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The next second, he raised his head and said to Yin Yin, "Mom, let's go home."

Yin Yin glanced at the plastic bucket that was 80% full and said, "It's almost full, why don't my mother accompany you."

"Ah?" Xiao Xia was stunned.

Yin Yin squatted down, picked up Xiao Shenlin's shovel, and shoveled the sand together.

She had been looking at Xiao Xia Xia from the corner of her eye, and she saw that the latter was stunned for a while, then she smiled, swept away the wilting just now, and shoveled the sand happily.

Soon, a bucket was full and their task was done.

The child seemed to have a sense of accomplishment, looked at the full bucket, and smiled again.

"Come on, let's wash our hands and go home."

"Um."

On the way back, the little guy was obviously very happy.

Yin Yin sat with him on the bus seat, looking at the child with his calves dangling, thoughtfully.

In fact, what Shen Lin's mother said just now has been said by the original owner countless times.

Children are childlike and love to have fun.

Even adults don't understand the fun of shoveling sand, but kids still have a blast.

In the past, when the original owner came to the kindergarten to pick up Xiao Xia, he would also encounter Xiao Xia playing with his friends.

Sometimes Xiao Xia only delays the work for a while, and the original owner becomes extremely impatient, and directly says, "If you play again, mother will not want your words." Or "How old are you, how do you know how to play? Look at it. You, playing with your clothes so dirty, don't you have to go back and wash them for you as a mother, do you know how difficult it is to wash?"

Xiao Xia was always intimidated by the original owner like this, and finally had to be obedient and suppress his own nature.

Yin Yin doesn't understand why there are mothers who can easily say that they don't want children, even if they just say it casually, just to scare the child, but the child's heart is the purest, he is likely to take it seriously, because you say it casually. A sentence sentence is in anxiety and cautious, and will be afraid of being abandoned.

Another example is that most children will ask their mothers: Mom, where did I come from.

Some mothers also joked,

You are what I pay for my calls, you are what I picked up from the trash can, you are me...

They are joking casually, but children may take it seriously.

Yin Yin thought, there is no child who does not want to be born with love. Is it so difficult to say that you are the crystallization of the love between me and your father?

Some parents are still trying to make their children obedient and complacent by saying "whatever you do, I don't want you" for themselves.

Yin Yin didn't understand what was there to be complacent about, but rather sad.

Suppressing the child's nature, relying on this semi-intimidating method makes the child fear the mother.

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"Tomorrow, Mom will go to G City to pick up your sister. Xiaozhi can order takeout at noon tomorrow, and you don't have to come back for a run. If I don't come back at 5:00 pm, Xiaozhi will go to the kindergarten to pick up every day from school." At dinner, Yin Yin directly dropped a blockbuster.

Xia Zhi was stunned, but the four-year-old Xia did not understand the deep meaning of these words.

Xia Zhi responded immediately, "Mom, I see."

"In addition, in the future, the two of you, I will give you pocket money on a fixed monthly basis. It's up to you to spend this pocket money how you want to spend it."

Probably because he was relatively poor in the past, the original owner controlled every cent of the children's money.