Best Son-in-law

Facing their entangled offensive, Ding Yanan was speechless. She didn't know what to say at this time.

It can be said that these two people have feelings for her and have no selfish motives, but they want to bring her and Liang En together without caring about their own feelings.

To say that they are selfish, some of the things they do are really to help Ding Yanan in their own way.

If they are right, what they say are all fallacies. They are fallacies that want to break up Li Fan and Ding Yanan, and they are fallacies that want Ding Yanan to give up her relationship with Li Fan.

Maybe what they said was wrong, but they were right. Ding Yanan also felt a little helpless, and didn't know what to say at this time.

"Yes, you still have to live after all. Let me tell you one thing. Will you have nothing to talk about with him in the future? You are not from the same world. You and him are destined to have nothing to talk about. You talk about some brand-name bags. He will think you are extravagant and won't let you buy it. You will feel aggrieved because you paid for some of the money yourself, but he can't accept it. You are right, and so is he. What is wrong? Your concepts are wrong. Yes, you two have completely opposite ideas. You can’t accept his behavior, and he can’t accept yours. You buy a brand-name bag and think it’s nothing, but he can’t stand it because he has never made any money in his life. How much is it? A brand-name bag is his income for many years. The money you spend to buy a brand-name bag can feed him for several years. So, you are destined to be together, do you understand? The way of thinking, There’s a lot of difference in thinking and everything.”

"And this is not something that can only come to the end by tolerating each other. This is disagreement. This is the key to parting ways. Maybe he can tolerate it if you buy one brand-name bag, but if you buy two or three, Or more? Do you think he will continue to tolerate you? I think he may not continue to tolerate you, because he thinks it is useless for you to buy these bags, and he will not be able to stand it, because he thinks your Bags are not important. You should buy things that he thinks are important. In this way, you will be wronged. Can you completely give up everything about yourself and the life you should have because of him, and then degrade the quality of your life back? This is impossible Bar?"

"There will be more and more gaps between you. You think it is easy to make one million, but he thinks it is difficult to make one million. In this way, your ideas will change. He thinks you are too ambitious and unrealistic. You think he has no ambition and ambition. You can't stand men without ambition. How can we be together? He's not from the same world at all. He's from two worlds, okay? In this way, you guys There is no way we can be together, there is really no way." Liu Yuqing began to teach Ding Yanan again.

"Yes, the same is true for someone I met before, a friend of mine. She has a real experience, just to give you a warning. She is about the same as you. She is a rich girl, her family is very powerful, and her father is also very powerful. Dote on her. She has never suffered anything. She is the apple of the family's eye. She is good-looking and has a very good personality. But then she met a person who was her marriage partner. Her marriage partner was a poor boy. , the family didn’t have any resources, they met in college, developed a relationship, and often went out together. Finally, my friend thought this man was good and reliable, and she liked him, so they got together. After they got together, they After a few years in college, I later got married despite my family’s objections.”

"What happened after they got married? With the help of this friend of mine, their lives began to slowly get better. My friend turned out to be the sweet girl of heaven. Her father doted on her to the heavens. He wanted the stars to be with him. For the moon, her life is also very pursuit of quality, her life is also very elegant and exquisite, but for this man, she gave up such an exquisite life and instead endured hardships and worked hard with this man, even He broke up with his family and made his father so angry that he became ill. What did he get in return? This man became lawless."

"Their lives are a result of their hard work. Of course, this friend of mine has paid more, because not only does she have to put in effort and action, she also helps the man take care of the relationship, using the money that her father gave her Some means, but this man actually doubted why my friend was able to sign the cooperation agreement so easily, and suspected that she used special means, and then the two started to quarrel. This man suspected that my friend was not a good person, my friend She felt aggrieved and felt that everything was not worth it despite her hard work and dedication, but she still had to suffer such criticism. In fact, it was really like this, and everything was not worth it."

"The estrangement between the two began. Originally, my friend was fully capable and qualified to continue living her own quality life, but she gave up everything for this poor boy, and even begged for help in a low voice for the poor boy's career. In the end She was still misunderstood, but my friend still persisted because she believed in this relationship that she shouldn't believe. As a result, later on, this man became successful and his career became successful, but he became more and more alienated from my friend. He felt that my friend had used some special means to manage these relationships. He suspected that my friend had done something sorry for him and insulted his dignity. Why didn't this man think about it? Even if my friend She did something sorry for him, wasn't it also for him? She shouldn't have lived such a life. She had the opportunity to choose a better life. She gave up everything for him, but she still didn't get it. Give back.”

"In the end, even if two people are rich, the man is not willing to buy any bags, cosmetics or other things for my friend. He is reluctant to part with it. He feels it is not worth it. He feels that spending any money on my friend is not worth it. It's not worth it. He is such a beast. He is not good to my friend at all. In the end, he feels that his success in career is his alone. He calls my friend worthless and hits and scolds my friend. In the end, I My friend was completely disheartened and ended up divorcing this man. From beginning to end, this man never fulfilled his original promise. He told my friend that as long as he had money, he would definitely let him She can live a good life again, and this good life is achieved by two people working hard together. As long as my friend gives him a period of time, he will give my friend the best life and the happiest life. Life."

"My friend gave up a lot, accompanied a lot, and went through a lot of hardships in the end. This man succeeded, but he never fulfilled his original promise. And in the end, guess what happened? This man found someone else. A woman got together with another woman just after getting divorced, and then she was defrauded of all her property. The career that the two of them worked hard for was ruined. All the years of hard work were gone. It was all in vain. Nothing existed anymore. In the end, this man regretted it. He cried and wanted to ask my friend back, but how can there be so much regret in life? If you miss it, it will be gone, and it will no longer belong to you. If you don't know how to cherish it, what's the use of cherishing it if it's gone? Isn't everything still without any results? "

"My friend was in such a miserable condition. She left home and gave up everything. In the end, she got nothing. What happens next? Her poor father was the one who accepted my friend in the end. Her father objected at first, but my friend didn't listen. , broke up with her family, had no contact with her for several years, and was finally abandoned. However, her father accepted her, raised her at home again, and allowed her to be the apple of his eye again."

"But my friend's father is really old. As a result, his hair has turned white. Isn't everything he does for his daughter? Isn't it because he doesn't want his daughter to suffer any injustice? He loves Cheng Bao's daughter. , to become a piece of grass, who can accept this? In the end, my friend lost everything, and the man still wanted to persuade her to look back, how is this possible? "

"You may say that my friend met a scumbag, but you know what? That's not the case. This man is as good as he was before. Really, he is better than anything else. He is better than you can imagine. As a result, because of some things and some life reasons, he changed. It’s not that he changed for the worse, but that he and my friend should not be together. They are not from the same world. Unless you don’t want to get married, Otherwise, you have to consider reality. People like you should find someone who is similar to you, so that you will not wrong yourself. Why should you suffer that wrong? You have such good conditions, there is no need to suffer that wrong. Ah." Liu Yuqing told a lot about her friends, just to give Ding Yanan some inspiration and let her change her ways and start a new life.

It allows her to re-examine this relationship, whether it should continue, whether it should end, and where her future will go.

"Yes, this is all based on experience. You said that your friend lost everything, her heart was gone, her feelings were gone, her efforts were not rewarded, and she suffered such injustice. In the end, although she returned to where she should be Life, but her father is also old. Don't you think this is a few years off the track of life? If you deviate from the track of life, you can't get it back." Wang Jiasong also advised.

"So you can't get together at all. You like each other. This is a game played by children. But if you want to have a future relationship, you have to consider reality. Do you know? Don't consider reality. , he will be like my friend. This is not to look down on him. He should really just find a village girl who has never seen much of the world, but can live a good life and have a good family. Then, he can farm the land, at most in the village. Open a grocery store and live happily for the rest of your life. Yanan, do you think you are willing to live such a life? Spend your whole life in the fields, deal with the fields, and other things, nothing, what It's not even possible to pursue her, are you willing to live like this?" Liu Yuqing persuaded Ding Yanan, just because she wanted Ding Yanan to look back.

Li Fan listened to this quietly beside him, feeling extremely helpless. He was really looked down upon wherever he went. Could it be that he should change his outfit? Li Fan himself felt that his outfit was very shabby.

"Oh, I should change my outfit. It's not good to be looked down upon all the time." Li Fan thought helplessly.

He laughed at himself inwardly, his face full of desolation.