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"Auntie, let me toast you." Li Yan stood up holding the cup.

"Oh, sit down quickly, sit down, there are only a few of us." The old lady hurriedly pressed Li Yan's button, raised the cup and drank half of the cup, then continued, "I am also lucky to be married to him. I will be married to him all my life." I have a bad temper, a tiger, a Siberian tiger, even if I am here, not many people can bear it. It’s just him. Although he didn’t like me at first, after getting married, he should give in to me. No less concessions.

Are you trying to reason with me using something in a book? Do you think I can be a reasonable person? "

After saying this, not only she burst into laughter, but several people around her also laughed.

Li Yan said with envy, "Uncle is so kind."

"One time, I got really angry and scratched his arms and face with my nails, which made the flesh and blood bloody. He couldn't move, so he frowned, then sighed and asked, "Why do you have such long nails?"

Then he said, women and villains are difficult to raise, you say it is fun or not. "The old lady sighed and said, "I sometimes think that when I was young, I didn't know how to restrain myself, which made him sigh every day.

As long as I am more sensible, I can make him live a good life for a few days.

His life was short and he suffered only sins and never enjoyed any blessings. I am better than him. Now that I am getting old, I can still live the life I have now. "

Tears came out unconsciously again.

Li and his brother and sister were stunned. They both knew that the old lady was not a good person, but they didn't expect that she had such a bad temper when she was young.

"Hey, come and have a drink." He Fang shook her head helplessly, and did not wipe the tears of the old lady, but still let her vent.

Li Yan waited for the old lady to calm down and couldn't help but said curiously, "Auntie, I was still young, so you never thought about it."

"No." The old lady shook her head firmly, "It's not about me being deeply affectionate or anything like that, it's just people. There's no comparison.

After his father left, I can still pick and choose between handsome and blind people, but these people make me uncomfortable. Compared with his father, I can't take a fancy to anyone. They all have thorns, and they don’t look pleasing to anyone!

I know very well that I will never meet a man like his father who can do whatever I want in my life. "

This time she drank by herself and the bottom of the glass was empty.

"Eat some food and think about what is available all day long." He Fang took a piece of fish to the old lady.

At this meal, it was the first time that Li He left the table first. He couldn't afford to pay for it. Once the women started chatting, it would be endless.

He could only hear people crying and laughing next to him. When he got bored, he took the dog to climb the mountain.

The journey from the mountain to the bottom took more than an hour. When he came down dripping with sweat, these women had just cleared away the dishes.

He Fang personally picked up Li Lan from the airport.

The three-day children's Go competition ended with the top 32 double-elimination group stage, and he didn't even make it to the quarterfinals.

Li He wanted to be happy for a while, but when he saw his son's disappointed little face, he still held it back.

Even He Fang could only rejoice in her heart and comfort her outwardly, "A man, let's not cry. It's not a big deal if we lose. Let's start over and look for our own shortcomings, okay?"

"Okay." Li Lan nodded feebly.

The couple looked heartbroken.

Li Lan didn't play Go for three days, and the couple cheered and finally didn't have to go to the chess academy.

However, within two days, Liang Henian called and said he would come to visit.

"Sorry, that's not necessary." Li He refused directly. The other party didn't know his home address anyway, so it just saved him some trouble.

Liang Henian said, "Mr. Li, I don't necessarily force your son to continue learning Go. I am making this call for the child's benefit."

"Is it good for the child?" Li He said happily, "My son doesn't want to learn now. It's good for him to respect his opinion."

Liang Henian sighed and said, "Mr. Li, I really do it for the best of the child. Think about it, the child has suffered a setback this time. If he cannot face it positively, will it leave a psychological shadow?

I think since you love your son, you don’t want him to be an evader, right?

The psychology of children is far more fragile than that of adults. "

"Come on then." Li He reported his address.

But what he didn't expect was that Liang Henian's meeting would come so quickly. From the time he hung up the phone to now, it only took about forty minutes.

"Please sit down." Li He was not very happy.

"Thank you." Liang Henian ignored Li He's attitude, but looked for something in the room.

"The child went to school today." Li He knew that he was looking for Li Lan, "School is not over yet."

"Sorry, look at my memory." Liang Henian patted his forehead in embarrassment and continued, "The child has performed abnormally this time. We are also responsible. We should strengthen the child's psychological counseling so that the child can actively face the challenge."

Li He waved his hands and said, "Winning or losing is not important."

"It's not important to you, but it's important to the child. To be honest, he likes Go very much." Liang Henian said seriously, "Of course he hopes to win. He needs this sense of accomplishment."

"This is why I am willing to let you come." Li He has always ignored his son's mental health. Originally he was happy that Li Lan gave up Go, but now that Liang Henian said a few words, he became worried.

If a child experiences failure and cannot get over the frustration, it will be detrimental to the child's growth.

"Mr. Li, I think you also hope that your son can become a strong person, right? Don't you want him to be a quitter? If he can't face it positively this time, but adopts a giving-up attitude and chooses to escape, what will happen to him? It is not a good thing to cultivate willpower." Liang Henian avoided talking about Go.

"Then you talk to him." Li He sighed, Liang Henian was right!

Now it is not a matter of whether to learn Go or not.

Although he is worth hundreds of millions, he still hopes to raise his son to be a person with faith and goals who will not run away from difficulties!

He went to pick up Li Lan from school, and Liang Henian followed him directly.

Li Lan came out of the school gate and saw Liang Henian. He was happy at first, and then lowered his head with a sad expression.

"You go to the pizza shop next door to negotiate." Li He pointed to a shop at the intersection and watched Liang Henian pull Li Lan in, but he did not follow.

I ate a bowl of haggis noodles at the door and smoked two cigarettes before the two of them came out.

He looked at the time and saw that more than an hour had passed.

"Dad, I want to continue learning chess."

This was the first sentence Li Lan said when he met Li He.

He held his head high and looked at his father nervously.

"Okay, dare to take responsibility and strive to be the first." Li He must encourage him.

Even if I feel a thousand dissatisfactions in my heart!