winning hand

"To put it simply, the story goes like this. I have to admit that I know too little about my players. I didn't know that Arshavin is a child of a single-parent family... But this also explains why he

He has that kind of introverted and withdrawn character. He is a child spoiled by his mother. He went to college to study.

They are all children of fashion designers. Because of the lack of fatherly care in life, their habits are somewhat feminine. What his mother has been most afraid of since childhood is that he will become like his father, so she will definitely not teach him to be like us.

Other players have mothers like this, so it’s not surprising that he has such a temper.”

"I think such a temper is quite good. What's wrong with a child who listens to his mother?" Wan Qi held the wine glass, tilted his head and thought for a while before saying, "And how on earth did you convince him to be obedient?

of?"

After Christmas comes the New Year, and on New Year's Day, at the customary gathering held by the coaching staff, people were surprised to find that Li Bin actually received a Christmas gift from Arshavin, which surprised the coaching staff.

Wan Qi also kept pestering him, asking him how he made that somewhat introverted guy so easy to talk to.

Although the matter involved adultery, Wan Qi had never been a loudmouthed person. After Li Bin gave her a few instructions, he had nothing to hide and told her about Arshavin.

"Prescribe the right medicine to the case. For a child with a serious Oedipus complex, it is natural to let him know his mother's expectations for him." Li Bin said, "Actually, I didn't expect that this guy's literature and art have reached this level. He actually

He once thought about giving up football because he found it not as interesting as he thought. He is an adult now

Ah, this is his profession, but he is so... I don't know how to describe it. However, I think now, he will think a lot less like this. Let's talk about it, maybe, he doesn't have that much

My thoughts are crazy. Children from single-parent families have special characteristics. His mother is very important to him and will have a great influence."

In my memory, Arshavin's career was very unsatisfactory. Although he was already well-known in Russia in his early years, because the Russian Super League has never been taken seriously and the salary is high, he has never been there.

Dig, his name only appears on games like FM, few people actually watch him play. He has been there

It was only in 2008 that he became completely famous. He was a blockbuster in the European Cup. After that, he went to Arsenal with a record transfer fee for the club. At Arsenal, he played very well, scoring goals for Arsenal many times.

Arsenal contributed to winning the championship or securing fourth place. However, because of Wenger's persistence in moving offensive players to the wing, coupled with his own personality problems, in the end, he did not reach the heights expected. Although

He was once considered by all Europeans to be a player with greater ability than Cesc Fabregas. However, he began to decline in his career just after he turned 30. Because his career did not reach the heights he expected, he began to

He became self-defeating, drank too much, got divorced, and hooked up with third-page girls. Many problems emerged, causing him to lose his main position early. Then, he was kicked out of Arsenal and returned to Russia to spend the end of his career.

In the past, it was difficult to connect these news knowledge memories with the situation of Arshavin. Li Bin always found it difficult to understand why such a boring person became so arrogant in the Arsenal environment.

It will become so bad, no matter what the English football environment is

It's not bad, it's not like this. Now, after understanding some of Arshavin's situation, he also understood Arshavin's problem. In his early years, this child who grew up under the doting of his mother, although he had a passion for football

love and outstanding talent, but also because of the environment in which he grew up

This problem led to his lack of hard work. After arriving at Arsenal, his career suffered setbacks. Seeing his career going downhill, he also began to indulge himself. There was a perfect way to indulge himself in his eyes.

Model - his father, so he began to learn

Like his father, he drank alcohol, got divorced, and acted nonsense. It can be said that this is his way of self-destruction and self-abasement. Because he grew up in a single-parent family, he has a more feminine personality and likes to go to extremes. He has no success in his career.

The self-destruction after pursuit also came extremely violently.

In this life, after knowing many things about him, Li Bin also decided to dissuade him and turned him into a better person. Arshavin is his player. Although his personality is somewhat unsociable, he

After all, he is also a member of the team. Li Bin does not want to see him give up on himself in the future. Even if he is not a professional player, he does not want Arshavin to become bad from a human perspective.

Li Bin believes that he can do it. On the one hand, Li Bin believes that he is not Wenger and will not make some demands on him that he does not like. On the other hand, Italy is not England. Although there are many models here, they are not as popular as England.

It seems that the girls in the third page are still slightly better. Li Bin believes that if he works hard enough, he can make Arshavin a different person from the one in his memory.

Arshavin has an introverted and sullen temper, but he is actually not a person who particularly likes to cause trouble. During his career, he only accepted interviews from one Russian reporter, and the number of interviews he accepted was only once or twice a year, never once.

He will cause trouble in a high-profile manner. Li Bin believes that as long as he can correct his shortcomings, he will still be a good player.

"I have learned a lot about him," Li Bin said. "Sometimes, our views on a certain person are one-sided. We only saw Arshavin's unsociable temper.

, I saw that he didn’t work hard enough and that he was not an ideal player, but if you don’t recognize

If you really have a heart-to-heart talk with him and don't communicate with him well, how can you know these things? And if you don't know these things, how can you help him correct it? It's really not possible to not be considerate and sincere to the players. If you don't understand these things, it won't work.

I don’t have the guts to say that I can teach him well about these things.”

"There are different opinions for different players. Milito has a lot of years and pursuits for a successful career, while Rossi has an unparalleled pursuit of success, and Arshavin, I

I bet that his mother is his weakness. Obviously, I was right. Anyone who is doted on by his mother

It is impossible for a child not to love his mother. I analyzed his mother's expectations for him, analyzed his mother's thoughts, and encouraged him to make a phone call with his mother and have a good communication.

, and then brought his mother to Italy, which naturally made him work harder when playing football."

"You're doing very well." Wan Qi smiled, "And what's even more rare is that you actually know a lot of psychological things. What did you do for him? Psychoanalysis? Or I didn't even listen to you.

I told you about this."

"I have only studied some sports psychology, which is not really psychology at all. I can't learn this aspect. Psychoanalysis and behaviorism are both troublesome enough. I have only watched some NLP.

books, although those things are not considered formal

Neo-Confucianism, but it is quite practical. However, there are some things that I can always empathize with. I don’t dare to say that it is psychological analysis. It is just some simple persuasion. His mother is a great person. With such a good

Mother, he should know how to cherish it."

"When these words come out of your mouth, it seems like you have some ulterior motive?"

"It's not like I'm making any ulterior motives. I can explain it clearly: When I was a child, I had my own dreams, but my parents were not that open-minded. They told me that I must learn those things that can earn me a lot of money.

I want to make money as a career, and then when I grow up, I will make money. There was a time when all my dreams were wiped out. It was not until much later that I mustered up the courage to start a life of my own. So,

I envy his mother very much."

"Your dream is to be a coach? Since childhood?"

"Of course not. I had other dreams when I was a kid...not playing football, but something else. But those are things that happened when I was a kid. There's nothing to say." Li Bin said with a smile, "Those things are in the past and we can look forward to it."

That’s what’s important.”

"But your relationship with your parents doesn't seem to be that good."

Li Bin didn't say anything. He couldn't explain what happened in his previous life.

"Anyway, you have to take care of your own affairs, so I won't say anything else. What gift did he give you? I just took a look at it and didn't see it clearly."

"A book, Michael Lewis's new book "Weakness: The Process of the Game", in English. I'm learning English recently, so it's good to read this kind of book. I mentioned it to him once, and he bought it for me as a gift.

Already."

"Michael Lewis?" Wan Qi frowned, "The author of "Liar's Poker" and "Leaving the World Behind"?"

"Have you read his books?"

"I have read some of his books, and I think his books are pretty good, but I haven't read this one yet."

"This one is about football. Some of his books are sports-related, which are quite good to read. His first two books, "Moneyball" and "Moneyball: The Wisdom of Winning in Adversity" are both

Everything about baseball is very useful for reference - sports are similar, and a lot of what he wrote is about management knowledge. Unfortunately, he is an American and doesn’t like football very much. I would really like to know what he writes about

What would a football book look like?"

Wanqi looked at Li Bin and she understood something. Even a Serie A coach must broaden his horizons from time to time and constantly recharge himself.

No profession is easy, and no one can do it once and for all. After starting a profession, he will always be on top of the world by relying on his own survival. Even in his heyday, he cannot neglect to recharge himself. Only then can he be on top of the world.

This is what a qualified coach should do.

"After reading it, lend it to me to read... If you have the previous book, you can lend it to me to read now." After Wan Qi finished speaking, he suddenly remembered something, "You are learning English so that you can go to the Premier League in the future.

Are you ready?"

"certainly."

Wanqi raised his eyebrows and said nothing.

"What's wrong? You don't like the Premier League?"

"What does this have to do with whether I like it or not? Does it mean you won't go because I won't go?"

"That's not true. I have my own career plan. However, if I go to the Premier League, as a member of the coaching staff, you will also have to go to the Premier League with me."

Wan Qi narrowed his eyes, looked at Li Bin for a long time, and then nodded, "Okay, I have stayed in Italy long enough in the past two years. When the time comes, we can go to England together. But by then, I will be three

He’s ten years old.”

This time it was Li Bin's turn to be silent: Is this, do you want to imply something?