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The latest website: Memories flooded into Yin Yin's mind at this time, and she also learned the information of this world.

In this world, the original owner had three children, the eldest daughter Xia Ji, the youngest daughter Xia Zhi, and the youngest son Xia Xia.

The two daughters were born to the original owner and the first husband. Now the eldest daughter, Xia Ji, is 23 years old. She has just graduated from university and has studied clinical medicine. She has excellent grades and even won a scholarship.

The youngest daughter is seventeen years old. She has just finished her second year of high school and is about to enter her third year of high school. She is nervous about her studies. Now that she is over the summer vacation, she is still taking supplementary classes at school, and her grades are good.

The first husband died unexpectedly not long after the birth of the youngest daughter Xia Zhi.

At that time, the eldest daughter was only six years old.

Concerned that the two children are still young, the original owner did not remarry immediately, but kept pulling the two daughters to grow up, and life was more difficult.

The youngest son was born with the second husband. It was only when Xia Xia was one year old that the man proposed to divorce the original owner.

The reason given by the man was inconsistent with the original owner's three views.

The original owner naturally disagreed, but the man made up his mind that he didn't even want his son, and was determined to divorce.

The original owner didn't even understand what her husband meant by the three views disagreement. From her point of view, their lives were clearly living well.

In the end, the two got divorced, and their son Xia gave it to the original owner. Now he is four years old and studying in kindergarten.

Speaking of the original owner, it's really hard to say.

Yin Yin just wanted to say that the original owner's character and behavior are the norm for many parents in China.

True and sad.

The original owner is a person with a strong desire to control, especially when dealing with three children. The word she believes in is: You were born to me, I can do whatever I want, I take care of you, and I will see how your things are. Now, you were born to me, I am your mother, you have to listen, you have to do what I tell you to do, or you have no conscience and you should be punished.

A suffocating control that controls the child in the name of love, interferes with the child's choices, and deprives her of her rights.

The original owner is still a person who likes to feel sorry for himself and kidnap children.

The words she often talked about were: I worked hard to pull you up,

You treat me like this, I have sacrificed so much for you, do you still have conscience; because of you, my heart is broken, I can’t eat well, can’t sleep well, what do you want from me? Do you want me to die to be satisfied? ;Look, I have to work hard to make money outside every day, and when I come back, I have to sweep the floor, cook, and do laundry. Whatever you do, you can't do anything. I just say something to you, and you refute it. I'm not doing it for You, you are still not obedient...

These words of self-pity and self-pity hide a deeper level of accusation and denial of the original owner towards the children, making the other party feel sorry for themselves and feel guilty. And belittle the child, let the child produce himself inferior to others, useless, not even worthy of living in this world.

Letting children see the "love" they give for their children is actually a moral kidnapping.

Let the child unknowingly generate negative energy, a sense of guilt, guilt, and make the child have to listen to her words. If you don't obey, you have committed a serious crime, and you are a person with serious sins, and you should repent for the rest of your life.

Let the child feel that he exists, that everything about him is wrong.

Make the child more and more pessimistic, and over time, the whole person will be depressed.

And there are many such parents in China, so much that it is basically the norm.

That's why Yin Yin said it was true and sad.

And the reason why the original owner's second husband divorced the original owner was also the original owner.

He is a university teacher. He knows that the original owner's education method is problematic. He tried to communicate with the original owner and ask her to change it, but the original owner did not realize his mistake at all.