Lisko’s American Life

Xiao Fulai, who was concentrating on dealing with the pear in his hand, suddenly heard his mother's advice, and couldn't help but focus his eyes on the pear stone handed over by the other party, and stood there thinking carefully. I have to learn to help others, and I often deliberately cultivate my hands-on ability, so it is not too difficult for me to throw a piece of trash, so she immediately stepped forward to pick up her mother in a trotting posture. With the pear core in his hand, he staggered towards the trash can.

When he saw that his daughter had fully understood what he had expressed, and that the other party was willing to provide him with some help within his ability, Zhang Li seemed to be hit by a kind of great happiness at this time, and he felt for himself in his heart. I am very pleased with my daughter's growth and her increasingly sensible personality.

For parents, there is nothing more gratifying than being able to see their children grow up day by day, and at the same time become more sensible. Although Zhang Li regrets that he missed many moments of his daughter's growth It's endless, but seeing that the other party can develop a gentle and kind-hearted personality without my own teaching, I feel proud and proud of the other party in my heart.

Just when she was in the process of being deeply moved, she suddenly found a pair of familiar shoes in front of her. The reason why the appearance of these shoes is very familiar to her is because she had chosen them when she bought them, and these shoes The owner of the pair of shoes is naturally his cute and well-behaved daughter. Zhang Li immediately raised his head and focused his eyes on the appearance of his daughter at this moment, while the other party continued to nibble on the pear in his hand with relish. , but on the other side, he held up the gift box that his mother just handed to him, and did not throw this thing into the trash as he had just told him.

"What's the matter? Don't you know where the trash can is? Do you want your mother to take you there to have a look? It's in the blue basket. Just throw the pear core into it. Just throw it away and it's OK." gone."

Zhang Li asked his daughter what he thought in a kind manner, and at the same time expressed his puzzlement at the other party's behavior. The daughter should be very familiar with the concept of the trash can, and he had handed the other party a tissue before. , asked her to wipe the residual words on the corner of her mouth. After wiping it clean, the baby directly threw the ball of paper towels into the trash can very naturally. What do not understand the situation.

In order to let his daughter understand his request as well as the tasks he is currently burdened on, Zhang Li pointed to the trash can in the distance while making a gesture of throwing trash in his hands, hoping that his daughter could be in this place. Things imitate their every move as much as possible, so that it is easier and faster to master another skill of throwing garbage.

Little Fran didn't understand what her mother wanted to express at all, she shook her head firmly, then swallowed the pulp she was constantly chewing in her mouth, and at the same time stood there for a while, as if imagining how to express herself The idea that I really want to say, after organizing the words for a while, I respond to my mother word by word with a serious expression.

"You,,, you finish eating, and,,,, and, don't throw it away,"

After a series of strokes and explanations from his daughter, Zhang Licai finally understood what his daughter wanted to express. At this stage of the baby, he is just learning to speak, and it is very easy to let the other party spit out some simple and scattered characters. Things, but if you want to connect these characters into a whole sentence and express and describe your thoughts in the simplest way, it is still a difficult thing for the current baby.

Use the simplest concept to explain this matter, that is, the baby is like a newcomer who has just learned to express. Although he understands the meaning of many words, he has no way to modify these words in his mind to form a new expression. If the whole sentence is complete, it is like a prospective computer student who has just learned the code. If you want to use the code completely and proficiently, it still takes some time to practice, and you also need to have more work experience and practice.

After understanding what his daughter wanted to express, Zhang Li now has no way to fully express his feelings with vocabulary, and even feels a little bit dumbfounded, and a little helpless. He didn't expect that he would soon be facing the 30-year-old mark. Man, he was actually educated by a child on this matter.

The meaning that the baby wants to express is very clear, that is, the fruit core sent by his mother still has a lot of pulp on it, he should eat it more cleanly, and then discard this thing, it seems a bit too much to discard now. wasted.

If there is no accident, this concept should be learned from the baby's grandmother Li Feng. The elderly are like this. No matter how much wealth they have, they can always be as thrifty and frugal as possible in their daily life, and their The era has experienced the tempering and experience of famine, and the degree of cherishing all kinds of food is simply beyond the imagination of young people.

And as a grandma, when she gets along with her granddaughter in daily life, she often teaches some ideas by precept and example. Little Fran's concept of frugality should have been formed bit by bit by her grandmother, although for the baby to learn these The matter was a little helpless, but Zhang Li didn't think it was a bad thing. The concept of frugality was cultivated from a young age, which was itself a good virtue. As a mother, I should obey and advocate as much as possible in this matter, but It's not about singing as many dissenting tunes as possible on this matter.

In fact, according to Lisko's current family situation, it seems that the whole family does not need to advocate frugality, but as a mother, he must want to make his children better. The word thrift seems to be used in people's lives, and it is not paid too much attention and love, because thrift represents restraint, and it means paying attention to the meaning of this word in all aspects of life, and most people like to use money To solve this problem, when you have enough wealth in your hands, you buy a lot of things, but you are making your own contribution to the economy of this society.

When realizing this problem, frugality and spending itself will form a conflicting meaning. If everyone is more frugal, then social mobility and economic conditions will definitely be affected to a certain extent, but if it is too extensive and wasteful, It will waste a lot of resources that people themselves don't need to waste. Regarding this issue, Zhang Li still habitually advocates the good morals that have been handed down all the time, and tries his best to cultivate his daughter in the aspect of frugality.