Men and women eating in the courtyard

"Who asked you to come to my house!"

As soon as Li Shu entered the door, she was questioned by the devil's little aunt and her little hand was tapped and embarrassed.

She was not afraid of the other party at the moment. Taking advantage of her father's presence, she held her little neck and said: "This is grandma's house——"

"This is my home!"

Li Xue glared and threatened her: "If you dare to come, I will take care of you when your father leaves."

Li Shu looked back at her father, and suddenly she had a backbone. She turned to her little aunt and said, "Then I'll take care of you when my father comes to pick me up!"

"Hahaha--!"

Zhao Yafang and Ji Yuxiu who were watching the fun laughed out loud, while Liu Yin patted her daughter and threatened: "If you keep teasing me, you won't go to work!"

"I'm timid at work——!"

Li Shu is so awesome now. Her father is here, her grandma is helping, and Mrs. Kang is also here. She even dares to call out to her little aunt.

"Ouch! You're talking to me~"

Li Xue came over and threatened: "Believe it or not, I will strangle you and cry right now, making you cry grandma in pain!"

"Hehe! I won't cry!"

Li Shu took off her cotton-padded clothes with the help of her father, and ran into the kang with a smile like a happy little calf.

The old lady also smiled and hugged her, kissed her in her arms, and said teasingly: "Isn't my little aunt scary?"

"Scary - cluck cluck"

Li Shu huddled in his wife's arms and giggled in fright when she saw her little aunt trying to get on the kang to deal with her.

"Xiao Ning, you two are doing well, aren't you?"

Liu Yin had just picked up the table, and the bowls and chopsticks for breakfast were still in the pot.

She wiped her hands and looked at her son and said, "I've always wanted to go there with you to have a look, but now I don't dare to go because of the virus."

"It's good. I'm chubby and can eat and sleep."

Li Xuewu looked at his daughter who was giggling because of her little sister. He also smiled and introduced to his mother: "Xiao Ning goes to work today, and Jingru is taking care of her at home."

"Yeah - you're going to work now?"

Liu Yin didn't ask about this matter during her previous visits. She thought that the second daughter-in-law could rest for a while like the eldest daughter-in-law.

"What about feeding the baby? I have to run back and forth? It's troublesome enough."

"This is all we can do for the time being. It will be fine when we are older and can be fed milk powder."

Li Xuewu nodded and said: "She made an agreement with the unit that she would take time to go home to feed the child during outpatient clinic hours, and Jingru would carry the child there during the operation time. It is tiring for the time being and there is nothing we can do about it."

"This is really-ouch~"

Liu Yin felt sorry for her grandson and her daughter-in-law. She sat next to the kang and asked with some worry: "Is it okay for Qin Jingru to take care of the child? Do you need me to go over and take care of him?"

"It's okay. There's not much work at home. She can handle it. The child is still young and only knows how to sleep."

Li Xuewu comforted him: "You have nothing to do here, but you worry about this when you go there. Don't go back and forth. Don't worry."

"To learn martial arts, you can just ask mom to come over."

Sister-in-law Zhao Yafang took the initiative and said: "There's nothing going on at home, and I'm not in a hurry to go to work, so I only have three meals to worry about."

She looked at her mother-in-law's worried look and said, "Why don't you ask mom to come over and have a look? She is always thinking about it and has something on her mind."

"I'm just thinking about how busy my family is."

Li Xuewu sat next to his mother, held her hand and said, "It's not that I haven't missed you, but my sister-in-law has just given birth and needs someone to take care of her."

"Come if you need it, I'm not in a hurry"

Zhao Yafang did not let her mother-in-law embarrass herself. She took over the conversation and said, "The old lady can stay at home with me. Isn't it hard for our mothers to cook?"

"Besides, even if we can't do it, we can still be hungry. It's more convenient to go to the front yard and eat with us."

"I say so, second brother, let mom go."

Li Xue advised: "I have been unable to sleep these past few nights, talking about you."

She stood next to her mother, put her arms around her shoulders and said, "Sister-in-law doesn't have any confidence yet. We'll wait until we get the confidence. My third sister-in-law and I will just have two meals, and we'll have a whole house together."

"Mom, that will be very tiring for you."

Li Xuewu could see that his mother really cared about him. As soon as he entered the room, he looked at him eagerly and asked him all the questions.

So the elder sister-in-law and younger sister persuaded her, and the old lady agreed, so she took the initiative to ask her mother for help.

Of course Liu Yin is willing. Isn't that what being a mother-in-law is like? She cares about this and that, and she has to be careful not to annoy her son.

It seems that Li Xuewu is so sensible and knows that taking care of the elderly's emotions can make people happy, but one of his ignorant words annoyed his mother.

Especially if you have a daughter-in-law who has a lot of things to do, she thinks the old man is unhygienic or has bad living habits, or you simply don’t trust the old man to take care of the children.

She only thought about despising her mother-in-law, but she brought her mother into the house to take care of her.

It would be better if the in-laws are easy to talk to and considerate of each other, for the sake of their children.

You contribute, I contribute money, for the next generation.

There are always people who care about everything. When my mother-in-law comes to the house, she will help her daughter with her calculations. She will pick on the in-laws for everything, say this or that.

Finally, after listening to the mother talk too much, the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law became more and more tense, and finally they got into trouble.

When the child got a little older, her mother went home without taking her daughter, let alone her grandson, because they were not from her family.

He left the chicken feathers all over the floor and didn't care. When he returned home, he had to worry about how his in-laws were not good and always opposed his daughter.

Just say, of course, man, how should this matter be handled?

It's all housework, who can say who is right and who is wrong?

The wife worked hard and gave birth to a big fat boy. The mother worked even harder. Not only did she give birth to him and raise him, but she also had to take care of his next generation.

Facing the unwarranted accusations of the mother-in-law and the cold and sarcastic remarks of the wife, he couldn't just scold his mother and send her home, right?

Putting his man in such a difficult situation, even if the couple had deep feelings before marriage, now it has been discounted.

From the man's point of view, the wife has this attitude towards her mother, which means she has no virtue.

In dealing with relationships, she has no opinion and listens to one side, which means she has no beauty.

To mock her man and complain that he is on the side of the mother-in-law is not a woman's words.

Even if you give birth to a son, even if you have a job and support the family, you have lost three of the four virtues. Do you think your man will be satisfied with you?

On the other hand, if your man listens to you, shouts and scolds his mother, and is unfaithful and unfilial, how do you think your child will treat you in the future?

Can you guarantee that your child will not grow up crooked?

Can you guarantee that your child will not marry a daughter-in-law like you?

It does not mean that all mothers-in-law in the world care about and love their daughters-in-law. There is no absolute in the world.

The "four virtues" mentioned here are only viewed from a positive perspective, and it does not deny that this ancient traditional moral code has brought negative effects to women.

Mother-in-law, mother, and daughter-in-law are all women.

Men are the core of dealing with these three relationships and the key factor in determining family harmony.

Li Xuewu's favor for Gu Ning does not include indulgence, and there is no place in Gu Ning's family concept and character that makes him and his family talk about it.

In particular, the attitude of Li Xuewu's family towards Gu Ning, respect, care, and love, these do not need to be emphasized.

Even if Gu Ning is no longer good at handling interpersonal relationships, even if his life is monotonous and lonely, he can still feel this simple love.

Therefore, Li Xuewu is grateful for the support and care of his parents, and also thanks his daughter-in-law for her understanding and tolerance.

A harmonious family is the root of everything. Many people have summed up this truth and understood it thoroughly after making mistakes in their lives.

Do you think there are no conflicts or disputes between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the Li family?

How is it possible? There are times when their lips knock against each other's teeth, let alone two women living together.

Let alone the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law, do the daughters and mothers never quarrel?

Sometimes the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law will not really quarrel, especially in well-educated families, where they will get angry and go into a cold war when they are anxious.

When Liu Yin was a daughter-in-law, she was disciplined and restrained by the old lady. She had to serve her mother-in-law, take care of her husband, and look after the children.

Is it easy for her?

Like all housewives of this period, she did all the chores at home, got up the earliest and went to bed the latest, and was the last to serve the meal.

Even if she cut her hand while cutting vegetables, she didn't dare to scream in pain, but just cleaned the wound herself.

It's not that her family didn't care about her, but she didn't want her family to care about her. She was used to controlling chores, the family's economy and the children's discipline.

She and the old lady have been together for decades, and they have had their quarrels. Could she be showing off to Li Shun?

A man has to support all the expenses and expenses of a family, and he has to protect everyone in the family from harm.

If he is asked to worry about housework, then the status of women will be threatened.

There is an unverified and undiscussed view that of course, if a man has the ability to do housework such as washing clothes and cooking and make money, his attitude towards women will change qualitatively.

No, it is not necessarily a good side, and it may develop into discrimination in marriage attitudes.

This is an extreme situation caused by a certain imbalance between social division of labor and personal skills.

The social relationship between husband and wife in later generations has extreme manifestations of this aspect, with polarization.

Women are either housewives or wandering on the street, and even lose their sense of shame and honor and disgrace and do obscene things.

Including Nanhan, the same is true. There will be a general prejudice against women in society.

In this social phenomenon, Nanhan is the most obvious, and those who know more about it may know that their family explosion rate is quite high.

The highest in the world!

Sometimes they even shout out the asshole words that women can do nothing but give birth to children.

If one day, the marriage and family relationships in the mainland become so extreme, or the times change, and foreign women intervene in the marriage market.

I don’t know if those girls will regret listening to the fairy theory promoted by those marriage bloggers.

They like to listen to beautiful words too much, and beautify selfishness and utilitarianism. While being consumed by capital, they are also bearing the consequences of this social reality.

What will happen if they are too selfish and utilitarian?

That is, the female workers in the factory will take to the streets because they dislike their social status and enjoyment, and their living conditions are not good enough.

Is this a high social status?

It is precisely to be disgusted and despised.

The most obvious point is that the large number of older single young women is in line with the serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women in the marriage market.

Waiting for the price will always put yourself in a dilemma of looking at the mountain from the other side, and when you look back, you have already walked into the valley.

At the age of 28, when you should be getting married, having children and having a successful career, you are worried about choosing a good partner for marriage and you are worried about not being able to marry well.

When they reach 32, they panic completely. The high requirements they had in the past are being reduced layer by layer, but the more they are reduced, the less people want them. They start to worry about not being able to get married.

They start to wonder what is wrong with this society and men. Do they not want to get married?

No, it is not. The society is still the same society, and men are still the same men. They still want to get married and have a family.

But what remains unchanged is that they still like you at the age of 23 or 24.

If you are 38 years old, oh, congratulations, you have been favored by fate and capital again, and the blind date market for the elderly has begun to be hot.

Those who have not married at this age and are picky must look very good.

Entering this market is completely a matter of killing gods and Buddhas, and a group of rich uncles are stunned.

Don’t look at the uncle’s age and crooked appearance, but the uncle is really rich. He dares to marry you, but you have to accept the fact that his son is the same age as you.

You don't have to worry about who will take care of the children you have after marriage, or the problem that your mother-in-law doesn't want to have children because she doesn't need you to have children. She already has grandchildren, so you can't have children.

You don't have to worry about the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or the problem of getting along with each other in a disharmonious way, because you may not have a mother-in-law, the uncles are all uncles, the aunts are all gone, and the mother is probably gone too.

You don't have to worry about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you don't have to worry about hurting your body with children, you don't have to worry about having no money to spend, it seems that all the requirements for marriage set at the age of 25 have been met.

Is this a good thing for women?

This is certainly not right, but reflecting on the fundamental core issue, is it that the social labor force is missing in a special way, causing women to go to work to earn money to support the family.

This has led to a serious imbalance in the division of labor in the family. Once there is a child, or a conflict between parents, this imbalance will be aggravated.

The relationship between husband and wife will develop into a state of hostility, and they may even apply for divorce on the grounds of no love.

In fact, it is not that they have lost love, but that reality has caught their inner misunderstanding of marriage and hit them hard, making them dizzy.

As for the family, why did the ancients summarize the principle that everything will be prosperous if the family is harmonious, but did not say that everything will be prosperous if the man is good, or everything will be prosperous if the woman is good?

In later generations, some women took advantage of the imbalance in the marriage market and were overconfident, and put forward high-level marriage requirements to men, which is a manifestation of lack of confidence.

And after men have money, they give up the fantasy of love and wave money to select one girlfriend after another like choosing a concubine, which is also a manifestation of lack of confidence.

The emergence of these two extreme situations has accelerated the crisis of trust in marriage among men and women of marriageable age in society.

Girls actively ask for money to fill the increasingly tense crisis of trust in marriage, without considering what they can bring to each other's union or what they can pay.

They even ask their mother-in-law to take charge of all the expenses of having children and help take care of the children before getting married, otherwise they will not have children.

This phenomenon may only occur in China. Try it in the United States. If you dare to say so, the old people will probably give you a big hug.

Long live understanding, because they just don't want to take care of children, they are more selfish, and have their own lives to enjoy. These fairy theories are what they have played with, and now they are rotten and have thought about it.

But China is not like that. The ancients were more able to find a state between social relations and the harmony between heaven, earth and man to regulate and constrain family relationships.

Harmony and beauty have become symbols of good family relationships and are praised by people.

Even if the character is the worst, even if the mother-in-law will not feel sorry for people, she will not think that it is a good thing for her daughter and son-in-law to get divorced, right?

What if her son also finds a daughter-in-law who is as annoying as her daughter, and the other party's mother-in-law is like her?

That would be lively, only magic can defeat magic!

Harmony has become the cause of prosperity, and prosperity has become the result of harmony. There will be all kinds of things in the process, but the cause and effect are determined, and all things are not difficult.

Liu Yin's active contribution has given this family the cause of harmony. Zhao Yafang, Gu Ning, Ji Yuxiu, and sister-in-law Li Xue will not jump out of this circle to consider the problem in all things.

Including the men in the Li family, just as Li Shun learned from his father, Li Xuewen and his three brothers also learned from their father to do things and be a person.

The result is that the uncles are of the same virtue, tolerant and understanding to their wives, and do not seek luxury in terms of economy and life, but seek stability.

Even an unstable factor like Li Xuewu greatly exceeded the budget of Li Shun and his wife, and he was able to start a family and build a career smoothly as soon as he became an adult.

Before lying on the kang to sleep, Li Shun once muttered that it would be a great success if his second son Li Xuewu did not bring back a child before the age of 16.

Moreover, bringing back a child before the age of 35 would be a great success.

His ideals and demands for this second son are particularly simple and relaxed, even finding a powerful and tricky daughter-in-law is fine.

Never expected that this son would do anything beyond their expectations, and would not grow up according to their expected life trajectory at all.

When you see him being naughty, you want him to be honest, but he won't, and climbs over the wall to the house.

You watched him succeed in his studies and thought he would get into a good university, but he refused to do so and almost brought home a grandson.

You watched him suddenly return home in the snow and wind and thought he would settle down, but he refused to do so and became a cadre.

You watched him jump up and down and become a section chief and thought he would finally settle down, but he refused to do so! He put out the fire of his leader.

You watch him find a girl from the supply and marketing cooperative who is eloquent and can run the house smoothly. You think that they will live a good life after they get married! He slaughtered people.

It's not an exaggeration to say that this son is a rebellious son. He grows completely on the back of the couple's heads.

Time passed in a flash. Who would have thought that this son would also have a son, and he could no longer be called a young man, but a serious man.

Liu Yin listened to her son's instructions and when she came to pick her and Li Shu up in the evening, she couldn't help but shed tears when she saw her son's tall figure disappearing from the hanging flower gate.

She didn't know why she shed tears. It couldn't be that she was sad when her son got better. She could only be happy, happy.

——

"Well, I'm Li Xuewu."

Li Xuewu took the phone and said, "Is Political Commissar Zhao back?"

"Well, well, please ask him to answer the phone."

After a while, Zhao Zhenhua's voice came from the other end of the phone: "Comrade Xuewu, I think it must be good news, right?"

"Guessed it right, no reward, haha——"

Li Xuewu made a joke and then said seriously: "The fertilizer matter has been settled. 70 tons, one container, will arrive at the Tianjin Port Terminal in a month."

"Ouch——! I'll just say it!"

Zhao Zhenhua laughed loudly on the phone and said, "If anything happens, I have to ask you, Captain Li. He does this very cleanly and neatly. It's okay, but he's better than us!"

"Stop pouring me the ecstasy soup——!"

Li Xuewu laughed twice and asked, "Is Qi Tuan here too? I think I heard him laughing the loudest."

"Hahaha——! Comrade Xuewu!"

Qi Yaowu answered the phone and said with a smile: "I have to express my admiration for you. The quantity of fifty tons has reached 70 tons. I didn't say anything, but I have to buy you a drink!"

"Remember the wine first, I will definitely drink it, let's talk about the serious things first"

Li Xuewu greeted with a smile: "After the fertilizer arrives at the Tianjin Port Terminal, it will go directly to the Beijing freight station through the channels of the joint trade supply chain."

"What? Is there a problem?"

Qi Yaowu understood. Li Xuewu's emphasis must have some hidden meaning.

"Do you want me to arrange transportation or security?"

"Both, I'm talking and you listen"

Li Xuewu said in a serious tone: "One month from now will be the critical period for farming, and the demand for chemical fertilizers will reach its peak."

"Seventy tons of fertilizer will not attract attention at Tianjin Port, but you have to be prepared all the way to the Beijing freight station, as it may be detained."

"He dares! Who dares to seize my things!"

Qi Yaowu became anxious all of a sudden and shouted on the phone: "You don't have to worry about this. Starting from Jinmen Port, I will arrange for people to escort it and not a single pill will be lost."

"Don't worry, I'm telling you this problem, just listen to me."

Li Xuewu explained: "If you need 50 tons, I will give you 70 tons, which is not only the transportation standard for a container, but also 20 tons for you to deal with."

"With the little output from the mountain reclamation area, I bought chemical fertilizers and agricultural machinery, plus this year's seeds and other investment in construction, basically last year's work was in vain."

"So, you decide how to deal with the 20 tons, both inside and outside."

Li Xuewu said on the phone: "The profit from sewing is not enough to cover all the expenses, at least it can cover part of it."

"I understand. You are one of our own. It would be too hypocritical for me not to thank you."

Qi Yaowu said seriously on the phone: "I owe you a drink, and if I owe you another drink on behalf of the political commissar, it will be between us."

"Hahaha--!"

Li Xuewu laughed out loud after listening to his words. He nodded when he saw Peng Xiaoli coming in with the documents, and continued: "Okay, I'll remember the wine thing. Let's talk about it later when the farm machinery thing is settled."

"Okay, then let's do this"

He chatted a few words with Qi Yaowu, said a few words with Zhao Zhenhua, and then hung up the phone.

"Leader, there's a meeting."

Seeing Li Xuewu put down the phone, Peng Xiaoli reminded: "The leaders from the credit union are here, and Deputy Director Jing is receiving them."

"Yeah, okay"

Li Xuewu nodded, took a sip from the teacup, and asked, "Who is here?"

"Director Bao leads the team, and the team is led by Deputy Director Zhou Yao who is in charge of the loan business, and Deputy Director Lingyun who is in charge of the savings business."

Peng Xiaoli introduced the other party's situation one by one, and at the same time helped Li Xuewu prepare notebooks and materials.

Li Xuewu put on his coat and took him out of the door and walked downstairs.

On the way, I met Sun Jian coming out of the office, so I asked him to say a few words with him.

"I don't have time right now. Please contact me and see who has connections with agricultural machinery factories in our factory's sales or production."

"What's wrong, leader?"

Sun Jian asked in surprise: "Should we produce agricultural machinery or farm?"

"Well, it's not us, it's the Wei San Group."

Li Xuewu explained: "There is a reclamation area on the mountain. They want to improve production and labor efficiency and asked me to buy a batch of agricultural machinery and tools."

He told Sun Jian the basic situation of the agricultural reclamation area and some specific requirements, meaning that he should be contacted first and he could be contacted for specific communication.

Li Xuewu does not lack the ability to contact and handle relationships, nor does he lack connections in this area. What he lacks is time to deal with these trivial matters.

Sun Jian can be busy with this matter and deal with the early problems. Finally, he will show up, even if it is to invite the other party to a meal.

The most important thing is to resolve this matter as soon as possible and deliver the agricultural machinery to the Weisan Regiment.

Sun Jian accompanied him to the stairs. He knew the leader's request and promised to contact him immediately.

At the same time, he also reported a situation to Li Xuewu. This year's college student internship quota was available. Director Ding of the Commission Office asked how many the Security Department would like this year.

"Can this be negotiated?"

Li Xuewu smiled and raised his eyebrows, saying, "Just thirty or twenty people will do. We don't ask for much."

"Haha--!"

Sun Jian laughed and said, "I thought so too, but Director Ding said that we can give them all, haha!"

There are more than a hundred college students in total. Li Xuewu really wants to rent all the campuses. By then, the Security Department of the Steel Rolling Mill will be the most culturally advanced security organization in the whole city.

Of course, what he said was not true. He was making a joke with Sun Jian.

"It's all right. Please ask Director Ding to arrange it as appropriate. It's best to recruit a group of college students from industrial safety colleges or colleges with corresponding majors."

Li Xuewu nodded and said, "Regardless of gender, we treat them equally. Let's follow the original training mechanism, okay."

After saying that, he explained a few words to Sun Jian and went downstairs. Sun Jian could see that he was not very concerned about the nature of the matter, so he did not mention it any more.

He knew the specific reasons, and the deputy team leader Yu Decai told him once.

Last year, when Yu Decai was in charge of the office work, the Security Department accepted three college students for internship.

They were all good seedlings and did excellent work, but there was a problem in the training. Only Zhou Yao, the current head of the Security Department, became a talent.

Yu Decai also told him with regret that he was mainly responsible for the problems of the other two college students.

Li Xuewu gave people to him to teach, but he did not care about them and took care of them, and lost the most valuable talents in vain.

Looking at Zhou Yao, who has become the backbone of the Security Department today, you can know how heavy the loss is.

Even if the other party cannot reach Zhou Yao's current position, deputy section chief or section chief, important section member, isn't it also a loss?

Sun Jian learned that since then, Li Xuewu has paid special attention to college students who come to the factory to work or intern.

Life, work, safety, etc., and have repeatedly issued orders in the name of the security team and the management committee office, requiring the improvement and protection of these pillars.

However, these talents have never been guided or deployed to the security department, and they have paid more attention to Zhou Yao's growth. They have repeatedly talked to her for fear of losing another one.

Heartache does not have to be shown on the face, but it is really painful in the heart.

It is because Li Xuewu's heartache and regret can be seen, so Yu Decai has such a great sense of guilt, and he has repeatedly urged him this year to make good arrangements for college students' internships.

These students have just stepped out of school, and they are not fully mature to face the challenges and difficulties in society and work.

At this time, they need the care and help of the organization. In actual work and life, in thought and study, they all need careful care.

Care is not pampering, let alone indulgence, just like Li Xuewu's care for Zhou Yao, who was directly arranged to the training ground for three months of training and education.

Look at the effect after returning. Working in the security department is not a problem at all, and you can quickly adapt to the job requirements.

After a few months of internship and more than half a year of work, she has become the head of the security department and the most promising young cadre in the security team.

When she first came, she had two ponytails, fair skin, and a face full of youth and beauty.

It is completely different from her current short hair, slightly dark skin, and a face full of majesty and competence.

Can you say that Li Xuewu didn't take care of her?

When the first batch of college students entered the factory for pre-internship education, Gu Weijie, who presided over the meeting and gave a speech, talked about her example.

Talk about how the steel rolling mill cultivates and uses talents, and how Zhou Yao was trained and trained by the organization, from a college student who just started working to the head of the most powerful department of the security team step by step.

These college students who just gathered from the campus to the factory naturally don't understand what Zhou Yao has experienced in her growth process.

They only feel the care and love of the organization from the leaders' stories, listen to Zhou Yao's slightly brief resume during her growth process, and fantasize that they will become a cadre like her in a year.

In fact, it is not a fantasy. If you really work hard like Zhou Yao and shine in various positions, you will naturally be promoted and appointed by the organization.

Of course, if you want to be like Zhou Yao, hard work and achievements are not enough, and you also need a little luck.

——

"Oh, Deputy Director Li, you are too hard to make an appointment——!"

As soon as they met, Bao Peigang took the initiative to stand up and shake hands with Li Xuewu who came in, without any airs of a big director.

He is the director of the Dongcheng Supply and Marketing Cooperative, and he is on equal footing with Li Huaide.

When guests come here, Jing Yunong has to come forward to receive and accompany them, but when he meets Li Xuewu, the deputy director of the Management Committee Office, he is more enthusiastic than meeting Jing Yunong.

There are naturally some personal friendships, but more of it is that he dare not underestimate Li Xuewu's power.

Seeing Director Bao stand up and shake hands and greet, the two deputy directors who came with him did not know why, and they also stood up.

Those who know know that Li Xuewu is a deputy director at the deputy division level, and those who don't know think he is the deputy director of the steel rolling mill management committee.

At this time, the names of organizational cadres were also very confusing and complicated, and they remained the same even in later generations.

If someone is called a director or deputy director, you must know his rank, but if someone is called a director or deputy director, you may not understand his rank.

Higher positions, those above the department level are called directors, and lower positions, such as the village head, are also called directors.

The gap is too big, so when Bao Peigang called him Deputy Director Li, Zhou Yao and Ling Yun took the initiative to shake hands with Li Xuewu.

Only when Bao Peigang introduced them did the two know that the overly young Li Xuewu was "only" at the deputy director level.

The word "only" here should be put in double quotation marks, because even if he is not the deputy director of the steel rolling mill management committee, even if he is the deputy director of the management committee office, it is enough for them to respect him.

Bao Peigang was so polite, how could they not understand that Li Xuewu's power is not as simple as it seems on the surface.

Of course, they also saw something from Li Xuewu's attitude in receiving them.

This young cadre did not have an arrogant and aloof temperament. He shook hands with them and greeted them politely and naturally, showing a leadership temperament.

In particular, the welcome speech was better than that of Deputy Director Jing just now.

The basic qualities of a cadre do not necessarily have to be reflected in his speech and treatment.

However, cadres with excellent interpersonal etiquette and basic quality will go further, that's for sure.

At least from the moment they met Li Xuewu, they felt particularly good at the first impression.

He didn't talk to them without knowing their identities, nor did he deliberately create topics to attract their attention.

Gentle breeze and drizzle, moistening things silently.

There was also a deputy director of the office who came with them, who was completely unable to reach the communication level of this deputy director Li.

Whenever the director goes out to do business, especially when he goes on a business trip to a public cooperation unit, he will definitely bring the deputy director of the office.

It's usually not the director, because the director is the big housekeeper of the unit, and many things can't be done if he leaves.

Therefore, the deputy director can get in touch with the public cooperation unit more, and it also tests their comprehensive quality more.

Memory is the foundation, you have to remember the other party's name and identity, and even the background relationship.

The second is the art of speaking, to make both parties comfortable, and to pass the message to the leader at the critical moment, so that the leader can speak down and get to the right place.

Where is the key node of passing the message?

Often, the leader will look at you and say something like "You said so, Comrade XX or Deputy Director XX".

This means that the leader lacks key data support when commenting on this matter, or needs you to remind him where the core point is.

The leader handles too many things in a day, how can he remember all the problems.

But the deputy director must remember them all.

Especially in public places, the leader should be cautious when speaking, and it is impossible to throw everything out.

The accompanying deputy director is the guarantee that he speaks correctly, and it is also the teleprompter that he can answer at any time when he needs data.

Such a position is the most challenging for psychological quality and comprehensive ability, and ordinary people really can't do it.

What if you don't take the deputy director out with you, and you need the leader to speak?

The leader basically dares not speak nonsense, just listen, the repetitive words can wear you to death.

If you meet someone who is not familiar with the business, he will talk for three hours, and you can summarize it in five words.

Li Xuewu, the deputy director of the Commission Office, has shown the ceiling of the deputy director position to the visiting Dongcheng Credit Union members.

Not only can he support Deputy Director Jing, but he can also indirectly cooperate with him to express his own opinions.

While taking care of the other party's emotions and opinions, he can also communicate with his own leaders in a targeted manner with concise and concealed words, and then explain and answer the other party's questions on the spot.

Bao Peigang brought two deputy directors in charge of specific business here today to complete the cooperation negotiations.

Of course, it is not just the investment business. That part has basically been discussed, and the funds have been received in a planned manner.

This time he came to complete the subsequent cooperation between Hongxing Steel Rolling Mill and Dongcheng Credit Union.

Including other investment, savings, loans, and foreign currency and inter-unit settlement business content.

The current cooperative bank of the steel mill is ICBC, including fund savings, public-to-public fund transactions, etc., which are all handed over to the other party for management.

But since the middle of last year, when Li Xuewu communicated with Li Huaide to prepare to establish a fund management structure belonging to the steel mill, Li Huaide already had this plan.

In the process of the development and progress of the steel mill, this plan was gradually put on the agenda.

Especially when Dongcheng Credit Union appeared in the cooperation list of the steel mill by chance.

In fact, there is no need to consider the strength comparison between banks. At this time, all banks have no problem of capital pressure.

There are only differences in the source of funds and operating capabilities, but for the steel mill, is there any difference between the 100 yuan borrowed from ICBC and the 100 yuan borrowed from the credit union?

No, both have to pay interest and deal with the cooperative relationship.

The purpose of Li Xuewu gradually promoting the cooperation between the credit union and the steel mill is to take advantage of the period when the current management structure of the credit union is changing and use certain rules to obtain the qualifications of financial management and operation.

Simply put, banks can absorb deposits, and credit unions can also, and can carry out investment and lending business like banks.

Then can the steel mill cooperate with the credit union on this opportunity to open a savings office in the future workers' village?

With this structure, it is responsible for the payment of workers' wages, the settlement of funds for joint enterprises and trade, and the operation and use of commercial loans.

After mastering the financial power, the development of the steel mill has unlimited impetus, and can even continuously create the capital energy needed for development.

Deputy Director Ling Yun, who is in charge of savings business, introduced and answered questions on this topic.

He brought the credit union's regulations and systems on cooperating with other units to establish savings offices, and gave some solutions to the requirements and needs of the steel mill.

Li Xuewu and Jing Yunong watched and listened, and after the other party's introduction, they raised opinions on related questions.

Bao Peigang was very active and proactive in promoting this cooperation to take root. The credit union went out of the countryside and developed towards the factory, which is also part of the business adjustment.

The diversity of funding sources is to ensure that the credit union has more ability and basic qualities to resist risks in the process of development.

This is consistent with the demands of the steel mill.

Therefore, the initial contact and negotiation between the two parties went smoothly, and the atmosphere in the reception room was always full of laughter.

The steel mill regards the credit union as the God of Wealth, and the credit union regards the steel mill as God, so now God and the God of Wealth are sitting together and laughing.