The City Deceives The World

"How to do?"

Su Lie smiled lightly. "This position will be dusted in September and now you want to achieve something bigger, but now it's too late and that's why you're upset.

So why improve yourself?

Why not attack your opponent and let him give up? "

"Fight your opponent?"

Zhang Huimin glanced at Zhang Qingrou, somewhat confused.

Zhang Qingrou already seemed to understand.

"Based on what he said in your company's chat group, that man should be around thirty-four or thirty-five years old. Unless there are special circumstances at this age, he should be married. If he has a child, he should be between seven and eight years old."

Only then did the two realize that Su Lie had figured out so much from the chat in Zhang Huimin's group.

It's incredible.

But it's not over yet.

"In other words, this man has a pretty happy family. Judging from his chat, he is obviously very satisfied with the current situation. This may also be the reason for his ambition.

Men's motivation often comes from family, at least part of it, and the other part may be a sense of accomplishment.

But leaving the country means leaving his cherished family, which goes against his true intentions.

Perhaps he is also hesitating whether to compete for the position of head of North America. After all, once it is over, it is not something that can be returned in a short time.

You can start from this point and find ways to instill in him a family-oriented mentality and shift the balance toward family. After all, his life is not that bad now.

Or he can get close to his lover. It is still a half-decision whether his lover knows about this matter.

As long as his wife loves him, she doesn't want him to leave no matter what.

Then, your hope will be half successful.

As for the other half...

You can only pray that someone responsible doesn't fall from the sky. "

While Su Lie was talking eloquently, Zhang Huimin went from dumbfounded, to as if she had seen a ghost, to thoughtful.

Zhang Qingrou's eyes were so bright that they almost overflowed.

for a long time...

Zhang Huimin said like a mosquito. "Thanks!"

Su Lie smiled.

"You're welcome. In fact, your difficulty is not here."

Zhang Huimin asked habitually: "Where is that?"

Zhang Qingrou was a little surprised. Her cousin had always been very opinionated and had never thought so or wanted to ask others directly.

"Although you are extremely motivated, the problems of your competitors are also your problems."

"What's the problem? I'm not married!"

"It's because you're not married. Your parents must be very anxious and will oppose your idea of ​​studying abroad.

How to choose? Is it career or family?

This is their problem and yours.

After all, what your parents said makes sense. You are almost twenty-five years old this year, and you don’t know how many years you will stay abroad, maybe one year, maybe five years.

So find a domestic boyfriend or a foreign boyfriend?

There is a lot of work at the branch, are you sure you have time for a relationship? Even if you come back, maybe you are already thirty years old. "

"It's not easy for a thirty-year-old girl to find a boyfriend, and once you come back with a gold plate, your vision will definitely be higher when you become stronger, and it will be even harder.

And once you have a career, you will have less time to take care of your family, and you will no longer be willing to abandon your career, husband and children. "

Su Lie called the waiter, refilled a cup of coffee, glanced at the two women who stared at him closely, and continued:

"Not many men in China are willing to take care of their children at home while their wives work hard outside, right?"

Not only the two women, but also the young men and women sitting next to her were dumbfounded. Looking at Su Lie who was calm and talking, they simply didn't know how to describe their mood.

I Cao, I thought I had grown up, but it turned out that I was so far behind.

Some girls looked at the impetuous male partner next to them, and then looked at the calm and composed Su Lie, and suddenly felt like breaking up.

Damn it, I always feel so insecure.

"What should we do?"

Zhang Huimin couldn't help but said that she now felt that Su Lie had spoken from the bottom of her heart, no matter how pleasing Su Lie was to her.

"choose!"

Su Lie talked eloquently: "What choice? Choose to be a successful woman, or choose to live this life as a traditional woman with a husband and children."

Your parents naturally want you to live in peace, get married and have children, because this is how they came through. This is the so-called experience of people who have been through it.

Whether this experience is correct or not, everyone has their own opinions, and it has to do with values.

What matters is what you think.

No matter what choice you make, as long as the matter is settled and you communicate with your parents sincerely, they will naturally understand.

But I think you already have your own answer, right? "

He looked at Zhang Huimin with deep eyes.

Zhang Huimin's eyes gradually became firm.

"right!

I cannot accept it, nor am I willing to spend the rest of my life living with my husband and raising children. Now is a new era. Equality between men and women means not only equal obligations, but also the same right to pursue oneself.

I really chose to give up, and I may regret it for the rest of my life..."

Su Lie looked like a child who could be taught, but in his heart he knew that this was the result of his guidance.

That's right.

If Zhang Huimin had had the answer earlier, she wouldn't have hesitated until now. Her parents' worries were actually her worries as well. Which woman wouldn't be afraid that she wouldn't be able to get married.

Zhang Huimin's behavior is actually largely an escape.

I use work to escape from things like being violated a few years ago or earlier, and from being in contact with men.