The days of being a spiritual mentor in Meiman

A lonely and lonely figure walked back to the gate of the manor step by step in the night.

As the door slammed shut, Batman threw away his armor piece by piece, turned around and put on his red velvet striped pajamas.

Alfred was still so considerate and had already prepared hot tea and cookies on the coffee table. Batman threw himself into the soft sofa with a bang, lying on his side on the sofa, supporting his head with his hands, bored. Watching the midnight show on TV and popping cookies into your mouth.

Unconsciously, there was only the last cookie left. Batman stared at the TV screen and reached out to take it, but the next second he touched another hand, and he jumped up with a roar.

Batman turned his head and looked at the figure sitting on the sofa on the other side as if he had seen a ghost. The other person picked up the last cookie and threw it into his mouth. He took another sip of hot tea and showed a satisfied look.

Batman glared at him.

Schiller, who was leaning on the sofa without realizing it, watched the noisy midnight family theater on TV with great interest. He also had time to joke with Batman: "I bet the hero and heroine will be together in less than three episodes." Come on, the two of them are not the same person at all, and the person behind him, yes, the female colleague with the phone, will immediately take advantage of the situation, and looking at her, she must be trying to get in power through her child..."

Batman was originally angry that he broke into his home and ate his own cookies, but he was a little curious when he said it. He curled his lips and said: "No, it's impossible. The male and female protagonists are in a good relationship. I'm in this TV series." I watched it the day before yesterday, they are childhood sweethearts.”

Schiller snorted coldly and said, "Just watch if you don't believe me."

Each episode of this kind of family short drama is not long, only about 15 minutes. In fact, the first clues are revealed at 20 minutes. The heroine ran out because of a quarrel and met the second male lead on the roadside. This That's when Batman knew something was going to happen.

After barely watching two and a half episodes, the male and female protagonists are already at odds with each other. The female protagonist ran to find the second male protagonist, and the third person that Schiller pointed out before also successfully took over, and even secretly replaced the safety equipment.

Batman made a sound, took out the remote control and wanted to change the channel. He said, "You must have watched this show in advance, but I am not someone who is addicted to soap operas. I want to watch current affairs news."

Batman used the remote control to change the channel. The midnight current affairs radio station in the United States did not tell any serious news. Most of them were people who were not particularly popular among the two parties sitting there and chatting. Then there were some questions and answers about people's livelihood and the kind of live broadcasts. A funny third-rate celebrity interview show.

Batman changed the stage for a long time, and finally found a familiar face. He seemed to be a congressman he had met at a cocktail party. Although he was not a famous person, it should be a bit important to attend a cocktail party with him.

The content of his chat with the host was also very general. He probably analyzed the world situation and solicited votes for his party. Then he mentioned his daughter's marriage and mentioned that both of them are very devout Protestants, and then said Some trivial things like wedding preparations.

These things seem meaningless, and it would be inappropriate to talk about them in front of the public, but American political news is always like this. It seems to say a lot of meaningless nonsense, but every sentence is to show the position of one's own party.

This congressman is obviously a conservative, and the wedding details he emphasizes are all the most traditional and classic, which can resonate with some older people. This is their usual method.

Unexpectedly, Schiller shook his head, sighed and said: "It seems that his daughter's marriage will not get better."

Batman's attention was drawn again. He really didn't want to see this uninvited guest, but every time the other party said something that seemed like fantasy in a very determined tone.

"Please, isn't this just a frustrated old politician playing his old tricks? How can you tell that the marriage won't work out?"

"Did you notice a detail?" Schiller also leaned on the single sofa, supporting his head with his hands and said: "His daughter asked for a blue and white balloon arch, but he refused because it was too similar to The color of the carpet doesn’t match, and the balloons can cause accidents, causing guests to be startled.”

"Yeah, what's wrong?" Batman had a "I want to see what kind of spiel you can come up with" attitude.

"According to my speculation, this is not what his daughter wants, but what his son-in-law wants. And the subsequent choice of tie style makes it even more obvious."

"According to what he said, the current son-in-law is his daughter's first love, and the two never lived together before marriage. So where did his daughter learn about so many styles of men's bow ties and pick one out of them? How about plausibly analyzing the style of each model with your father?”

"Are you saying that this son-in-law has been using his daughter's excuses to sway her father's decision?"

"What I mean is that this gentleman's daughter has been completely won over by his son-in-law. Her elbows are completely turned outward. She is not as traditional and conservative as he said at all. She should have deviated from the norm in private."

"How can you tell this?"

"This kind of problem always occurs in such a family. It is not difficult to see that her father is depressed in his official career and is eager to find some advantages for himself. As a conservative, he naturally has to behave traditional and conservative , If he can’t do it himself, then he can make his daughter the perfect traditional wife in his mind.”

"How do you know he can't do it himself?"

"Not only do I know that he can't do it, I also know that he can't control his lower body. I'm afraid this guy has cheated on me a long time ago."

"Although I'm not surprised, how on earth did you figure it out?"

"Remember the two audience perspectives we just cut?"

"You mean the smiley faces they cut when they made that joke about God?"

"Yes, his lover should be on the seat. If you don't believe it, just wait and see when you cut to the next. The third person in the second row, the woman with brown-red curly hair, her smile is obviously different from the others. Same."

Batman stared at the screen doubtfully. After a while, they told another cold joke that was not funny, so the camera cut to the audience again. This time, Batman mainly stared at the woman pointed out by Schiller, and then he realized that there seemed to be someone else. It's really different.

The reactions of other people were, at best, professional smiles, and at worst, perfunctory. As expected, most of the audience below should have paid to come, but this brown-red-haired lady smiled There is a kind of pride in it.

This kind of pride is very strange. It is not the proud pride shown when seeing an acquaintance perform well, but more like possessing someone and letting the other person announce her importance to the public. A kind of complacency and complacency.

This emotion is so obvious that even ordinary people can get a glimpse of it, let alone Batman.

"If he leads by example, maybe I won't be able to infer that his daughter is deviant so easily, but if he can do such a thing, you should know what kind of person he is."

Schiller sighed softly and said: "For children, the most terrifying thing is not the harshness of parents. If parents can implement a consistent path, even if they are wrong, they will not teach a divided person. "

"The most terrifying thing is that orders are changed day by day, and the logic is contradictory. One moment you want to do this, and the next moment you want that. Treating children is one set of logic, and treating yourself and others is another set of logic. Children who grow up in such a family , the spirit will be torn apart, and eventually fall into the vortex of endless self-pulling, indulging in it and becoming incompatible with this world.”

"It is difficult for children with such a personality to handle intimate relationships well. Worrying about gains and losses may be the best word to describe them, but I prefer to call them 'sliding doors driven crazy'."

"People were alienated from him, and he felt that people were alienated from him because of other people. He felt that he should be higher than other people he interacted with, so he desperately tied the other person to him."

"People want to be close to him. He wants to know whether they are the closest to him and requires them to prove themselves without a bottom line. If the other person cannot satisfy him, then he will push the other person away."

"In intimate relationships, they cycle this process endlessly until they drive all normal people who are not sliding doors crazy."

"Wait a minute." Batman seemed to realize something suddenly. He narrowed his eyes and looked at Schiller and said, "Are you talking about the congressman's daughter?"

"Of course." Schiller nodded pretending to be innocent and said, "What else? I'm not trying to use an example to illustrate others, right?"

Batman choked. He always felt that something was wrong, but if he pointed out something was wrong, it would seem that he was too serious.

After all, the atmosphere is still chatting, and whoever gets down to business first will appear to be guilty. Schiller said he was just talking about a TV show. If Batman were to argue with him about this, wouldn't it appear that he is using these symptoms to apply to himself? ?

"Of course, this kind of crux that only manifests in intimate relationships often leads to many bad consequences, such as the untimely loneliness, the subsequent self-doubt, the depression and sadness after the wavering, and finally Nihilistic self-denial..."

Schiller spoke again, and a lot of analysis slipped out of his mouth smoothly, as if he had prepared a large manuscript.

"Because they cannot handle intimate relationships correctly, they often feel lonely. Even if they are surrounded by flowers, the endless doubts still prevent them from receiving the emotional signals sent by others well, so they always feel out of place. No one can understand it at all, it’s lonely and lonely.”

"The more noisy other people are, the more abnormal they will be. So just avoid participating in any lively situations. It's best to be alone so as not to look pitiful. Then it will be harder to open your heart and become more and more miserable." Alone and lonely."

"His behavior of isolating himself from the world and pushing others out is also hurtful to others. People's hearts are made of flesh. Everyone likes to compare their feelings with each other. You come and go, rather than giving blindly. , and then get hurt.”

"Thus, all the flowers that were once in bloom have failed, and the excitement has disappeared. There is really only one person left in the empty world, so the imaginary loneliness has turned into real loneliness, and the loneliness of self-construction The scene also became really lonely.”

"Although we can't say that such people have their own faults, if they can realize that the problem lies with themselves, then the situation can be greatly improved, and it is never too late. After all, there will be another spring after one, and there will always be flowers blooming."

Batman sat up from his chair, and he suddenly stretched his neck and shouted: "Alfred! Go and get my bottle of good wine!"

"Which bottle, sir?" Alfred appeared at the right time.

"The best one!"