Lisko’s American Life

"Mother?"

While Zhang Li was communicating with his mother, the closed bedroom door was quietly opened a crack, and a name with the sound of initials came from the door, Zhang Li turned his head and looked , I found that the one who was close to me was my daughter in a princess costume.

"Mom, what are you doing?"

Seeing his mother leaning on the back of the bed and playing with her mobile phone, the baby subconsciously quickened his pace, and immediately felt his mother's side. Then I tilted my head and wanted to find out what interesting things my mother is doing. Of course, it has something to do with the baby watching too many toys or anime. It is very difficult for children to maintain their energy for a long time. For one thing, when the baby feels bored, or is not very interested in toys and animation, he will subconsciously look for his parents, hoping that the other party can accompany him, and let him have some other things to pass the time for a while.

"Why did the baby come up? Remember to take off your shoes. You can't go to bed with your shoes on. Mom is on the phone with your grandma. Do you have a little grandma to see who is on the phone?"

Now the baby's normal communication and articulation are very clear. It can be seen that children at this age who can express their thoughts so clearly and play independently have some advantages in intelligence. After hearing what the mother said, the baby took off the shoes on his feet very neatly, and then found a suitable position for the first time, snuggled up to the mother, and focused his eyes on the phone screen. When that familiar figure appeared, he subconsciously wanted to reach out and grab the phone from his mother.

"Grandma? Mom, I want grandma, where is grandma?"

It may be difficult for children to understand why the figure that accompanied them on weekdays suddenly appeared on their mother's mobile phone, or even in their little heads, subconsciously thinking about whether they got into the mobile phone, especially looking down carefully Looking at the shape of the mobile phone, it seems that there are indeed no cracks or holes that can be drilled into.

"Grandma has gone back to her hometown, and grandma is going to bring delicious food for the baby back to her hometown, and she will come here soon, to say hello to grandma."

Zhang Li deliberately hugged his daughter towards him, and adjusted her to a more suitable and comfortable sleeping position before taking the phone to his daughter's side. Of course, he also kept a certain distance from the baby. area, to prevent the other party from suddenly scrambling or accidentally touching the screen of your mobile phone, and then hang up the maintained call.

"Grandma, where have you been? Baby misses grandma?"

When Comrade Baobao’s voice was transmitted to Li Feng’s ears in real time through the microphone, the wrinkled face of the other party suddenly became very relieved, and the face that remained stern also bloomed instantly. The whole person was very happy talking to the baby interacted.

"Does the baby miss grandma? Did mother bully you? Beat you again. It's okay. When grandma returns, it's up to you to beat mother up. Whether the baby is obedient or not is obedient when grandma is not around." Baby, when grandma goes back, I will bring you a lot of delicious food."

Looking at the two people, one big and one small, interacting with each other, Zhang Li felt that he was more like an outsider at this moment, curled his lips a little helplessly, and at the same time, he was a little dismissive of the mother's claim of making decisions for the baby , You must know that no matter how much you pamper your baby on weekdays, for the age group at this moment, the child is just being mischievous and exploring any curiosity.

Sometimes verbal education may not have much deterrent effect on the baby. For example, sometimes the baby is very curious about the existence of electric plug boards and some dangerous objects. Let the other party understand what can and cannot be done through the way of being beaten. After such a micro-vision once or twice, he will maintain a high level of vigilance, and at the same time, he will subconsciously avoid these things, which may cause himself The beating thing.

To be honest, in the memory of children, there is almost no child who is not beaten. Maybe as the other party grows up, the number of times this kind of beating is less and less, and even the parents will change slightly. Your own education method, but at least when the other party is ignorant and ignorant, only through this kind of intimidation and deterrence can you keep the other party under your leadership.

Seeing the mother and baby whispering and communicating in real time without barriers, Zhang Li directly gave up control of the phone and let the baby hold the phone and murmur to grandma. It can be seen that the relationship between the child and grandma The relationship and family affection are indeed relatively strong. Although one is very nagging and the other is chattering, none of them will feel bored. Instead, they cherish this rare time to talk.

This kind of chatting process lasted for about 20 minutes. On weekdays, in fact, Li Feng has always been not that fond of communication in the form of phone calls. After the expressed matter was resolved, he hung up the phone directly. On the one hand, he may feel distressed about the consumption of mobile phone bills, and on the other hand, he is not very good at such sensational interactions and plots.

It's that this principle that I originally insisted on became extremely slack when it was transferred to my granddaughter. 20 minutes in the process of communicating with my daughter on the phone is a very long thing, but when communicating with my baby When I was there, I didn't even feel the passage of time, and the time had passed for so long.

"Okay, okay, stop chatting, Mom, if you don't have any serious problems, you can come back quickly. After you come back, you two sit together and talk hard every day. Now I'm going to take the baby to take a bath together and get ready for bed. you should also rest earlier,"

Sitting on the side watching the communication between his daughter and his mother, Zhang Li really felt a little bored. Although he could intervene from time to time, it could be seen that the two protagonists had no interest in his suggestions or echoes. He even made himself feel as if he was talking to a duck. He didn't know whether it was out of jealousy and envy, or out of jealousy. He simply ended the process of the two continuing to communicate.

"Well, baby, go to bed early, sleep well, and call grandma after you wake up. Remember to be obedient and not do those dangerous things. When grandma returns home, she will definitely bring a lot of delicious food to the baby." of."

The two seem to have made an agreement. It seems that although the baby is reluctant to part with him, under the threat of his mother's eyes, he can only follow the instructions helplessly. He put on his little shoes and made a look of waiting to go into the bathroom to wash.

"Mother?"

While Zhang Li was communicating with his mother, the closed bedroom door was quietly opened a crack, and a name with the sound of initials came from the door, Zhang Li turned his head and looked , I found that the one who was close to me was my daughter in a princess costume.

"Mom, what are you doing?"

Seeing his mother leaning on the back of the bed and playing with her mobile phone, the baby subconsciously quickened his pace, and immediately felt his mother's side. Then I tilted my head and wanted to find out what interesting things my mother is doing. Of course, it has something to do with the baby watching too many toys or anime. It is very difficult for children to maintain their energy for a long time. For one thing, when the baby feels bored, or is not very interested in toys and animation, he will subconsciously look for his parents, hoping that the other party can accompany him, and let him have some other things to pass the time for a while.

"Why did the baby come up? Remember to take off your shoes. You can't go to bed with your shoes on. Mom is on the phone with your grandma. Do you have a little grandma to see who is on the phone?"

Now the baby's normal communication and articulation are very clear. It can be seen that children at this age who can express their thoughts so clearly and play independently have some advantages in intelligence. After hearing what the mother said, the baby took off the shoes on his feet very neatly, and then found a suitable position for the first time, snuggled up to the mother, and focused his eyes on the phone screen. When that familiar figure appeared, he subconsciously wanted to reach out and grab the phone from his mother.

"Grandma? Mom, I want grandma, where is grandma?"

It may be difficult for children to understand why the figure that accompanied them on weekdays suddenly appeared on their mother's mobile phone, or even in their little heads, subconsciously thinking about whether they got into the mobile phone, especially looking down carefully Looking at the shape of the mobile phone, it seems that there are indeed no cracks or holes that can be drilled into.

"Grandma has gone back to her hometown, and grandma is going to bring delicious food for the baby back to her hometown, and she will come here soon, to say hello to grandma."

Zhang Li deliberately hugged his daughter towards him, and adjusted her to a more suitable and comfortable sleeping position before taking the phone to his daughter's side. Of course, he also kept a certain distance from the baby. area, to prevent the other party from suddenly scrambling or accidentally touching the screen of your mobile phone, and then hang up the maintained call.

"Grandma, where have you been? Baby misses grandma?"

When Comrade Baobao’s voice was transmitted to Li Feng’s ears in real time through the microphone, the wrinkled face of the other party suddenly became very relieved, and the face that remained stern also bloomed instantly. The whole person was very happy talking to the baby interacted.

"Does the baby miss grandma? Did mother bully you? Beat you again. It's okay. When grandma returns, it's up to you to beat mother up. Whether the baby is obedient or not is obedient when grandma is not around." Baby, when grandma goes back, I will bring you a lot of delicious food."

Looking at the two people, one big and one small, interacting with each other, Zhang Li felt that he was more like an outsider at this moment, curled his lips a little helplessly, and at the same time, he was a little dismissive of the mother's claim of making decisions for the baby , You must know that no matter how much you pamper your baby on weekdays, for the age group at this moment, the child is just being mischievous and exploring any curiosity.

Sometimes verbal education may not have much deterrent effect on the baby. For example, sometimes the baby is very curious about the existence of electric plug boards and some dangerous objects. Let the other party understand what can and cannot be done through the way of being beaten. After such a micro-vision once or twice, he will maintain a high level of vigilance, and at the same time, he will subconsciously avoid these things, which may cause himself The beating thing.

To be honest, in the memory of children, there is almost no child who is not beaten. Maybe as the other party grows up, the number of times this kind of beating is less and less, and even the parents will change slightly. Your own education method, but at least when the other party is ignorant and ignorant, only through this kind of intimidation and deterrence can you keep the other party under your leadership.

Seeing the mother and baby whispering and communicating in real time without barriers, Zhang Li directly gave up control of the phone and let the baby hold the phone and murmur to grandma. It can be seen that the relationship between the child and grandma The relationship and family affection are indeed relatively strong. Although one is very nagging and the other is chattering, none of them will feel bored. Instead, they cherish this rare time to talk.

This kind of chatting process lasted for about 20 minutes. On weekdays, in fact, Li Feng has always been not that fond of communication in the form of phone calls. After the expressed matter was resolved, he hung up the phone directly. On the one hand, he may feel distressed about the consumption of mobile phone bills, and on the other hand, he is not very good at such sensational interactions and plots.

It's that this principle that I originally insisted on became extremely slack when it was transferred to my granddaughter. 20 minutes in the process of communicating with my daughter on the phone is a very long thing, but when communicating with my baby When I was there, I didn't even feel the passage of time, and the time had passed for so long.

"Okay, okay, stop chatting, Mom, if you don't have any serious problems, you can come back quickly. After you come back, you two sit together and talk hard every day. Now I'm going to take the baby to take a bath together and get ready for bed. you should also rest earlier,"

Sitting on the side watching the communication between his daughter and his mother, Zhang Li really felt a little bored. Although he could intervene from time to time, it could be seen that the two protagonists had no interest in his suggestions or echoes. He even made himself feel as if he was talking to a duck. He didn't know whether it was out of jealousy and envy, or out of jealousy. He simply ended the process of the two continuing to communicate.

"Well, baby, go to bed early, sleep well, and call grandma after you wake up. Remember to be obedient and not do those dangerous things. When grandma returns home, she will definitely bring a lot of delicious food to the baby." of."

The two seem to have made an agreement. It seems that although the baby is reluctant to part with him, under the threat of the mother's eyes, he can only follow the instructions helplessly. He put on his little shoes and made a look of waiting to go into the bathroom to wash.