The Growth System Comes at the Age of Thirty

Chapter 70 Rejecting repressive education

Chen Jingle came back from a run and had breakfast. At the request of the system, he first did some personal image management.

At this time, Chen Qiyun suddenly appeared.

"Chen...uh Brother Le!"

"What are you doing? If you fart, hurry up!" Chen Jingle raised his eyebrows.

"Let's talk about the first thing first." Chen Qiyun said proudly: "I grew 1 centimeter taller!"

"oh?"

Chen Jingle was surprised: "Really or not? How many days has it been?"

Chen Qiyun put her hands on her hips and said unhappily: "Humph, I have been eating two bottles of milk a day recently and eating three full meals. Isn't it normal to grow taller? If you don't believe me, use a ruler to measure it!"

"Measure it. Let's agree first that you are not allowed to wear shoes and tiptoe." Chen Jingle tapped her with his finger.

"Of course!" Chen Qiyun was fearless.

Chen Jingle took out the measuring tape from the room and asked Chen Qiyun to stand against the wall.

"Yeah, it's really 153."

"I've been talking for a long time, but you don't believe me, huh!"

Chen Qiyun crossed her arms and turned her head in anger. The consequences would be serious.

Chen Jingle put away the ruler and laughed: "Okay, okay, I was wrong. I apologize. I'm sorry."

Don't underestimate this 1 centimeter. For Chen Qiyun, who didn't like to eat or exercise before, as long as she can continue to grow, it means there is a chance to grow to 1.6 meters.

It's still better than 155 or even less than 155!

"So where is the mysterious gift you mentioned before?"

Chen Qiyun wanted to glance sideways at Chen Jingle, but she was too short, so she could only raise her head diagonally, which was a bit funny.

Chen Jingle didn't take it seriously: "Why are you so anxious? You are indispensable."

"As long as you don't forget it!"

Chen Qiyun has been mentally prepared. If the so-called mysterious gift does not satisfy her, she will...

Refuse to accept it!

"Then the second one, I'm doing my homework with you today."

"Can't you do your homework at home? What are you doing here?"

Chen Jingle frowned.

Chen Qiyun said confidently: "Didn't Teacher Li ask you to help me with my homework?"

Chen Jingle rolled his eyes and was about to retort, but stopped abruptly.

Well, he didn't refute it at the time, so it was considered acquiescence.

Chen Xiuyun is married, and now he is the only one in the family who can tutor Chen Qiyun in her studies.

If you don't want to see Chen Qiyun useless, it's best to get some counseling.

So Chen Jingle thought for a while and said, "Okay, you do it first, and I will tell you when there is time for someone who doesn't know how to do it."

Chen Qiyun was surprised. She didn't expect him to agree so readily. She pondered for two seconds and raised her chin: "Okay."

Chen Jingle asked in his mind: "System, does tutoring children's homework count as part of the practical course?"

[If necessary, it can be classified into education category. 】

"Need! So necessary!"

Chen Jingle secretly breathed a sigh of relief.

On the one hand, learning systematic courses, and on the other hand, I am afraid that if Chen Qiyun doesn't know it and can't teach it herself, it will be a shame.

…

Chen Jingle arranged for Chen Qiyun to get an old desk on the first floor, while he was busy attending systematic knowledge study classes.

Don't let your tasks fall behind.

Today I continue to study history. I will finish reading it soon. After reading it, I can enter the next stage.

After he finished his work, he looked at Chen Qiyun in the room. Seeing that she was immersed in writing the question seriously, he nodded secretly.

"How many have you done?"

Chen Jingle walked over. Chen Qiyun took a deep breath and exhaled loudly: "I have finished the Chinese part, and there is still half of the English part."

Chen Jingle stretched out his hand: "I'll look at the Chinese part first, and you can continue with the English part."

"oh."

Chen Qiyun quickly handed him the Chinese paper.

Chen Jinngle took the paper and looked at it, and immediately frowned.

Although I was mentally prepared, I still wanted to sigh when I saw so many vacancies. The foundation seemed a bit poor.

I wanted to reprimand him, but I held back.

Suppressive education cannot solve the problem. On the contrary, it can easily cause children to have psychological shadows and form an inferiority complex, which will affect their lives.

Chen Jingle understands this deeply.

Although his parents had a good temper, they had been scolded a lot since he was living with his grandparents. His childhood life was not a happy one.

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In my impression, every time Chen Qiyun was scolded angrily by her second uncle and second aunt, she would remain silent and grit her teeth. Even if the little pearl kept falling, she would hold back whatever she had to say and would not tell her family.

Over time, the personality will become more and more withdrawn.

Chen Jingle definitely doesn’t want her to continue on the wrong path. Correct and effective communication methods are very important!

The environment in which children grow up now is different from that of his time.

Chen Jingle had too few things to entertain him when he was a child. Even if he was scolded, he would not be so sad if he went out for a walk and came back and did something interesting.

And Chen Qiyun and the others have too many fun things now, which is not a good thing. The threshold for happiness has been raised too much, while the threshold for accepting setbacks and pain is pitifully low. If they are scolded a little harder, psychological problems may occur.

The best way is to guide and encourage.

Let children take the initiative and become accustomed to using language to express their inner thoughts.

You can't keep it in your heart and let others guess.

Chen Qiyun already has this trend.

The second uncle and second aunt are both relatively strong-willed people. If they do anything wrong, they will be scolded loudly. Even if they are wrong, they will not apologize to a child.

Chen Qiyun was afraid of saying the wrong thing at first, but later she simply didn't say anything.

…

Chen Jingle scanned through all the vacant questions, and after making sure that there were none that he could not master, he said: "Stop for a moment, let's talk about Chinese."

"Oh." Chen Qiyun stopped writing and looked at Chen Jingle.

Chen Jingle unfolded the paper and placed it on the table.

"The first is the connection of this sentence. The key is to understand the meaning of the words. The first half of the test is about adjectives. Singing heartily. Singing is about letting go of the voice. The hearty and hearty description is refreshing and joyful. Everyone is happy after singing the word. Read aloud with a correct accent. The word "Zhengqiuyuan" means that the accent is standard and the pronunciation is clear, so when reading aloud, the words should be spoken with a correct accent..."

“…”

Chen Jingle patiently explained to Chen Qiyun the problem-solving ideas and key to solving each problem. After finishing the explanation, he asked, "Can you understand?"

After confirming that Chen Qiyun could understand, he would move on to the next question.

If you don’t understand, ask clearly what you don’t understand and explain it several times.

Knowledge usually needs to be read several times before it becomes your own.

After finishing a paper, Chen Jingle frowned slightly: "Tell me the truth, are you really not good at these questions at all, or are you just too lazy to think about them and don't want to do them when they are difficult?"

Chen Qiyun twisted her body uneasily: "Some of them don't know how to do it, and some of them take a long time to think about. My foundation is too poor..."

Chen Jingle waved his hand: "You're just in junior high school, how bad can you be? At worst, I'll have to re-learn the basics of the six years of primary school. Do you think it's difficult for you to go back and learn the knowledge content of primary school now?"

Chen Qiyun shook her head quickly.

Although her grades are average, it is still very simple to relearn elementary school content.

"That's it!"

Chen Jingle spread his hands: "You have to learn new things, and you also have to learn old things. As long as you are willing to do it, you don't have to worry about not being able to do it!"

Chapter 2 will come later.

(End of chapter)