The leisurely life of rebirth

"Personnel matters, personnel matters, be a person first, then do things. In the end, you have to deal with people." Fang Monan said with a smile. "There is nothing wrong with being humane! If you don't handle interpersonal relationships well, this matter will not be easy to handle!"

"Alas! The world of adults is so difficult to understand!" Mao sighed with emotion, holding his chin in his hand.

"Haha..." Fang Monan hugged him and fell on the bed with a smile. "You little devil."

"The right and wrong of the truth are naturally clear at a glance; everyone can tell this truth, and the singing is better than the words. But in reality, people's behavior and dealing with things in human circumstances are often not so clear. After all, people

They are animals with feelings, not cold machines, one is one and two is two." Paul said while sitting on the sofa.

After all, face is a special label that combines friendship, recognition, credibility, self-esteem, reputation, and of course dignity.

Favors need carriers, that is, gifts, meals and errands.

Fang Monan said unhurriedly, "So! It's impossible to be an absolutely perfect person. It's demanding to be perfect. However, the pursuit of perfection should be everyone's ideal. Only by constantly pursuing perfection can we keep getting closer.

The state of perfection. If you treat people well, things will go much more smoothly.

Being a good person first is indeed the prerequisite and foundation for doing good things. As for how to be a good person, this is the wisdom of the wise and the benevolent. You can think about it slowly in the days to come! Everyone's life path is different, just like this

There cannot be two identical leaves in the world.

But I think that kindness, sincerity and principles, emotion within reason, and harmony within emotion are things that both those who are doing big things and those who are doing small things should pay attention to!"[

The little guys just thought about it for a while and then forgot about it.

"Yu Ning, you know so much!" Niu Niu's innocent eyes were shining, looking at Tang Yu Ning with admiration.

Tang Yuning said sheepishly, "It's not that much, it's all what grandpa said."

"What you are saying is really difficult to understand!" Erya shook her head and said, "One thing is the most important. That is, everything must be done in a certain way!"

"Ghost girl?" Fang Monan took a comb to comb her long shawl hair and said calmly. "It's not just about moderation. The most important thing is supervision. It may take hundreds of years to change the cultural psychology of a nation. Human feelings

It is also the inner logic of Chinese people’s behavior since ancient times.

Human relationships are our wisdom through the ages. In the only existing ancient civilization that has lasted for two thousand years, the role of human relationships in maintaining social stability cannot be ignored. Dynasties can be changed, but human relationships remain unchanged, and society continues to exist. Blood is connected and human relationships are warm. This is

A tradition that makes the Chinese nation proud. Don’t forget. Back then, we

criticism of socialism and the coldness of interpersonal relationships; and now we also advocate a warm society, in which family affection and the warmth of family are more precious than gold. Therefore, the questioning and criticism of those humanistic societies must be public rather than private, and how to get rid of them on the road to the pursuit of the rule of law.

The fetters of human rule are always two sides of the same coin. Good and bad cannot be absolutely distinguished!"

"Isn't it written about in this newspaper every day? Legal construction, right?" Dabao said, blinking his big innocent eyes.

"But the legal regulations are so thick now!" Erya gestured with her little hands, "Why do we need to strengthen the legal system!"

"Idiot!" Niu Niu laughed and scolded. "Writing it down is useless. The key is execution."

Tang Yuning said in an old tone, "The emperor breaks the law and the common people are guilty. This is all bluffing. Have you ever seen an emperor doing this?"

The little devils actually shook their heads.

"Watch what we are doing, Grandpa Lin talks about ancient times, we have listened a lot!" Dabao said with a smile, "Don't underestimate us!"

Fang Monan couldn't laugh or cry. These brats were once again proving to him that they understood.

Historically, China has not moved toward the rule of law. Is it because there is no law? The laws in ancient times were much harsher and crueler than the laws today. Just hearing about the various punishments makes people's scalp numb!

The harsh laws of the Ming Dynasty Law and the complete system of the Qing Dynasty Law far surpassed other countries in the world at the same time. However, as a result, we can only watch helplessly as the rising countries move away from the rule of law.

I am always swirling in the whirlpool of human governance.[

This is because human feelings under the Confucian ethics of governing the country confused public and private affairs and went beyond legal principles. Favoritism and perversion of the law became a political evil that was difficult to get rid of in the feudal era.

China's traditional society operates on two tracks, one is law and the other is human relationships. These two tracks are not parallel but intersect from time to time, such as the ancient saying "Law is nothing more than human relationships" and the ancient law "kissing".

It is not a sin to hide from each other." Confucianism advocates "responsing to nature and rationalizing human relationships", while the folk

There is a saying that "human feelings are greater than heaven". Human feelings reach up to the temples and go down to the countryside. They are not only based on the natural "nature" of human beings, but also are used in the world because of the unity of justice and benefit. Therefore, ancient society is based on human feelings.

Society; the ancient rule of man was, to a certain extent, the "rule of human feelings."

So from ancient times to the present, we have seen that when there is a favor, there is a relationship; when there is a relationship, there is discussion; when there is discussion, there are adaptations; when there are adaptations, the legal system is compromised. Then in return, there is exchange of benefits; fixed

The interests that have been achieved have become a circle of alliances; in the circle, people are more merciful than mercenary; and broadly speaking, the entire society is merciful and not merciful.

But now, as Dabao said, we should strengthen the construction of the legal system. In fact, if the rule of law is not good, it is not the responsibility of human relations, but a problem of rules.

Modern countries with a legal system also focus on personal connections and personnel connections. In American politics, there is the Skull and Bones Society, in Japan there is family politics, and in Western countries there are political interest groups and exchanges of interests. In the past, the US president "rewarded" ambassadorships to candidates who were running for election.

Although rich people who donate money are criticized by others, it cannot be said that the United States is a politics of favor.

Because the operating rules are transparent and the authorization procedures are open and legal. It can be concluded that what hinders the process of rule of law is not human feelings, but the lack of open and transparent rules in the entire society, the secret operation of power, and the lack of real

Supervision.

Industrialization has had a great impact on the traditional humanistic society of the Chinese people. The market economic system has not yet been fully established. The "government" controls resources, and the legal system is not yet sound. In particular, the private and public boundaries of "government" officials have not been clearly defined. There are

People rely on their hometown, classmates, comrades, relatives, etc. to form secret circles with officials who control resources, and collectively share the wealth. And such a circle is an interpersonal network.

The group network of relationships is a long-term cooperative relationship. These people often communicate through this kind of social favors, and even rely on emotional relationships that are originally relatives, compatriots, fellow villagers or friends, making the circle more stable.

; Due to many transactions and cooperation, small groups gradually develop from loose to tight, forming a relatively safe system. Unless the spoils are divided unevenly, there will be few capsizes.

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"What are you thinking about?" Jian Huixin stretched out her hand and shook it in front of Fang Monan.

Fang Monan came back to his senses and said quickly, "Okay! It's getting late, go to bed quickly! You guys, go back to your places and go to bed now! Let's go home early tomorrow morning and try to get home at noon."

"Hey! Okay, I'm finally going home." The little guys cheered.

"I love home so much! I thought you would prefer to play outside." Fang Monan crossed his arms, raised his eyebrows and smiled.

"I've had enough fun. I miss home so much. I wonder if I can eat the peaches, grapes, and apples at home." Dabao sucked his lips, looking like a greedy cat.

"It turns out I'm not homesick, I'm missing the delicious food at home." Fang Monan scratched his little nose and said with a smile, "You little greedy cat."

"Okay, go to bed and you can pick and eat it by yourself tomorrow afternoon."

The children followed each other back to their rooms to sleep.

Fang Monan put his hands behind his back on the pillow, and next to him was the sleeping Dabao and Erya. She couldn't fall asleep no matter what. She had slept for five days at once, so it was strange that she could sleep at all!

I looked sideways at their two sweet sleeping faces, each of them quirky, and "touched" their smooth faces like shelled eggs, and they had grown up unknowingly.

Fang Monan sniffed her nose, always feeling that there was the smell of other people in the room, a very familiar energy, and she sat up with a rush.

The children he brought almost fell to the floor, and Fang Monan quickly waved his hand and asked the children to move to the center of the bed.

Fang Monan scratched his head in annoyance, why did this guy, damn guy, come here and not wake her up.

She clenched her fists and said, "I will make you look good next time we meet! Look good!"

In the middle of the night, Fang Monan closed his eyes slightly, calmed down, and tried to detect his spiritual consciousness. He didn't have much hope at first. After all, the capital was very far away from him, but he didn't expect to find him in meditation.

Such a surprise had already made her forget about raising an army to punish her. Sure enough, martial arts skills were the fastest way to improve her abilities through fighting.

This kind of spiritual communication is equivalent to the indirect opening of the soul.

The two consciousnesses collided with each other, as if the souls of two people were also touching, giving her a wonderful feeling, as if she was being embraced by him, making her heart tremble and palpitate.

Divine consciousness, water and milk blend together.

The two people's minds seemed to be completely integrated into each other at this moment. This situation was subtle and charming.

Her various thoughts were fed back to the other party without reservation at the moment when their consciousnesses met. Many of her embarrassing thoughts were also captured by He Junyao inadvertently during the exchange.

Of course, courtesy should be reciprocated, and she could immediately capture what he was thinking.

Hehe!...a boring and "sexy" man.

The strands of love are wonderful and graceful, like a trickle of clear spring. Wherever the sound is heard, the love gradually becomes stronger, as if it is a filament of love, tightly surrounding the two of them.

Compared with the last time, where the spiritual communication was somewhat forced and superficial, this time it was a real 'entanglement'.

Surrounded by sweet emotions, they reminisced and missed each other. The two embraced each other spiritually, and the moment was eternity.

The touch of spiritual consciousness brings about the throbbing of the soul. This feeling is very addictive, and it is difficult to give up once you taste it for the first time.

Don't think this will forgive you!

Humph! I’m so angry!

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