The Good Mother System

Yang Xiao, now in his forties, is a successful person recognized by his friends. From head to toe, is there no place that friends feel unsatisfactory?

At the age of 40, she is already the vice president of Tomorrow Finance. She is currently in charge of all matters of the company’s headquarters in Shanghai. In her career, she is vigorous and smooth, and she has become the vice president from staff all the way. She has nothing to do with her. , Can be said to be one of the representatives of successful business women.

At the same time, she is different from many colleagues in the financial industry who have been promoted and made a fortune in exchange for "wife". Although the two husband and wife are in the same financial industry, their positions and temptations are countless, but the ups and downs along the way, there is no rumors. It is said that the marriage between the couple in the past ten years has been without any waves, and many gossips secretly say that they are the most boring couple. Who can say that they can only live in love?

In terms of family education, she gave birth to a pair of smart and lovely twins. Now she has not graduated from elementary school, and she is already the legendary "child of someone else's family." But as friends and partners, everyone who sees children praises their upbringing and intelligence.

Friends took turns to find Yang Xiao for the secrets of the husband, the strategy for teaching children, the secrets of promotion... But Yang Xiao always smiled mysteriously, not because she likes to hide private, just because she knows these things that everyone admires. Behind it, there is a top ten mother-in-law who cannot be copied.

Many of her friends have returned to the family due to the inability of the second child to work hard. Even her best girlfriend Liang Zhen has now devoted half of her energy to caring for the two children.

When she was about to put down part of her work, Liang Zhen just said that she would wait for her child to go to school and then start her career, but she didn't know that there is preschool education after the child was born, and the parents of preschool education have to follow every day. When the child goes to kindergarten, what kind of family committee will have to contact the teacher every day, every morning to pick up the children home, and from time to time to report the situation with the teacher; when it comes to elementary school, the school is changed to four o’clock every day. After the interest class, all foreign language musical instruments are basic, and there are advanced versions such as robots, which made Liang Zhen tired again... so busy and busy until now.

Last time when Yang Xiao and Liang Zhen met, Liang Zhen also said, "I don't know if she will be free when the child enters junior high school?" It seems very helpless. It is very different from the way he used to go forward. Of course it is also happy, but at the same time there is some suffering in this happiness.

Liang Zhen looked at her at that time with a complicated expression. She just said, A Xiao, I really envy you, I envy you too much.

She didn't need to say much, Yang Xiao understood what she was referring to.

At the beginning, when she just decided to be with Qiu Zhengwei, she almost met opposition from all over the world. Not only her parents and best friend Liang Zhen, but even the teachers who had made good friends before, all saw her showing off in the circle of friends who showed her affection. After asking about Qiu Zhengwei's situation, he quietly expressed his opposition.

In the eyes of everyone, Qiu Zhengwei and her, the difference between the clouds and the mud, was a total mistake of being put together.

Yang Xiao understands that they are all for their own good. The young self just faced a sincere relationship. She was too courageous and made the decision to enter marriage without considering any consequences. At that time, she would not think that there is useful love in the world. What's the hard way?

In fact, in these years, I have occasionally encountered some troubles in marriage, but because my mother-in-law has been around to help, all the problems are no longer a problem.

After she married Zhengwei at that time, her mother packed her luggage and hurried back to Changhe Village to help with ancestor worship. Zhengwei didn’t want her to go back. Even her parents helped her mother-in-law, hope Mother-in-law stayed more.

But the mother-in-law is very firm. She said that the young couple's life is on her own. She has a good life in the country. If she is in need, she will come to the city to help. If nothing happens, don’t disturb her. She has to live her own life. Good day.

Zhengwei didn't hold back his temper. After all, his mother-in-law is not young anymore. If there is a problem in the village, no one can take care of them. They are all in S City. This is simply beyond reach, but the mother-in-law just gave him a vicious look. , The tone is fierce.

"In this life, I will raise you until you have someone to raise for twenty-eight years! Now I want to live my own life by myself! Am I not able to move my arms or my legs? Do I have to sit in a wheelchair every day? You are only happy when you push and feed you. How can you curse yourself like this all day long!"

"If you are filial, you should let me go back to enjoy the blessing! All day long thinking about mother's illness, you must know that your mother is as strong as a cow!"

Then in Zhengwei's speechlessness, the mother-in-law put up her bag and ran away, her hands and feet swiftly, without looking back.

Back in the village, I used the cell phone that was often stuck at the time to video with them every two days. Even if the signal was not good, I had to use a set of Tai Chi, Wu Qin Xi, etc. in front of Zheng Wei to prove his body. Strong and strong, Zheng Wei also reluctant to give up at the beginning to helpless later, yelling at the other end.

"Mom, well, I know you are healthy, you don't have to jump so high, right? How old are you, you still jump! Everyday young people are careful to flash the waist!"

Then hung up the phone at the fastest speed before the mother-in-law was angry, and smiled at her, because after that, we have to coax the mother-in-law well, but it depends on Yang Xiao. The two mothers and sons are almost a little awkward when they meet. , Like a cross talk performance artist.

The first time I saw Father Yang and Mother Yang, they were still worried. They thought what happened to the mother and child. Later, they were able to smile and watch this pair of live treasures stage a small theater every day.

Before long, Yang Xiao became pregnant. That was the first difficulty in their marriage.

First, Yang Xiao’s career in the company was flourishing at that time, and she was still fighting on the front line every day during pregnancy, but the sudden pregnancy reaction caught her off guard and forced her to start a long sick leave before maternity leave, like this High-intensity, fast-running company, the world can't be changed without anyone else. This suddenly announced the cause of her struggle for many years in Waterloo, and can only wait for the end of maternity leave to try to recover with more efforts, but there is still time ? Yang Xiao didn't know either.

Second, even her parents dare not ask more questions. Although it is possible to have a second child, it is still different in the eyes of many people. What if Zhengwei and her mother-in-law are also concerned about the gender of the child What? But she still didn't dare to ask Zhengwei directly, she didn't want to hear the answer, she just hid her ears, deceived herself, and didn't know anything without asking.

She might have been a little depressed at that time, coupled with the pregnancy reaction, she lost weight very quickly, and she gave birth to ten catties in a short time.

But these are nowhere to fall to anyone, even if you talk to your father and mother, they might think she takes her career too seriously, right? As for patriarchy... At that time, Yang Xiao, who was pessimistic, even felt that his parents wanted a grandson rather than a granddaughter.

Qiu Zhengwei couldn't ask the answer no matter how she asked, so her mother-in-law rushed over from home on the day she knew what happened. It happened that Zhengfang found a job in S City and rented a small apartment. The mother-in-law lived with Zhengfang. Come to take care of her every day, cook for her in a different way, and observe her daily reaction. If she doesn't like the food that day, she will immediately remove it if she doesn't like the food. As for whom to give the food to, isn't there still Zhengwei?

As a result, before she gained weight, Zhengwei became fat like blowing a balloon. Her former colleague thought that Zhengwei had abused her, and could not help sending a message to comfort her and tell her to face it bravely.

God knows that during that time, watching Zhengwei sneak to the door to exercise to lose weight after eating dinner every night was her biggest entertainment in her unhappy days.

While her mother-in-law was taking care of her in front of her, she was talking about Zhengfang every day. At that time, Zhengfang had just worked and lost a lot of weight. Her mother-in-law was very worried and anxious all day long.

The mother-in-law's love for Zhengfang also made her slowly start to think, maybe this child will be loved and cared by adults if it is a male or a female? Thinking this way, my mood finally relaxed little by little.

She was just getting better. She secretly started to do some work at home. It was the little tail she left before she suddenly asked for leave. Even if she may not be able to go back to work in the future, she is not willing to drag her colleagues. Of course, these are all hers. I estimated that I did it within the body’s tolerance, but I was caught by my mother within two days of doing it. My mother was not merciful at all, and almost scolded her to the point that she didn’t take the child seriously. Take your body seriously.

Of course she knows that her mother is right, after all, what is more important than a child? But she did measure her time carefully every day, and only did a little light work when she was comfortable, but how to explain it became sophistry.

The mother-in-law saw her mother say that she asked her about the situation but took her out to talk for a long time. Finally, the mother-in-law and mother finally reached an agreement outside the door.

Every day, Yang Xiao can do some work under the supervision of his family within the specified time frame, and take a rest outside of time.

At that time, she was no longer lying aimlessly every day, and as she worked little by little, her heart slowly filled.

When she was getting better, she secretly asked her mother-in-law about giving birth to boys and girls. The mother-in-law did not hesitate at all, and immediately showed an unbelievable expression on her face, as if she wanted to criticize her traditional ideas. Generally, in the end, I talked to her well.

"Of course it’s different for boys and girls. Daughters are more important in our family! If Awei had not been born, I would like to push him back to the furnace to rebuild! You see Afang is considerate, and he would say something coquettish every day. , Which looks like Awei, tusk."

"It's not that I said my son. Although he has many advantages, you see that he works hard, earns money, and suffers hardships. He doesn't shirk what he does. But, after all, he is still an inconsiderate bastard. I always say that I have either a flashing waist or a broken leg. Will I be able to speak!"

Her disgusting appearance is totally natural, and there is no concealment at all, especially compared to the understanding and considerate sister-in-law. Now even Yang Xiao agrees with Shan Jingqiu's words, thinking that she might have a daughter. better!

After relieving the mood, as the months got older, the fetus gradually stabilized. In the later stage, I finally didn’t have to worry about mother-in-law and mother-in-law. At full term, I finally brought out a pair of children and girls, and the nurse said it was a pair. When the dragon and the phoenix were born, Yang Xiao couldn't laugh or cry. For so many days, it was really a vain worry, the same, everything.

Yang Xiao was in childbirth. When she was pushed out of the delivery room, she saw Zhengwei, mother-in-law, and parents all standing at the door anxiously waiting for her. Fang was asked to go up and take care of the child with the nurse.

After the baby was born, everyone was still paying attention to her, for fear that she would feel a little uncomfortable. Every time she thought about turning over or something, she nervously wanted to trouble the doctors and nurses. It was not like those TV shows said that she had a baby. Mom, even when it’s confinement, it takes care of both ends and no one is left behind.

The mother-in-law did not go back to Changhe Village. While taking care of Afang, she came to visit them at home from time to time. She helped them who were just new parents a lot, but she never intervened in their parenting, but she felt that it was Correct the wrong place, according to the mother-in-law's statement.

"This is your child. You have to learn how to be a competent parent. Parenting is good or bad, and the price is the child bears. All of these must be done by yourself, and our elders can only If you really have to intervene in the side to assist, the advice given is not necessarily good."

The mother-in-law and mother-in-law watched their two novice parents "crawl and crawl" in this way. From a mess to a familiarity, they finally became a pair of parents who had just reached the passing line, and gradually became full of a sense of responsibility and mission for their children. .

When her maternity leave came to an end, she had tossed and turned, not knowing whether to talk to her husband, she knew that it was irresponsible to say that, but she really couldn’t abandon her career completely... After a few years, what I finally got back was myself as a housewife, and I was extremely afraid.

But she was so entangled that her husband hadn't noticed, and her mother-in-law had noticed it first.

The mother-in-law brought her and her husband together for a long conversation, and the mother-in-law told Zhengwei very sincerely.

Raising children and caring for the family has never been done by one person. Everyone has the right to pursue their dreams and the future. Of course, sacrifice for the family is something that everyone who enters the family has to do, but one cannot always make sacrifices. .

She said that Xiao’s career is also a career, and Zhengwei’s career is also a career. Taking care of children is also a "common" career of parents. No one should be abandoned. Only if everyone takes a step back will they not destroy anyone. The pursuit.

Zhengwei thought about it for a long time that day, and finally decided to jump out of the company and start a business. After a long talk with Fei, he became a consultant for another financial company. He only worked on Mondays and Fridays every week, and he worked as a freelance writer at home during the rest of the day to give some financial circles. The media provided professional analysis manuscripts, instead of working hard as before, leaving the family behind for the time being.

And Yang Xiao also chose not to work overtime all day long as before. When it was time to get off work, he would leave work on time, go home to accompany his children, and must participate in some extracurricular activities with his children every day off.

When they are a little busy on weekdays, their parents and mother-in-law will take turns to help take care of the children. On the one hand, the two couples are bound together, but on the other hand, they can move forward without scruple.

And all of this is based on her mother-in-law’s understanding. Yang Xiao sometimes wonders, if her mother-in-law helped them solve one problem after another, would she and Zhengwei have been separated from each other long ago, but of course, the idea It's just an idea. Fortunately, it's the moment that is happy.

Zhengfang is now another "Yang Xiao", with a good job, a good family, and good children. He lives in a community not far from their home, and the husband and wife go well.

The mother-in-law lives on the central axis of the two communities. It is a small house that Zhengfang and Zhengwei paid together for her mother-in-law. She has said firmly that she will not live in anyone's home, she will live in her own home. Even when my son and daughter come to the door, they will make fun of them, saying what they are going to do when they come to her house, have they brought gifts? It's impolite to hold someone else's house empty-handed.

In a few days it will be her mother-in-law’s 70th birthday. She has always been healthy. She can run around with her two children. She even took her two children to the park all day long to practice Tai Chi among a bunch of elderly people. She dares to practice Tai Chi from time to time. Riding a bicycle to pick up my mother to buy food, the two old women also form teams to go fishing together from time to time. They live more beautifully than anyone else. They are almost the most "punk" mother-in-law.

She has never been the standard answer for getting a good mother-in-law relationship. She just wants to follow every topic about how she feels when meeting a good mother-in-law, and show off her mother-in-law.

Yang Xiao only hopes that her mother-in-law can live a long life and be happy for such a long time.

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Shan Jingqiu closed her eyes again. In this life, she has become a punk mother-in-law, but she is always free when she grows up. Seeing whether it is a daughter or a son, while taking care of the family while being independent, she may have some shortcomings, but she is kind and kind. People with integrity and sense of responsibility, daughter-in-law and son-in-law also admire her. The only bad thing she does is to secretly pull her grandchildren and grandchildren to do something "rebellious" together. In the eyes of her grandchildren, She has a higher status than some celebrities. She is at the forefront of fashion trends. She loves sports and is healthy. She brings a happy childhood to children.

In this life, she has no regrets. Even if she leaves, Zhengfang and Zhengwei's families will be fine, and these grandchildren will be happy.

"Task 1: Be kind to your daughter-in-law, so that she can live with her son, has been completed. Task 2: Make sons and daughters happy, has been completed."

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Shan Jingqiu, who opened his eyes again, watched with such a gentle force, and bounced off the bed to the ceiling.

She looked at the way her hands could be pierced in the chandelier on the ceiling, and her heart was full.

Hey, 008, thank you so much! Thank you for the family system!