The leisurely life of rebirth

Fang Monan smiled and said, "How about having an old man in the family, it's like having a treasure!"

"Yes! We old people may not be able to read a word, but the old people have rich life experiences that can be used as a reference for us. Especially the old people in our village sit under the old locust tree every summer and like to talk about ancient times. "

"The Romance of the Three Kingdoms" and "The Romance of the Sui and Tang Dynasties" are readily available." Dachengzi said with a smile.

Shitou echoed, "That's right! There was no entertainment when I was a kid. What I liked most was listening to my grandpa talk about ancient times."

Fang Monan smiled and said, "Human life is rare; it is a treasure; people can live for a long time, which is a treasure; the elderly have rich life experience, which is a treasure; and the younger generation has the opportunity to repay their predecessors, which is a treasure." She joked,

"Just think about it; in a few decades, you will also be a treasure. Therefore: old people, old people, old people...all old people are living treasures!"

"Haha..." Several people were amused by what Fang Monan said.[

The fat man smiled and said, "Take it back to the four basic principles of life and know how to give up. People's time is limited, energy is limited, ability is limited, and funds are limited. Life is short and the love between children is long. One person cannot do everything.

It has to be watertight. It is impossible to cover everything and satisfy everyone, let alone

Let everyone raise their hands to approve, let everyone support. Because we are not RMB, everyone likes it. Three thousand is good to you, eight hundred is friends with me, people are perfect, gold is pure, things are always the same

Divided into two, there are good and bad, there is only relative, not absolute. Therefore, you must give up what you should give up. Giving up is an art.

Only by knowing how to give up can you achieve success. Giving up is a difficult choice. What to give up? What to keep? How much to give up? How much to keep? What should be given up? What should be kept? What do you want? What don’t you want? What should you do?

What things should not be done? You must have your own plan in life and have your own

What kind of person do you want to be? How should you spend your life? These all require a person to weigh the pros and cons, make choices, and learn to give up. Giving up is the art of giving up. Only by giving up can you gain.

Be reluctant to give up. If you want everything, the result will be nothing.

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Dachengzi said to Shitou, "Listen carefully, these are rare experiences."

The fat man then told Shi Shi, "If you want to succeed, you must be able to endure loneliness. Only if you can endure loneliness can you master real talents and practical learning. Only if you can endure loneliness can you have the confidence to work. If you can endure loneliness, can you not think wildly. Only if you can endure loneliness can you not have random thoughts.

Loneliness is the only way to realize self-cultivation. Self-cultivation refers to the effort of a person through learning, tempering, cultivation and cultivation in accordance with the requirements of a certain society or a certain class.

, in order to improve one's own quality and ability. Self-education and self-shaping in all aspects are the only way to achieve self-improvement. People always improve their personality through the process of self-cultivation and gradually improve their realm of life. Self-cultivation is

The only way to self-improvement. Cultivation is mainly self-cultivation, strict requirements, self-improvement, always thinking about one's own mistakes, dissecting oneself, and exorcising evil spirits.

Only by correcting and regulating yourself can you continue to make progress. If a person wants to make progress, he must work hard and carry out self-cultivation seriously. Self-cultivation can improve the quality of life and can also determine the success or failure of career. Self-cultivation is beneficial to the individual

A sound personality also reflects the degree of social civilization. The most important thing for self-cultivation is moral cultivation. Moral cultivation refers to the

A moral practice activity that uses certain moral principles and norms to transform oneself, educate oneself, form one's own moral quality, and improve one's own moral realm. Exercise yourself and cultivate your sentiments. Noble emotions can move people to achieve great causes and improve their personality and emotions.

It is a stable attitude toward things unique to human beings, and a psychological experience connected with people’s social needs.”

He paused and continued, "Everyone has emotions, but not everyone has noble emotions. It is more difficult to change an emotion than to change an understanding. The change of emotion not only requires a process of understanding, but also a process of understanding.

It is a long-term and even painful tempering process. Personal cultivation is inseparable from the conscious exercise in social life practice. In real life, the emotions are consciously cultivated and the spirit is sublimated. Therefore, actively participate in social practice and break through your own small skills.

Circle, small area, diligent exploration, not afraid of difficulties, consciously exercise your tenacious will and indomitable spirit, improve your feeling of natural, social and artistic beauty in social practice life, in the rich social life practice, with various rich and noble

Feelings and interests, enlightening one's soul and cultivating one's sentiments are an important way to cultivate a sincere, firm, simple and strong character and shape a perfect self. Therefore, only by enduring loneliness can you learn knowledge and possess true talents.

Only through practical learning can you achieve success. ”

"The ancients said, 'cultivate one's self, organize one's family, govern the country, and bring peace to the world.'" Dachengzi said, "Cultivating one's self is the first priority."

Dachengzi continued, "You still have to withstand the temptation. Today's life is colorful, society is complex and ever-changing, life is colorful now, relationships are now mixed, birds are now of all kinds, deceptions are now new and full of tricks everywhere.

Scams are everywhere, full of traps, mixed with humans and monsters, and demons and ghosts are prevalent, and intrigues and tricks are common. If you are not careful, you will be deceived, and the birds will be entangled like poisonous snakes, making your life worse than death. Therefore, you must be patient.

, if you can withstand the temptation, you must adhere to "Be cautious and independent" and have pure quality. "Be cautious and independent" is a traditional moral cultivation method, which means that even when you are alone and under the supervision of others, you must stick to your moral beliefs and be strict with your words and deeds.

, Be careful and do not do any immoral things, do not engage in whoring, do not gamble, and do not do low-level things. Being able to withstand temptation is the basis and guarantee for a person's career success. No matter under what circumstances, whether it is supervised or not,

Supervision requires self-respect, self-love, and self-discipline. "Being cautious and independent" is not only a kind of self-cultivation, but also a state of life." Dachengzi said again, "Only through long-term hard training in practice, we must persist in being cautious and independent, and be strict.

Self-discipline can transform external social norms into the subject's conscious will and actions; only by cultivating a high degree of consciousness can one have a clear goal, a strong will, and be good at overcoming various difficulties. Only by persevering at any time and anywhere can one achieve success.

Be careful to be alone and control yourself permanently rather than intermittently." He continued, "It may be difficult to do this. We can't be perfect people or saints. Think twice before you act, but at least you won't make a big mistake.

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Shitou nodded, "I will think about it often."

"Tsk tsk... you two have so many insights!" Fang Monan said with a smile, "'If you are poor, you can be alone, and if you are rich, you can help the world.' We don't have such high ideals, but we must strive for our career and our life.

Pioneering, down-to-earth, no boasting, no exaggeration. Because people don’t make promises easily, they have less mental baggage and psychological pressure; without impetuosity, they will have more energy to devote to career struggle and research, and return to freedom and freedom.

The state of life. People must have a normal heart, and being ordinary is the real thing. "

Dachengzi, Fatty, and Shitou nodded.

Dachengzi asked again, "Fat Man really plans to open a factory in the Northeast."

The fat man nodded, "Yes! I'll go after the Chinese New Year."

"Count me in, let's work together, and I'll go build a feed factory." Dachengzi brewed tea again, "It's time for me to go out. Our feed factory has already radiated to many provinces in the surrounding area."

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"Okay! I was just about to tell you about this!" Fatty said with a smile. "Expand actively now."

Fang Monan frowned slightly and warned again, "Fat man, be wary of genetically modified crops and hormones. Don't worry, I will give you information on this."

"Yes! I understand!" The fat man nodded.

"What's genetically modified?" Dachengzi and Shitou asked curiously.

Fang Monan gave them a simple explanation to let them understand the pros and cons.

"Ah! This is really the imperialist desire to destroy me!" Dachengzi said angrily, "If this enters our dining table and is eaten like this for a long time, we will really become the sick man of East Asia in the new era."

"Yes!" Fang Monan cursed in his heart. These are related to ideology and living space. How can others be allowed to snore and sleep on the side of the bed? The earth is so big and there are so many resources. In order to survive, either you die or I die.

, just like the natural law of survival, natural selection.[

Think about the 60 million tons of genetically modified soybeans that will continue to grow in future generations, as well as corn, rice, etc. Even the seeds for agricultural cultivation must be 50% imported, and the remaining 50%, even though they are made domestically, are raw.

Someone grabbed my neck.

What is even more immoral is that we lack ourselves. Those who sell fungus are soaked in formalin, those who sell ham are smoked with dichlorvos, those who sell table salt use industrial salt to make up the quantity, and those who sell eel feed the eels with birth control pills, mercury fish, and melamine.

Milk powder, lime flour, magic beef, gutter oil, colored steamed buns, these chemical foods appear one after another, and they are really causing harm for thousands of years.

Make arrangements as soon as possible, hoping to change something! No one can answer this question for her, not even herself. Focusing on money completely destroys morality and lets morality compromise the bottom line.

"Yeah! It's getting late, go to bed!" Shitou breathed a sigh of relief and looked up at the wall clock, "It's already so late." I really learned a lesson tonight.

"Wash away and go to sleep!" Fang Monan stood up and stretched.

The four people walked out, and my mother said, "You are finally out."

"Haha... I forgot the time while chatting." Dachengzi smiled.

"Okay, come with me." Mom smiled and said, "Shitou is sleeping upstairs. The bed in the guest room next to Nannan has been made." She then added, "Dachengzi followed me to the guest room downstairs.

The bed is also made."

Everyone returned to their respective places, the lights in the room were turned off one after another, and they quickly fell asleep. (To be continued. If you like this work, you are welcome to vote, monthly votes, and your support are my biggest motivation.)