Huayu’s ex-husband

Chapter 232 231. The probability of encountering a scumbag with a giving personality is extremely high

Wei Wu is not stingy about the quota for a subsystem. The problem is that a female star who has a subsystem will inevitably become his harem in the end, regardless of whether she wants it or not.

It feels a bit inappropriate for me to scumbag her when she is already in such a miserable state!

But then again, this girl has lacked love since she was a child, lacks a sense of security, and desires to be loved and cared for in her heart. She is a typical giving personality.

Wei Wu once saw her interview on the show, and there was one detail that was particularly poignant.

She said that when she was in kindergarten, she was always the last one to leave in the class. All the other children had gone back, and she was still alone on the small table doing her homework.

It's not that her mother doesn't love her, but it's because her mother has to work very hard to make money so that she can afford her life and education.

Her father abandoned her when she was a child, and her mother had to make money to support the family. Although she loved her very much, her time and energy were always limited, so her care and companionship for her was not as rich as other mothers.

Lucky people can use their childhood to heal their entire lives, while unfortunate people can use their entire lives to heal their childhood.

The pain of the original family will really last a lifetime, and even Mao Xiaotong is not immune.

The first relationship lasted for 5 years, and the second relationship lasted for 4 years before she was cheated on. Each time, I rushed to get married, but until I was 36 years old, I still hadn’t gotten married.

It has to be said that girls with a giving personality have a very high probability of meeting a scumbag.

To put it bluntly, the man may not be that bad at first, but he will gradually become more and more bad.

There are two main reasons. The first is unlimited giving without expecting anything in return.

Such women tend to over-give in relationships and ignore their own needs and bottom lines.

This kind of behavior may make the other person feel loved and cherished in the short term, but in the long run it will cause the other person to become dependent and even use this dedication to manipulate the relationship.

The second is the lack of principles and bottom line.

In relationships, such women are often unwilling or afraid to express their dissatisfaction or set boundaries, which may lead to their partner's behavior becoming more and more excessive, while they are still making excuses for each other.

Imagine that you always love and treat the other person as your whole world, and if you feel wronged, the other person may be very moved at first.

But over time, your efforts will become worthless in the eyes of the other party.

Thinking of this, Wei Wu's psychological burden suddenly became less heavy.

At least he is still a scumbag with a conscience, and at least he knows how to cherish the other person's efforts.

If she is destined to meet a scumbag, then she should suffer herself!

At least the damage can be controlled within a controllable range. In addition, the benefits she received in her career can also make up for the emotional trauma to a certain extent.

At least he was a scumbag on the outside. Except for Liu Tianxian, the remaining confidante knew that he had a real girlfriend.

If they still want to throw themselves into his arms under this situation, then at least they have made enough psychological preparations, and then they can be a scumbag with peace of mind.

Thinking of this, Wei Wu made up his mind not to give it to her in a hurry for the time being.

It's best to observe for a few more days. If she really has the same idea as Yang Mi, then just give her the subsystem.

"sorry……"

At this moment, Mao Xiaotong had calmed down and wiped away her tears!

She looked a little embarrassed, lowered her eyebrows and softly apologized to Wei Wu:

"I'm sorry, I originally brought you a late-night snack, but when I cried, you were not in the mood to eat!"

Wei Wu quickly said: "Who said that? Am I not eating now?"

Wei Wu said, and quickly fed a few more mouthfuls of porridge into his mouth, pretending to be eating well.

Mao Xiaotong poured him a glass of water and explained to himself somewhat embarrassedly:

"Actually...I'm not usually like this. I rarely cried before. I don't know what happened tonight, but I suddenly turned into a crybaby!"

Wei Wu smiled and joked: "It's okay. Women are made of water. You can cry if you want. It's not a big deal."

Wei Wu knew well that her abnormal gaffe meant that she had become dependent on him.

It's like a child falling while walking. If his parents are not around, he may endure the pain and get up immediately by patting his butt.

But as soon as his parents help him or ask him a question, he may start crying!

Of course, her dependence is more spiritual.

She should have a certain spiritual admiration for herself and subconsciously hope to seek advice and guidance, as well as receive support and encouragement on a spiritual level.

This is not a good thing for her, because this kind of dependence, if it is a strange man or woman, is usually in the stage of passionate love, and usually only occurs after an intimate relationship.

But now that neither party has had close contact, she has already developed a sense of dependence on herself.

That actually shows that she has developed a feeling of attachment to Wei Wu in her heart, which is manifested in dependence, trust, nostalgia and inseparability.

With further contact between the two parties, this dependence can easily turn into attachment, and complete collapse is not far away.

I just don’t know whether Mao Xiaotong himself realizes this.

From this point of view, there is a high probability that this subsystem of ours can be sent out!

"Did you learn this porridge from your mother?"

Mao Xiaotong nodded: "Well, my mother taught me, do you like it?"

Wei Wu nodded: "The craftsmanship is quite good, I quite like it."

Mao Xiaotong smiled with crooked eyebrows and said in a brisk tone:

"If you really like it, I can make it for you every day. I can also make a lot of porridge! By the way, I can also make mutton soup!"

Wei Wu sighed in his heart, as expected, it was the children of the poor who had already taken charge of the family, like Yang Mi, Mao Xiaotong and Zhao Liying, who basically knew how to cook.

But for people like Liu Shishi and Tang Yan, you don’t even need to ask, you know they definitely won’t!

Wu Qilong complained about Liu Shishi's inability to cook in at least three programs; and in the "Dear Inn" program, Zhang Jie once asked Tang Yan if he could cook for his daughter, and Tang Yan honestly replied that he was at home. It’s my husband and aunt who cook.

Wei Wu just finished eating, wiped his mouth and boasted casually:

"It seems that you have obtained your mother's true biography. Auntie must be very happy, right?"

Hearing what Wei Wu said, Mao Xiaotong was visibly happy, and the smile in his eyes almost overflowed.

Mentioning her mother, Mao Xiaotong looked proud:

"My mother knows a lot. She has been the person I admire most since I was a child! She is a real strong woman.

“In order to support my education, she sold popsicles and yuanxiao, and also opened a restaurant and beauty salon.

"I entered our local children's orchestra to learn electronic keyboard when I was 4 years old, and then started learning piano when I was 8 years old. When I was 12 years old, I practiced piano to Level 5. Then when I was 13 years old, I came to Yanjing to learn ballroom dancing. Later, when I was 17 years old, I applied for the exam again. A Chinese drama...

"Over the years, the amount of money my mother has spent on me is almost astronomical."

Wei Wu said seriously: "As a mother, you must be strong. Auntie is really an amazing person!"

Wei Wu couldn't help but be in awe. After all, it had been introduced before that it would cost at least two hundred thousand to train an art student from an early age these days.

Take Mao Xiaotong, for example. He tried electronic keyboard, piano, and ballroom dancing in sequence, and finally decided to become an actor. The tuition fee for any of these is at least tens of thousands of yuan.

In fact, situations like hers are very common in the circle of art students.

Even art students do not know their future path right from the beginning, and they have to spend money to try one by one.

Many people will try piano, painting, ballet, singing from a young age...and finally discover that their talent lies in acting.

Mao Xiaotong's family situation is definitely not very good. After all, when her mother was pregnant and about to give birth, she was still selling yuanxiao on the street. It is conceivable that the financial conditions are not very good.

But under such conditions, his mother not only raised Mao Xiaotong by herself, but also offered her daughter to a Chinese opera. The hardships involved cannot be summed up in one or two sentences.

Mao Xiaotong is still optimistic and cheerful despite all the hardships, probably because of her mother's influence.

So parents are their children’s best teachers!