Dressed As An Ancient Heroine Control Group

After hearing this, Yang Haiyan disagreed: "Mammy, women can manage marriages, but they can't deal with concubines and concubines. If a marriage depends on a woman taking care of a man to last, then such a marriage is unhappy."

People like Madam Lian who are skilled in ancient thinking naturally don't understand Yang Haiyan's meaning: "Marriage management? The main room does not deal with the concubine and the outer room? Where did the wife come from?"

Yang Haiyan smiled and said: "Marriage management means that after getting married, two people living together need to tolerate each other, consider each other, and understand each other. If a woman loves this man, she will think about him. Take me and the general. For example, I will ask Dr. Wang to prepare a medicinal bath for the general because I care about him. I hope he will be healthy and stay with me all the time. I will pick up Siya and Shoucheng because I know he cares about his family. , I have extra time, so I am willing to help him educate his younger siblings when he is busy.

This is my contribution, that is, my business.

But after I pay, after I manage with my heart, if the man's return is to take my things for granted, then I will no longer pay attention. Of course, I will be willing to pay attention, because you generals are worth it. He is a man who rarely respects women. Unlike ordinary men, he has blind self-esteem. It is not like ordinary men who think that women should listen to men.

He will ask me when he meets someone who doesn't understand, he knows what I like and what I want, and he will give it to me within the scope of his ability. Although what he gave was not precious, nor anything rare. But in my heart, a man who can give you what he can afford is the most precious thing. It is more valuable than what a rich man buys for me with a few hundred taels or even a few thousand taels.

Therefore, marriage requires two people to take care of each other, rather than unilaterally paying blindly.

This is business.

In the same way, if one day, he has some concubine or outer room, just once, then our marriage will come to an end. I don't care about my man, having had other women before me, because at that time, I hadn't shown up yet, and I couldn't be mad at his past, and I couldn't care about his past. But when we started, if he had other women, it was a betrayal of me. I will put away everything I have paid, from now on, he is a stranger to me.

Even if I die in front of me, I am stingy to shed a tear.

How to discipline the concubine and the outer chamber, that is even more ridiculous. This is a man's woman, do you want me to take care of it? Wouldn't it be better for me to separate from him and find someone younger? Why take the time to discipline his women? "

These words of Yang Haiyan were earth-shattering for Madam Lian. She had never heard such a thing. When a woman was in the boudoir, she was taught three obedience and four virtues. When married, she was taught to respect her husband. No matter how noble a woman is, she is regarded as a queen, and her husband is her heaven. But today, the wife said that if a man has a concubine and a concubine, it is better for the two to separate, and the woman finds a younger one.

It sounds like this remark has subverted the concept of the lotus, but think about it carefully...

Seeing Mother Lian's thoughtful expression, Yang Haiyan couldn't help joking: "Mammy, think about it, in this world, I dare not say that there are many good men, but good looks and good figure, as long as you are a woman If you are rich, even if you are forty or fifty years old, you can still find such a man, what do you think?"

Mother Lian hurriedly said: "Ah, my wife, don't tell the general in this case, if the general finds out..."

Yang Haiyan said: "Even in front of him, I dare to say, if he treats me badly and dares to find a younger man, am I worried that I can't find a better man than him?"

Grandma Lian: "Bah ah ah, my wife is really bold." But thinking about it carefully, it makes sense. If a woman has the ability, why should she be angry with a man? Looking for someone who is young, good-looking, and in good shape, wouldn't it be better? Mother Lian felt that it was impossible, and her thoughts were driven by her wife.

Yang Haiyan looked at her nervously, and her stomach couldn't stop laughing: "Don't worry, mama, I'm just talking, you generals treat me well, I can't be satisfied with him, it's too late for me to like such a good man. ."

The two were chatting inside the house, and the whole person who heard Qin Fang outside was stunned.

Even if he never thought of looking for his concubine and the outer chamber, he was scared to death when he heard what his wife said. He was not frightened by her shocking remarks, but worried that she might find a young man with a good figure at any time.

Qin Fang couldn't stand it just thinking about it. If one day, they separated, she had a man who replaced him, who would live with her and do the intimate things they had done. Thinking of this, Qin Fang felt sour and uncomfortable. He could not wait to catch that person out and beat him up.

No, he couldn't let Yanyan have such an opportunity. No, just thinking about it can't make Yanyan think like this, so he thinks back on himself. Along the way, has he been approached by other women? Qin Fang has a good memory. He felt that he kept a fairly safe distance from other women. It was that time when many of the women he brought to Yunxiang County to settle down wanted to approach him, but he avoided them all. Yes, keep your distance.

Thinking about it now, he was able to break out in a cold sweat, but fortunately he didn't let the woman approach him at that time, otherwise he would suffer today. Oneself suffer and others suffer, of course others suffer. Thinking of this, Qin Fang immediately had an idea. When placing the women in the bandit den, he had to place them in the village farthest from the county seat, lest they come to him.

Qin Fang can be said to have no guilty conscience about this idea. He didn't owe them anything, he saved them and brought them here. Whoever wants to ruin his reputation and ruin his marriage will kill him. Whoever wants his life, he wants his life, very fair.

Yang Haiyan didn't know that Qin Fang was taking a road of no return that regarded women as tigers.

Qin Fang turned around and left, lest his daughter-in-law know that she heard these words.

The dishes in the hall were already set, and when Yang Haiyan and Mother Lian passed by, Qin Fang was already sitting upright. Seeing Yang Haiyan coming in, he quickly got up: "Yanyan, are you tired? I'll support you." Attentive like a little Qinzi.

Yang Haiyan is not such a greasy person, not the kind of person you do, I'm so tired, you hug me or something. She glanced at Qin Fang and said, "I'm not tired. It's you who have been worried for months. Now the barbarians have finally arrived in Yunxiang County, you can rest well. You should eat well."

Yang Haiyan really cared about him, but from what Qin Fang heard, this was not the case at all, it was like a reminder of what happened on the road. So, he became more attentive: "I'm not tired. You have come here all the way from the border gate. You are even more tired. Come, Yanyan, I'll serve you soup."

Yang Haiyan sat down and saw him start pouring the soup. She also took a piece of meat for Qin Fang: "Master, eat the meat. The chicken I bought here is very tender. The tender chicken braised in stew is especially delicious. You can eat it and see."

Qin Fang put down the soup bowl and ate the chicken served by Yang Haiyan: "It's delicious, Yanyan, yours is especially delicious." When a man is very nervous, anxious, or even guilty, it's like he doesn't want money. Although Qin Fang felt that he did not do that wrong, he was the information.

Yang Haiyan thought that Qin Fang had mastered new skills and learned sweet words, and was very satisfied. Some words are too sweet and boring for others. But as a client, she was happy to be treated like this by her husband. Between couples, where do you feel bored?

After eating a good meal, the couple walked for half an hour to digest their food, and Yang Haiyan went to take a bath, and went to bed after bathing. When Qin Fang took a second bath and returned to the house, he saw his daughter-in-law sitting on the bedside reading a book. He took off his underwear and walked around in front of Yang Haiyan. After walking back and forth twice, seeing that Yang Haiyan did not respond, Qin Fang snorted: "Yanyan..."

Yang Haiyan raised her head: "What's the matter?" Seeing that his upper body was naked and his black trousers straddled his waist, he had to say that this man's figure was like a model, which was indeed good. I can't find a trace of fat on my body, especially now, it's a bit coquettish to play with my figure.

Looking at her sparkling eyes, Qin Fang felt that his plan was indeed right, and Yanyan liked his body. In Qin Fang's eyes, liking his body is the same as liking his body.

Qin Fang was very satisfied with Yang Haiyan's performance, but he hid the pride in his heart and deliberately asked with a silly and honest look: "Yanyan, compared to when I was at the border, have I lost weight? Look, My meat here is too small." He said, pinching his abs.

Yang Haiyan looked at it carefully, and answered seriously: "No, your muscles won't be small, but your face has lost a lot of weight." If muscles are so easy to lose weight, are there any stovepipes in modern society? You know, many modern women like to wear heels, and this is how the chicken in the calf comes from. Even if you don't wear high heels, there are many calf muscles. They all suffer from the inability to lose their calf muscles.

If, like Qin Fang, the muscles can be reduced after a month of hard work, it is estimated that the stovepipe needle will be out of business, and the women will all laugh crazy.

Qin Fang felt a little bitter when he heard Yang Haiyan's serious evaluation. He didn't let her really comment on the muscles, he let her look at the muscles.

But his wife said so, what else could he do?

"Really? That's my illusion. When I was wearing clothes, I felt looser than before, and I thought I was thinner." Qin Fang tried to find a reason, but asked casually, "Then my face is now Is this thin? Is it better than before?"