Lisko’s American Life

It may be because of the video call with his granddaughter this time, Li Feng, who was originally leisurely, couldn't help speeding up the speed of handling things in his daily life, and even became a little urgent, making such a cute The granddaughter can't find her figure every day, and it's really not a suitable solution. In addition, my daughter is now pregnant, and I can't let it go because of emotion and reason.

While I was busy speeding up my preparations for purchasing items, I also took advantage of this time to allow more relatives to go. The main reason for coming back this time was that I was worried that I would not be able to go home to visit relatives after years in a foreign country, so I wanted to take advantage of this rare time. Keep these ties alive.

Although the relatives next to Zhang You have basically passed away, no matter whether they are parents or other relatives in the direct line, they are already in a severed relationship. With the separation of blood and the inheritance after five generations, some Relatives more or less basically did not move around too frequently. This time, the main target of visiting relatives is Li Feng's relatives. After all, his parents are still alive, so there are more brothers and sisters. I have been in a foreign country for the past two years. I missed a lot of interactions between relatives. For example, when my nephew got married, I couldn’t get to the scene. For example, when my mother celebrated her birthday, I couldn’t hold my hand by my side. These are all regrettable things. Shang is getting older and older, and the number of times he can meet with his relatives is getting less and less, so he especially cherishes this opportunity to meet.

Almost every time I go to a family, I can be warmly received by the other party. There is a saying that no one asks you if you are poor in the downtown area, but you have distant relatives in the mountains if you are rich. Now almost all relatives know more or less the current situation of Zhang. Li Feng's marital status, even some relatives have witnessed, the other party's incomparably huge engagement link, for example, will more or less hear some rumors and hears, seeing that Li Feng's family has already succeeded from the original state Stepping into the wealthy class, not to mention anything else, just the daughter of the other party, as a well-known and caring identity is enough to make people feel envious, and the other party married a rich foreign man, although I don’t know how much the other party has. Money, but you must know that the Americans are dollars. One dollar earned by others is equivalent to seven or eight dollars earned by our side. No matter from which angle you think about it, it is enough to make people feel coveted.

And the reason why everyone is flattering and friendly to him is naturally not that they hope to get any kind of help from each other, but that people themselves have a kind of curtain wall mentality, but there are people around you who live better than you, or people of all kinds. When someone is better than you in all aspects, they will have a more or less friendly attitude towards the other party. Even if they don't get any benefits from the other party for a while, when they encounter difficulties, they can have a more friendly attitude. Strong support is also an honor.

Another example is the existence of such a relative, even if he goes out to brag, he seems to have a lot of face, so after returning this time, Li Feng received an unprecedented warm welcome. When visiting relatives at home, men are always sitting at the table pushing cups and setting cups, while women either open a table alone, or simply deal with two people in the kitchen to solve the meal.

The concept has been circulating in the countryside for a long time, and people living in the countryside may not have such a high level of education, and they cannot receive more accurate related communication and knowledge, and naturally they do not know the principle of equality between men and women.

Of course, there may be another argument, that is, compared with girls, boys may prefer to drink when they meet and party again. Drinking greatly hinders other people's normal dining situation. It is thicker, so most women don't like to sit on this kind of wine table to taste food, which can be regarded as a perfect explanation of the traditional custom of women not going to the table.

With the development of the times, more and more families may not pay too much attention to these things. Sometimes when guests come from afar, they will invite them to the table, but women are used to eating in the kitchen by themselves. Personality, plus when I go back to my mother’s house, I subconsciously want to help her mother’s house, do more work and help, I don’t want my family members to keep busy in the kitchen during this extraordinarily lively time, so basically I can personally do some things within my ability work.

Putting it in the category where Li Feng basically eats in the kitchen, she didn't pay too much attention to this situation and didn't care too much about it. It feels like coming home, not a guest from afar, but this time the situation has turned upside down. When visiting relatives, she was strongly invited by these nephews to sit at the table and taste the food He communicated with him, and even put the figure of the other party in the main position without hesitation.

Although this kind of description sounds like some harsh words and flattery, it has to be said that sometimes money is a person's timidity. With the family's situation getting better and better, and the existence of a powerful son-in-law, Li Feng The importance in the eyes of many people has been skyrocketed, and even walking on the street will be respected subconsciously. Although this feeling of returning home seems a bit at a loss, I have to say that my heart is relatively happy. An extraordinarily comfortable sense of satisfaction.

Perhaps the reason why parents place great expectations on their children is, to some extent, to hope that they will receive this kind of treatment in their later years. People will subconsciously find some support in their whole life. When they are young, they may occupy a relatively important position in the same age group because of the advantages of their parents. Become a dragon and phoenix among people, and as you grow older, you can rely on or take advantage of the candidates, and you will become your own child. If your child's development and career are extremely smooth, and occupy a comparative advantage, everyone will more or less They will pay more attention to you, or respect you.

This feeling made Li Feng very comfortable, and at the same time, he once again realized the importance of power and wealth. I have to say that this kind of feeling is indeed relatively easy to satisfy, but Li Feng knows very clearly that the reason why he receives this kind of treatment is not that kind of ecstasy, or not being down-to-earth. I feel that, on the contrary, I am more cautious in my words and deeds, for fear that if I have some bad things to do, it will bring some troubles that are difficult to solve for my children.

It may be because of the video call with his granddaughter this time, Li Feng, who was originally leisurely, couldn't help speeding up the speed of handling things in his daily life, and even became a little urgent, making such a cute The granddaughter can't find her figure every day, and it's really not a suitable solution. In addition, my daughter is now pregnant, and I can't let it go because of emotion and reason.

While I was busy speeding up my preparations for purchasing items, I also took advantage of this time to allow more relatives to go. The main reason for coming back this time was that I was worried that I would not be able to go home to visit relatives after years in a foreign country, so I wanted to take advantage of this rare time. Keep these ties alive.

Although the relatives next to Zhang You have basically passed away, no matter whether they are parents or other relatives in the direct line, they are already in a severed relationship. With the separation of blood and the inheritance after five generations, some Relatives more or less basically did not move around too frequently. This time, the main target of visiting relatives is Li Feng's relatives. After all, his parents are still alive, so there are more brothers and sisters. I have been in a foreign country for the past two years. I missed a lot of interactions between relatives. For example, when my nephew got married, I couldn’t get to the scene. For example, when my mother celebrated her birthday, I couldn’t hold my hand by my side. These are all regrettable things. Shang is getting older and older, and the number of times he can meet with his relatives is getting less and less, so he especially cherishes this opportunity to meet.

Almost every time I go to a family, I can be warmly received by the other party. There is a saying that no one asks you if you are poor in the downtown area, but you have distant relatives in the mountains if you are rich. Now almost all relatives know more or less the current situation of Zhang. Li Feng's marital status, even some relatives have witnessed, the other party's incomparably huge engagement link, for example, will more or less hear some rumors and hears, seeing that Li Feng's family has already succeeded from the original state Stepping into the wealthy class, not to mention anything else, just the daughter of the other party, as a well-known and caring identity is enough to make people feel envious, and the other party married a rich foreign man, although I don’t know how much the other party has. Money, but you must know that the Americans are dollars. One dollar earned by others is equivalent to seven or eight dollars earned by our side. No matter from which angle you think about it, it is enough to make people feel coveted.

And the reason why everyone is flattering and friendly to him is naturally not that they hope to get any kind of help from each other, but that people themselves have a kind of curtain wall mentality, but there are people around you who live better than you, or people of all kinds. When someone is better than you in all aspects, they will have a more or less friendly attitude towards the other party. Even if they don't get any benefits from the other party for a while, when they encounter difficulties, they can have a more friendly attitude. Strong support is also an honor.

Another example is the existence of such a relative, even if he goes out to brag, he seems to have a lot of face, so after returning this time, Li Feng received an unprecedented warm welcome. When visiting relatives at home, men are always sitting at the table pushing cups and setting cups, while women either open a table alone, or simply deal with two people in the kitchen to solve the meal.

The concept has been circulating in the countryside for a long time, and people living in the countryside may not have such a high level of education, and they cannot receive more accurate related communication and knowledge, and naturally they do not know the principle of equality between men and women.

Of course, there may be another argument, that is, compared with girls, boys may prefer to drink when they meet and party again. Drinking greatly hinders other people's normal dining situation. It is thicker, so most women don't like to sit on this kind of wine table to taste food, which can be regarded as a perfect explanation of the traditional custom of women not going to the table.

With the development of the times, more and more families may not pay too much attention to these things. Sometimes when guests come from afar, they will invite them to the table, but women are used to eating in the kitchen by themselves. Personality, plus when I go back to my mother’s house, I subconsciously want to help her mother’s house, do more work and help, I don’t want my family members to keep busy in the kitchen during this extraordinarily lively time, so basically I can personally do some things within my ability work.

Putting it in the category where Li Feng basically eats in the kitchen, she didn't pay too much attention to this situation and didn't care too much about it. It feels like coming home, not a guest from afar, but this time the situation has turned upside down. When visiting relatives, she was strongly invited by these nephews to sit at the table and taste the food He communicated with him, and even put the figure of the other party in the main position without hesitation.

Although this kind of description sounds like some harsh words and flattery, it has to be said that sometimes money is a person's timidity. With the family's situation getting better and better, and the existence of a powerful son-in-law, Li Feng The importance in the eyes of many people has been skyrocketed, and even walking on the street will be respected subconsciously. Although this feeling of returning home seems a bit at a loss, I have to say that my heart is relatively happy. An extraordinarily comfortable sense of satisfaction.

Perhaps the reason why parents place great expectations on their children is, to some extent, to hope that they will receive this kind of treatment in their later years. People will subconsciously find some support in their whole life. When they are young, they may occupy a relatively important position in the same age group because of the advantages of their parents. Become a dragon and phoenix among people, and as you grow older, you can rely on or take advantage of the candidates, and you will become your own child. If your child's development and career are extremely smooth, and occupy a comparative advantage, everyone will more or less They will pay more attention to you, or respect you.

This feeling made Li Feng very comfortable, and at the same time, he once again realized the importance of power and wealth. I have to say that this kind of feeling is indeed relatively easy to satisfy, but Li Feng knows very clearly that the reason why he receives this kind of treatment is not that kind of ecstasy, or not being down-to-earth. I feel that, on the contrary, I am more cautious in my words and deeds, for fear that if I have some bad things to do, it will bring some troubles that are difficult to solve for my children.