Lisko’s American Life

I have to say that adults are the best teachers for children. This sentence is a true reflection of the real situation. On weekdays, every move of adults that children come into contact with is in the process of imitating and learning from each other. Behavioral habits are moving closer to the behavior of adults, so when taking care of children, you must pay special attention to some bad habits that you show in your daily life, because it is very likely that these small behaviors will be imitated by children to the fullest, thus Shaped into a unique behavior habit.

Zhang Li watched her daughter's every move with black lines all over her head. Although Xiao Fulan was relatively petite, she imitated her grandma perfectly and walked around the living room. After a few laps, she seemed to realize that it was almost time. , and after going through these few laps according to my previous rest habits, I have already entered the sleep state, so I put the rabbit doll in my arms back on the ground, and worried that the other party might be a little cold when sleeping, so I deliberately used trot He came to the sofa with a gentle posture, and took out a pillow that was usually covered with pillows, and used it as a quilt to cover the doll's belly.

On weekdays, when adults are coaxing children to sleep, or on the eve of going to bed, they will always tell this sentence tirelessly. You must cover your belly when you sleep, because according to the traditional customs of Huaguo, If you sleep without covering your stomach, it is likely to cause diarrhea, and the stomach is almost a relatively weak part of the human body. If there is not enough warmth and protection, it will also have some impact on the development of the intestines and stomach.

Watching his daughter playing this kind of house-playing game on his own, Zhang Licai realized that he had unknowingly missed many beautiful moments of his daughter, and his daughter's living habits in daily life gradually moved towards his grandmother Closer, it seems that there are no habits and actions influenced by mom and dad.

This kind of discovery can't help but make Zhang Li feel very guilty in his heart. It seems that he himself has not performed the duties of a mother so thoroughly, and he has not fully accepted the appearance of his daughter and the reaction of breaking into his life. Or make your living habits move closer to the direction before you got married and had children.

As a mother, this habit itself is not so normal, and it is the biggest factor in the source of my own mistakes.

After putting the little bunny doll to sleep, little Fran stood up and looked for her next play item. She seemed to feel a little hungry, so she ran to the fruit plate on the coffee table in the living room very skillfully to pick and choose. After picking, I chose a familiar fruit, especially holding the fruit back in front of my mother, holding it high and handing it to the other party.

"Do you want to give this pear to mom? Mom is not hungry now, and she doesn't really want to eat fruit."

I have to say that the maids of the castle and the butler Payne are 10 points excellent in these daily tasks. No matter what time the coffee table in the living room is always placed with washed fruits, and the variety and cleanliness are far beyond people's imagination. For example, stale fruits will be distributed to the maids as benefits on the second day after being placed overnight. In cold winter, the price of fruits may also rise in a straight line due to the weather. The maids receive This kind of fruit that is regarded as a welfare is also very happy afterwards. After all, according to their own living habits, they will not buy these luxury fruits in the cold winter.

Zhang Li widened his eyes, watching his daughter standing in front of him, the way the other person held up the fruit seemed to want to give this thing to him, but he didn't have much thought of eating fruit at this moment and intend.

"no, no"

After listening to her mother's inquiry, Xiao Fulan shook her head firmly, and refuted the other party's words. She lifted up the fruit herself, not wanting to give all of the fruit to her mother, but hoping that the other party would pick up the knife and eat the fruit. Cut it open and share it with two people, because grandma once said that the fun of eating lies in sharing with others, and only the food that everyone eats together is the most delicious food.

It may be because of the chaotic organization of family members, so Fran can almost be said to be in a state of learning two languages ​​together in her daily life. Communication, sometimes in the face of outsiders, I will use English as much as possible to communicate.

Because little Fran may be in a state of learning to speak now, washed by the two languages, and gradually has her own ability to distinguish between the two languages, and sometimes chooses the right words in different situations To answer, of course, there may be language confusion more often, for example, English and Chinese are mixed to express the ideas I know.

After dancing for a while, Zhang Li finally understood what his daughter was thinking. It turned out that he wanted to cut up these fruits by himself. Maybe the whole fruit could not be eaten completely by the baby, and the whole round pear would also let the baby eat. For a while, I didn't know where to enter. After cutting it, all these worries seemed to disappear. No matter where I started, I could get a good start.

After he understood what his daughter meant, Zhang Li was also amazed at her daughter's intelligence. It may be because grandma often taught the baby that children should not touch sharp objects such as knives and scissors. It will cause certain harm to the baby, and children are not suitable for using these appliances.

And Xiao Fulan presents the teachings of her grandmother in daily life to the fullest, fully applying what she has learned, and maintains vigilant thoughts in the daily moments of life, and tries her best to follow her grandmother's teachings to guard against all things that are not suitable for her. things to do.

Picking up a knife, he cleaned the fruit that he gave to himself, and then put it on the chopping board and cut it in half. When Zhang Li returned the two fruits to his daughter, the other party shook his head and only took one. The meaning is undoubtedly that I want to give the other half to my mother, which fully embodies the good qualities of sharing with each other.

Suddenly being treated like this by his daughter, Zhang Li was actually very moved in his heart. From the moment of these trivial things, he could feel that his daughter has gradually changed from the state of being still in her infancy to a more and more sensible little girl. I have a child, and my heart is very kind and soft. These discoveries make me feel very grateful and happy.