A relative of Long Xiaoyun followed them, and his studies were not always very good. Since entering junior high school, due to playfulness, his academic performance has always been unable to improve.

This day Long Xiaoyun was playing games in the living room. The phone rang and the teacher called to attend the parent conference. So Long Xiaoyun simply cleaned up and drove to attend the parent conference!

As soon as he arrived at school, the teacher said to Long Xiaoyun, "This child has ADHD and can't sit still on the bench for three minutes. Not only did she fail to learn well, but it also affected other students. You'd better take her to the hospital!"

After hearing these words, Long Xiaoyun felt very uncomfortable. Among the 45 students in their class, this little niece of Long Xiaoyun was the worst performer, and the teacher showed an expression of disdain.

At that time, Long Xiaoyun was so angry that he really wanted to take the teacher out and talk to him well, or that he wanted to fight him, so that he could let out the sulking in his heart!

After all, the little niece is a child, and the teacher is so relieved when he speaks. He feels that being a teacher is really blind to him. Thinking of this, Long Xiaoyun clenched his fist, his teeth clenched!

But Long Xiaoyun still held back. Instead of angering with the teacher, it is better to let his children study hard, to fight for themselves, and to fight for me, Long Xiaoyun!

On the way home, the little niece carefully asked what Teacher Long Xiaoyun had said. Long Xiaoyun really wanted to tell him the truth, and then slowly teach him a lesson!

However, Long Xiaoyun reflected on it. As a parent, he should discover its advantages in the details of life and guide him to the sunny zone!

So I told my child, "Today you got the teacher's praise. The teacher said that you could not sit on the bench for one minute, but now you can sit for three minutes. The other parents envied me very much, because you are the only one who has made progress in the class."

After the child listened, his body naturally relaxed, and the corners of his mouth could not help but lifted up. It can be seen how much he yearns for the teacher's praise in his heart!

A few days later, I went to school to inquire! My little niece's ADHD has been cured! At this time, Long Xiaoyun smiled, "Why is this?"

At another parent meeting, the head teacher said to Long Xiaoyun, "There are more than 50 students in the class. For this final exam, 48 children in your family are paiming. I suspect that he has intellectual problems. You'd better take him. Go check

It was these words that made me burst into tears when I walked out of the school gate, and my little niece silently followed behind me along the way, looking sincere and fearful, and returned home, Long Xiaoyun, head sullen!

In fact, Long Xiaoyun is very angry. Whether it is a teacher or a child, he is depressed in his heart and almost collapses! Even so, Long Xiaoyun still controlled himself!

After all, adults can't handle things chongdong, think about it, and think there is always a good way to solve these things!

Long Xiaoyun did not say a word while cooking. When the meal was done, the little niece sat in front of the window and watched properly but refused to move the chopsticks. At this time, Long Xiaoyuyun thought of the first parent meeting. What the child said had an effect!

After pondering for a while, he said to them, "The teacher is full of confidence in you. He said that you are not a bad boy. As long as you work hard, you will definitely catch up with the top ten in the class! At this time, Long Xiaoyun saw his little niece's dim eyes. The child becomes brighter!

At this time, I saw my little niece happily picking up the chopsticks and snoring to eat. I have never seen him eat so sweet and delicious. It may be the reason why I heard the teacher's praise!

From this point, Long Xiaoyun is really sure that children cannot be considered only from a critical point of view. In fact, praise makes a child progress and extraordinary.

Since then, she has always worked very hard, studying hard, and her grades have improved step by step. Later, at a parent meeting, Long Xiaoyun listened to the teacher's list of poor students, but unexpectedly, until the end He didn't even hear the name of his little niece!

Long Xiaoyun was a little uneasy, so she asked the teacher, and the teacher said to him, "Although your child has made some progress, it is still dangerous to take the key high school exams according to the current grades."

This time Long Xiaoyun will no longer be as angry as the previous few times, because he knows what his child is like, and others have no right to comment, so Long Xiaoyun will always stand on the side of the child and always believe in his own child. .

Knowing that the child has made significant progress, Long Xiaoyun was very happy, and said to his little niece on the way home, "The head teacher is very satisfied with you. He said that as long as you work hard, you are very hopeful to enter a key high school.

These remarks are encouraging to the child, and at the same time, Long Xiaoyun said these remarks to himself because he believes in his little niece.

In a blink of an eye the golden autumn is here! My little niece graduated from junior high school, and she was admitted to a key high school in the county with excellent grades, since the day she entered the high school gate.

The child has set himself a goal to strive for. In the future, he plans to enter a Beijing University, or Tsinghua University. In fact, once a person has an ideal, he will be motivated. After entering high school, although the child's grades sometimes fluctuate, sometimes fluctuate. Suddenly!

But the little niece was very conscious and diligent in her studies. Several times after midnight, Long Xiaoyun woke up after a sleep and found that the child had not rested, so Long Xiaoyun knocked on the door to urge him to sleep. The answer is that it’s too early, let me study for a while!

That’s how the child’s academic performance began to climb steadily. The little niece did not perform well in the exam. After school came back, she told Long Xiaoyun generously, “Something happened, something happened, and my math test failed this time.”

Long Xiaoyun not only did not blame him, but instead encouraged him and promptly gave instructions. Since then, the child has been the top student in the class and the three-good professional household among the students. Later, he also served as the monitor and extracurricular representative.

Later, the child worked hard. I got the highest grade in history!

because of this! Long Xiaoyun is full of emotions. In fact, he always feels that the good effect of children's education is to pay attention to the art of criticism. Now children have strong and strong duli consciousness, and have strong self-esteem and villain psychology. If criticism is not done, it will be counterproductive!

Therefore, the children should be encouraged, discover their advantages, and let them grow up healthy in a relaxed and pleasant environment. As a parent, Long Xiaoyun can really be said to be a good teacher!

He is not a reckless criticism when he finds shortcomings, but compares and affirms the child's progress on the original basis. When the child is encouraged, he will promptly correct the shortcomings and strive for greater progress!

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