Men and women eating in the courtyard

"Ji Weidong is leaving?"

As soon as he entered the house, Gu Ning came downstairs with his hair combed and asked Li Xuewu who was changing his shoes.

Li Xuewu looked back at her, nodded and said, "Well, I think I've finished my business in the capital."

After changing his shoes, he looked upstairs and asked with a smile: "Is your son sleeping?"

"Go to bed early, what time is it?"

Gu Ning glanced at him and said, "Ji Weidong sent something here this afternoon. If you weren't at home, I said I wouldn't accept it, so he dropped the thing and left."

"No, this guy is real!"

Qin Jingru came out of the room, handed the bag in her hand to Han Jiankun, and complained: "I came in and said it was a gift. I teased Li Shu for a while, but left without drinking any water."

"He's just like that, so scheming."

Li Xuewu nodded to her with a smile and said: "How can he be as sincere as us? He cleans up those useless things as if it's a serious matter."

I opened the door to the first floor and took a look. Li Shu was lying on the bed sleeping soundly, with a nose full of snot.

"I was playing in the smoke at night and came back after dark. I refused to give up and left sand everywhere. I almost got beaten."

Qin Jingru said with a funny smile, looked in through Li Xuewu's door, and said, "You can carry her upstairs in a moment, I can't hold her anymore."

"They grow up so fast, they are older than many children of average age."

Han Jiankun disliked Li Shu the most. He often coaxed her to play here, and now he said it with a smile.

Li Xuewu nodded to the couple and said, "Go back quickly. It's quite late. Jingru finally went back and asked me to delay it."

"It's okay, I'll go back when I have time."

Qin Jingru changed her shoes from the door and put on a scarf and said: "It's not far away. If it hadn't been dark, I would have thought about riding my bike back."

"Then, leader, we are going back."

Han Jiankun spoke to Li Xuewu, nodded to Gu Ning, and then went out with Qin Jingru.

Li Xuewu walked them to the door and watched them push the car out of the door and toward the street entrance before returning to the house.

Since the weather has warmed up, Han Jiankun no longer drives home. Even in winter snow, he only drives when the road is slippery or the weather is bad.

It's basically a bike ride back and forth to and from get off work. The couple takes the same class, so the connection is perfect.

"What did Ji Weidong give you?"

After Li Xuewu returned to the house, he saw Gu Ning sitting in front of the fireplace drinking water, so he walked over and asked.

Gu Ning pointed to the box in the corner and said helplessly: "There are two big boxes of toys, one for each person and one for each person."

"Hey——! Did you see it?"

Li Xuewu smiled and gestured: "This is a gift-giver! They are all delivered to our hearts!"

"Well, I'm grateful to Li Shu!"

Gu Ning glanced at him funny, pursed her lips and said: "Ji Weidong teased her, uncle is so good, uncle is so good, almost let someone take her away."

"That's impossible, my daughter is very smart."

Li Xuewu sat next to his wife, leaned on the sofa, and said: "If you want to say that this child is very clever, this child is almost as good as a six or seven-year-old child."

"You have to fool her just once. Once she knows it, you won't want to be obedient next time."

I don’t know whether it’s because of good development, good genes, or because there are many people in the family who have more contact with her and tease her more.

Li Shu's intelligence developed rapidly. Qin Jingru recited ancient poems to her and taught her. She could not learn it, but if he taught her to say witty words, she could learn it as soon as possible.

Sometimes Li Xuewu also thinks that his daughter looks like a porcelain doll now. If she grows up, her mixed-race characteristics will become more obvious.

Just look at her, a mixed-race girl who talks about Beijing movies mixed with Northeastern dialect. People would think she is from Northeastern and Beijing.

I learned a lot of Northeastern dialect from the old lady, and learned Beijing movies from others.

Especially when playing in the courtyard, when people in that courtyard say hello and chat, she just listens and imitates them.

You can see that it was late for her to speak seriously, but it was early for her to learn how to speak.

The memory of learning to speak may even begin as soon as you can crawl.

"I will go to work tomorrow. You can send Li Shu to her mother's house tomorrow morning. Jingru can't take care of her alone."

Gu Ning gave Li Xuewu another cup of hot water and warned, "Remember to pick her up tonight. She won't be home after playing wildly."

"Yeah, I'll remember it. I'll tell Jiankun tomorrow morning and ask him to remind me."

Li Xuewu lay on his back, pinched the bridge of his nose, and said, "I told Ji Weidong that when he goes back, he will help me buy a refrigerator from Hong Kong City and bring it back."

"Refrigerator? Why did you buy it?" Gu Ning looked back at him with a water glass in hand and asked, "You have traveled thousands of miles to get it? How do you get it back?"

"Don't worry about it. Shipping cargo ships is convenient."

Li Xuewu raised his hand and put it on Gu Ning's shoulder, and said with a smile: "If you really want to eat for the leftovers and a cold bite in the summer, I won't bother. Isn't this for the sake of the children?"

Seeing his wife's surprised look, he raised his eyebrows and said, "You always have inconveniences, right? Going to surgery, sitting in the doctor's office, and visiting the doctor, right?"

"You take care of the baby, and Qin Jingru takes care of you. No matter how close you are to home, there will always be times when you don't have enough food to eat, so it is necessary to have milk at home."

Li Xuewu explained: "If you have time, please leave a bottle of milk in the refrigerator. If it is inconvenient for Qin Jingru to find you, or if it is inconvenient for you, warm it up for emergency."

"It's really your—!"

Gu Ning understood. This man had refused to buy expensive items for his home before, and even gave away the refrigerator that was given to him by others.

Now, he went to great lengths to buy a refrigerator from Hong Kong City just for his son's meal.

Should we say that he sticks to his principles, or that he is messing around?

Gu Ning pulled the corner of her mouth, looking at him, she really didn't know what to say.

Li Xuewu sat up straight, leaned over and kissed her, saying: "I can't bear to give it to myself, and I can bear to give it to you and the child."

"What are you going to do?" Gu Ning dodged, looking at him suspiciously, as if guarding against thieves.

Li Xuewu said with a smile: "The moon is high in the sky, the night is quiet, and the children are asleep. What do you think we should do?"

"I'm going upstairs--"

Gu Ning avoided him, stood up and walked upstairs quickly, while reminding: "Take a shower first, then carry Li Shu up, be careful to be gentle."

"Won't you wait for me?"

Li Xuewu chased after his wife and said with a smile, which made Gu Ning walk faster, as if he was chased by a dog.

Seeing his wife like this, he also found it funny and drank the hot water from the cup on the coffee table.

After cleaning the fire in the fireplace and taking a shower in the bathroom on the first floor, he went to the room to carry Li Shu upstairs.

No wonder Qin Jingru said that she couldn't hold her anymore. She hadn't held her for a few days. Now she felt that she was thirty kilograms heavy.

Whose child who was less than two weeks old weighed thirty kilograms these days? It must be Li Shu.

Growing big, growing fast, and still able to eat, eggs, milk, and complementary food.

Disliked others for feeding slowly, she had to eat with a small spoon, basically didn't waste anything, and focused on being able to eat, sleep, and toss.

Looking at his daughter's sleeping face, Li Xuewu was also imagining what kind of girl she would be in the future.

Quiet? It seems unrelated...

Lively? Seems unsatisfied...

Naughty? Seems a bit...

No matter what kind of personality a girl has, Li Xuewu hopes that she will grow up happily and healthily.

The guest room was cleaned up for Li Shu, and it might be the room for one of the two siblings in the future.

There are only four rooms in the house, and they have almost lived in all of them. Anyway, they live in whatever is convenient.

When Gu Ning was pregnant and it was inconvenient to go up and down the stairs, they even lived in the room on the first floor that Li Shu now used as a toy room.

The furnishings of the guest room on the second floor were not moved, and only a child's bed was placed next to the bed.

Thanks to the grandmother's dexterity, Li Xuewu only described it once, and there were both a baby bed and a child's bed.

Even the guardrails around were cleverly handled, so that the child would not be pinched, let alone twisted.

Even Li Shu, who was very restless when sleeping, would not fall down when sleeping in it.

Of course, she had to be carried out of the child's bed when she got up in the morning, otherwise the little girl would dare to turn out by herself.

Qin Jingru said she didn't know how she learned it, but now she can do somersaults on the bed or on the floor.

It's not the kind of somersaults in martial arts or acrobatics, but the kind of play where children put their heads on the ground and twist their buttocks.

It's okay to play on the floor, as long as you keep an eye on her so that she doesn't do dangerous moves and hurt her neck.

But if she flips down on the bed and falls on the ground, she will cry loudly.

Hitting the back of the head may be life-threatening or affect intellectual development.

So the sand pit in the guest room on the first floor is prepared to prevent this.

And Li Xuewu or Gu Ning remember that when they wake up in the morning, they will first come to Li Shu's room to see if she is awake.

As long as they play late at night, they will sleep enough in the morning. If they go to bed early, just wait and see, they can get up at four o'clock.

There is no reason for fathers to complain. When it's time to get up and serve the children, they have to do it even if they are busy. Otherwise, Gu Ning will be busy all morning.

Just one person washing the face and one changing the pajamas, they can make people feel embarrassed. The couple is happy when they go to bed at night and want to cry when they see the child when they wake up in the morning.

This is also because Qin Jingru is dedicated and comes to help early. If she meets someone who is not good enough, she will be very angry.

It is also because Li Xuewu is capable, has the conditions to select and employ people, and has the conditions to meet other people's needs.

He put his daughter in the child's bed smoothly, covered her with a small quilt, and tiptoed out.

He rubbed his hands like a thief who had succeeded, and walked to the master bedroom with a sly smile.

Looking at the study and small living room where the lights were turned off, and the closed door of the master bedroom.

He was stunned for a moment, then his eyes gurgled, and he walked to the door and pulled the door handle tentatively.

Sure enough, it was locked by Gu Ning!

How shameful! Husband and wife are one body. They haven't been together for several months because of having a child. Now they are shutting him out!

"Ahem!"

Li Xuewu coughed softly, afraid of waking up his son. The little guy's loud voice could wake up Li Shu next door.

So even if he wanted to enter the house, he had to be careful and not make any loud noises.

"Wife - Gu Ning -"

"Ahem - let me in"

Li Xuewu stood at the door and whispered a few words, then listened and heard no movement inside.

Asleep?

Impossible!

Absolutely impossible!

He dared to bet that Gu Ning must not be asleep, and must be listening to his movements!

And, it is very likely that she is smiling.

I'll bet on a guaranteed monthly ticket!

"Wife, I'm back -"

Li Xuewu knocked on the door lightly and said, "It's really cold outside. Let me come in quickly, or I'll catch a cold~"

After saying this, not to mention that Gu Ning in the room didn't believe it, even he himself didn't take it seriously.

The villa burned five tons of coal a year and a large cart of wood. Gu Ning was afraid that he would get cold during confinement, and even wearing a vest in the house would not feel too cold.

That is to say, the child is out of postpartum period and the weather outside is getting warmer, so the fever is less severe.

But at this time of night, with the curtains closed and wearing half-sleeves and large pants, I didn't feel cold at all, but rather warm.

He was just teasing Gu Ning on purpose, just looking for something to say when he had nothing to say, and he was also afraid that the other party would notice something.

Because the other party insisted not to open the door and pretended to be asleep, Li Xuewu planned to perform secret processing on the door and then perform a surprise processing on her.

Just think about it, who is he?

A scheming person can figure out which way he will be buried when he dies. How can such a trivial matter faze him?

Since he wanted to do something bad and dared to flirt with Gu Ning downstairs, how could he not be fully prepared?

"Daughter-in-law——is she asleep?"

Li Xuewu pulled out a key from under the gramophone and greeted in a low voice, confusing Gu Ning in the room.

When he tiptoed back to the door and put the key in the door lock, he greeted again: "My wife - it's cold outside, I have to go inside and sleep -"

Click——

Li Xuewu unlocked the door, smiled proudly, and then turned the doorknob with a wicked smile to get in.

But who would have thought that the door handle would not open no matter how hard it was turned, as if it had a spring.

Li Xuewu knew what the reason was, and he said to the crack of the door in a funny way: "Little lady! You can't escape! Just obey me, old pig!"

"no--!"

Gu Ning's shy voice came from inside, and she whispered: "I have to go to work tomorrow!"

She had obviously locked the door, and had obviously checked the door keys. There were only three keys, but she put them away.

Can you believe it? !

In order to do bad things, this bad guy secretly obtained a key!

What a leisurely mind!

She had already heard Li Xuewu going upstairs and had been waiting in bed.

When I heard him tentatively opening the door, he still pursed his lips and snickered. Especially when the other party was discussing opening the door, he smiled even more happily and almost couldn't help it.

He still covered his mouth in the quilt and tried not to laugh out loud.

It was obvious that she felt something was wrong after the bad guy said it twice. Based on her understanding of Li Xuewu, this guy would never do any useless testing.

Especially when he was sure that she would not open the door, why would he keep negotiating with her to open the door?

The excuses and rhetoric are so perfunctory and repetitive, which sounds problematic.

She quietly got out of bed and stood at the door to listen. There was a sound of metal clicking. Especially when he was discussing her again, she didn't know that the bad guy still had a key in his hand.

You are playing with me here to build the plank road openly and secretly spend time in Chencang! What a thief!

Why does this bad guy have so many bad intentions?

It’s okay if it’s used in the right place, even this kind of thing requires planning, really!

"Scared - what are you talking about!"

Li Xuewu was holding the door handle at the door, not daring to twist it hard for fear of hurting her wrist.

He laughed loudly and said: "Who said you won't be allowed to go to work? I am the most supportive of your work and career. We husband and wife are of the same mind and make progress together!"

"Then let me have a good rest. I have to get up early tomorrow morning-"

Gu Ning said in a half-serious and half-consultative tone: "You can't let me make a fool of myself on my first day at work. I'm listless. I have to feed the kids at night, so I don't have time."

"Don't worry! I didn't say anything to you!"

Li Xuewu discussed: "I just go back to the house and sleep. We have to sleep, right?"

"Really? You just sleep?"

Gu Ning pressed against the crack of the door and confirmed, "You must keep your word, just sleep!"

"Of course, of course! Of course I keep my word. I never lie or deceive others!"

Li Xuewu promised solemnly: "I just went back to the house to sleep, and I will never disturb your rest, I promise!"

"I can tell you..."

Gu Ning hesitantly let go of the door handle, looked at Li Xuewu who opened the door and said seriously: "I have to get up once in the evening, and I have to get up early to clean up tomorrow morning. I have to adapt to the work tomorrow."

"How can I not know——!"

Li Xuewu smiled like a big bad wolf, hugged her, then let go and said: "I understand you best. I will be with you at night, and I will help you tomorrow morning. I will never let you be alone." suffer".

He coaxed Gu Ning to go back, helped her get on the bed, stretched out the quilt, and then went to the tea table at the door and poured two cups of hot water in.

"What are you pouring water for?"

Gu Ning's nerves that had just been soothed became alert again because of his action of pouring water.

She leaned against the bed and looked at him, watching him put two glasses of water on the bedside table.

"In spring, the fire is strong. I just drank a large glass of water. I am afraid that I will be thirsty at night and it will be troublesome to get up."

He said this and put the thermos bottle on the bedside table, which seemed to be what he said.

Gu Ning just watched him tidy up suspiciously until he started to take off his pajamas.

"What are you going to do?"

Gu Ning warned again: "Why do you have to take off your pajamas to sleep?"

"It's hot, you can't feel it"

Li Xuewu sat on the bed normally, shirtless and took off his pajamas, and said helplessly: "It's spring, the fire is strong, the blood is hot, I'm afraid of kicking the quilt at night, it's cool to sleep comfortably."

Listening to his explanation, Gu Ning didn't believe it. This man's health preservation is more careful than the emperors before. He doesn't eat cold, hot, or stimulating food, doesn't drink alcohol, and quits smoking.

Now listen to what he said, he actually took off his pajamas before going to bed at night.

He didn't close his eyes before without covering his shoulders and navel, and he was afraid of getting cold in the bone joints and stomach.

Now she will believe this?

Regardless of whether he believes it or not, Li Xuewu has already crawled into the quilt, looking at her suspicious eyes and asked: "Aren't you hot?"

"No--"

Gu Ning shook her head firmly and said: "I won't take off my pajamas to sleep, don't think about it."

"Who asked you this?"

Li Xuewu curled his lips seriously, lay on the pillow and turned off the lamp on his side, and said: "It's time to sleep, hug my wife to sleep."

"Wait a minute--!"

Gu Ning just lay down, and he hugged her in his arms, curled his lips and asked: "What did you just promise me?"

"Sleep? What's wrong?"

Li Xuewu hugged her and asked in surprise: "Isn't it okay? I always hug you to sleep, why are you so surprised?"

Gu Ning squinted and looked at him for a long time, and when she saw that he didn't move, she turned her head and turned off the light.

"Hey, that's right, go to bed early and get up early for a good body, a good body--"

"Li Xuewu--!"

Gu Ning wanted to bite him, just turned off the light, he slipped into his bed!

"Shh--don't disturb the child, it's hard to coax him when he wakes up!"

Li Xuewu also reminded her considerately: "Sleep well, you have to go to work tomorrow, you have to get up at night, and you have to be busy in the morning."

Gu Ning's teeth were about to break. How could she believe this bad guy!

Whatever he said was the truth?

He said to sleep well, but what was he doing with his hands!

"I'll count to three, Li Xuewu"

Gu Ning lay there and pulled the corner of her mouth, saying: "One... um - Li..."

Forget it, she learned math in vain as a college student. She couldn't even count such a simple three numbers. She stopped just after counting to one.

...

Li Ning woke up in the middle of the night to eat. When Gu Ning got up to feed the child, she thought about what Li Xuewu said at night?

Did he say to help her feed the child at night, did he say to sleep well, did he say to help her pack up in the morning.

Let's not talk about the morning first, let's look at these two things at night, he didn't do any of them.

Looking at the bad guy sleeping soundly on the bed, Gu Ning held the child while feeding, walked to the bed, and slapped him on the butt.

Snap -! ——

"What's wrong?"

When Qin Jingru came in the morning, Li Xuewu and his wife had already gotten up.

Li Shu had washed her face and was sitting on the sofa rinsing her mouth. She knew that she would go to her grandmother's house with her father today, so she wore clothes for going out.

Li Xuewu told her that if she got naughty and dirty her clothes this morning, she would not be able to go to her grandmother's house.

So Li Shu looked at the flower pot, the sand pit, the toys that Uncle Ji sent yesterday, and finally looked at her clothes and yawned again.

"Dad, can I take the toys to my grandmother's house? I want to play--"

"Yes, but you can only take one"

Li Xuewu was helping Gu Ning pack up the things for work, such as white coats, stethoscopes, pencils, pens and other trivial things.

These were things that Gu Ning had found and prepared a few days ago, but she was afraid that something would be left behind or not organized properly, so she thought about sorting them out one last time in the morning.

Li Xuewu promised her three things last night. If he couldn't do this last thing, he really couldn't open the door in the future.

So the first thing he did when he woke up in the morning was to comb his daughter's hair, wash her face, change her clothes, put on her socks, and also clean himself up.

He told his daughter to play well on the sofa and wait for her aunt to make breakfast. After eating together, they went to grandma's house.

Then he went to find the bag of things that Gu Ning had prepared and put them on the table.

After Gu Ning had cleaned up the children upstairs, he took the initiative to pick up the children and asked Gu Ning to wash and change clothes. He was as obedient as possible and even gave Gu Ning a sweet smile when he took the children.

Gu Ning was too lazy to pay attention to him and hurried to do her own things.

When Qin Jingru and her husband came, the two children were cleaned up.

Qin Jingru deliberately came early, fearing that Gu Ning would be busy at work today.

What is rare is that Li Xuewu actually took the initiative to help, and even took care of the two children.

It's not that Li Xuewu didn't help at home or didn't help at all.

Gu Ning didn't work, and she lived here during this period, so she basically didn't need Li Xuewu.

So when she saw Li Xuewu coaxing the child to play downstairs, she laughed out loud in surprise.

Han Jiankun also smiled, took toys for Li Shu, and took the child from Li Xuewu.

He was in time, and he could take care of both the big and small children in Li Xuewu's family.

Li Xuewu handed the child to him and went to help Gu Ning. When his wife said something, he helped find something, and when they were all arranged, they were all put into the bag.

You see that the white coats worn by doctors are all the same, but in fact, each person is individual.

Gay men may wear mixed clothes, but lesbians are very careful and will not wear other people's clothes.

Including white hats, they are all distributed to individuals in sets, and maintenance and hygiene are up to you.

If you feel that the white coat provided by the hospital is not enough, you can also buy fabric and cut it yourself, as long as it meets the specifications.

Of course, those who do this are usually senior doctors who have money and don’t care about an extra pair of work clothes.

Gu Ning has three white coats, just for the convenience of changing and washing. She loves to be clean, and she has to change them if they get dirty.

Stethoscopes are not used by everyone. They are distributed to doctors by hospitals and are kept, maintained and used by doctors.

When Gu Ning came back from taking leave from the hospital, she brought back all these things, including office supplies.

Including some things that Mu Hongyan left for her when he left, he also took them home.

Now that I have to go back to work, I naturally have to pack it up and take it back.

While busy, Qin Jingru smiled and asked secretly when she saw that Gu Ning had a bad look on Li Xuewu.

Li Xuewu, on the other hand, squinted his eyes and whispered: "I hate that I am clumsy and can't do anything."

"Isn't this good?"

Qin Jingru raised her eyebrows. She was already surprised that Li Xuewu could help with housework. Now that she was busy, she was naturally satisfied.

She looked at Gu Ning and shook her head in a funny way. Maybe she felt that Sister Xiao Ning's requirements were too high. Brother Li had already reached this point, so why couldn't he give her a smile?

Well, Gu Ning really wanted to give him a smile.

During the meal, Gu Ning glared at Li Xuewu while he was picking up the dishes, which was a kind of apologetic response to him all morning.

It’s good to have a response, it’s good to have a response.

Li Xuewu was also afraid that she would get sulky, so the couple would play around, so it was better to tease her away.

“I’m going on a business trip to Tianjin next Friday.”

Li Xuewu told Gu Ning and Qin Jingru: "Be prepared in advance. I will send Li Shu to her grandma's house on Friday, and I will pick her up when I come back on Sunday."

"Isn't it early?"

Qin Jingru raised her head and counted the days, and said, "It's only been a week. I've been living here recently. You're busy with your work. If you need anything, just call home."

"Well, let me tell you in advance. The provincial arrangements are not available. I will travel a lot in the future, so I will try my best to tell you in advance."

He helped Li Shu add some more rice cereal and said to Gu Ning: "Also report it to the hospital. There is a child here. Try not to work the night shift."

"Okay, got it"

Gu Ning responded while eating, raised her head, looked at Li Xuewu and said, "Teacher Wu, remember to bring something with you."

"I've thought about it. I'll ask someone to make arrangements next week. It's still early."

Li Xuewu nodded and said: "She may be in the same situation as you. It is not convenient to take care of the children when she is busy with business."

With Qin Jingru and his wife around, she didn't ask any more about Li Xuewu.

Even when the couple was alone at home, she seldom inquired about these things.

If Li Xuewu was willing to talk, she would listen. If he didn't talk, she wouldn't listen even if Yu Li and others came to report their work at home.

Regarding Teacher Wu, she can still rest assured. The key is that with her sister-in-law and brother around, Li Xuewu will never be ambiguous in serious matters.

As for what she arranged for Teacher Wu to do in Jinmen, what kind of business she managed, and who she wanted to cheat by creating an ambiguous relationship with him, she didn't want to ask.

He has his job, his career, his friends and his plans. According to his character, he will never suffer any loss.

If you really expected her to take care of everything, the couple might not be able to get along so well together.

She is a doctor, so she just needs to do her job well, take care of her family at the same time, and ensure that her life is happy and fulfilling.

She has to worry more and suffer more fatigue. She knows her abilities very well and can't control Li Xuewu at all, let alone Li Xuewu's career.

Therefore, she never asked Li Xuewu what he wanted to do. She would always tell him that safety was important.

Hearing him talk about going to Jinmen, it was because he knew about it that he mentioned Teacher Wu.

When she mentioned this, it was an explanation to Li Xuewu and also to Teacher Wu.

After all, she knew about this relationship and the plan. It would be very embarrassing for Teacher Wu if she really ignored it.

When Li Xuewu went to Jinmen to bring something, he must have said that she had brought it to him. Both parties had a tacit understanding, and both sides were doing well in terms of face.

——

It was like a war in the morning, but finally everything was sorted out.

Gu Ning went to work, and Li Xuewu took Li Shu to the courtyard first and then to the factory.

Because I had to turn around a bit, I came out earlier than usual.

Qin Jingru and her child are the only ones left at home.

Fortunately, the children are still young now, so they can be coaxed to sleep and play with them.

She has time to clean up the house, and even more time to prepare dinner and lunch.

Gu Ning decided to come back for dinner and feed the child, trying to ensure that the child would not be hungry and prevent Qin Jingru from running to the hospital with the child in her arms.

The meningococcal virus is rampant now, and children have weak resistance, so I'm really worried about something bad happening.

Neither Li Xuewu nor Gu Ning were overly worried about Qin Jingru taking care of the children alone. First, they had gained trust over time, and second, Qin Jingru had taken care of several younger siblings at home.

"Yo ho——! Li Shu is back!"

As soon as Li Xuewu entered the courtyard with his daughter in his arms, he saw Sha Zhu walking out.

"Going to work so early? It's rare!"

"Stop talking nonsense, I always abide by the rules!"

Silly Zhu smiled and scratched his neck, teasing Li Shu and said: "Call me uncle!"

"uncle--!"

Li Shu was good at teasing and people. She already knew who he was. Her grandma also taught her how to call people when she was coaxing her.

So when Silly Zhu teased her, she called someone with a sweet voice.

Maybe it's not just the Forty-Nine Cities that have this rule. According to the old lady, children in the Northeast are also taught this way.

When you go out to play, you should call people you know by whatever they know. The juniors should take the initiative to say hello to others, and you can't stop talking.

Even the naughty boy in the alley, when he came back from school, he saw an old man sitting at the door. He was not from the same hospital but he knew him. He would call him grandpa when he passed by.

When walking in the alley, he is a friend of his father and a colleague of his parents at home. He is called uncle or uncle. This is called politeness and etiquette.

Take a look and see if there is a child in the alley who passes by without saying a word (pronounced sticky) with his head lowered when he sees someone. He must be asking someone to speak to him.

Of course, no matter how old you are, you will never know and greet your children.

But they will ask you whose family you are from, and then they will have the impression that your parents do not know how to teach children.

Now let me say a few words, it is neither painful nor itchy, neither light nor serious, but wait and see when you get into trouble.

Even if people don’t say anything, the fact that you didn’t say hello to someone when you were a child can be traced to the root cause of your mistakes.

Of course, if you become successful, people won't mention it anymore. They will just treat it as a joke because you were smart and shy when you were young.

Everyone would say that the children of certain families have been smart since they were young, and they look like material for cadres.

Well, if he could see it so accurately, why didn't he show it to his own children?

They are all found later, they are all hindsight, they are all beautiful words, and they are all just to tell you.

So, I don’t know what the customs are like in the south, but children in the north cannot speak.

If you meet a child from Jinmen, the pretty little girl will kowtow more and make witty remarks.

Of course, children are all good children. It depends on their parents’ education and the environment in which they grow up.

If this child does not meet good people, good neighbors, and good neighbors, he will be easily affected.

You see an adult who is not shy, teasing a child without standards, and saying anything out loud.

What does your father do, what does your mother do, what do your father and your mother do at home at night.

He felt that the questions he asked were just some people standing together to tease a child.

If they hear a child talking about the grown-ups without restraint, they will definitely burst into laughter.

They took this as a joke, completely ignoring the fact that the children didn't understand anything and thought it was a good thing.

The adults in the child's family were not around, but they all treated him like a fool and said embarrassing things that made people laugh.

This child will remember it for a while in the future and will talk about anything at home.

It would be okay if the parents took control in time, spanked them twice, and told their children not to talk about these things.

If you can't control it, will you be able to figure out whether this child will be useless in the future? How old will it be?

Has the reputation and image of his family been ruined by these jokes?

Looking back at this child, he will grow up one day and understand things one day.

At that time, he must remember that someone used to tease him about things at home, and they took pleasure in making fun of him.

As he grows older, some people will bring up this past incident as a joke.

They took it as a joke, but at this time it was a wound in the child's heart.

To joke again is to rub salt in the wound.

Those who are sensible and self-reliant, achieve achievements by improving themselves, and shut up those people.

But how many such children can there be?

Most of them use the same means to retaliate against the next generation and become the kind of people they hate.

Copy these behaviors and give everyone new jokes.

Some people can't help being teased, but when they grow up and react, if they are teased again, they pick up a knife and kill the other person.

Just a past event in my memory, a tragedy that started as a joke. Just because I lived in vain for more than thirty years and had a mouth, I lost my life.

Even if the child goes to court, they interrogate him and explain what happened.

Anyone who judges him will say that the man deserved to die. What a pity for the child.

Such a child has gone to the point of no return and cannot be saved. He has decided to use violence to resist this kind of teasing, which stems from the deep-rooted hatred in his childhood.

How to solve it, how to resolve their heartache.

It's okay to travel far away.

It's okay to be successful and famous.

It’s okay to just go with the flow.

The only thing that no one wants to see, but the phenomenon that still exists is that some people are still teasing children for their own selfish purposes and temporary jokes.

The great guy in the courtyard lost his father when he was young. Would he like a woman to be the head of the family? Would he like his mother to live and work like that?

You think of him as a child, but he hears the gossips of the neighbors and understands them all.

Not telling his family just meant that he understood the meaning and could see what his mother was doing.

What he feels inferior about is not his mother and family, but his own youth and inability to change everything.

I believe everyone agrees on one thing, that is, people are born without sin, and children are all good children, but there is a problem with the educational environment.

The Western argument that people are born with sin as the core of their thinking and believe in it and use money, time, etc. to atone for their sins is pure ignorance and idealism.

The stems have grown crookedly, mostly because they didn’t have good neighbors.

If there is a case of stealing, either take him to the family to talk about it.

Don't ask the other party to return any compensation, just ask the other party to educate the child well and don't let him grow up in the wrong way.

Sensible parents will naturally tell their children that stealing is wrong, and taking other people's things is also wrong.

This child will never dare to steal other people's things next time, let alone make mistakes easily.

Look at Banggeng's previous environment. He stole food from Shazhu, and Shazhu just teased him without asking, and thought it was fun. How could a boy not be naughty.

Look at Jia Zhangshi and Qin Huairu, who wanted to spoil Banggeng to learn bad things and continue to do such things for the sake of his stuttering and ignorant appearance.

In such an environment, if the child can grow up to be a good child, then God is too blind.

Why is this kid a little bit like a human being now?

Because he has a fear of fear, knowing that if he dares to do something wrong, someone will really punish him.

In addition, the family conditions have improved, his mother has become a factory cadre, the family no longer lacks food and daily necessities, how could they steal.

When the granaries are full, people know etiquette, and when they have enough food and clothing, they know honor and disgrace.

The children have grown up and know what is good and what is bad. Jia Zhangshi and Qin Huairu have also gained experience and know how to live with dignity and how to educate their children.

Look at Sha Zhu, he has his own children and knows what to do to be good for his children.

You ask him to tease Li Shu like before, he will not want to, and Li Xuewu is even more unwilling.

It is not easy to raise children, and it is even more difficult to educate children.

If there are bad people who threaten the growth environment of his children, Li Xuewu will not do the same as Meng Mu moved three times.

He is still good at moving others! (End of this chapter)