Your Distance

If this is my son ...

Boss thought to himself, this is really not my son.

"It's not easy to be a father," Bo Chang said with a smile. "I have a friend who has had similar experiences. It's been a twist. I understand."

"Oh?" Zhu Ao asked, "Did he finally solve the problem? It shouldn't be easy."

Bai Changyi said: "Well it's not easy to handle. It took about half a year to resolve."

Zhu Ao said: "Six months? That's fast. How to solve it? I want to learn from that guy."

The two walked, just passing through a side door of the exhibition hall. Bai Chang glanced at his watch and said, "I still have time, why don't we go out and talk?"

The exhibition hall may encounter company employees and partners at any time. It is really not a good place to talk about such topics. Zhu Ao nodded and went out with Bai Changyi. There is a smoking area in the exhibition center just a short distance away. Zhu Ao said, "Let ’s smoke one together?"

Brother.

Boss' mood is slightly more complicated.

The two sat on the sofa in the smoking area with a square table in between.

Bai Changyi ignited a lit cigarette between his left fingers, but he didn't smoke very much, only occasionally to poke the ashtray into the central ashtray.

"That friend and I have been friends for years. When this problem was encountered, his son was in his thirties." Bo Changyi said.

Zhu Ao smoked a cigarette and said, "His son is over thirty and not married yet?"

"It's done." Bai Chang smiled, "One day later, his son suddenly called and said to him," Dad, I'm gay. I just got divorced. Now I'm sitting in the car. I don't know where to go. Somewhere to go. "Speaking of which, Bo Changyi stopped to sip the soot, and glanced at Zhu Ao at the same time.

Zhu Ao seemed to remember something, and narrowed his eyes slightly after the lingering smoke, only a moment before he said, "After his ex-wife knew, he took the initiative to leave?"

Park Changyi said, "Yes."

Zhu Ao smiled, and the fine lines at the corners of his eyes were deeper: "Man, you are not sensible when you are young, and you always make mistakes. Some women ... you ca n’t rub the sand in your eyes, just go away. What about you? Didn't advise his daughter-in-law to let the young couple think again? "

Bai Changyi said: "Divorce is a foregone conclusion. My year-end relationship was hit hard and I couldn't accept his son's love for men."

Zhu Ao said, "Look, it's not just me, a dad can't accept it ... how did you solve it later?"

"My friend believes in science, so he went to a psychiatrist to solve the problem," Bo Changyi said.

Zhu Ao listened and thoughtfully smoked for a while, and said, "Find a psychiatrist ... is this necessary ... and, is it useful?"

"It worked well. Although it took half a year, it finally resolved the problem."

Zhu Ao nodded and said, "Why didn't I think I should find a doctor before? This makes sense. I am also a science-loving person, so I should ask a doctor for this kind of problem. Hey, Professor Bai, the one your friend was looking for Is the doctor Chinese or German? If so, how would you introduce it to me? Your friend ’s son spent half a year to treat homosexuality ... Then how long does it take for my son to return to normal?

Bo Changyi frowned slightly, as if he didn't quite understand what Zhu Ao said. After thinking for two seconds, he looked at Zhu Ao and said, "Mr. Zhu, you may have some misunderstandings of my words."

Zhu Ao also did not understand Bai Changyi: "What misunderstanding?"

Bo Changyi took a sip of cigarettes and took a slow sip of the ashes, saying, "The psychiatrist asked for my year-end invitation, not for his son."

Zhu Ao was confused: "What does this ... mean? Didn't he see his son?"

"Of course not." Bo Chang smiled, and said in a teaching tone about an obvious and simple point of knowledge, "After understanding the related research, my year-old friend realized that homosexuality is no problem, the problem lies with himself. He is deeply Suffering from this unhealthy mental state of homophobia, this trouble has affected his normal life, but also affected his father-son relationship with his son, so he asked a psychiatrist to solve the problem. I want to put out the cigarette and look at Zhu Ao very considerately, "Mr. Zhu, I understand you very well. Being a father is already very hard. You also have to face your own psychological problems. It is normal to have some pressure. I know a few good psychiatrists. I can introduce them to you. If you have a psychological problem, we will solve it. We are all in the engineering department.