Pioneer of the Rebirth Era

In fact, in most rural families, relatives and friends do not have wedding gifts. Basically, when they get married, the man buys three gold coins as a bride price, and the woman gives a certain dowry according to her family conditions.

As for relatives and friends, they often make a few new quilts, and then give gifts according to the distance of the relationship, and then attend a wedding and serve dinner.

Prepare special wedding gifts, or give extra red envelopes. There are basically no red envelopes. Parents in the south give red envelopes to the bride when she gets in or out of the car when she gets married, and then give her a change fee during the tea ceremony.

There is nothing wrong with other relatives or friends.

Of course, there are exceptions to everything. If there are some relatives and friends with better family conditions who are willing to provide extra help to the newly married couple.

But many times people have two choices when doing this kind of thing. One is to do it on the wedding day, so that you can gain face, and it can also give face to the south or the woman. With relatives so generous, this family must be good.

The other way is to keep a low profile and wait until the couple gets married and start living together, and then provide some help.

The Yang Dongxu family has passed the stage where people say it has a good reputation and is a good family. In addition, the Yang family is almost a local weather vane. If they do something novel when they get married, it might cause a stir in the local area.

An unnecessary trend.

So although Yang Dongxu didn't go back, because communications are now very developed, his uncle, aunt, Yang's father and mother all called him and asked him about Ajie's marriage.

Regarding this matter, Yang Dongxu's attitude has always been to follow the customs of his hometown. It should be lively and lively at the expense, but it is best not to make some relatively novel things and have to pay attention to any super large scenes.

In fact, when he got married, he didn't even want to create such a big scene. He only wanted to make other aspects as simple as possible while satisfying Zhou Ya and not losing face. But in the end, he still went to so many people who didn't send invitations at all.

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The influence of Yang Dongjie's wedding is definitely not as good as his own, but Yang Dongxu can already predict that no matter how simple his home is, there will still be many people present who have not sent invitations.

If nothing else, let’s just talk about the local Chinese Medicine Association and the important planting area in Yangjia Village. Yang Dongxu set off a wave of this on his own.

In addition, almost half of the important plantings ended up being acquired by the pharmaceutical factory run by Yang Dongxu. Why should the invisible boss say no to his cousin's marriage?

What's more, leaving aside traditional Chinese medicine, if you can strike up a conversation with Yang Dongxu and leave a little impression when you go to the wedding, maybe the noble person in your life will just come.

This is just an organization like the Traditional Chinese Medicine Cultivation Association, similar organizations, or there are countless people who want to join the Yang family.

In normal times, Yang Dongxu is too low-key and it is difficult to find opportunities to contact him. He is also not in his hometown all year round. Although he will go back during the Spring Festival, anyone who knows Yang Dongxu knows that if you try to flatter him at this time, you may end up flattering him.

Therefore, no one dared to move forward.

Now that I have finally caught the opportunity, I must not miss it. This is only local to Yangjia Village. People outside the local area, such as Li Yihang and others, have already inquired, but they were all declined by Yang Dongxu.

The only gift I accepted was from Yu Feihong. It would be a bit involved for Yang Dongjie to go to his studio to study. It would be wrong to accept this gift.

You can still talk to Yang Dongxu and know Yang Dongxu's temper. After Yang Dongxu declined, everyone knew what to do.

And those who want to cling to Yang Dongxu have no way to receive the news. If they come to the door with gifts on the same day, can Yang Dongxu give him a cold look on the wedding day? Or let him get out?

So you don't have to make the scene big by yourself, as the Yang family has already passed the stage of earning face.

Instead of thinking about the grand occasion, Yang Dongxu's advice was that it would be fine if other families had as much as we could. All that was left was to prepare a few more tables of food and wine to prevent too many people from unexpectedly coming to the door, and even the place to eat was not compromised by etiquette.

Of course, the records on the gift list must be stricter. Relatives and friends from the same village who come to congratulate each other are recorded on a gift list. These are normal transactions. In the future, if someone has something to do, the Yang family will also have to send gifts.

As for those who don’t know each other at all and are not relatives or friends of the woman’s family, make a separate gift list and record it clearly. These people can eat at the wedding banquet, but the gift money is definitely not required.

I will return it after the wedding. When I return it, I feel that I have cheated on someone and refuse to take it away. Then I will donate it directly to the Red Cross in the name of the other party, and Yang Dongxu will not even donate to the Runyu Fund.

From now on, these people will brag about their attendance at Yang Dongxu’s cousin’s wedding and their relationship with Yang Dongxu. It doesn’t matter to Yang Dongxu. But if you want to use this favor that you just thought was forced on you to do something with Yang Dongxu, I’m sorry you’re not married now.

Days, go back to where they came from.

"What should we give as gifts after we get married?" Zhou Ya obviously understood what her husband meant, so she continued to ask.

"Let's give him a decent car. Don't just give it a car worth 20,000 or 30,000 yuan. If it's too good, it's too eye-catching. Ajie is also prone to complaining." Regarding the house, Bai Qian had already said that she would give it away.

Bian Geng is making plans to buy it.

At that time, let Ajie tell his aunt that someone has given away a new house in Yanjing, and ask her to think about doing something else with the money. So now that the house is available, the only thing left is the car.

As for Bai Qian, a second-bedroom owner, who was given a house worth several million as a gift, and Zhou Ya, who was a second-bedroom owner, was given a car worth two to three million yuan, would it be embarrassing?

This problem will never arise on Zhou Ya's side. She doesn't even have this idea. She used to be a business queen and her situation is not so small.

"Then let him choose by himself. Don't choose the one he doesn't like, or give her a card worth 300,000 and let him decide on his own."

"Let him choose the car and let's pay for it. Don't give us any money. Although Ajie doesn't have any bad habits, it's easy for him to have other thoughts when he has cash in his hand.

So let’s just buy the car directly. If he wants to use cash and wants to see it still in the bank, it will make him feel comfortable and let him work hard to earn money." Yang Dongxu said.

"That's fine!" Zhou Ya nodded, "I'll go back tomorrow. Are you busy here?"

It will still be some time before Yang Dongjie gets married, but Zhou Ya plans to go back early. Although she will be very busy at the end of the year, she can just find someone to attend some meetings, unlike Yang Dongxu who needs to handle many things personally.

"It's almost done, you go ahead. I'll ask for leave from Wen Chen in a few days, and then I'll take him back with me."

"As for Wenwu and Tangtang, Baiqian and Fuzhen are also very busy at the end of the year."

"Let Chen Xin come and take care of her for two days. It just so happens that during this period, except for some necessary occasions where she needs to show her face, it would be better to keep a low profile at other times and let the aftermath of the incident completely quiet down."

"What do the people in Hangzhou say?"

"What else can I say? Zhou was so happy when he ran over there that he changed everything from a person involved to a bystander watching the fun. But it doesn't matter what they think or do, since things

Once you have spoken, you will definitely continue until you reach your goal.”