The Pioneer of the Rebirth Era

In most rural areas, relatives and friends do not have wedding gifts. Basically, when they get married, the man buys three gold gifts for the bride price, and the woman gives a certain dowry according to her family conditions.

As for relatives and friends, they often make a few new quilts for them, and then pay gift money according to the distance of the relationship, and then attend the wedding and have dinner at the table.

There are basically no plans to prepare special wedding gifts, or give extra red envelopes. Giving red envelopes is also a red envelope given to the bride by the southern parents to get on or off the car when they get married, and then give a change fee when serving tea, and there is no such thing as other relatives and friends.

Of course, there are exceptions to everything. If there are some relatives and friends with better family conditions, there are also some newly married couples who are willing to give extra help.

However, there are often two options for doing such things. One is to give yourself face on the day of the wedding, and you can also give the south or the woman a face. The relatives are so generous, and the family is definitely not bad.

The other is to be low-key, and wait for the young couple to start living after they get married, and then give some help.

Yang Dongxu's family has passed the stage where people say they have face and that the family is good. In addition, the Yang family is almost the weather vane of the local area. If there are some novel things when they get married, it may cause an unnecessary trend in the local area.

So although Yang Dongxu didn't go back, but because the communication is now very developed, uncles and aunts, Yang's father and Yang's mother all called him to ask him about Ajie's marriage.

Regarding this matter, Yang Dongxu's attitude has always been to follow the customs of his hometown, what should be lively and lively should be spent, but it is best not to engage in some relatively novel things and must pay attention to any super-large scenes.

In fact, when he got married, he didn't want to make such a big scene. He also wanted to keep Zhou Ya satisfied and not lose face, and keep things as simple as possible. But in the end, he went to so many people who didn't send invitations at all. .

The influence of Yang Dongjie's marriage is definitely not as good as his own, but Yang Dongxu can already predict that no matter how simple his home is, there will still be many people who have not sent invitations.

Not to mention anything else, let's talk about the local Chinese medicine association, the important planting in Yangjia Village is the wave that Yang Dongxu set off with his own strength.

In addition, almost half of the final destinations of important plantations are acquired by the pharmaceutical factory opened by Yang Dongxu. Why should the invisible big boss’ cousin marry himself and say no?

What's more, leaving aside the traditional Chinese medicine, if I can catch up with Yang Dongxu and leave a little impression when I go to the wedding, maybe the noble person in my life will come like this.

This is just the organization of the Chinese Medicine Planting Association, similar organizations, or many people who want to cling to the Yang family.

Usually, Yang Dongxu is too low-key to find opportunities to get in touch, and he is not in his hometown all the year round. Although he will go back during the Spring Festival, anyone who knows a little about Yang Dongxu knows that at this time, if he clings and flatters, he may be flattering on the horse's legs. So everyone didn't dare to move forward.

Now that I have finally caught the opportunity, I must not miss it. This is only in the local Yangjia Village. People outside the local area, such as Li Yihang, have already asked about it, but they were all declined by Yang Dongxu.

The only gift accepted was from Yu Feihong's side. Yang Dongjie's going to his studio to study was somewhat involved, so it would not be good not to accept the gift money.

This is still able to talk to Yang Dongxu knowing Yang Dongxu's temper, and everyone knows what to do after Yang Dongxu declined.

And those who want to cling to Yang Dongxu have no way to receive the news, if they come to the door with a gift that day, can Yang Dongxu show the other party a cold face on the wedding day? Or make people get fucked?

So don't make the scene too big by yourself, or that sentence, the Yang family has already passed the stage of saving face.

Instead of thinking about the big scene, Yang Dongxu's advice is that other houses have a lot of ours, and the rest is to prepare a few more tables of wine and food to prevent too many people from accidentally coming to the door. Even the place to eat has not lost etiquette.

Of course, the records on the gift list must be stricter. The records of relatives and friends coming to congratulate the same village are recorded on a gift list.

As for gifts from those who don't know each other at all, and are not relatives and friends of the woman's family, then make a separate gift list and record it clearly. These people can eat at the wedding banquet, but the gift money is definitely not required.

After the wedding is over, I will return it. When I return it, I feel that I have done something clever and must refuse it. Then I will directly donate it to the Red Cross in the name of the other party. Even Yang Dongxu of the Runyu Fund will not donate.

In the future, if these people want to say that they have attended Yang Dongxu's cousin's wedding and how they are related to Yang Dongxu, they will brag about Yang Dongxu. But if you want to ask Yang Dongxu to do something with this favor that you only thought was forced in, I'm sorry that it's not the day of marriage, so go back where you came from.

"Then what should we give after we get married?" Zhou Ya obviously understood what her husband meant, so she continued to ask.

"Give me a passable car, don't be too good, two or three hundred thousand is fine, it's too good and too eye-catching, that kid Ajie is easy to be embarrassed." As for the house, Bai Qian had already said that she would give it away. The side is even more rambunctious to buy.

At that time, let Ajie tell my aunt that someone gave away the new house in Yanjing, and let my aunt think about doing other things with the money. So now that the house is there, the car is left.

As for Baiqian, the second wife, who gave away a house worth several million yuan, would Zhou Ya feel ashamed that the big house only gave away a car worth two to three hundred thousand yuan?

This problem will never arise on Zhou Ya's side. She doesn't even have this idea. She used to be a business queen and she is not so small.

"Then let him choose by himself, don't let him choose what he doesn't like, or give her a 300,000 card and let him figure it out."

"Let him choose a car and let's pay for it, don't pay. Although that kid Ajie has no bad habits, it's easy to have other thoughts when he holds cash in his hand.

So let's just buy a car directly. If he wants to use cash, he wants to see that it is still in the bank to make him feel at ease, and let him work hard to earn money. " Yang Dongxu said.

"Alright!" Zhou Ya nodded, "I'll be back tomorrow, are you busy here?"

There is still some time before Yang Dongjie gets married, but Zhou Ya plans to go back early. Although she is also very busy at the end of the year, she can just find someone to attend some meetings. Unlike Yang Dongxu, many things need to be handled by herself.

"It's about the same, you go first. I will ask Wen Chen for leave in a few days, and then I will take him back together."

"Wenwu and Tangtang, Baiqian and Fuzhen are also very busy at the end of the year."

"Let Chen Xin come and take care of her for two days. It just so happens that she needs to show her face on some necessary occasions during this time. It is better to keep a low profile and let the aftermath of that matter completely quiet down."

"What do people in Hangzhou say?"

"How can I say it, the guy surnamed Zhou was so happy when he ran away, everything was pushed away, and he changed from the person involved to the bystander watching the excitement. But it doesn't matter what they think or do, since the matter It has been said that it must continue until the goal is reached."