The leisurely life of rebirth

"We are already an old married couple, why are we still so stupid!" Lin Nainai scolded with a smile, and she breathed again gracefully.

Mr. Lin said proudly, "It's not too late for them to be envious!"

Fang Monan and Lin Chengdong pursed their lips and snickered.

"Guoxiu, sleep a little longer." Mr. Lin helped her, put her down, tucked her in, and then the three of them walked out and sat down in the living room.

"How's it going?" Grandma asked as she got up from the sofa.

"It's much better, I can eat now, and I don't seem to have heard her complain about neck pain." Mr. Lin smiled, his smile reaching to his ears.

"Huh! That's good!" Grandma said with a smile, and the four of them sat on the sofa again.

Fang Monan went to the kitchen to brew a few cups of tea and placed them one by one in front of them.

"Chengdong, if you don't go and rest for a while, it will be uncomfortable on the plane." Mr. Lin advised, "Don't take your mother's illness seriously, it will definitely be cured." [

"No, it's already mid-afternoon. Let's go to bed together later!" Lin Chengdong shook his head and said, "I'm used to flying around so often."

After saying that, Lin Chengdong stood up, stood respectfully in front of his grandma, bowed and said, "Aunt Mo, thank you for taking care of my dad over the years."

Grandma hurriedly helped him up and said, "My eldest nephew, I can't help it. Seriously speaking, we are taking advantage. My brother is a cultured man and knows a lot, so he has to teach the children of my family. If our family is promising, it is indispensable for us to have our elders."

Brother’s teachings.”

"Okay, we are all members of our family, don't do these false gifts." Mr. Lin said with a smile.

Lin Chengdong's eyes flashed slightly, 'My family!'

"Don't think nonsense in your head!" Mr. Lin turned sideways and warned him in a low voice. "We'll talk about it later."

Lin Chengdong nodded when he saw this. There were some things he had to ask clearly about this man!

Grandma’s eyes were not made in vain, but she said frankly, "Nephew, you really should stop being blind. I respect you, but I have been waiting for you for a long time."

I can find the old sister-in-law and reunite with her family!"

Lin Chengdong's dilemma of being seen through has never been so embarrassing since he took over the family business. Didn't he remember that Chinese people are very reserved?

All the elegance and gentlemanly demeanor were gone. He said awkwardly, "Aunt Mo. I didn't mean that. I..."

"You brat. Are you and I like that?" Mr. Lin was also embarrassed, and his eyebrows suddenly stood up.

"Dad, aren't I just imagining things! Besides, you and Mom have been separated for so many years. Who knows if anything has changed." Lin Chengdong was still timid in front of him, his voice getting smaller and smaller as he spoke, almost

Not audible.

"You really think of me as Chen Shimei." As he said this, Mr. Lin slapped me.

How could grandma let him really fight? "Brother, just say it and it will be fine. Just say it and it will be fine."

"Huh!" Mr. Lin turned around and ignored this unfilial son.[

"Haha...Uncle Lin, you really think that it is impossible for my godfather and grandma! My godfather looks at your family photos every night and falls asleep holding the photo of my godfather and grandma. Look at it.

I have changed several photo frames." Fang Monan revealed with a smile, "My godfather really misses you. We are just relatives, not his lovers!"

Mr. Lin felt like he was being exposed, so he shouted, "You bastard, explain to him why you are doing that! That idiot." He puffed his beard and stared at his son angrily.

"Dad, Aunt Mo, I was wrong, I was the villain." Lin Chengdong bowed and apologized.

"Okay, just tell me to open it, it will save the child from feeling upset." Grandma said with a smile.

Lin Chengdong looked at Aunt Mo's frank eyes. He was so ashamed that he wanted to crawl into a crack in the ground. Unfortunately, there was no crack in the ground here.

"Drink tea, drink tea." Grandma said with a smile to resolve the embarrassment.

Mr. Lin took a sip of tea angrily, and then his anger calmed down a bit.

"Yeah!" Lin Chengdong said, "Good tea."

"Dad, your life is so enviable!" Lin Chengdong said when he had nothing to say.

"Otherwise, why do you think your dad's body is so good? Firstly, he exercises, and secondly, he is raised in the beautiful mountains and rivers here and absorbs the essence of heaven and earth." Mr. Lin smiled and said, "You are not young anymore, so you have to pay attention.

My own body."

"Take advantage of these few days to let Nanny take good care of you and nurse you back to health." Mr. Lin said, he was always his son and he couldn't stop worrying about him.

Fang Monan smiled and said, "Uncle Lin's work and rest are not stable, and he has some minor gastrointestinal problems. He just needs to take care of him."

Mr. Lin really agreed with what Fang Monan said. However, looking at his son, he became angry again, "Your mother's illness was not discovered a long time ago."

"Dad, this..." Lin Chengdong stammered.

"Okay, brother, I don't blame the eldest nephew for this. Not everyone in today's society is like me, right? My son and daughter are not around, and they are working in other places. Fortunately, my granddaughter is with me. Otherwise, she would have died of hunger that day.

Even my family doesn’t know.”

"Grandma, what are you talking about? I'm here! I'll take you with me wherever you go." Fang Monan patted his grandma's hand and said.

Grandma returned to hold Fang Monan's hand, and the grandfather and grandson looked at each other, saying nothing.

Lin Chengdong finally found some reasons to feel better, "Our family hired nannies, and some of them were even worse. In the apartment building, some old people fell and had no one to help them. They have been lying on the cold floor for three days.

Above. The children are working hard in the big cities, and they are left to be taken care of by the elderly, or sent to nursing homes. People who see this really feel..."

Fang Monan said with emotion, “A common problem in an aging society is that old-age care has become a problem. Elderly care has really become a big problem.

Some people say that life is a stage.

Everyone has played their own role on this stage, and has experienced the ups and downs of life, the joys and sorrows, the vicissitudes of life... However, it is all these experiences that people experience that constitute the splendor of life. However, all of these

'Wonderful' - even painful, maybe one

Every day will be lost. It may be you, or it may be me, and you will enter a world that you have to face, the world of the elderly. When time becomes long, life becomes a kind of torture; it is that unit

A door or a few steps can isolate the old man from the wonderful world outside.

In recent years, due to the improvement of living conditions, urban elderly people often live separated from their children and live in apartment buildings. The only person who truly depends on each other in life is their wife. If you are widowed in your later years, the blow can sometimes be fatal."

Mr. Lin echoed, "For us, a nation that has always paid attention to health preservation, the fear of aging and death may have a more profound psychological impact on us than other nations. Because we do not believe in the existence of heaven. That

God, who is more spiritually comforting to Westerners, probably won’t care about us—Westerners have enough to keep Him busy!

Grandmas like us don't care about the Easterners who our uncles don't love. We can only put our hope in this life. For many years, we have been tirelessly seeking various methods of immortality, from swallowing golden elixirs in ancient times to various modern anti-aging techniques.

Technology, haven't our ancestors tried too little? It can't help us avoid the fate of death. It can't prevent us from going through those terrible ordeals before death.

Raising children for old age has remained the same for so many years."

"Don't be afraid of this. Family planning is not what it advertises, 'It's good to have just one child, and the 'government' will take care of you in old age.' In the past two years, the 'government' has introduced pension insurance. Even if there are no children around, the 'government' will help take care of the old. If you have money,

What are you afraid of?" Grandma said.

"Pfft..." Fang Monan squirted the tea in his mouth unceremoniously.

"You kid? Is what I said that ridiculous?" Grandma quickly took out a tissue and cleaned the table.

Fang Monan waved his hand, "I'm fine." People nowadays have no doubts about what the "government" says.

Mr. Lin said thoughtfully, "Even if everything on the outside can be peaceful, the finances are not worried, and there is food and drink, it is always a pity not to have children around. Let alone those people who are precarious and working hard at the bottom.

I haven’t become rich yet! I’m already old!”

"Alas! Since ancient times, there have been many infatuated parents, but no one has ever seen their filial descendants!" Mr. Lin sighed with a long sigh.

"'The song is ready,' in Dream of Red Mansions," Fang Monan said.

"Dad, I...I..." Lin Chengdong shouted sheepishly.

"It's not your fault, society is like this. When society develops faster, it is also when the crisis for the elderly is the most serious. They are often the victims, and they can only sacrifice. Because society wants to ensure the overall development, in fact, it is not good for the elderly.

The elderly are in a state of inability.

And we are the victims. Haha..."

Mr. Lin waved his hand and interrupted Lin Chengdong, "You are busy! I understand, with so many jobs on their backs, today's young people are facing huge survival pressure and challenges in life and work, and they need time to 'recharge'.

They spend more energy to participate in competition than the older generation. They are physically and mentally exhausted, exhausted and unable to support the elderly. On the other hand, many elderly people are unwilling to give up their own living habits and ways, which is different from the lifestyles of young people.

It’s getting bigger and bigger. One is free, the other is busy, one wants someone to accompany him, and the other has no time to accompany him, so conflicts arise.”

"It used to be! My parents are not traveling far away, and now I wish they could escape the control of them as soon as possible. There is no such easy life outside." Grandma also sighed with emotion.

"Brother, we have been fine in this generation. We have many sons and daughters. But when it comes to Nannan's generation, only one will be miserable. If we can't count on this one, we will be really blind." Grandma said.

"I think there are a lot of people who are caught blind. Nowadays, among the parents of only children, there are probably not many who have superb educational methods. Most of us are over-indulged and under-educated." Mr. Lin agreed.

Lin Chengdong looked at Fang Monan and asked for help. Sighing like this was not an option. They were very filial.

Fang Monan shrugged, and Lin Chengdong had no choice but to save himself and said, "Dad, what a superb educational method!"

"The movie "The Story of the Fox". As soon as the little foxes grow up, the mother fox drives them out of the nest. The mother fox, who was once very protective of her children, suddenly changes her face, bites and chases her, and insists on killing the little orphans.

Everyone was driven away from home until the little fox turned around and left the house far away.

This story seems a bit cruel, and even makes people feel desolate. But this approach of the old fox has indeed ensured the survival of two generations. The little fox has developed the ability to live independently, and the old fox can also survive in old age and frailty.

No longer bear weight. What a cruel psychological weaning! And this kind of survival education is very important for the little fox, because if it lives with its parents for a long time, the inertia of the creature itself will make it

Loss of hunting ability.” (To be continued..)

ps: Merry Christmas!

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