervene for the child."

Kang Congxin didn't speak, and couldn't quite understand Yan Ruxu's intentions.

Yan Ruxu explained to this stupid father who was just starting out: "There was an educator in the Soviet Union named Suhomlinsky. He said that the father's requirements for the child must be consistent with the mother's requirements for him. Mothers have different views on concepts such as "can", "can't", should, and should not. Even the most reasonable request is a violation of freedom and desire in the eyes of the child.

If you intercede for the child, it will make the child feel that the parents' positions are inconsistent. Children are naturally observant, and they will take advantage of the loopholes and use those who have power over them to shape ideas. For example, after eating today, the child's hands were stained with oil. I asked the child to wash his hands. If the child doesn't want to wash, you just follow him and say that anyway, he will play with toys later. It's okay to have oil on his hands. When I got stronger, I felt that it was right for me not to wash my hands. I had planned to do so, but now I will not do it at all.

Also, in the long run, it will reduce the image, status and prestige of parents in the minds of children. When they educate their children in the future, they will question them, stop listening, and may become confused. They don’t know who is right. . If the two of us disagree or even quarrel because of this, the child may have psychological problems, thinking that the quarrel is all because of his parents, and he will feel inferior and blame himself, and even create a shadow in his heart. "

The words made Kang Congxin's muscles tense up. He didn't expect that it would have so many bad effects!

Yan Ruxu patted him on the shoulder reassuringly, and said: "In the future, as long as we have the same stand, work together, and work together, we will definitely be able to educate Kangkang well."

Kang's new muscles relax, and this conversation shows how much Yan Ruxu has put in to raise Kangkang. He said: "Okay, I'll listen to you. If I don't do well, you can remind me at any time."

Seeing that Kang Congxin was so educated, Yan Ruxu was very happy, and felt even more relieved in her heart, as expected of a person who is always in my heart in my dreams, and has never let me down.

Early in the morning, Kangkang woke up on the big bed, and was sandwiched between his parents, one left and one right. Both of them were still asleep, and both faced him, as if looking at him in his sleep. Kangkang was so happy that he leaned up and kissed his parents respectively, then lay down and covered his mouth with a pillow towel and laughed "giggling".

Kang woke up right away, picked up the watch beside his pillow, checked the time, then gave Kang Kang a soft "shush", picked him up, and went to the opposite living room.

Kangkang understood, quickly covered his little mouth, and was hugged by his father obediently.

"Why did you wake up so early? Did you stop sleeping?" Kang Congxin slept very late yesterday, Yan Ruxu was so tired that he fell asleep, he wiped Yan Ruxu's body, changed the sheets, and then brought Kangkang back .

"Dad, I wake up so early every day, and I still have to wake my mother up." Kangkang said, wearing a vest and shorts, hugging his father's neck, shaking his calf. The child has strong firepower, and the autumn morning is quite cool. He doesn't feel cold, and Kang Congxin, who is also wearing a vest and shorts, doesn't feel cold either.

"It's still early. Mom works so hard every day. Let her sleep a little longer. Dad will make breakfast for you."

"Okay, Dad, I want some noodles."

Okay, no need to guess that you also eat noodles, I heard that you eat them almost every morning. Not to mention how good the taste is, as long as it can be cooked well. I heard that there is a specialty noodle from my colleague’s hometown, which is thin and firm, easy to cook and delicious. Kang Congxin has already made an order, and his relatives in his hometown will drop by to bring it over.

Kang re-ignited the fire and cooked the noodles in a soy pot with oil, and made three bowls of noodles with poached eggs. Under Kang Kang's guidance, he went to the pickle jar to pickle a few small pickles. Now that the weather is getting colder, I don’t eat under the tree anymore. I turn back to the dining room. Kang Congxin first hugs Kangkang to the chair, prepares his exclusive tableware, and tells him to eat first, and then goes to the house to call Wake up like this.

Yan Ruxu has already woken up. As a mother, there is a root in her mind that is always concerned about her child. When the child wakes up, she wakes up, but when she hears that Kang Cong woke up again, thinking that the child is taken care of by her father, she relaxes and falls asleep again. , but the biological clock was formed in the end, and she woke up after sleeping for a while.

In the main room, listening to the laughter of the father and husband from the kitchen, she could do her own thing with peace of mind. After washing her face and brushing her teeth, she combed her fluffy princess hair carefully, and found a tailor-made beige small lapel suit, which was matched with a moon-white silk shirt. Finally, she chose a pair of black oval-headed flats in the shoe cabinet. With calfskin shoes.

Looking left and right in the mirror, the face is beautiful, the face is radiant, the figure is slim, and she is a beauty! Yan Ruxu is very satisfied with herself. After thinking about it, she found a bunch of keys from a drawer on the upper level of the dressing table, opened the small cabinet below, and took out a rosewood jewelry box twenty to thirty centimeters high. This is the "buyout fee" given to her by her mother, and it contains several precious jewelry.

Yan Ruxu rummaged through it, and found a pair of the most low-key pearl earrings. The round pearls are about seven or eight mm bright like a mirror, and can clearly reflect the silhouette of a person. They are inlaid on thick lotus gold brackets , worn on both ears, complemented Bai Shengsheng's face with a faint radiance. I felt something was missing, so I searched in the jewelry box and found a ruby ​​brooch of good quality to wear.

Then, she took out a tube of lipstick with a huge LOGO and French characters printed on it from the drawer of the dressing table, unpacked the outer packaging, twisted it to check the color, it was a beautiful red, and put it in her calfskin satchel . It was also secretly sent by Kang Congxin. It is rare that this straight man actually knows to give him lipstick, which should be used on such a big day as getting a marriage certificate.

Yan Ruxu dressed up and went out, imagining whether Kang Congxin would be amazed by him, and smiled unconsciously. Just when Kang Congxin opened the curtain and came in, he was about to ask Yan Ruxu to eat, and unexpectedly saw a graceful woman. The swaying beauty is glamorous, especially in this slim dress, which fully exposes her good figure.

Kang Congxin's throat was rolling unconsciously, his eyes were amazed, Yan Ruxu was very satisfied, he deliberately twisted his slender waist, and said, "Wouldn't it be shameful to go to get the certificate with you in this suit?"

"It looks good!" Not only is it not ashamed, but it is also eye-catching. Kang Congxin thought that he would have to change clothes soon.

The three of them ate Kang Cong's freshly cooked noodles, and Yan Ruxu was quite satisfied, thinking it was better than the noodles cooked by himself. In order for Kang to make persistent efforts, Yan Ruxu ate and praised, as if he really ate delicious food. Kangkang is also a super supporter, coaxing Kang Congxin to suspect that he really has an undiscovered talent for cooking.

After dinner, Kang Congxin changed into a Chinese tunic suit. It was made for him by Bai Fengmei when he first learned that he was going to work in the machinery group. He asked him to wear it on normal occasions. When he was packing his luggage yesterday, he saw this suit and put it on Yes, probably at that time subconsciously thought of wearing it when receiving the certificate.

Bring all the documents, and the two drove to Kangkang first.

"I will spend a lot of time in the car in the future, so I need to get a safety seat for Kangkang." Yan Ruxu said.

Kang Congxin has been abroad for so many years, so he naturally knows about safety seats. He thought for a while and said, "The craftsmanship of safety seats is not difficult. I will find someone to try."

Kangkang asked curiously, "Mom, what is a safety seat?"

Yan Ruxu: "Specially for children to sit and wait, you can fix the children on the seat so that they will not bump into each other."

Kangkang tilted his head and thought for a while, as if he had figured out what a safety seat was like, and nodded clearly, like a grown-up. Then he began to sing loudly, singing a few lines before jumping to another song, such as "I found a penny on the side of the road", "Throwing the Handkerchief", "The Painter". The childish voice of the baby, the voice is unstable, there are out of tune, and the words are forgotten, but it is like the sound of nature to Kang Congxin's ears, and he is playing the sign on the steering wheel following the child's singing, which is very comfortable.

Kang Cong's new car drove very slowly and steadily. He parked the car near the kindergarten and carried Kangkang out of the car. He wanted to carry Kangkang all the way to the kindergarten, but Kangkang insisted on getting off the ground, and then pulled him left and right. Holding the hands of my parents, I suddenly retracted my legs with a jump, and let my parents carry me away. It's a pity that this distance is too short, and I have not walked a few steps until I reach the entrance of the kindergarten.

The gate of the kindergarten was open, and Kangkang let go of his parents' hands and ran to Uncle Gao's doorman's hut, "Grandpa Gao, Grandpa Gao, I'm here. My parents sent me here today!"

Uncle Gao came out of the house, bowed his head cheerfully and greeted Kangkang.

Seeing that his parents were still behind, Kangkang hurried back to grab Kang Congxin's hand, and pulled him forward, puffing out his small chest, showing off like a treasure: "Grandpa Gao, this is my father!"

Kang Congxin greeted him with a smile: "Hello, Uncle Gao."

Uncle Gao looked up, he was a little surprised at first, but then he understood, "Vice President Kang, hello."

Kang Kang corrected him: "He's not called Vice President Kang, he's called Kang Congxin, and he's my father."

Yan Ruxu came over, touched his son's head, first explained the relationship between Xia Kang Congxin and Vice President Kang to him in a low voice, then raised his head and said to Uncle Gao: "Uncle Gao, this is my lover, he will come here often in the future Pick up Kangkang."

"Okay, okay, Editor-in-Chief Yan, congratulations!" Uncle Gao smiled and congratulated.

"Thank you, I'll send you candy later."

"okay!"

Yan Ruxu always said what he said, and sent him tapes, magazines and many other small things. Uncle Gao also helped her a lot. He thought he was still qualified to eat her wedding candy, so he didn't treat her politely.

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