The Great Era of Rebirth: 1993

   Chapter 543, teaching methods, no struggle is a big struggle

   On this day, Du Shuangling was in a sad mood.

   The Great Wall incident, the confrontation between the two women in the cafe, and the change in Mi Jian's temperament.

   Especially Zhang Xuan's sentence that night, "I will take you to climb the Great Wall when I have time."

  Du Shuangling is not afraid of Lilith, Su Jinyu, or other suitors such as Wu Yao.

   But she knew that Mi Jian was the formidable enemy, Mi Jian was her death point, and Mi Jian was the hurdle she couldn't get around.

   And the most important thing is that her man likes Mi Jian very much, and he takes the initiative to pester Mi Jian, which makes her powerful and has nowhere to use it, so she is very hurt.

  From Shao City to Qianzhen, Du Shuangling leaned on the seat groggy and lost.

   Even when she got home, she was absent-minded, had a reluctant dinner, and forced a smile when greeting relatives, friends and neighbors.

   Always laughing in front of people, but as soon as the door of the room was closed, the 21-year-old woman was dazed no matter how strong she was, lying on the bed staring at the ceiling in a daze.

   All her changes were quietly watched by her sister Du Jingling.

  In the evening, Du Jingling first gave her grandfather an injection, and after the injection, she started to take a bath, and then changed into pajamas and knocked on the door:

   "Shuangling, open the door, my sister has something to do with you."

  Du Shuangling closed her eyes and said, "Sister, tell me what to do tomorrow, I'm sleepy, I'm sleeping."

  Du Jingling didn't believe it, so she used her trump card: "Either you open the door, or ask the door sister to find a spare key to open the door."

  Du Shuangling opened and closed his eyes, and pulled the quilt to cover his head.

   Seeing that there was no movement inside, Du Jingling outside the door raised her hand and knocked again.

   After the second time to no avail, Du Jingling stopped knocking and went directly to Ai Qing's room to find a spare key, then opened the door and walked in.

   The room was dark without lights.

  Du Jingling didn't even think about turning on the light. After closing the door with her backhand, she went to the bed in the dark.

   Forcibly pulled half of the quilt to cover herself, Du Jingling asked aloud, "Tell me, what's the matter?"

  Du Shuangling didn't listen and turned her back to her.

  Du Jingling hugged her sister from behind and asked, "Did Zhang Xuan bully you?"

  Du Shuangling muttered: "No, he won't bully me."

  Du Jingling asked solemnly, "So what's the matter? You look like this, and there is something wrong. You can't hide it from my sister. If it goes on like this, Mom will come to you."

  Du Shuangling turned a deaf ear.

  Du Jingling took out her mobile phone and threatened her: "If you don't tell me, I'll call Zhang Xuan."

   Du Shuangling has made a move this time, she reached out her hand and pressed down the phone, then rushed into Du Jingling and whispered, "Sister, I'm so tired, I don't know what to do?"

   Sister Du Jingling was not surprised at all, but asked along the way, "Is there a problem with Zhang Xuan's relationship?"

  The reason why Du Jingling asked this is justified.

   In her opinion, this little sister has had a smooth journey from birth to the present, without setbacks.

   Good popularity, good grades, beautiful people, born in a wealthy family, and a boyfriend who is so good that people are envious.

   Logically, the label of such a life is: happiness.

   But the sister suddenly said that she was tired, then only the relationship she valued and cared about the most had a problem.

  Du Shuangling rubbed her head in her arms, and said in a loud voice, "Yes, no."

  Du Jingling was confused, and after thinking for a long time, she couldn't come up with a hall, what is "yes, no"?

   After a few minutes, Du Jingling gave up thinking and said directly, "Tell me about it."

   Du Shuangling was silent for a long time before speaking: "Sister, Zhang Xuan has grown up too fast."

  Du Jingling was stunned: "That's it? Isn't it good to grow up fast?"

  Du Shuangling was a little dejected: "I can't keep up."

  Du Jingling asked with a smile: "What about your self-confidence? You say you can't keep up, my sister can understand, everyone can understand, Zhang Xuan is really good, so good that others can't keep up.

   But think about it from another angle, if you can’t keep up, how many people in the world can keep up?

  You are his girlfriend, you should work hard and enrich yourself, but you shouldn't say such things. "

  Du Shuangling said: "I understand everything you said, but"

   At this point, Du Shuangling suddenly choked up.

  Du Jingling was stunned for a moment, then she put her arms around her sister, and after a long while, she asked tentatively, "Is there still a secret?"

   "Yeah." Du Shuangling hummed, but she didn't know how to speak.

  Du Jingling comforted: "Tell my sister, she is not an outsider. If you have anything to say, let my sister help you for reference."

  Du Shuangling was really depressed, so he told the Great Wall incident and the conversation he heard in the restaurant.

  Du Jingling asked: "Are you sure Zhang Xuan likes Mi Jian very much?"

   "Well, sure."

"When did it start?"

   "The first year of high school."

   "Love at first sight to Mi?"

"almost."

  Du Jingling remembered something, "You couldn't sleep because of your worries before the high school entrance exam, because of Mi Jian?"

"Not at all."

"Not at all?"

  Du Shuangling said: "That time it was because Lilith confessed to Zhang Xuan."

  Du Jingling asked: "Lilith who came to your house last time?"

"right."

  Du Jingling was stunned: "The three of your girlfriends were not able to escape the clutches. Two fell in love with Zhang Xuan, and the other was taken in by Zhang Xuan?"

  Du Shuangling was reluctant, "Sister, how can you say that to him."

  Du Jingling smiled: "Look, I'm still helping him at this time."

  Du Shuangling pouted and said nothing.

  Du Jingling asked earnestly, "Apart from Mi Jian and Lilith, does Zhang Xuan have trouble with other girls?"

  Du Shuangling said: "There is a girl in college who likes him very much and has been pestering him."

  Du Jingling asked: "What is the girl's name? How are the conditions?"

  Du Shuangling said: "My name is Su Jinyu, I have a good personal condition, a very good figure, very talented, can host, and is the president of our school's student council."

   "What about your looks?"

   "Looks like? They all said they were similar to me."

   "That's still pretty." Du Jingling asked again, "What's Zhang Xuan's reaction to this Su, this Su Jinyu's pursuit?"

  Du Shuangling said: "It's okay, I'm more self-disciplined."

  Du Jingling breathed a sigh of relief and asked tightly, "Is there any other woman?"

  Du Shuangling was quiet, then said, "Wen Hui."

  Du Jingling frowned: "Your college buddy Wen Hui?"

  Du Shuangling said truthfully: "Yes."

  Du Jingling asked, "How are Wenhui's conditions?"

  Du Shuangling stopped talking again.

  Du Jingling was enlightened: "A good family background?"

   "Well, the family background is very good, better than the Lilith family."

   "Looking at you, don't you look good too?"

"all good."

   "How does it compare to you?"

  Du Shuangling said dullly: "Better than me, not much worse than Mi Jian. He can also play the piano, has won awards internationally, and can cook. Zhang Xuan likes to eat her cooking."

  Du Jingling thought for a while, then asked, "What is the relationship between Zhang Xuan and Wen Hui?"

  Du Shuangling said: "There should be no actual progress yet. But I know that Zhang Xuan has a good sense of Wen Hui, and he often peeks at her breasts."

  Du Jingling said: "It means that Zhang Xuan may like Wenhui a little bit, or like her breasts. But because of your existence, you have always been restrained. Is what sister said right?"

  Du Shuangling moved his body: "Yes."

  Du Jingling asked: "Wen Hui's reaction, does she know?"

  Du Shuangling said: "Wen Hui is a very smart person. He should have noticed his abnormality, but he kept it very rational."

  Du Jingling's analysis: "So what are you most worried about at the moment is Mi Jian?"

"Um."

   "What is Mi Jian's attitude towards Zhang Xuan?"

  Du Shuangling said: "Zhang Xuan personally admitted that he took Mijian to climb the Great Wall together, and the relationship between the two should have a breakthrough."

   Then she added: "I went to see Mi Jian today, although I didn't say anything about it.

   But according to her attitude towards me, I can judge that the two should be at a critical point. Mi Jian did not reject his pursuit, but he did not accept it so quickly. "

  Du Jingling asked: "You mean, Mi Jian may actually like Zhang Xuan, but he is still hesitating? Is this hesitation because of you?"

  Du Shuangling said quietly: "Yes, if it wasn't for me, they should have been together long ago, after the college entrance examination."

  Du Jingling looked down at her and asked, "So you've been worried, worried about Mi Jian, and worried that you will follow in the footsteps of the woman in blue in the coffee shop?"

  Du Shuangling did not speak.

  Du Jingling sighed: "As expected, this day has come."

   Hearing this, Du Shuangling looked up at her sister with tears in her eyes, puzzled.

   Only then did Du Jingling realize that her sister was crying silently.

   Distressed to death, Du Jingling lovingly wiped her tears with her hand and explained, "As Zhang Xuan becomes more successful day by day, your brother-in-law and I have been worrying about this day.

   Rich men in reality, like a bonfire in the dark night, will automatically attract many excellent girls to the fire.

   Now Zhang Xuan is not only rich, but also rich beyond everyone's imagination.

   Coupled with his overflowing talent, your brother-in-law and I know that sooner or later you will face this day. Without Mi Jian, there will be Li Jian, Qian Jian, and Zhao Jian.

   It's not that my sister said something against you, but I have seen too many examples of this with my own eyes.

   Zhang Xuan is very good, and he is still restrained. However, with his age, appearance, wealth and talent, wherever he goes, he will automatically attract the attention of the opposite sex, and will continuously attract the attention of different women.

   Think about it, there are so many women in the world, maybe 99% of them can reject them for you.

   But there will always be one or two that he cannot refuse, and there will always be one or two who will call him.

   It's like what you said about Mi, and my sister has seen it too.

   Do you remember before the college entrance examination, my sister joked with you at that time: If Mi Jian is fighting with you, she will let you give up.

  If my sister is a man, she has enough capital to get Mi Jian, and Mi Jian also has feelings for me, then she can't resist this temptation. "

  Du Shuangling's head rubbed her tears in her sister's arms, "Sister, you are growing her ambition and destroying your own prestige."

  Du Jingling said: "I can understand your pain, but my sister asks you, is Zhang Xuan good to you, do you like you?"

  Du Shuangling stopped moving: "He is very good to me, and he has always spoiled me."

  Du Jingling nodded gratified: "That sister is right.

   Whether it's me, your brother-in-law, your parents, or even Aunt Xiuqin, everyone can tell that Zhang Xuan cares about you.

   This is also the reason why parents are worried but never ask questions. It is also the reason why Aunt Xiuqin treats you as her own. They are sure that the two of you will get married and have children. "

   said, Du Jingling asked very cautiously: "The problem is in front of you now, you have two choices, do you want to leave Zhang Xuan? Or do you want to stay by his side?"

  Du Shuangling's eyes flashed, and she said tenderly, "I don't want to leave him, I can't leave him, I want to follow him for the rest of my life."

   Hearing the words, Du Jingling's tense strings suddenly loosened, and she said with a wry smile, "You, you, you liked him in junior high school, and even managed to steal him from Xiao Shaowan."

  Du Shuangling quit: "I don't have it, I don't have it."

  Du Jingling said: "Yes, you didn't rob him directly, but you were so close to him that you brought all the good things from the family to his mouth, so you were about to give money directly.

  Xiao Shaowan was impatient again. At that time, she had no emotional experience, so how could she not quarrel? It's weird not to break up once and for all. "

   Before waiting for her sister to speak, Du Jingling said earnestly: "Shuangling, in fact, you are blaming your good fortune, and you are also blaming your bad fortune, and you have taken a fancy to such a high-quality stock.

   But then again, if you chose an ordinary Zhang Xuan, are you sure he doesn't love Mi Jian in his heart?

   Wouldn't it be confusing with Mi Jian?

   For another example, if you leave Zhang Xuan now, can you still fall in love with someone else? Can you see other men?

   Sister is also a woman, and she is also a visitor. After a woman has tasted refined grain and fine rice, how can she still eat bran and pharynx.

   Furthermore, no one can guarantee that Shunyancai will be devoted to you and will only love you one in a lifetime.

   In reality, there are too many derailments of the poor, and to a certain extent, the probability is higher. "

  Du Shuangling twisted her body: "Are you my sister or his sister? Why do you keep talking to him?"

  Du Jingling reached out and patted her sister's back lightly: "Sister didn't speak for him, she just analyzed objective facts so that you can understand your own heart.

   Let’s talk about bran and swallow vegetables. Look at our village, how many illegitimate children are there?

   Quite a lot. There are only 2 in our production team. These are still illegitimate children of that era. In the future world, there will only be more.

   So, to a certain extent, the worse the conditions, the easier it is to derail. Because derailment is simple, there is no derailment cost, and there are no conditions and no capital to be picky.

   On the contrary, he has reached the realm of Zhang Xuan, and there are so many women around him that he can choose. But with high standards, high requirements, and many worries, he has long passed the stage of vulgar physical temptation, and he may not necessarily see a few. "

  Du Shuangling raised her head and asked, "If Mi Jian suddenly figured out and accepted him, and if Mi Jian was like the woman in the coffee shop and got pregnant before me, what should I do?"

  Du Jingling understood: "Are you afraid that after Mi Jian was pregnant, Zhang Xuan moved his sympathy and turned to marry her?"

   At this moment, Du Shuangling no longer concealed: "I have long known that he likes Mi Jian very much, and that Mi Jian is no less important in his heart than mine.

   It is precisely for this reason that I gave my best before the college entrance examination and confessed to him.

  I didn't have this concern before, but the incident in the cafe touched me. I was afraid that Mi Jian would get pregnant before me, and then Zhang Xuan turned back and married her. "

  Du Jingling teased, "Look, my sister is not a good stubble, she is so good in junior high school and high school."

  Du Shuangling couldn't help pinching her sister's waist, "I'm talking to you about business."

  Du Jingling saw that her mood was relieved, and her mood also improved a lot.

   "That sister also told you the business."

  Du Jingling said: "You are now Zhang Xuan's real girlfriend, a position that many women covet.

   Your vision is precise, you picked him when he was poor, and he grew up from nothing along the way. This is the most precious asset between you and an advantage that other women do not have.

   And your own conditions are enough to attract men, as long as you don't make trouble, you are already invincible. "

  Du Jingling analyzed: "Zhang Xuan is young, it is human nature to be unable to resist temptation when encountering a woman like Mi Jian.

   At this time, you must not go out and make trouble like the women in the village. Crying, making trouble, and hanging yourself will only kill his love for you and his enthusiasm for you.

   What kind of person is Zhang Xuan? You know better than your sister, you are capable and talented, but you are far more mature than your peers.

   What is even more rare is that he is a more traditional person and a very filial person.

   He plays occasionally, if you don't want to leave him, don't see him. As long as you have a good relationship with Aunt Xiuqin and make Aunt Xiuqin always favor you, even if Mi Jian gets pregnant first, Zhang Xuan will not abandon you.

   This is still the worst case that my sister said. "

  Du Shuangling asked: "What about the good situation? What is it?"

  Du Jingling reached out and touched her sister's face: "You are a fan of the authorities, and you are blinded by today's events.

   In fact, sister can see that your relationship is very compatible, more in line with my relationship with your brother-in-law.

   Therefore, your brother-in-law and I judge that there is basically no possibility that others will bring their children to the top. "

  Du Shuangling looked at her in surprise: "Sister, how do you understand so much?"

  Du Jingling said: "Do you know how my elder sister got together with your brother-in-law?

  Sister, let me tell you.

Although sister    has looks and education, she is a rural person after all. What did rural people mean relative to urban people in the 1980s, and do you know how big the gap was?

   Those who haven't experienced it can't understand the sense of difference brought about by that gap.

   And your brother-in-law's father was the vice principal of the school, and your mother was the chief physician of Xiangya Hospital. At that time, there were quite a few well-qualified urban women who were pestering your brother-in-law, but I only used one trick to disintegrate them. "

  Du Shuangling asked: "What trick?"

  Du Jingling said: "I turn a blind eye to your brother-in-law eating with others and watching movies, as always, treat him well, don't fight or rob, and do what you should do with peace of mind.

   In a bad mood, she worked hard to write papers and publish and study medical skills in the hospital. As a result, her mother liked me very much, and he married me when he turned back. "

   After finishing speaking, Du Jingling looked into her sister's eyes and said, "I call it a big fight.

  Especially when you are in an absolutely dominant position now, don’t end up fighting with them, that is to give your opponent a chance, you just need to do what you should do, and the rest is up to your fate.

   This life, as long as Zhang Xuan has a conscience, will not be too bad.

   On the contrary, if Zhang Xuan has no conscience, then this life is not worth it.

  You can't please you, and even if other women are in the position for a short time, they will definitely not be able to please them in the end. After all, what is a woman's greatest asset?

   is appearance.

   But a woman's appearance cannot be preserved forever, and one day it will be replaced by a younger one. If Zhang Xuan is half-hearted, he is destined to have a miserable old age. "

  Du Shuangling was sluggish for a moment, then hugged her sister's waist and said, "I understand."

   "Really understand?"

   "Tomorrow, after breakfast, I will go to the village to visit Aunt Xiuqin."

   "It's not Aunt Xiuqin, it's Mom."

   "Sister, you are making fun of me again."

   "I'll drive you there tomorrow."

"it is good."

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