The ups and downs of the urban jungle

After seeing Hou Shuyuan, Lin Bing finally started to walk out of his room. Although he is still depressed, he is slowly returning to normal life. My parents, who had always been worried about this, felt a little relieved.

After a few more days of this, Hou Shuyuan finally finished all her troubles and took Lin Bing out to relax.

The small county town where she grew up still retains some impressions and memories of her childhood. Hou Shuyuan took Lin Bing and searched for those childhood fun, and she naturally felt much more relaxed.

Lin Bing briefly introduced to Hou Shuyuan his ups and downs experience after the breakup. Hou Shuyuan was not too surprised after hearing this. She seems to have known about Lin Bing's experiences for a long time, which is not surprising. What she is more concerned about and worried about is her present and her future.

Hou Shuyuan told Lin Bing a lot of her understanding and experience of life in one breath, which made Lin Bing really admire Hou Shuyuan.

Being a woman is actually the saddest thing. It is said that a woman looks like a flower when she is seventeen or eighteen years old, but turns into dregs once she reaches thirty. From seventeen or eighteen to thirty, it only lasts for more than ten years. Even if you add ten years to forty, it only lasts for ten or twenty years. Woman! How many good times have you had to waste on yourself? So people say that men create life and women enjoy life. Men conquer the world by conquering their enemies, and daughters conquer the world by conquering men. This is indeed very reasonable, and it is natural. Men have a lifetime to withstand the hardships; women cannot. If a woman wants to create a life, even if she finally succeeds, she will be old and have no time to enjoy it. Time flies, time cannot wait for anyone, this is the hard truth.

Hou Shuyuan's words were meant for Lin Bing. She knew that Lin Bing had been outstanding and superior since he was a child. As for excellent and superior girls, over time, they gradually develop this feeling of arrogance and self-righteousness. And Hou Shuyuan knows men best. Men don't like women's arrogance in their bones.

Women can't stand the trouble and have no time to do it. Therefore, whether a woman is happy or unhappy throughout her life, she should not think about struggling on her own. She can only rely on men. It is natural for women to rely on men. How can a woman rely on a man? How can you make a man willing to give you happiness and joy? What does a woman have? Isn’t it your youth and beauty? This is the only capital that women have to conquer men.

Lin Bing was thinking about why he had entered a dead end in life, and even he was confused. Her previous aloofness and arrogance made her like an arrogant princess, far away from the main body of her life. Later, the indifference and loneliness caused me to live in a circle that I had defined for myself. All her excellence and perfection are almost just self-appreciation and intoxication.

She can no longer find her own existence in the real society.

Human youth and beauty are not left to oneself to appreciate and intoxicate. This is the capital given by parents and the favor given by God. If you use it well, it can buy you a lot, including the whole world. If you don't use it well, you can only bring yourself misfortune and pain.

Hou Shuyuan lives a very realistic life. Not long after she entered college, she basically bid farewell to her romantic era, and did not waste much of her youth playing romantic love games with the little brats around her. She is very down-to-earth, using her youth and a little bit of beauty to try her best to find a suitable and satisfactory home for herself. She found this man who was much older than herself, and asked him to decisively part ways with her ex-wife, and then strictly follow the legal procedures to become a legal couple with her. Although the man left home, no matter how clean he was, a man of this age would have nothing. After all, he already had his own place in society. Even if you start from scratch, you will still have a better foundation and more stability than those little kids who just left school. No matter what, he still has the basic ability to support his family.

Lin Bing still didn't seem to understand Hou Shuyuan's choice. I am young and a young girl, so why am I willing to marry such an old man and a second-rate businessman? Is it worth it?

Is it worth it? This is the tragedy of girls of our generation. To be honest, every girl has a fairy tale of Prince Charming in her heart. Everyone wants to find Wang Hui, the charming childhood sweetheart who matches their age? Is it practical? If they are of the same age, they either have nothing, they are one of the old people, or they are the rich second generation. No matter who you marry, it will be your own tragedy in the end. If you don’t believe it, just give it a try? Needless to say, those rich and powerful second-generation people can be your grandson when they chase you. Once they catch you, you will become trash; those who are nibbling the old people can marry you now if they have the conditions. , but how will I live after marrying you? As the saying goes, if you sit back and eat, you will become a family with him. How long can he take advantage of his family's capital? Apart from these two types of peers, who else can afford to marry you? this is the truth.

Life is full of youth. Who bets youth on tomorrow? No one can afford to gamble, no one can afford to get hurt.

Hou Shuyuan woke up earlier than Lin Bing and lived a clear life.