Lisko’s American Life

"Are you going to feed your mother? It's so good, so good."

Zhang Li leaned down and looked into her daughter's eyes. The meaning expressed in the eyes of the other party was very precise. She couldn't help but gently kissed the other party's forehead to express her recognition and praise for her daughter's sensibleness, and then she began to feel happy I started to enjoy the pears I shared with my daughter. In fact, Zhang Li didn’t have much interest in the fruit of pears in his daily life, and he didn’t like eating them that much, but today he felt that half a pear was particularly delicious, even far away Refreshed my usual impression and perception of this fruit.

Compared with her mother who tasted the taste of the fruit in small mouthfuls, Little Fran's movements were much bolder when she tasted the pears, swallowing the pears in big mouthfuls, while being careful to avoid the pear juice in her mouth from dripping onto her clothes, even Self-servingly took out two paper towels and wiped off the pear juice flowing from the corners of his mouth. He was already very familiar with and proficient in these little actions of cleaning up his personal hygiene after being taught by his grandmother, and he didn't need any worries or special care from adults at all. Nursing, she herself is a very independent little girl.

It took Zhang Li a long time to eat half of the pears. While eating the pears, he wanted to clean up the toys on the ground. After his daughter finished playing, the dolls continued to stay on the carpets. It is obviously a bit abrupt, and it is also scary. When people pass by, these toys will be trampled dirty. Proper storage is a good way for these toys to be played next time.

Unexpectedly, when I just got close to the doll, before I had time to pick it up from the ground, my daughter trotted to stop me, and even yelled at my mother angrily with righteous words. Protect the calf, as if my mother has done something very sinful.

"nono,"

"Huh? Why? Didn't you stop playing? Mom puts them away and takes them out when you play next time. Mom won't snatch toys from you,"

Seeing his daughter's posture all of a sudden, Zhang Li thought that the other party thought that he was grabbing toys with him, so he squatted down and explained patiently, but he didn't expect that the baby's worry was not about this matter at all. And I didn't think about this aspect, after all, in the baby's understanding, the toy itself belongs to the child and has nothing to do with the adult.

"Tutu, it's troublesome to sleep,"

Looking at her mother's very kind face, little Fran's original anger gradually subsided, and she tried her best to organize the vocabulary in her mind to express her meaning word by word.

Although I have ended my interaction with these dolls, for children, the existence of these dolls is a part of their life. Although I just took a short break to taste some fruits, the toys are still there. They are in the state of just playing games together, and in the baby's world, these dolls themselves are in a state of rest and sleep. After all, they must be very tired after playing just now. This kind of behavior of their mother is undoubtedly disturbing each other. She is very familiar with the posture of being woken up after a normal rest, but it makes people feel uncomfortable all over.

"Ah? It looks like this. I'm really sorry. Mom forgot. Mom can apologize to Little Bunny, please let them continue to sleep. Mom promises not to disturb them."

After listening to her daughter's explanation, Zhang Li was in the same place for a while. She never connected the appearance after playing with her daughter who was in the middle of playing, and thought that after the little bunny sleeping, The game of pretending to be a house is over. Unexpectedly, my daughter is very serious, treating these things as real things, and also seriously treating all her toys as individual existences that can live alone and have independent thoughts.

It may be because I have never considered problems from the perspective of a child, so I didn't realize how abrupt my actions were to my daughter at the beginning. It has become softer and I truly feel as if I have been deeply touched by the life of the child. I also learn from children to look at some problems and think about things from their own unique perspectives. These childlike discoveries will bring life to life. Come lots of fun and some different feedback.

When he realized that his actions were very abrupt, Zhang Li immediately apologized to the dolls on the ground. After all, in his daughter's perception, these dolls are the baby's best playmates and his best friends. It is definitely not appropriate to suffer this kind of treatment from myself. Although it is ridiculous to apologize to the doll as an adult, from the perspective of a baby, this in itself is something that should be done.

As a mother who wants to get close to her baby, Zhang Li tries her best not to offend her daughter's ideas in this regard, and to keep her child's innocence is a very good thing for herself. The younger age groups try their best to enjoy all the beauty and fun of childhood, and this beauty and fun will slowly disappear with age, and finally disappear completely.

Seeing that her mother had seriously apologized to her rabbit doll, little Fulan didn't hold on to the problem just now. As a kind little baby, it is quite worthy of recognition to correct mistakes. With a contented expression, the baby continued to attack the fruit in his hand. From time to time, he would raise his head to observe his mother, and only when he saw that the other party was in the same movement process as himself did he retract his gaze in satisfaction .

Maybe adults eat faster than children. Zhang Li quickly finished it. With the small half of pears in his hand, he took out a paper towel and wiped the corners of his mouth carefully. The core was thrown into the trash can, but suddenly seeing the daughter next to her, she also wanted to have more interaction with her, so she wrapped the core in her own tissue and handed it to Little Fran.

"Baby, Mommy's feet hurt a little, and Mommy is a little tired, can you help Mommy throw this fruit core into the trash can?"

After finishing speaking, she looked at little Fran in front of her with a more earnest gaze, waiting for what kind of method the other party would use to solve this kind of problem. It was to follow her own arrangement and do some good things that went smoothly. She still refused her mother's request with righteous words, and fulfilled her own orders to do her own things.