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"A person who is full of swear words can also be called a gentleman after doing the things of a gentleman. But a person full of swear words will inevitably be offensive. This is not in line with the values ​​of modern people, let alone the values ​​of ancient people. . Therefore, in addition to the gentleman's way, China has been trying its best to promote the etiquette."

The streets are full of traffic and people come and go, but they still can't stop the erosion of the cold.

Zhang Yun told He Yubai that these are things that serious Chinese people know, and suddenly felt a little cold, so he wrapped his down jacket casually and squatted on the ground.

He Yubai glanced at Zhang Yun. He didn't want to show people with such an imageless appearance, but standing for a long time did make him feel a little cold. After hesitating again and again, He Yubai, like Zhang Yun, wrapped tightly in the down jacket and squatted on the ground.

"Put your hands in this way, it will be warmer." Zhang Yun smiled and demonstrated the northeast characteristic heating method to He Yubai, hands in his sleeves.

He Yubai did something to learn, and put his hands in each other's sleeves.

Not to mention, it really has some effect.

As a result, the two people squatted on the corner of the street, like two Northeast migrant workers, and continued to chat about things that migrant workers would not chat.

——If the down jacket is replaced with a military coat, it will be a killer, but unfortunately it will not be changed.

"The way of etiquette is to talk about civilization, understand politeness and build a new style? Use etiquette to teach people and make them gentlemen?" He Yubai asked Zhang Yun.

"Yes or not." Zhang Yun came to Schrödinger's way of etiquette.

"What is it?" He Yubai didn't understand.

"In my opinion, China's etiquette can be divided into two levels, one for the surface and the other for the inside. It is civilized, polite and ethical, and it is the etiquette of the surface. The promotion of these etiquettes can indeed restrain everyone's uncivilized behavior. , Let Huaxia people become polite people.” Zhang Yun said slowly, “but in the way of etiquette in China, these politeness are far from enough. What is contained in etiquette is actually a kind of blood that is integrated into the blood of Huaxia people... …Can’t tell what’s unclear."

"Can't tell what the unknown thing is?" He Yubai frowned and said, "Speak clearly."

Zhang Yun squinted at He Yubai: "Are you not able to understand Huaxia? If you can't tell, you can't make it clear, so let me explain it to you?"

"Then I can still understand that the way of etiquette is to be polite and understand civilization." He Yubai smiled and aroused Zhang Yun.

"Aren't you ignorant of Chinese culture? How can you still use the radical technique?" Zhang Yun smiled helplessly, but also tried this one. "Well, let's give an example.

"In the United States, when people communicate with each other, they usually call each other by their names? I remember that I have watched a lot of movies, where I called my sons and my parents, all of which were called directly by their names."

"Almost, but my parents are still called Mom and Dad." He Yubai corrected it.

"In other words, in addition to immediate family members, I still prefer to call others by name, right?" Zhang Yun confirmed.

"Yes." He Yubai nodded.

"This is the difference between the United States and China. China, and even the entire Asian countries that are radiated by China's culture, pay great attention to the problem of addressing." Zhang Yun explained, "We rarely call each other directly, especially For the elders, it is carved in the bones, and you should never directly call the other person by name."

"Well...it seems like this, I have never been called an elder since I was young." After all, He Yubai is also a Chinese, and he has a lot of experience in this regard.

"For example, what you just said, when we speak, we will bend and obey. This is also a form of expression of our Chinese cultural etiquette. Another example is to act bravely, pick up money, and help others, which is also the embodiment of our etiquette." Zhang Yun said. .

"Then it seems that Huaxia people don't understand etiquette so much. I read the news and I can always see someone helping the old man and being misused for money." He Yubai joked.

Hearing this, Zhang Yun sighed and said: "Because for a while, the etiquette inheritance in Chinese culture was destroyed, and the villain was popular. So now, we are re-establishing the etiquette that belongs to the Chinese people. Let China has once again become a state of etiquette admired by the world."

"I hope that day will come soon." He Yubai sniffed, disapproving, "but I guess it's been out of play in the past few years."

"Ten years, at most ten years, Huaxia will accomplish this goal." Zhang Yun affirmed authentically.

After saying this, Zhang Yun paused and turned the topic back to the original "Doctrine of the Mean":

"The last thing I want to say is the essence of Chinese culture, the Golden Mean, which is what you said and the muddy way."

"The most quintessence? How much quintessence is there?" He Yubai didn't believe it.

"Essence reaches the point where many Chinese people don't know it." Zhang Yun said, "The so-called golden mean is by no means a gentle mud, good gentleman, nor a two-faced person sitting on the fence. Our golden mean refers to While handling the external relations well, follow the principles that you adhere to, and don't change due to foreign affairs or things, and don't be discouraged due to setbacks.

"This is a philosophy of life unique to Huaxia Culture. In short, we never go to extremes. In the development of Huaxia for so many years, we have either passed left or right, but in the end, we still Back to the middle.

"Because the people of Huaxia are well aware that no matter what is good or bad, extremes are bound to be destroyed. The so-called extremes of things must be reversed, which is probably the case. And Zhongyong warns us to always maintain the integrity, impartiality, and use the least loss to achieve our ultimate goal. .

"In this way, we can stay away from the abyss and take our own path."

"...Can you make it clearer?" He Yubai frowned and said.

"Then I'll give another example." Zhang Yun felt that he had finished all the examples in his life today. "If there are three people, the boss is the second and the third, the boss is the strongest, and the third is the weakest. One day, the third is the second. If you fight, the third child will come to the boss for help, hoping that the boss will take the initiative to teach the second child. If you are the boss, what would you do?"

He Yubai said without hesitation: "Help the third child to teach the second child."

After speaking, He Yubai saw Zhang Yun's weird expression and asked: "Am I doing something wrong?"

"Of course you did something wrong." Zhang Yun affirmed, "First of all, you don't know why your second child beat your third child, or who is right or wrong, so you rashly help and will only ask for trouble. Secondly, you and your second child No one’s relationship with the third child is better than anyone else. If you help the third child, you will have a bad relationship with the second child, and the gain will not be worth the loss."

"What should I do then?" He Yubai thought about it for a long time. "Could it be that the third child came to ask for help, can you not help the third child because you don't want to have **** with the second child? Then you also offend the third child...your golden mean Can Tao solve this matter?"

Zhang Yun smiled and said, "Of course I can."

"How to solve it?" He Yubai didn't believe it at all.

Zhang Yun said: "If I were the boss holding the golden mean, I would tell the third child and let him move next door to my house. In this way, with my protection, the second child would not dare to act rashly, and the third child would be grateful to me. At the same time, knowing that the third child came to beg my second child, I thought I would help the third child to beat him, but if I didn’t, the second child would have a feeling of "I gave him face" and he would not complain. I will even recite me a good one.

"So, this matter is resolved!"

"Whatfuck?" He Yubai was shocked, "Can it be like this?"

"This is the Golden Mean." Zhang Yun smiled and nodded, "Solve the biggest problem with the least cost. It will benefit me and let others not resent me."

"I...this..." He Yubai widened his eyes and scratched his head, unable to believe this solution.

Zhang Yun looked at He Yubai’s appearance and couldn’t help but patted He Yubai’s shoulder and stood up: “Little brother, many Chinese people don’t understand this golden mean. If you want to understand, you have to read more. Read history books.

"Now do you still think that a country that has only developed for two to three hundred years is better than ours, China, which has a history of five thousand years?"

He Yubai raised his head and looked at Zhang Yun who stood up, still a little surprised in his eyes.

"Learn more about Chinese culture, and you will understand that being born in China is an honor for you." Zhang Yun smiled at He Yubai.

At this moment, Zhang Yun's cell phone rang.

Zhang Yun took a look and found that it was Lin Xinyao.

"My wife is done over there, so I will leave first." Zhang Yun tidyed up his clothes and started to leave.

"That's right." Zhang Yun turned around and said to He Yubai, "Thank you for your bursting belly, next time I have a treat."

After that, Zhang Yun turned and left.

He Yubai looked at Zhang Yun's background and never looked away for a long time.

Suddenly a car drove by and honked its horn.

In the busy city, it is still loud enough.