My 1979

"Just be happy." Li He was sincerely happy for him.

Feng Lei was looking for a girl from the countryside. When Chang Jing heard about it for the first time, she felt like the world was falling apart, her eyes were blurred, and she almost collapsed.

"I disagree!"

Chang Jing, who has always respected her son's opinions, denied her son for the first time.

"Why?" Feng Lei didn't understand. What a beautiful girl, obedient and sensible. He didn't know why her mother objected.

"If you marry a girl from the countryside, you will be prepared to suffer in misery for the rest of your life." Chang Jing came from the countryside herself. She understands the hardships and drags of the countryside. Marrying a daughter-in-law from the countryside means marrying a daughter-in-law. The whole family, the daughter-in-law's parents, the daughter-in-law's brothers and sisters, are constantly at odds with each other. Her husband's early death was a relief, but she could not retaliate on her son.

"I have the ability to make money! I don't need your care!" Feng Lei has earned a lot of money over the years and is completely financially independent. He believes that he is an adult and has the ability and responsibility to make decisions.

His mother asked him to give up his beloved girl, and he could not agree to it no matter what.

Chang Jing cried, "You have never suffered a loss or been deceived. Do you have to accept death? I am your mother and I can still harm you."

The Feng family fell into a cold war for a while, and the atmosphere was a bit weird.

Feng Lei asked Li He to help him talk about Xiang, "Tell me about my mother, why can't I find someone from the countryside? She is from the countryside herself, so why would she dislike someone from the countryside?"

Li He said, "Your mother may not be right, and the probability of being right may not be greater than 50%. When she analyzes your marriage problems, she will consider you from countless practical angles, but the only thing missing is the understanding of the relationship between the two of you. Of course, you have only been in love for more than half a year, so you have to think carefully about it. You and your mother should communicate well. It will not be easy for her to raise your brother and sister, so please be more considerate to her. "

He didn't want to get involved in this kind of thing, and there was no way for both parties to get along. He has always supported other people's freedom of marriage, but when it came to his two sisters, he let the so-called freedom of marriage go away, including the marriage of his son and his daughter. He believed that he had the right and responsibility to intervene. Why? , that is, he eats more salt than they eat rice.

He is optimistic about two people, that is, he supports the freedom of marriage. If he is not optimistic about them, he will become a dictator.

"Brother Li, I beg you, my mother is usually the best at you. She will definitely listen to what you say." Feng Lei pestered Li He tirelessly.

"Hey, I have time to help you find out." Unable to resist Feng Lei's pestering, Li He responded casually, but this generation was already in chaos. He called Sister Chang Jing, Feng Lei called him brother, and Feng Rui called His uncle.

He spoke to Chang Jing, and Chang Jing said angrily, "You are still the bare commander, so deal with yourself first."

After saying this impulsively, he seemed to regret it a little, and said with a smile, "I didn't mean anything else, don't think too much about it. What I mean is, you are so old, it's time to find a partner."

"Then it's up to you. I think Feng Lei has a good relationship with that girl." Li Heping made a fuss and didn't want to say more. He suddenly discovered that Chang Jing looked good even when she was angry. When a beautiful woman is angry, it is called being cute, while when an unattractive woman is angry, it is called being playful.

"Emotions? Emotions are treated as food, or something like that. He has never suffered a loss and doesn't know the severity." Chang Jing still has a beauty and charm that is difficult to match for a girl. Tears flashed in her crystal pupils between her longing eyes. With a choked voice, he said, "My Feng Lei used to be very sensible, and he would do whatever I said. But look, now he actually goes against me and insists on doing the opposite. Tell me, how is this marriage a matter of one person?" ?He is a self-righteous person who insists on making decisions for himself, and sooner or later he will regret it to death. The same will be true for you in the future. Don't look for people with heavy burdens, they are all dragging down, otherwise they will crush you to death. Don't look at how carefree you are now. When it comes to you, you can’t escape even if you want, and there’s no place to cry.”

"Yes, you are right." Seeing Chang Jing crying inexplicably, Li He hurriedly stopped fighting and admitted his mistake.

The ideal personal marriage is of course the unity of emotion, sex and marriage, which is what many men and women in love dream of. However, if you open your eyes and take a look, you will find that love and marriage always seem to be inconsistent in real life.

It's not like he never thought about him and Zhang Wanting before. If Zhang Wanting didn't have such a heavy family burden, if he didn't have such a heavy family burden, would he have lived a comfortable life in the first half of his life, at least he wouldn't have had to worry about buying a newspaper. If you are short of money, you won't have to worry about whether to quit smoking or not. You must know that his salary and income at that time were considered to be middle class, but he was still living in poverty.

Of course, he no longer has this problem in this life. He is now a rich man, and he has the confidence to do anything.

"What I said makes sense." Chang Jing is not humble at all on this kind of issue. She thinks that she knows everything since she has experienced it.

Feng Lei couldn't find a breakthrough with Chang Jing, so he naturally worked hard on Mrs. Feng and stopped going to Xianghe. Instead, he helped Mrs. Feng sell rice wine and rice noodles.

Mrs. Feng said, "My dear grandson, listen to your mother. What she said is not unreasonable. There are many good girls. Don't hang yourself from a tree."

"Nai, how old do you think I am? Has anyone mentioned telling me about my wife?"

Mrs. Feng said, "It's really not true. You are not a big boss, so it is normal for no one to mention it to you."

She suddenly felt uncomfortable when she heard her grandson's words. Over the years, she had talked to the old ladies in the neighborhood to see which girl was suitable and helped Feng Lei get one, but they all agreed in person, and in the end no one was introduced.

"Mom, don't lie to me. Look, Wang Xinmin is one year younger than me. He got married last year. And everyone who gets married in our area has an employer and a job. I understand. Well, if I don’t have a serious job, I’m inferior to others.”

Mrs. Feng counted the children in the alley who were married and unmarried in the past few years with her fingers, and found that this was true!

But he couldn't dampen his grandson's confidence. He forced himself to smile and said, "We already have a house, so it won't be difficult to find you a wife."

"Miscellaneous, you haven't understood yet. It's not a matter of whether there is a house or not. The key is that I don't have a serious job. Who would like our family? Our situation is very special! Girls in the city don't care about it at all. You will look at me twice, let alone marry me. If you want your grandson to be a bachelor for the rest of his life, just follow my mother's will."

Mrs. Feng glanced at her grandson with a complicated expression. Her family's situation was quite special. She was a widow, and her daughter-in-law was a widow. Two widows from the same family would not look good no matter where they went! Her family's situation was such that it was difficult to find a wife in the city. Wasn't it just because she was a widow that she married Chang Jing back from the country for her son.

"You are such a bad talker. The more you talk, the more nonsense you get. I can't hold you back."

Feng Lei saw that Mrs. Feng was showing signs of loosening up, so he hurriedly worked harder, otherwise all his efforts would be wasted, "Mistress, you still don't understand what my mother means? She said she would rather I be a bachelor for the rest of my life than marry a country wife!" These are her exact words, and you heard this too, Mom, you can’t really plan to let your grandson be a bachelor for the rest of his life.”

"Your mother is kidding." Mrs. Feng was really a little panicked. She had been with Chang Jing for half her life and knew her temperament very well. It was really possible to do this. Chang Jing only cares about whether her belly is full, but she doesn't care about the issue of the continuation of her heirs. Chang Jing can not care, but Mrs. Feng cannot care. Feng Lei is the only seedling in a thousand acres of land. If he is really single, he will be extinct! She can't be the sinner of the old Feng family!

The more I thought about it, the more panicked I became, and the more I thought about it, the more confused I became.

Feng Lei pretended to cry, "Nai, let me tell you, I won't marry anyone but this girl anyway. If you really can't bear the thought of me being a bachelor, I'll accept my fate."

"Okay, okay, I'll go back and tell your mother." Mrs. Feng gritted her teeth. It seemed that it was fate. Her daughter-in-law was from the countryside, and her grandson-in-law was from the countryside. It was no big deal.