The leisurely life of rebirth

Niu Niu raised her head proudly and shouted, "If we go to a restaurant, it's not as delicious as Sister Nan's cooking!"

"Niuniu!" Liang Zi called with a straight face.

Niu Niu quickly covered her mouth and blinked her big dark eyes. She looked so cute. No one would scold a child for his childlike words.

Yes! I've pulled all the thunder and lightning out of my head. Since I've declined politely, of course Tang Bonian won't force me to do it anymore. Anyway, I have to stay here for a few days, no less than a while and a half.

"Then we'll come back for a follow-up visit tomorrow." Tang Bonian stood up and said.

Tang Andy held the child in his arms and watched them get into the car. The convoy went out one by one. At this moment, several black cars came. From a distance, Fang Monan saw that the license plate number was from the province.

, I don’t know who it is!

However, it seemed that they were not here to find Fang Monan. Mr. Tang's motorcade stopped and soon started moving again. The two groups of cars drove away one after another.

Fang Monan and the others went to the kitchen to eat. Aunt Lian, Vera and the others started cooking while they were taking the medicine. As the time was up, Fang Father and the others went to the hotel with Fang's mother and grandma, as they had already made an appointment.

Hard to say.

Besides, they are here to see their daughter, and since there is someone at home to keep her company, Father Fang will not join in the fun.[

The lunch was very sumptuous, and everyone chatted while eating, and of course they also talked about the grand ostentation of the Tang family.

Lin Jiajia exclaimed, "This ostentation is nothing. I heard that the cost of raising a child in a wealthy family in Hong Kong is unmatched. It is said that from the moment a child is conceived, they will spend tens of millions to book the most luxurious homes in Hong Kong."

The first-class ward of a good private hospital, more than a million supplements, a star-rated medical team for personal service, hundreds of thousands of prenatal education equipment, plus a top-notch bodyguard team to escort is absolutely a matter of detail; once the child is born, there are various professional infant care providers

Child technicians provide all aspects of care and education for babies.”

"Imagine how this money was spent." Lian Yufeng was dumbfounded and couldn't believe it.

"The specific number may be a little watery, but it certainly won't be much less," Lin Jiajia said.

"There have always been rich ladies, but since ancient times there have always been dandy men." Fang Monan said with a smile.

"A poor man raises a son and a rich woman raises a daughter" is an old folk saying. The "poor" and "rich" mentioned here include different meanings than money, but more of a kind of quality cultivation. Because boys and girls have different personalities,

Therefore, a girl must be raised rich and well-informed, otherwise a steamed bun will be kidnapped! But a boy must be raised poor, so that when he grows up, he will be hard-working and responsible," Mr. Lin said.

"Oh! We finally found out why we were so 'miserable' when we were children. It turns out that the root lies with grandpa."

Lin Jia Shang started to talk about the "history of blood and tears" of the men of the Lin family with great joy. It really made the listeners cry and the listeners sad! But the smile in his eyes could not be hidden from others.

"Then are you regretting it now?" Lin Chengdong pinched the chopsticks in his hand, thinking that he had said the wrong thing, and immediately put up his chopsticks.

"Of course..." Lin Chengdong raised his hands to protect his face and said, "Dad, don't be excited, don't be excited, of course I don't regret it."

"The hardships of life have made my will stronger; especially after entering the society, I have to bear social and family responsibilities, so I have to be poor to encourage my ambition. Otherwise, I will be a frivolous kid. How can I serve my parents and support my wife and children?"

!" Lin Chengdong said gratefully, "I am very grateful to your dad!"

"I support my parents at the top and my wife and children at the bottom! Jiashang, you should also put your personal issues on the agenda and set an example for your younger brothers and sisters." Mr. Lin said shaking his head.

"Ah!" Lin Jiashang muttered, "I haven't had enough fun yet!"

Haha... everyone pursed their lips and snickered.

Humph! What a shameless guy, Lin Jia Shang stared at these guys watching the fun one by one.[

When it comes to the topic of raising children, the parents here always have a lot to talk about.

"It's different for girls." Lin Jiajia smiled very sweetly, "It's like holding it in the palm of your hand, like a pearl or a treasure."

She solved Lin Jiashang's trap with just one sentence. Lin Jiajia's efforts were not in vain. She was gesturing with a sports car in her hand.

Before Lin Jia Shang had time to be grateful, hum! I knew you girl was not that kind.

"Hehe... That was before marriage, but after marriage, he became a dead fish-eye." Lin Jiaxiang secretly smiled.

"Little San'er, your skin is itchy, aren't you?" Lin Jiajia clenched her fists with her hands and made a crackling sound.

"This is not what I said, this is what Cao Xueqin said." Lin Jiaxiang quickly declared.

"Living is a kind of practice. Life is endless and introspection is endless." Fang Monan said in an old-fashioned and Zen-like way.

"You are a little kid but a big kid." Grandma Lin said with a smile.

"To be honest, there is a certain truth in the proverb passed down from our ancestors. Although appearance is born from heaven, it also requires careful care and daily exquisite carving. This obviously requires a certain material foundation. From another perspective

It is said that in addition to providing better material conditions, it is also necessary to broaden girls' horizons and knowledge. Wealth also means "rich". If you understand beauty, appreciate and distinguish, you will also know how to protect yourself and not be affected by the outside world.

All kinds of temptations." Grandma Lin said with deep feeling.

As a mother with a daughter, Qiu Hongye was worried and asked actively, "What exactly should Aunt Lin do?"

"When you are young, you will be taken to various occasions to increase your ability to understand the world. When you reach the age of flowers and grow up in the world, you will not be easily fooled by all kinds of glitz and vanity. Only in this way will you not be greedy for small gains and have an extraordinary temperament; you will never see anyone.

A girl who lives up to the world is likely to be defeated by the sugar-coated words of a playboy. A well-off girl, because she is knowledgeable, independent, independent, and wise, knows what she really pursues." Grandma Lin is here.

Interested and talkative.

"Yeah! Yeah!" Qiu Hongye nodded frequently. "It makes sense."

"Raising a girl richly is actually a kind of investment in education, a wealth of education; raising a boy poor is a kind of education with setbacks. Men should strive for self-improvement, and boys who have not experienced failure and setbacks will not grow up."

Boys will have to struggle in the future, and they must be taught that money is hard-earned; girls will get married, and they must cultivate their eyesight to identify things, so that they will not be coaxed away by someone else's piece of cake in the future."

"The ancients said that when heaven is about to entrust a man with a great responsibility, he must first work his muscles and bones, starve his body and skin, and endure hardships in his mind. Only in this way can he cultivate himself, manage his family, govern the country, and bring peace to the world. To be a real man, you have to endure hardships in this life and look down upon him coldly.

, I don’t know how much humiliation and frustration it takes. Therefore, boys should cultivate a simple, hard-working style, benevolence, justice and filial piety from an early age. Especially, they should not give too much materially, otherwise they will easily become another dandy.

After 20 years of being rich, a hibiscus will come out of the water; if you are raised in poverty for 20 years, a sword will come out of the furnace.”

"You have talked so much about being poor and being rich, but to us they are just two words." Grandma Liang said with a smile.

"I know this." Fang Monan smiled.

"You know?" Everyone looked at Fang Monan.

"Freeze!" Fang Monan said with a smile. "Liang Zi should have a deep understanding of this."

"That's right! At that time, children were the main players. The national policy of family planning had not yet been introduced. There were families with only children, but they were very rare. Having two children was considered a small number. It was common for families to have five or six children, and families with seven children were common.

Eight is not new. So when I think of my childhood, in the 1960s and 1970s, an impressive phenomenon was: there were so many children." Liang Zi recalled the past, but it was still vivid in his mind, and he thought he would try his best to forget it.

Mr. Lin smiled and said, "At that time, no matter whether they lived in an alley or in a government compound, the children in the neighborhood could talk about each other in a 'group', which can be described as a 'black crowd'."

"Yes! I remember when I was a child, we played horseback riding, two-ball bases, officers and soldiers catching thieves, etc. There were always children charging into the battle in the mountains and valleys. Sometimes we would gather the children of school age in the alley to simulate military games, and follow the military chess (land war chess)

), after the two camps have been sealed from commander to squad leader, there are still a lot of children left who can only serve as soldiers. If the same number of female officers and soldiers are added, the scene can be imagined. This also leads to a

The scene that appeared: When it was dark, parents shouted their children's nicknames at the top of their lungs, calling the children who were playing wildly outside to go home for dinner. Some of the oldest, second and third oldest children took turns calling." Liang Zi said with emotion, "Now this kind of situation

The sound can no longer be heard at all. Many people who have been there lament the close relationship between neighbors back then. In fact, the establishment of this relationship is related to the large number of children, the children playing together and hanging around."

"I remember Liang Zi is an only child." Qiu Hongye looked at him and smiled.

"I was the king of children at that time... bala bala." Liang Zi talked endlessly, somewhat recalling the feeling of those prosperous years.

What Liang Zi talked about was very exciting, and everyone listened with gusto, especially the grandchildren of the Lin family who grew up abroad, and the two siblings, Niu Niu and Mao Tou. They had never heard of it before, and they were very envious!

Fang Monan smiled and said nothing. At that time, there were many children, and the parents had both jobs, or they worked in the fields in the countryside, so the children were left alone. The parents had no time to take care of them, and the children had a lot of leisure time of their own. They were active in the streets and alleys.

Playing in the fields, playing mud fights, rolling hoops, and jumping rubber bands became classics of that era. In those days, most children exercised for at least three hours a day. Although they were not as rich materially as they are now, they were physically strong.

It’s not the current and future weak, tutoring classes are everywhere. In addition to opening up a way to make a fortune, the children’s bodies are really different. Military training does not count as military training unless a few faint and set new records every year.

Nowadays, there is only one baby, and parents are gradually paying more attention to academic qualifications. There is a common concept of "valuing literature over martial arts".

The child's physique is also gradually becoming "vitrified", and the parents' meticulous training of the child has actually aggravated the child's poor physique.

"Wow... wow...!" Everyone was amazed when they heard this.

"It turns out that dad was so naughty and mischievous when he was a child." Niu Niu's words made everyone laugh.

"Hey! Grandma, Mom, why are you two back? Where is Dad!" Fang Monan stood up and said.

"Your dad is busy, what are you talking about?" Fang Monan pulled out a chair for them and they sat down.

"How about it, do you want some more," Fang Monan said with a smile.

"Hey! No need, your uncle is really willing to give up. He ordered a table full of food and was full." Grandma quickly waved her hand and said.rs