National Tide 1980

Ning Weimin and Han Yingming, the soon-to-be sons-in-law, were chatting in the living room.

At the same time, Changzi and his daughter Qingzi were busy in the kitchen and chatting about home affairs.

As a traditional woman in a standard Japanese family, and able to endure Han Yingming in the late stages of male chauvinism until today, Tsuneko is undoubtedly a typical good wife and mother.

She doesn't know much about career or how to work, but she does know how to serve her husband and how to make a home comfortable and sound.

Therefore, when Changzi chats with his daughter, he only pays attention to the "minor details" of living at home.

"If your father doesn't object and your relationship can be successfully settled today, then hurry up and prepare for the marriage."

"Well, it depends on the specific situation. My movie will be released soon, and I should be busy with a lot of things. Especially because it is a movie co-produced with China, both countries have to do publicity..."

Tsuneko glanced at her daughter who was concentrating on the sushi and seemed not to be distracted at all, and couldn't help but sigh.

"It seems that even if you get married, you don't plan to retire right away. Then you probably don't want to have a child right away, right? What are your plans? How long do you want to live as a couple?"

After asking these questions, she paused and then said, "Of course, this is your business. I don't want to interfere... I just want to ask if you have a plan for the child. I should have this Right?"

She is truly worthy of being a biological mother. Changzi understands her daughter's temperament of being soft-willed and not being tough.

Qingzi was a little unhappy at first, but this last sentence made her calm down. After thinking about it, she said hesitantly, "Of course you have this right, but... we haven't thought about it..."

"Hey, how can this be done?"

Changzi glanced at his daughter and sighed again, "Men can not think about this kind of thing, but how can women not think about it..."

Qingzi interrupted her in a coquettish way, "Mom, you just love worrying! I see you have more wrinkles. Can't you take this kind of thing step by step? Just let me be happy for a few days first... "

"I know! In short, you have been very creative since you were a child. We can't control you, but you and Amin must have plans for the future. Especially for children. For women, of course, the sooner you give birth, the better. You have delayed yourself and missed the best time. If you don't hurry up, it will increase the danger. I'm not afraid that you won't like to hear it. You have to know your own age. Please, don't let us do it for you. Is it okay to worry about the safety of the delivery? Also, if you feel that the time is not right for the moment, you must take protective measures. Although we would like to see your child one day earlier, we don’t want you to hold a wedding with a pregnant belly and bring shame to the family. Please We must think about our old faces..."

As he talked, the good-tempered Changzi could not help but feel resentful.

Matsumoto Keiko was really speechless and could only nod obediently.

Indeed, this request is not excessive. They are already very enlightened parents. What else can they do besides nodding?

"Don't worry, Amin and I will... make plans, please don't worry. Thank you for thinking about me. I know the child's affairs well..."

"Well, don't be confused. I hope so..."

Changzi is indeed thinking about her daughter wholeheartedly.

Even if I talk too much, I still feel verbose. I know that I will be disliked if I meddle in other people's business, but I still can't ignore some things.

After all, she is her daughter, and she is afraid that her daughter will suffer a loss because she is young.

In her opinion, the quality of marriage is far more important to a woman than any personal career.

"You are currently living together in an apartment in Nishi-Azabu, right? How are you doing housework? No matter how big the room is, it is not easy to take care of it. You have never fallen in love with home economics classes since you were a child, and you have never attended bridal classes. Practice? Are you encountering difficulties now? I'm really worried about you..."

"Mom, you're here again, what's there to worry about?"

Qingzi didn't care much and said with a gentle smile, "It's not hard at all, Mom, most of it is part-time work."

"Hourly worker? In such a small apartment, why don't you do it yourself? Do you actually leave the housework to others?"

Changzi couldn't help but be shocked. The flowers trembled for a moment, and the face that was still charming was a little distorted.

"What's the point? I'm usually very busy. Sometimes I don't go home until midnight to do shows. Then there's nothing I can do about housework, so I have to hire hourly workers."

"It's not impossible to hire part-time workers, but you're not married yet. You're so lazy and lazy on weekdays, and you still look a bit like a woman? Doesn't Amin have any objections?"

"He has an opinion." Qingzi nodded. "His opinion is that he doesn't like me to invite outsiders. He likes to do it himself."

"What? He wants to do it himself?" His daughter's words shocked Changzi.

"Yes, Amin doesn't like outsiders a bit, maybe because he is worried that there are too many people and the things we are together may be accidentally leaked by some talkative people. Later we discussed it and now we will hire a fixed hourly employee from Monday to On Saturdays, I come to the house every morning and am responsible for cleaning, tidying up the kitchen and bathroom, and taking out the trash. Cooking and washing dishes are left to Amin. I only need to do the laundry on Sundays. Amin’s cooking skills are really good. Okay, he is much better than me. He also cooks breakfast every day. There are many tricks. After all, he is the owner of the palace cuisine restaurant, and he is an absolute expert in gourmet food. I really hope my mother can eat it too, if she has time. , come to my place and have a taste..."

"Huh? How can this be done...really...is it really okay?"

Changzi's mouth couldn't close anymore.

She was so confused that she never thought that a grown man could cook for his wife.

"Well, so what? We both feel good. Amin said he doesn't like me busy with trivial matters all day long, and hopes that I can focus more on my personal career. But it's not for money, he just wants me to do something Something to be happy about.”

Hearing this, Chang Zi felt touched in his heart, "Yeah, it seems he loves you very much..."

Qingzi smiled happily, "Yes, Amin is very good to me. Really very good. He also helps me a lot in my career. Didn't I tell you? I can make this movie. It’s almost entirely his fault, he’s a man who can do anything.”

Changzi felt her daughter's happiness and felt slightly relieved, but she still refused to give up.

"I still have to say, you kid is really ignorant. Amin loves you so much because he likes you. Although it is a good thing, you should also pay attention to it and don't take his love for you for granted. Some You must pay attention to things. Just like doing housework, this is a woman's duty. You must not do it for a long time, otherwise you will be disliked. And he is younger than you, so don't always think of yourself as a child who can act like a baby according to his temper. …”

"I know, Mom."

Changzi looked at his daughter with a lazy posture and felt a splitting headache for a moment.

Although my daughter agrees so readily, her daughter always agrees on the surface, but she must still follow her own ideas behind the scenes.

Looking back, 99% of it will still be the same, and I’m afraid there won’t be any changes.

She previously agreed with her husband's idea, but she actually hoped to find a son-in-law and adopted son to arrange her daughter's marriage.

But my daughter did not accept this trick and resisted blind dates and love for a long time.

Suddenly, I fell in love with a young guy.

Regardless of whether it was appropriate or not, he cut off first and played later without even saying hello.

Now that she is living with someone else, it is even more impossible to listen to her, which is really frustrating.

In addition, Ning Weimin seems to be a gentle and elegant person, gentle and kind.

He doesn't look like a person who can say harsh words and control his daughter at all.

She could imagine that after her daughter married Ning Weimin, she lost all restraints and scruples and became arrogant and willful.

She felt that this was too dangerous, and she was worried that if this went on for a long time, her daughter would be returned.

He could only say sincerely, "Qingzi, you want to be with Amin, and you will be his from now on. You have to take on the responsibilities of a wife, focus on his career, and help him reduce the burden of life. Listen to me. , you’d better retire as soon as possible and have a child as soon as possible.”

"We want children, but my career is also important. Why can't I take care of both? Why do I have to retire? I like acting very much..."

"How can that be done? Since ancient times, men have been the master of the house and women have been the master of the house. Only by working together can you make the family prosperous and live a good life. Especially men need face. If a woman still works after marriage, it is People will laugh at her husband for being incompetent. Why don't you think about him?"

"Mom, I'm not you, and Amin is not like dad. It's different. I've told Amin about this a long time ago. Amin has never made such a request to me, but has been persuading me. Me, if you like acting, don’t give up casually. He is very generous and doesn’t care about other people’s gossip. Mom, I also think that I am happiest if I can have my own career after marriage. And conversely, I also think that is the only way, Only then can I help Amin more. So, just take good care of Dad. How to live with Amin is my own business, and I will handle it myself. We will be happy, happier than you and Dad."

"you……"

Changzi almost fell over in anger, feeling that her daughter didn't respect her life experience at all.

It sounds easy to live a good life, but how can it be so easy to live a good life?

Both of them require great effort and personal sacrifice. There are so many things that have the best of both worlds.

Besides, my daughter married this man, who was very profitable, and he was also the president or president of the company.

Just let him work while hiring part-time workers and working as a cook?

It's fine for a day or two, but can it be done for a long time?

What's more, people's energy is limited, how can a man make money and take care of his family at the same time?

Even in my own family, my husband is considered a capable businessman even though he is busy running the company all day long.

But the accounts of the family and the accounts of the company are two different things.

Favorites, pension savings, needs during the New Year and festivals, and interactions with relatives and friends, if it were left to him to take care of it, he wouldn't be able to handle it.

These things still have to be arranged by your own hands.

How could my daughter do this!

If you are like this, can you get married?

What should you do if you are rejected one day?

It’s not too much to be driven back to your parents’ home!

She was so unlucky. What evil had she done in her previous life to give birth to such an inconspicuous thing? My heart almost broke for her!

When Keiko saw her mother glaring at her angrily, her expression seemed to be really anxious, she immediately held her arm with a smile and tried to comfort her.

"Mom, I know you want me to be happy, but I'm already very good now. Don't always judge me by the same old methods. Don't forget, Amin is a Chinese, and he has the most gentle temperament. He is not as good as those who are not capable. Big, big-tempered Japanese men are completely different. We have a very good relationship, so don’t worry about it.”

"The relationship is very good...haven't you ever had any quarrels? Have you ever seen him get angry? Does he think there's anything wrong with you?"

"Never. Oh, how can I make you believe me. Amin, he...he is the best man I have ever seen."

Matsumoto Keiko said with absolute certainty, "In Japan, as long as men are a little bit capable, men who are good at something, they all think that women should be their appendages. They take it for granted that they are bossy and think that they are the center and women should surround them. But Amin is not like that. He respects me very much and never orders me anything. He only gives me suggestions. Most of the time, I can do whatever I want. Even if I test him sometimes, He didn't feel the slightest bit when he did something excessive on purpose. I don't know why there is such a big difference between Chinese men and Japanese men... Mom, I have to say, it is my luck to meet Amin, and he is worthy of my lifelong trust. For such a good person, I am willing to devote myself to him. If one day, objectively speaking, he really needs me to retire, then I will take the initiative to give up my career and take care of my family without him having to say anything. On the contrary , if I was like you, married to a man as arrogant as my father, and he insisted on ordering me to do this or that, then I wouldn’t be able to live for a day, and I would have to commit suicide..."

"Nonsense! What nonsense! Qingzi! You kid is too much! How can you say that about your father?"

Hearing the last sentence, Changzi couldn't help scolding him, but he nodded silently in his heart.

Indeed, this is also true.

If given a choice, who would want to see his daughter endure humiliation and bear the burden of serving others?

Compared with her husband, only someone like Ning Weimin could trust her daughter with confidence.

Her daughter is too willful, too spoiled, stubborn, and has a bad temper.

But I am afraid that being in the entertainment industry is not in vain. When it comes to important matters such as marriage, he is indeed smart and bright-eyed, and he is unlikely to make mistakes when looking at people.

When it comes to her worries, it's actually just because she's afraid that her daughter will always have her own way and not care about the other person at all.

If Ning Weimin gets bored after being new for a while, and the two of them start arguing every day, problems will arise.

But everything is fine now. Maybe it's too early to worry about this matter, and maybe it really shouldn't be too much.

I don’t understand today’s young people!

In desperation, she gave up completely and almost thought about it.

Regardless of whether you can rest assured or not, what can you do if your daughter disobeys?

Fortunately, my daughter's luck is not bad. She made the right choice for this prospective son-in-law.

He looks handsome, treats people sincerely, and is lovable at first sight.

He is also extremely smart, capable, hard-working, and definitely not the kind of person who is unreliable.

It can be regarded as complementary to my daughter who loves to be aggressive.

Probably as long as his daughter wins his heart, a lifetime of happiness will not be a problem.

I have to admit that it seems that my daughter's life is better than my own.

All a little jealous. (End of chapter)