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Chapter 149:
A silent environment can be a prelude to a tacit understanding between familiar people, and it can also become a hotbed of alienation.
And when this kind of situation occurs among people who are not familiar, the first thing it brings is not fear, but also a surprise-like surprise-in a peaceful environment, I feel that he understands me well, or is that he is very surprised. Great, ideas like this will prevail first.
When making further communication on this basis, it is easy to have a subconscious sense of rejection-are we familiar? Why do you say everything I want to say, and even say what I don’t want to say, play with me?
Ahem, the above is an exaggerated statement, but in fact, many people are already driven by the subconscious sense of rejection before they have that kind of excessive thoughts, intentionally or unintentionally, alienating that makes them feel a little uncomfortable. People.
When someone tells you something you don't intend to say in person, you will subconsciously have a sense of rejection towards that person, which is also natural, even Xia Ming is no exception.
Therefore, Shiina Hikazu said that the feeling Xia Ming gave her was very similar to [everyone].
"..."
Shiina Hika lowered his head in anguish.
"You don't need to show this look, you are not wrong, you just did it wrong--"
Seeing the girl's unhappy face, Xia Ming smiled: "Excellent insight and keen perception can be born or cultivated, but I guess you are the former."
"Oh...? This is indeed... But how did classmate Xia Ming guess it?"
"It's very simple. Just like what I said just now, you always subconsciously speak out other people's hearts. This is abnormal, because you know that being seen through is a terrible thing."
"However, you, who know this fact, are the only one who is not conscious of this aspect of yourself. This is not only because you feel that you have not seen through others, but also because you take yourself to see through others as a matter of course."
"This is proof that you are born with these two abilities-only if you are naturally breathing, can you take it for granted."
"For this reason, I will say that you are not wrong, you just did it wrong."
This is the same as smoking, but it is the same as causing distress to the people around.
"Have I done something wrong...? But... even if it was that way, I wouldn't do anything to them?"
Shaking his head, Xia Ming said softly, "I just said it, you take it for granted."
Perhaps in Shiina Hikazu's opinion, she is just communicating very ordinary. Even if she knows what other people are thinking, she doesn't intend to do something extraordinary because of it, because in addition to the two points just mentioned, her Concepts are still very close to ordinary people.
However, these two points alone are enough to worry her: "We have also talked about it. Normal people should be afraid of what I just did, but you are not."
"This is because after you see through my mind, you take it for granted that I will not hurt you. This kind of mentality of trusting others is good, but you are too much, even to impose this kind of mentality on others. Degree."
"It is good to trust others, but it is not normal to assume that others should trust oneself."
"The relationship between people is not something that you can unilaterally think that it’s okay. You can naturally impose your [trust] on others, and you will not harm them. Naturally, they cannot understand why they alienate you."
"You know that it is terrible to be seen through easily by others, but you always think unilaterally that you are only communicating normally, even if you know what everyone is thinking, you will not do anything to them, but this kind of thing, in the final analysis It's just your wishful thinking."
"This is because you are born with strong insight and keen perception, which has always been the case from the beginning of sensibility, so you will take this kind of wishful thinking for granted."
"..."
Ding Ding Ding-
With his head down, Shiina Hiwa, who has been stirring coffee with a spoon unconsciously, whispered as if aggrieved: "So... so everyone... would think I was terrible..."
Except for the two points just mentioned, the girl’s three views and thinking are all normal, and the gentle nature of her, she was suddenly accused of doing something wrong all the time, and even subconsciously regarded as terrible. People-girls who are uncomfortable with being rejected by everyone will naturally appear depressed at this moment.
"Well, if you really want to say it, it's not entirely because you did it wrong."
"Ugh……?"
Shiina Hiwa, who had already taken up most of the thinking space with a depressed mood, raised his head blankly and looked at Xia Ming blankly.
"Ha ha--"
Light up the lost cute lamb. Now Xia Ming likes this kind of work: "The formation of human behavior is not only related to oneself..."
The reason for this situation is actually not just a problem between Shiina and a person. If there are people around her who reject her, it is also a very important factor-this is not to blame them, but to sigh them. That share, everyone has a sense of novelty and timidity.
They will be attracted by Shiina Hiwa’s [sensible] at first, but when they plan to get acquainted with them, or even want to have a deep relationship, they will be scared off by the girl’s [sensible] because they are afraid of being seen through by others. My mind is normal.
She understands me well, but is it a bit too much? However, she hasn't done anything extraordinary...
Most people who are not too familiar with Shiina Hika would think so.
It is precisely because of the illusion of good feelings that [she knows me well] and the subconsciousness that is afraid of being seen through by others, so that they will not feel that they hate her, but will subconsciously reject the girl, and alienate her if anything.
This also made Shiina Day and her unconsciousness about her behavior—because people alienated her only subconsciously. No one came to correct her [error].
"...After knowing the facts, I always feel helpless..."
This kind of thing is indeed quite helpless for girls who are not good at angering others.
"Well, a lot of things are like this, you're right, and I'm right, but everyone did it wrong when they got together."
Shaking his hand, Xia Ming said something of relief that was not comforting.
"Ah... it is..."
After reading all kinds of famous works of reasoning based on reality, after knowing the truth, Shiina Hiwa can naturally understand this truth easily, but when I understand it, when I experience it myself, I will still be entangled and helpless.
"so what--"
Seeing that the girl was still looking dull, Xia Ming smiled and asked key questions: "After knowing where the confusion lies, what are you going to do?"
PS1: I can't coo! Just stay here and don’t walk around, I’ll be back when I have a meal! It will be released before twelve o'clock tonight!
Chapter 114 One of the Three Illusion of Life (Fog)
"How to do it..."
Shiina Hikazu sighed softly, and said something that seemed to Xia Ming to be almost the same as nonsense: "I can only change it slowly, right? When I talk to everyone in the future, I will try to restrain myself. ."
Because this is the only way to do it all, if the girl still wants to have a normal social life.
"It's very smart—"
It’s common for what you think and what you say is not right. Xia Ming naturally doesn’t say that those words are nonsense. He smiled and said, “Although it sounds sad, but I want to have normal communication with ordinary people. You have to become like them [stupid]. This is a matter of course. After all, people need to be equal, even if it's only on the surface."
"Well……"
Shiina Hiwa puffed her cheeks-she guessed what Xia Ming was thinking just now, but she just opened her small mouth this time, and when the words were about to blur out, she was stopped abruptly by herself.
"Tsk tusk, good job, Shiina-"
Xia Ming didn't care that he was seen through his mind, he said with a chuckle: "However, you can talk freely with me. Although I can't guarantee my subconscious thoughts, my own independent thoughts do not mean to hate you at all. , I never thought of repelling you."
"……I see……"
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