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Pull her pigtails." Li Lan nodded.

Li He said angrily, "Remember, son, as a man, don't be like a woman."

When a little boy bullies a little girl, or a little girl bullies a little boy, there is usually no malice, nor is it for fun. It is just to highlight the presence and attract the other person's attention. This is how opposites attract.

But it's different when a boy bullies a boy, so he had to warn, "If a boy bullies you, just do it with him, for fear of getting angry!"

Li Lan mumbled and said nothing.

When Li He saw that he was acting like this, he patted his head and said, "No one dared to bully me in school back then, but I am not as aggressive as you. You have to do the same. If someone kicks you, you have to kick others."

He started to show off his history. From elementary school to high school, he was a ruthless person who didn't talk much and would do anything if he didn't accept it!

Once a child gets bad, because he has no ability to control his behavior, he has no control. If he doesn't become cruel, he simply can't survive.

From the village to the commune, and from the commune to the county, when it came to fighting, he, Li Laoer, was not convinced by anyone.

As for making a report to the teacher or arguing with other parents, he would never do it. He will only teach his son to fight back. Only when children dare to fight back will they not encounter bullying.

You are born with character, and you have education. It is indeed a child's advantage not to hit people casually.

But this advantage has a prerequisite, and the prerequisite is: dare to take action. If you don't dare to fight back when you are bullied, this is not an advantage, let alone high quality, it is the behavior of a weakling who just happens to be practicing boxing for other people's children.

On the way home, Li He had been thinking about whether to send his son to learn some martial arts. It would be better than learning dance, right?

"Send your son to Beiji Temple during the winter vacation." Li He proposed his idea to He Fang.

He Fang asked, "Let him learn calligraphy from Master Bo?"

Li He smiled and said, "Just learn calligraphy."

He decided to kill first and then show off. If he simply learned some martial arts, He Fang would definitely not agree.

Of course, if he hadn't disliked the distance, he would have sent Li Lan directly to Songshan.

There is no Zuo Lengchan in Songshan. Most of them are martial arts schools enrolling students in the name of Shaolin Temple. In recent years, with the wide spread of the movie "Shaolin Temple" and the subsequent "Shaolin Disciples" and "Shaolin Boys", the name of Shaolin Temple has become even more The ancient temple has become famous and attracts tourists.

The Songshan Shaolin Temple in Dengfeng, Netherlands, built in the 19th year of Taihe in the Northern Wei Dynasty, is the birthplace of Shaolin martial arts, which is famous both at home and abroad. Of course, what Li He values ​​​​more is its rich historical and cultural tradition, and let Li Lan go and experience it. , not a bad idea.

However, this journey is too far. Even if he returns to his hometown, Hongheqiao Town is still some distance away from Dengfeng. Moreover, for Li Lan, the most important thing at hand is cultural classes. Martial arts is still mainly about strengthening the body. There is no need to deliberately pursue it. .

Now he can only do the next best thing and send Li Lan to the North Bei Temple. Although Monk Bo has lost his teeth due to old age, he still has real skills in his hands. He can be convinced by the advice of Ding Shiping and Dong Hao. But it wasn't much. With the friendship between the two of them, it wouldn't be a big problem to send Li Lan there.

Of course, he could also ask Dong Hao or Ding Shiping to teach him, but people like Ding Shiping mainly focus on serious fighting. If they are asked to do routines and beautiful flips, no one can do it. For children, , first of all, it is not very suitable, and it also seems very unattractive.

Without attraction, children will have no motivation to learn.

Besides, children’s learning also needs a collective atmosphere and environment. We are all social beings. If we don’t have contact with society, we will be out of touch with society. The same is true for children. If they don’t learn to get along with others when they are young, they will grow up. It's hard to take that step.

If you want your children to have the ability to take care of themselves, group living is a good opportunity for them to be independent. The environment in a group dormitory is different from that at home. Everyone is equal. No one has the obligation or need to obey anyone else, and everyone is unique. In order to unify opinions, individuals need to communicate with each other and learn to respect and give in to each other. Over time, children's communication skills and ability to get along with others will be enhanced.