Urban Bounty Hunter
Chapter 166 Psychological Problems: Desire To Control? (Plus More)
Wenren paused for Chu Xiao's sentence "It's okay", then walked to the side, poured a glass of water, walked over, and put it on the coffee table next to the reclining chair.
Then he glanced at Chu Xiao who was lying on the chair, walked towards his single sofa, and said:
"If it was you in normal times, you would definitely have scolded me just now, but what you said was "Yes". Moreover, after you came in, you sat directly on the recliner opposite me, not on the sofa next to me. "
"It seems that subconsciously, you really want to have a good chat with me.
"Yes, I really think so." Chu Xiao did not deny it.
"Tell me, what happened?" Wenren Mingjue asked, pushing his glasses.
"I have a friend..."
"Ahem," Chu Xiao just started, but was interrupted by someone who heard: "You just talk about things."
Embarrassedly smiling, Chu Xiao continued: "It's me, that's fine. I was a while ago......"
After that, Chu Xiaojiang and Shen Yifei talked about it, and then he talked about Ye Ke'er, Ye Dajun and Xu Ting's concern for him, and so on, all without reservation.
Of course, the day leached.
Even if it was mentioned, it is estimated that people who heard it would not believe it.
Wenren Mingjue, who was sitting across from him, was holding a teacup, quietly listening to Chu Xiao's narration, nodding his head from time to time, but making no comments.
Until, Chu Xiao finished speaking.
"So, you feel sorry for Ye Keer and Shen Yifei, don't you?" Wenren Mingjue said.
"Yes." Chu Xiao nodded.
"Then, why did you still fall in love with Shen Yifei after Ye Ke'er expressed her affection and Ye Dajun and Xu Ting treated you so well?"
Chu Xiao was silent, and after a while, he asked uncertainly, "Because of Huaxin?"
Regarding Chu Xiao's answer, Wenren Mingjue was noncommittal and did not express his opinion, but continued to ask: "Then, it's been so long since the last time, why don't you feel this way again?"
"Until now, you didn't come to talk to me about it."
......Some time ago, I was busy with a case, so I didn't have time to think about it. "After a moment of silence, Chu Xiao replied.
"Actually, this matter is very simple."
"You just have to ask yourself if you really like it."
"I never make judgments about liking two people at the same time, from a professional point of view. Because people are animals with complicated emotions, and when they get emotional, they can't be stopped.
"But from a personal point of view, from a friend's point of view, there is indeed a big change between the current you and the original you."
"Maybe you didn't realize it yourself."
"Most of the time, you are wonderful, a very qualified friend and a very nice person.
"This is not a good person card."
"However, sometimes, I feel that you are a little unreal. It gives me a feeling that you seem to want to control everything. This feeling, although it is still strong now, does exist.
"Desire to control?" Chu Xiao said after thinking for a while.
"Yes, desire to control, the first time I saw you, I was also in this treatment room for Ye Bi's psychological treatment.
"Yes." Chu Xiao nodded, he naturally remembered.
"The you at that time, all I saw was a person who was anxious to help the children of the elders after being hurt."
"But later, during the chat with your classmate, that is, during the last meal, and your old classmate nicknamed Fatty, I discovered that the way you get along with him seems to be natural, and you don't realize it. took a dominant position.”
"Think about it, before, when you got along with him, was it like that?"
"No, not much has changed, right?" Chu Xiao frowned, thinking carefully.
In fact, what he was thinking about was not getting along with Fatty Fang Yuan, but the time he had dinner with Liang An.
That was the time when something unmanageable happened in his relationship with Shen Yifei.
At that time, facing Liang An's kneeling, although he dodged subconsciously, he was willing to help in the end, but thinking about what he said at the time, he really had a feeling of superiority
At that time, he didn't even find anything wrong, but he seemed to enjoy it a little bit?
Immediately, Chu Xiao talked about the meal with Liang An, and told Wenren Mingjin to listen.
After listening to Chu Xiao's words, Wen Ren suddenly realized, and said:
"That's it. That Liang An's kneeling was an inducement."
"Although you dodged subconsciously at the time, Liang An's behavior aroused the feeling in your heart, made it appear, and was magnified."
"It gives you an illusion that you are omnipotent."
"Judging from your calmness before, you should have handled this kind of thing well, after all, you already had Ye Ke'er at the beginning.
"But when you feel that arrogant and feel that you can solve everything, let yourself gradually become presumptuous."
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"Then, you don't know how to deal with Ke'er and Shen Yifei. You don't want to give up Ke'er, but you also want to get Shen Yifei.
"The injury on your arm is the most recent one, right?" Wenren Mingjue finally turned his attention to Chu Xiao's arm when he changed the subject.
"That's right." Chu Xiao nodded.
"And not more than two days." Wenren Mingjue continued.
"how do you know?"
Wen Ren smiled slightly and said: "The injury on your hand broke your illusion of omnipotence. It made your subconscious realize that you are still an ordinary person."
"It's because of the injury on your hand that it made you think more about it."
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"You started to doubt yourself again, and your thinking fell into chaos for a while. Before you subconsciously thought that you could handle two people, but now, you are withdrawn from the busyness and injured, and you are worried. With Shen Yifei, I will lose Keer."
"That's why you are so troubled."
"As for why I knew you were injured, it didn't exceed two days. It's because I know you are a person with strong executive ability. If you had realized this problem a while ago, you wouldn't wait until now to come to me. "
"But I said, I'm working on a case?" Chu Xiao asked back.
"No, no, no, I know you better than you. When this case is being handled, what you provide is considered technical support. In fact, it's not like you're free."
"And, didn't you recruit three new subordinates with extraordinary abilities?"
"In terms of your execution ability, if you realize a problem, you will definitely find a solution as soon as possible."
"Like this time."
"When you realize the problem, it's like calling me right away."
After speaking, Wenren Mingjue smiled confidently and looked at Chu Hui.
Shaking his head, Chu Xiao smiled wryly and said: "It seems that Wen Ren is worthy of being an expert, and you are really good at analyzing and understanding a person. So what should I do?"
"What should I do?" Wenren Mingjue seemed a little dumbfounded, and after a pause, he said: "To put it bluntly, what you want is a solution to a relationship problem. You asked me about this, and you asked the wrong person."
"I can figure out what's wrong with you psychologically, but this..... I'm really not good at it."
"How about I introduce a relationship expert to you?".
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